Like lord krishna said in mahabharata forgiveness is the toughest thing a man can do in the society but forgiving the criminal (cheating wife here) is the only way you can rationalize in punishing the criminal because after you forgive them from your subconscious you achieve two major things- 1.The past beautiful memories dont come to haunt you(in this case) 2. You can easily punish them in a balanced way they deserve without resenting yourself going too far with punishment (forlike in revenge) in future To all people here who get betrayed i say this- First forgive your partner from your heart and then move on the next move of punishing them not thinking of getting revenge in mind. This way you ensure never looking back as in case of revenge its all coming from revenge and momentary unexplained unwanted hate for someone who you thought of being life partner and thinking of getting revenge on them will only hurt you in future. Whereas when you forgive them from your heart then you can in a snap see things rationally and your feelings fade away with everything clear in mind on what next move to make that will not only gaurentee your win but also you'll never think of going too far
@plokoon1543 жыл бұрын
@@calebjimenez8698 I think he changed his will then killed himself.
@rockandguts78773 жыл бұрын
@@plokoon154 I honestly hope he managed to get through this but I wouldn't blame him if it did end that way. I could handle a cheating ex, but finding out my own children betrayed me by being bought out so their mom could continue cheating would absolutely gut me.
@gervang24453 жыл бұрын
@@plokoon154 damn... fr?
@Namelessone673 жыл бұрын
Who needs enemies when you have a family like his; best of luck to OP, he deserves better
@juan83123 жыл бұрын
Bro u don't need enemies They are on ur home, carried your kids and share ur dna
@thedrizzlefactory86003 жыл бұрын
Gives a whole new meaning to,”keep your friends close and your enemies closer.”
@triplemoyagames41953 жыл бұрын
At least with enemies, you know where you stand. I can respect my enemies after they do me dirty. The sad thing about betrayal is that it only happens with your allies
@kingteddieP43 жыл бұрын
@@triplemoyagames4195 if my family did this shit I’d disown them I’m sorry you don’t love me if you hide that shit for gifts then you run in my house and act like you didn’t know
@triplemoyagames41953 жыл бұрын
@@kingteddieP4 I wouldn't blame you for that. For me the wife is outta there, and if she tries to meet me in person, she's getting shot right in the kneecaps. My daughters I would go no contact for a minute. Or play some mind games, emotional torture as I call it. Either way I ain't trusting my kids again
@Enigmatic133 жыл бұрын
They all did him dirty. His kids knew that once he found out that they were bribed to keep their mouths shut, that he would be done with them. I would divorce his wife and write those kids out of his will.
@lococrash3 жыл бұрын
they can contest the will if they are writen off he can just give them a dime and boom no legal standing as long as he leaves the kids something anything they have no legal standing.
@CocoCece083 жыл бұрын
@@lococrash Not if they're given the minimum amount. Usually a dollar.
@lococrash3 жыл бұрын
@@CocoCece08 im not too sure about US law so the minimun is a a dollar or something of the same(or more) worth? i knew that you had to leave them something for the will not to be contested
@elh9543 жыл бұрын
@@lococrash In some states it is a bit higher, some a bit lower, I believe the highest state is $100.
@Lulu-ut9pv3 жыл бұрын
It's still disgusting that mum would beg them to keep quiet, say she wont do it again but did it again anyway, I think she put the kids on the spot, it happened to me, I was given gifts to be quiet and she said "you have to accept them, I csnt take it back" I told my dad anyway and kept the car and late run she demands the car back saying she needs the money.... I said no and her parents started to say how unfair I was being and that my mum needed my car to sell it, even though it's in my name and legally mine, I cut all contact with her side of the family, shes from line of cheaters and I am not even surprised with the shit she pulls.. Eme and my dad and stronger than ever and hes happy
@triplemoyagames41953 жыл бұрын
What makes the cheating worse is when the faulty spouse says that there was nothing wrong with the relationship. That basically mean, you can do everything right and they will still cheat on youl Smh
@jessedunn2543 жыл бұрын
ya there was. her. she was the problem in the relationship.
@Mastervading43063 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Long term is not worth it.
@mankybrains3 жыл бұрын
Wahmen logic. It's all emotional, didn't you know? That's why they get the Wahmen label. Single - Waaaaahhhh Men!!! (excited) divorced. wahhhhh.. men.... (crying)
@Ddx6293 жыл бұрын
Thing is that when a woman tells you that when they've cheated or are dumping you, what that really means is this "you've done everything wrong and you've done everything to turn me off and make me fall out of love with you".
@triplemoyagames41953 жыл бұрын
@@Ddx629 Orrrr, "You di somethings wong, but I expected you to fix it without me telling you what you did wrong" It's essentially, it's not you, its me type bs
@mjjm84463 жыл бұрын
The daughters are just as awful as the cheating mother. They didn't tell him because they didn't want to hurt him, cheaters say the same thing.
@avenger0070073 жыл бұрын
They did not tell him because the mom was buying expensive stuff. No love involved.
@alejandramesones84173 жыл бұрын
They wanted random stuff, their mother wanted silence. The STBXW hated to buy expensive stuff and the girls thought it was their lucky moment. It was more a "if you buy me this, I'll be quiet". Bet Sarah started to be distant as soon as she realized she didn't need to act as daddy's girl
@triplemoyagames41953 жыл бұрын
@@alejandramesones8417 truuuuueeee. I never clocked that. Then she came back when the Dad found out. Notice how she had no trouble sleeping UNTIL the mom got caught. At least most of the time when the children know they try to get closer with the parent being cheated on, even though it is too alleviate guilt. The daughters went the opposite way smh
@triplemoyagames41953 жыл бұрын
Lowkey worse. They knew, covered it up, and accepted bribes. Then the only reason they are talking sh*T about their mum was to alleviate guilt. Notice how the oldest was sleeping no problem, UNTIL the wife got caught by OP
@LinneAzalea3 жыл бұрын
How were they just as bad? They weren’t the ones cheating. Of course it’ll hurt him knowing that they knew and didn’t tell him, but it’s ultimately not their thing to tell. And it was probably not the case of “if you don’t tell your father, I’ll buy this car for you”. It was probably more the mother doing that out of her own, after having convinced them that she will end it and tell their father. Bottom line: They are not nearly as bad as the mother. It was the mother that cheated for a long period of time, the mother that had their children stay quiet, the mother that literally made them choose between their parents, which is something awful to do to children.
@triplemoyagames41953 жыл бұрын
Meeehn. The daughters hiding the affair would hurt me worse than the cheating. Especially if they hid it twice. I would be disgusted. They also accepted the bribe, knowing what it was for. They picked their mom over the Dad who was innocent. I doubt I could trust them again. The only reason they were talking sh*t about the wife was to alleviate their guilt
@unforg1vengtfo4343 жыл бұрын
it was actually 3 times i think
@triplemoyagames41953 жыл бұрын
@@unforg1vengtfo434 Even worse😭😭. I can get over an affair eventually. But a betrayal by my own kids tho?!😭
@unforg1vengtfo4343 жыл бұрын
@@triplemoyagames4195 man first time i feel so bad for a stranger , it feels like he is actually depressed and might want to end his own life thanks to his daughters
@triplemoyagames41953 жыл бұрын
@@unforg1vengtfo434 right? Like I can't even conceive that level of betrayal The cheating I can, and I know I could get over it. However, I can't even imagine how horrible it feels to discover that one group of people you couldn't conceive of betraying you. Not only did it once, but multiple times. Your own children!? That's a different type of pain. I hate suicide I doubt I could even contemplate it again. but if this happened to me with my daughters, It wouldn't seem so far fetched
@mljrotag63433 жыл бұрын
This is suicide kinda stuff.
@trailtrs13 жыл бұрын
The daughters are as bad as the mom. They betrayed him as much as the wife did. Dump the whole crew of them. Leave them 5.00 each in your will and move on.
@jamainegardner41933 жыл бұрын
I'd argue their betrayal is worse since you're their parent and have raised them.
@trailtrs13 жыл бұрын
@@jamainegardner4193 you’re probably right
@andyhappy55163 жыл бұрын
Like lord krishna said in mahabharata forgiveness is the toughest thing a man can do in the society but forgiving the criminal (cheating wife here) is the only way you can rationalize in punishing the criminal because after you forgive them from your subconscious you achieve two major things- 1.The past beautiful memories dont come to haunt you(in this case) 2. You can easily punish them in a balanced way they deserve without resenting yourself going too far with punishment (forlike in revenge) in future and keep balanced mind in the battlefield (for life what it is) making precise right decision with every passing moment To all people here who get betrayed i say this- First forgive your partner from your heart and then move on the next move of punishing them not thinking of getting revenge in mind. This way you ensure never looking back as in case of revenge its all coming from revenge and momentary unexplained unwanted hate for someone who you thought of being life partner and thinking of getting revenge on them will only hurt you in future. Whereas when you forgive them from your heart then you can in a snap see things rationally and your feelings fade away with everything clear in mind on what next move to make that will not only gaurentee your win but also you'll never think of going too far
@plokoon1543 жыл бұрын
He lives in Texas, move to Florida find a woman that will adore him and love him and worship him and vice versa , also have children with her and put all your money in the will for your new children. Then on your death bed be with your true family not with the devils of your past, Essentially find happiness and stay away from his old family and take precautions to never let your old family see your true family that you love
@cornmoss6383 жыл бұрын
I could somewhat understand if they were all VERY young (like 13 and under), but they are all adults pretty much. Disgusting
@schmidtythekidd3 жыл бұрын
That last sentence. "I'm considering talking to an attorney to change my will" Dayum!!!! Sorry girls, but you fucked up big time to get cut out of your dad's will.
@mankybrains3 жыл бұрын
LOL, the mother taught them well. "The morsel of satisfaction now is greater than the plate at the end" I'm imagining golum from LoTR and the mother telling the kids to take the bribes. Yes yes preciousssss...
@catsithx3 жыл бұрын
@JL-XrtaMayoNoCheese well not to the strets but a wake up call is what it will be as they should never lie. They dug there own grave. He might forgive them one day but dont expect anything from there father anymore.
@andyhappy55163 жыл бұрын
Like lord krishna said in mahabharata forgiveness is the toughest thing a man can do in the society but forgiving the criminal (cheating wife here) is the only way you can rationalize in punishing the criminal because after you forgive them from your subconscious you achieve two major things- 1.The past beautiful memories dont come to haunt you(in this case) 2. You can easily punish them in a balanced way they deserve without resenting yourself going too far with punishment (forlike in revenge) in future To all people here who get betrayed i say this- First forgive your partner from your heart and then move on the next move of punishing them not thinking of getting revenge in mind. This way you ensure never looking back as in case of revenge its all coming from revenge and momentary unexplained unwanted hate for someone who you thought of being life partner and thinking of getting revenge on them will only hurt you in future. Whereas when you forgive them from your heart then you can in a snap see things rationally and your feelings fade away with everything clear in mind on what next move to make that will not only gaurentee your win but also you'll never think of going too far
@dbsm6663 жыл бұрын
@@catsithx I agree, not the street, but 0 inheritance, is they love the father, they need to win him back. But accepting that all the money is lost for hers, they can keep the cars and apartaments that mommy buy for her silence.
@thedoublehelix56613 жыл бұрын
@@andyhappy5516 very insightful
@kgjung23103 жыл бұрын
Looks like the husband really did spoil his daughters too much. Taking bribes to keep quiet as their mother betrayed their father and the family? Wow. The women in that whole family lack morals and integrity. Just amazing. I could understand the kids staying quiet because the mother manipulated them to do so, but for the kids to then accept bribes to keep quiet is just inexcusable. None.
@VitorHugoOliveiraSousa3 жыл бұрын
The manipulation would be understandable when they first discovered. The feeling of not wanting to break the fairy tale family and concern for the fathers feelings would make them prone to be highly influenced by their mother lies. But after they caunt her the second time she prove to them that she is a piece of garbage serial cheater that don't love and don't care about their father anymore she will make him miserable and cheat on him forever until getting caunt or finding another suitor that she thinks that is someone good enough to jump out of the boat. You don't let one parent condemn the other like that I don't care how much you think you love the shit parent.
@JackofallWades3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely breaks my heart knowing the Daughters sold their Dad out for what was a years worth of gifts when he gave each of them 18-20+ years of absolute love. The wife can get stuffed but I expected more from those kids.
@eleethtahgra7182 Жыл бұрын
Too bad. Genetics.
@rohanmanuel18153 жыл бұрын
I don't know how he can stand the level of betrayal here. His own daughters, his wife especially the wife. They knew each other even before they can probably recognise each other, were brought up like family, practically family even before they developed romantically. This whole story pushes the point that dog is man's best friend. Probably the only loyal people who he trusted
@arfaqakram95983 жыл бұрын
Not only dogs man..... don't be partial. cats do too There are many instances where cats have helped depressed people in their dire situation
@wyattmann81573 жыл бұрын
Don’t forget Johnnie Walker…
@hi_stranger91563 жыл бұрын
Well OP daughters betrayed him,is understanding OP lose his shit.
@chaosreaver35973 жыл бұрын
Pretty much, they caught their mother's betrayal at least twice, and they sucked up the lies and bribes both times. I would never be able to trust them again, knowing that their love and loyalty can be paid for.
@hi_stranger91563 жыл бұрын
@@chaosreaver3597 yeah exactly. Being cheated on by your spouse is hurt,but betrayed by your flesh and blood that's is definitely the worst.
@triplemoyagames41953 жыл бұрын
It's a different type of pain. I would contemplate suicide lowkey. Like imagine being betrayed by EVERYONE in your family.
@Sound_Spark2 жыл бұрын
@@triplemoyagames4195 I mean the dog didn't betray him, so in a way not everyone fucked him over.
@KittyKittyPeowPeow3 жыл бұрын
This guy was so invested into his "love of his life" and his family. He did everything right, sacrificed everything for them. Yet, in the end, they all sold him out. His wife betrayed him for some "tingles" and his daughters all betrayed him for a Model S and an apartment. I just don't see this ending without him deep throating a weapon.
@barsoom433 жыл бұрын
He has to come to grips with the fact that AWALT.. His wife's cheating and his daughters' betrayal are just the way women act. Once he recognizes that, he will see it's all on them and not him.. No reason for suicide..
@DuelTubeChannel3 жыл бұрын
Me neither
@DuelTubeChannel3 жыл бұрын
@@barsoom43 There are ALL THE reason for suicide.
@UncleEarl973 жыл бұрын
The best revenge or shall we say response for him, after and during divorce, is to reinvent himself and hit the gym for physical improvement, maybe add some boxing to flush out demons by smashing the boxing bag, then start working on gaining new friendships to build up self-esteem and feel 'alive' again. Becoming the best You is the greatest way to respond to something so devastating. Don't let the demons win! He can eventually find someone worth investing his heart into, possibly another strong woman who has suffered a similar event. Both know the pain and would be even more vigilant and not allow themselves to be enticed by another.
@Last_one_before_I_go3 жыл бұрын
He put his heart, soul and all his belief system values into his wife and daughters. This is a huge blow and will take him quite a few years to get thru. He doesn't help his recovery progress at all with the drinking. I fear his career will start to fail. This is a test of what he's made of - he has to steel himself and accept the realities of the nature of people. It's a tough struggle out.
@Shadowgold8820063 жыл бұрын
Am i the only one that saw the affair was still going on intel a week before ap tried to kill himself and only ended when she didn't want to give up her life style for him after being caught twice .
@DuelTubeChannel3 жыл бұрын
Honestly, i can totally believe that op wife still loved him, even during the affair. Women are known to be hypergamous (is it spelled correctly?), if having a relation with 2 different partners satisfied hers fee-fee she would totally be into it. Sometimes we tend to over-rationalized stuff. It's true, RATIONALLY we would probably stay with the wealthy old partner and get the d from the side one, but women dont do reason that well. She just want it all
@untitled-gv3qp3 жыл бұрын
@@DuelTubeChannel That's not a woman thing, that's a cheaters thing.
@TheHelper1513 жыл бұрын
@@untitled-gv3qp That is a female thing.
@DuelTubeChannel3 жыл бұрын
@@untitled-gv3qp That is a female thing.
@20dabarr583 жыл бұрын
@@DuelTubeChannel previously in I have never dated a single woman because they are all repulsed by my God awful personality: all women cheat because I'm bitter and angry
@SouthValleyKnifeCo3 жыл бұрын
I'd like to see an update in 6 months
@DuelTubeChannel3 жыл бұрын
It wont probably be alive in 6 months
@victorj44603 жыл бұрын
He deleted his account i believe
@jamestomlin55253 жыл бұрын
I doubt he's even in his right mind anymore man, shit destroyed his life
@cottonpop88343 жыл бұрын
@@victorj4460 oh... i really hope he is doing ok and gets all the help and support he needs
@melaneynavarro84793 жыл бұрын
Yeah he deleted his account
@Polkavona3 жыл бұрын
I feel so bad for him..... he didn’t deserve that
@Polkavona2 жыл бұрын
@Phuck KZfaq ???????
@juan83123 жыл бұрын
His family didnt love him.
@caprt89773 жыл бұрын
This. They only it for the money.
@kos29193 жыл бұрын
His daughter's love is worth a type S car.
@DuelTubeChannel3 жыл бұрын
As soon as he realize (and go over) as soon he'll heal.
@LinneAzalea3 жыл бұрын
His *wife didn’t love him. Jesus Christ it’s obvious all of you on your high horses have never been in the situation the daughters have been. You could say it was cowardly, but to say the daughters don’t love him and only in it for the money is reeeeeeaching
@juan83123 жыл бұрын
@@LinneAzalea no i have always told my parents when the other does something wrong._.
@benry0073 жыл бұрын
Its interesting that in these stories where the child keeps a secret for a cheating parent its always the daughter. Sons just go tell straight away from the stories I've seen.
@anon-iraq26553 жыл бұрын
Ive noticed women value peace a lot more than justice and have a lot of ingroup loyalty, afaik they were going "you go girl get some" throughout her affair
@deadmanx4842 жыл бұрын
I'm just glad he wasn't like any other dude who was like oh it's alright i won't take it as a betrayal cuz you are my kids bullshit!!! They showed how much they respected him by betraying him when what they eat, what they wear and where they live is provided by him! Having these kinds of kids are worst than having a cheating wife
@cherrylove5283 жыл бұрын
These daughters better not ask their dad to walk them down the isle anytime soon.
@DuelTubeChannel3 жыл бұрын
These daughter have no father. Not anymore. And i said that being a little bit shocked by that, i never saw myself as someone who can toss aside their own daughters (i dont have kids), but listening to this story and imaning myself in his shoes, knowing what i know now (im into red pill content) i didnt even need to get to the point where the daughters confess that i already started think at the daughters in a different way.
@bepolite69613 жыл бұрын
Or worst still. pay for them! This guy obviously has the means to give all four daughters fairy tail weddings. I think the moment they chose to hurt their father like that, was the moment he no longer had any fatherly obligation towards them. They obviously have no love for him, how else could all FOUR of them keep this quiet, think of that FOUR. So he no longer has the obligation to show them any. Treating them as they treated him would deem to be fair option.
@kgjung23103 жыл бұрын
@@bepolite6961 This poor guy's situation is about the strongest argument I have ever seen for a man to just ghost everyone and start a new family somewhere else. Since the daughters are so keen to take bribes from the mother to look the other way, she can pay for their weddings as well.
@stuartward17553 жыл бұрын
I imagine the daughters protecting her would've hurt him even worse than the cheating itself.
@ArthurRex1313 жыл бұрын
At the same time, though, the daughters are caught between a rock and a hard place in this situation. The mother is guilty of not just having an affair, but of manipulating her own children through bribes and gaslighting. The way they reacted when they finally told him shows me that they really did think they were protecting him, whether they were convinced of that by their mother or not. I feel sorry for them. For the shrew who cheated? Not so much. The deepest circle of Hell is reserved for betrayers and mutineers, and there is no greater betrayal than infidelity in a marriage.
@stuartward17553 жыл бұрын
@@ArthurRex131 Yeah nah the daughters are just as bad. They happily accepted her bribes knowing full well what it was for and are only shit talking her now to alleviate guilt.
@ArthurRex1313 жыл бұрын
@@stuartward1755 do you know these girls personally? Because thats the only way you could know that
@stuartward17553 жыл бұрын
@@ArthurRex131 I don't have to. They literally confessed to it in the story
@ArthurRex1313 жыл бұрын
@@stuartward1755 how do you know it's the only reason, though? You can have more than one reason for doing things.
@warex45013 жыл бұрын
OP needs help asap. He is teetering on the edge right now. He'll either become an alcoholic or end it all. He is in a very dark place from which getting out of will be extremely difficult and will take years if not longer. The betrayal of his wife was bad enough but his children as well. That right there will destroy damn near everyone.
@reginaldsmith63563 жыл бұрын
This story,its insane! Your adult children knew for months about the affair and said nothing? That's massively fucked up
@butt_torpedoes3 жыл бұрын
Worse part they took the bribe from the mother. Disgusting
@stephenfgdl3 жыл бұрын
@@butt_torpedoes It's one thing to be put between a rock and a hard place, and another is to being bribed by their mother!
@Mia-dt3gl3 жыл бұрын
I’m really concerned about OP; his replies on Reddit are troubling. With all of these betrayals he feels like he doesn’t have anyone. He also believes that the only reason his daughters are sorry is because he found out they knew, not because they feel actual remorse. He may be right or he may be wrong, but I hope he takes care of himself.
@fabiocandelori91633 жыл бұрын
Yeah, this is the kind of stuff that makes people end themselves... Regarding the daughters, though? I kinda agree with OP. If they only found out one time and agreed to not tell him, it could be chalked up to conflicting loyalties to your parents (horrible anyway, but much more understandable) and believing their mother had actually ended the affair, so discovering she didn't may cause remorse in them for not telling him, but after the second (and, if I understood correctly, third time?) the only way I'd believe them to actually be remorseful is if they confessed before OP found out about the affair, now it just seems like they are trying to play the "remorseful child" card to get back in good graces with dad.
@DuelTubeChannel3 жыл бұрын
I too im concerned. That's not much way out by a similiar situation.
@ArthurRex1313 жыл бұрын
The real scary part is that as far as we know, he DOESN"T have anyone. No family, no friends, not even coworkers to turn to. If your own family doesn't have your back in this situation, how can you expect anyone else to? Here's hoping he turns his life around, whether that be by finding a new social circle or by turning to God.
@jamesm31232 жыл бұрын
I heard a post on another sub that he killed himself hope I'm wrong because otherwise his grieving widow gets everything .She wins
@baycic Жыл бұрын
@@jamesm3123 bro now im scared af
@Lorgar643 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I feel like r/relationships is just a recruiting effort by mgtow.
@arnatar20863 жыл бұрын
Observation bias is more likely in this case.
@kos29193 жыл бұрын
When going to Brazil is actually a better option. The divorce will be messy because I can assume they're pretty catholic and infidelity is pretty frowned upon in catholicism
@alexisgrunden15563 жыл бұрын
I think even the Pope would give this poor guy a pass, considering that it was all of them in on the dirty little secret together.
@patriciaoconnor4023 жыл бұрын
@@shenanigansone8172 the Catholic Church will mind. He has to get an annulment.
@jamegumb72983 жыл бұрын
Also the courts will ream him mercilessly no matter what happened.
@mattstorey72563 жыл бұрын
@@jamegumb7298 Ah, less so in Texas at least. It's a "fault" AND a "no-fault" state. He is well off and can prove her infidelity, more so, that it wasn't a short term or one off but for almost a year. That "oops it was a mistake" isn't going to fly. He might be able to bring in just how cruel she is with the parental alienation by her conspiracy with buying off the kids, even her driving her partner to suicide. He should go "fault" and remove her financial rewards for such shit behavior. "No Fault" in Texas runs under 3 ways to file and it's usually used to get out as quick and uncomplicated as possible. Like if there is little money/property to divide. Or you just are willing to capitulate to be done. He needs a shark that is willing to burn her to the ground if she don't get out without trying to fleece him. He sure needs the counseling and the trying to cope with booze...that there will ruin him, either health wise or make a dumb move that gets her all his money or in jail. Or even fool enough to try and patch it up. He said that Sarah, in her confession told him that between the second and first time wife was caught, she said she "loved your father and just can't afford to lose him." That can be construed as knowledge and conspiracy, she confessed, she knew she was wrong AND she wanted the money. The daughters, as shitty as they did, I imagine he may want to some point be with them again. They are young woman and should not have done him like that, true. But they were raised by that mother and in privileged life. She taught them moral ambiguity for profit. I would consult that attorney about altering that will, with his advice on how to handle them eventually getting back in, provided they come clean to the judge about what the wife did, that too, would go a long way to roast "mom" a little more. Teach his daughters that when you do wrong, you got to acknowledge and then try your best to set it right. Carrot and stick, you want in the will? Do the right thing this time and get rewarded, not the wrong thing.
@rodatamx3 жыл бұрын
Nah, brazilians dont care that much about divorce, but it is hell for the man, in the courts
@manwithnoname6913 жыл бұрын
This story is definitely getting around lol
@sdotbell2 жыл бұрын
Imagine.. feeling you couldn’t trust anyone in your family… your wife and your daughters… wife bribing the kids to keep the affair on the low.. means you didn’t raise your kids right too.. this is terrifying… also. Lost his parents… this kept getting more and more heartbreaking
@PABLOESCOBAR-ph3el3 жыл бұрын
HOLY SHIT. THAT'S ONE OF THE WORSE STORIES YET. SO SORRY FOR THIS MAN.
@karend15773 жыл бұрын
This story hurts my heart. It was one thing that the wife was having an affair, it's another to know that All of your kids knew and didn't tell. Ultimate betrayal is that they were willing to be bought to keep their silence. As for the girls hating their mother, they also need to admit that they were also culpable by keeping silent. It's so messed up.... I hope so much that OP turns away from the bottle but most likely won't because it will help dull these ultimate betrayal pain... He might kill himself to join his parents. But first change the Will so that his 'family' gains nothing from him.... I soooo hope we hear from OP one day.
@thecookinestkid4013 жыл бұрын
Me too cause it's been more than 2 weeks since his last update/comment.
@1Outis13 жыл бұрын
@@thecookinestkid401 can you post the link please?
@@1Outis1 You're welcome. I am sorry that I didn't get back to you sooner! Had to find the page!
@mahmoodqureshi1973 жыл бұрын
I just can't understand why his wife would cheat when everything was perfect and also was the love his daughters had for him was so less that it could have been bought by some cash. What kind of a human being is she to have no shame and continue the affair after being caught by her children not once but twice and what kind of thing was she teaching her children by cheating in front of them and then bribing them.
@chuckysmaria64663 жыл бұрын
Because it will never be enough. Ask bill gates' wife.
@johnsmith-kt7ef3 жыл бұрын
BC he spoiled her and his kids... She grew to FEEL entitled to what she wanted.
@ArthurRex1313 жыл бұрын
Boredom. Some people are just so petty that they mistake contentment for boredom, or they feel like something is missing when it's really not, and so they go searching for that thing, and shit like this happens.
@anon-iraq26553 жыл бұрын
Because she didn't respect him nor fear the consequences nor love him so why not jump on an opportunity for more sex with a young stud
@adamwilliams49283 жыл бұрын
Oh, my God. Who was the author of this guy's life, Nietsche?!
@jhan1683 жыл бұрын
This is freaking sad.
@thecookinestkid4013 жыл бұрын
True. This is also a perfect example of why some people like dogs better.
@Earlybird863 жыл бұрын
Im recalling the Ozarks when he said the most relaxing sound he heard all week was the sound of his wife's affair partner hitting the pavement.
@WeaponXSigma3 жыл бұрын
I hope there is another update for this one. Hopefully things get better for the guy.
@Canute873 жыл бұрын
As long as men think that what happens to other guys won't happen to them they will still get married. Oh well.
@deadlyraver44543 жыл бұрын
"Those who fail to learn from history, are doomed to repeat it."
@DuelTubeChannel3 жыл бұрын
A couples of months ago one of my bf told me is getting married. I was really worried for him.
@Canute873 жыл бұрын
@@deadlyraver4454 it's not even about learning from history. It's believing that it won't happen to them if they do everything "right". How many times have you heard people spewing crap about men who end up heart broken that they "didn't find the right one". Man has been with this one woman since the age of 13 Don't be surprised if you hear friends and family talking about he'll find love when the right woman comes along. I'd understand if he never saw the horrors other men faced but he did, and instead of mentally preparing himself for that possibility he thought he just lucked out. His Ego completely crashed knowing he isn't special that's why he's so hurt. And Jesus, his children; it's like the nail on the coffin but he shouldn't hate them, the mother has warped into something terrible. Man needs to stop hitting the bottle and hit the gym instead.
@triplemoyagames41953 жыл бұрын
@@deadlyraver4454 The issue isn't learning the history. but assuming it won't happen again
@triplemoyagames41953 жыл бұрын
Nah, the issue is with guys who are naive enough to believe they can't be cheated on. That is where the blunder lies
@ULTIMATZEKROM3 жыл бұрын
Damn, with family like that, who needs enemies? The fact that the daughters were bought out so easily shows their true colors. All they needed was a preverbal 20 pieces of silver to betray their father. Not to mention his STBXW's part in this. It's bad enough that she cheated, but she got caught. Multiple times. That says something about the affair. There's no way it was some "midlife crisis". Hopefully he cuts them (his Ex, his daughters, etc) all out of his life and starts fresh.
@eleethtahgra7182 Жыл бұрын
Its 30 pieces. Also, perhaps its genetic. Meaning, they are also a person with no dignity. Theyd open their legs to others as well when similar situation happen. The dad really has to....punish them all really really bad so that they do not betray their future husband.
@ULTIMATZEKROM Жыл бұрын
@@eleethtahgra7182 Always get how many pieces of Silver it was mixed up, thanks.
@eleethtahgra7182 Жыл бұрын
@@ULTIMATZEKROM And just look at how Judas tried to repent for his betrayal. OP should use it as guidance.
@delmanpronto93743 жыл бұрын
these reddit stories are adding fuel to the MGTOW fire.
@reneekelley42793 жыл бұрын
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@TheJotaroKujo3 жыл бұрын
As it should.
@DARKTENSHIXIII3 жыл бұрын
This is one of the most heartbreaking ones I’ve heard...the daughters too smh...he has no one now
@underpar32503 жыл бұрын
Sadly this man may not be with us anymore. He used reddit as a crutch, as an outlet and as emotional support. By deleting his account he's cutting off the emotional support he used to survive. I just don't see him going it alone. Hope he found peace.
@tomasbaldacci75663 жыл бұрын
I look but it looks like OP erased his account, sorry guys but it looks like this is the final update.
@elmaquiavelico57093 жыл бұрын
Hopefully he divorced and cut everyone out of his life.
@kingdionysus18672 жыл бұрын
If I could, I would ask a higher being what the fuck happened to OP. I really hope he is doing ok, and has NOT made an attempt on his life. OP deserves so much better, more so that he needs to live somewhere far away; no contact from anyone, unless he is willing to speak to them again. Basically, he needs to start a new life.
@TheJotaroKujo3 жыл бұрын
The betrayal of the daughters is just too much. Yes, he should absolutely change his will. It looks like the mother raised their daughters to be like her. Well, as their father, he should teach them the most important lesson in their entire lives. Actions have consequences.
@saikatdominicgregory91573 жыл бұрын
This is the saddest story till now.... I mean, 46 years of knowing each other, literally spending the whole life together, blindly trusting your partner with rock hard confidence that no matter what she will never cheat, and finding out things like these... Life is really a mess.. Honestly speaking, I would have died
@jeremiahgiles35933 жыл бұрын
I swear there's just nothing we can do man. This dude was literally BORN with his wife and she STILL screwed him over and cheated and STILL blamed it on him. How does any normal man stand a chance?
@egorapter3 жыл бұрын
She didn't even blame him, she said he was a great husband and there was nothing wrong....she just cheated for no reason
@shirin94523 жыл бұрын
@@egorapter exactly. Because it isn’t about what you do, it’s about who the other person is. He didn’t have to do anything for her to cheat. She cheated because that’s who she is. But there are people who aren’t like that and never will be...
@shirin94523 жыл бұрын
@Ben Dover It’s hard for me to believe any man is good, and I’m still relatively young. But you know, I have great guy friends and an amazing ex. I think the sad truth is most people aren’t that good, and you have to find the few that are. But I can assure you there are definitely some women who are good out there, because I am one and I know many. I’m sure you could tell me the same about men.
@mizMissusS3 жыл бұрын
OP's daughters: We dont wanna hurt our dad so thats why we didnt tell him. (Takes mother's bribe). We're sorry dad!!! 😭😭 🏧💰🤑 I hope he cuts them all out of his will and save money to get a good caregiver when he grows old. I wouldnt expect these little witches to take care of him in his old age.
@smoggy68493 жыл бұрын
yikes. imagine getting through this alone.
@thecookinestkid4013 жыл бұрын
Don't worry, he has his dogs.
@Sound_Spark2 жыл бұрын
@@thecookinestkid401 sometimes that's all you really need. Dogs are amazing at being great companions and just a way to make you smile and put a little bit of light in a what maybe an already dark room.
@thecookinestkid4012 жыл бұрын
@@Sound_Spark I know, right? Dogs are great.....even if you're allergic to them. 😔
@amberkim20113 жыл бұрын
I have been watching these cheating stories in days now but this story actually hit me hard
@Fahad2k13 жыл бұрын
Bunch of greedy little snake. Kick them out, disown them. You don't need outside enemies when you have snake inside the house
@sukuna-3 жыл бұрын
I hope he is fine.. whole family betrayed him so bad.. this makes my blood boil..
@karend1577 Жыл бұрын
Re-watching 2 years later. Hoping someone updated.. I wonder if any of his daughters came upon this story? Did it make them realize that they're ultimate betrayal pushed their father over the edge? ... He went back to his homeland. Visited his parents one last time. In my heart, since there's nothing holding him back - not even revenge (return to Texas and change his will)... Nothing to stop him from joining his parents. A place of peace, and no more pain, sorrow, betrayal. Just peace. {{Please prove me wrong and update!! }}
@johnowen93493 жыл бұрын
She wasn't yours, it was only your turn. You got there first, your turn was a long one, savor that for what it was. Hold on to the good parts of it, it'll help you remember how bad she really is that she threw such a perfect thing away. It wasn't a mistake, it was a decision. She wasn't ignorant of what she had, this is in her nature. Just take the red pill be happy you got to live in that illusion for longer than most men can even dream of it. And absolutely cut them all off. The wife is a big no brainer, but your daughters covered for her. Why? For the low low price of money. Loyalty being cheap, tell them you hope they already extracted everything from that penny bank they were ever going to want. Cut the kids off, remove them from the will (find a few charities, put language in the will to make it clear you're not giving them anything on purpose, I suggest the ranch go to a riding therapy group but I'm biased), and spend the rest of your life bettering and entertaining yourself. You've got wealth, work out, find a hobby, bang a model or two. Just keep safe and don't disappear into a bottle. Alcohol isn't making you feel better, it's making you feel worse. If you want to feel better, pick a direction and start walking forward. Stop looking back at all you had, you're not going that direction.
@narararamammily53863 жыл бұрын
The dog is the only loyal thing he has.
@kurthasedd79233 жыл бұрын
It does not matter how his daughters might have felt about the affair, if they felt angry towards their mother, pity and love towards their father, it doesn't matter that they wanted to tell him but were afraid of breaking up the family. They are as much traitors as the woman he once shared a bed with because they denied him something he needed to know. They are cowards, as all traitors by their very nature, he shouldn't give them another chance, he should do as he wants and rewrite his will, giving his belongings to those who actually deserve it. The hardest part to accept in a betrayal is that whatever that person was to you before, they are no longer. They are not your friend, your boss, your wife, your mother or father, son or daughter, they are an enemy and any action should be prosecuted according to that of the most hated of enemies. Take everything you can away from them, leave them with nothing that's yours, wife and daughters both, maybe even go as far as legally disowning them
@chazagbroje9863 жыл бұрын
I can't imagine throwing away a long-lasting relationship for a 'LiTtLe FuN' like yeah no
@zayshabazz33263 жыл бұрын
This is buy far one of the most messed up story I have seen. I really, really hope this guy is ok and is able to overcome this with ease! Like I said before, human beings are the most messed up, selfish, vile, cruel, inconsiderate disgusting creatures to walk the face of the earth.
@supermonkey6912 жыл бұрын
holy fuck out of the 50 or so stories i've read this week THIS one TRIGGERED the fuck out of me I hope this guy is doing well.
@Toka9723 жыл бұрын
I'd tell the kids if they ever want a relationship with their dad, they have to pay for the value of the bribe they received. Put an ultimatum on it. They have x time to pay it back or they are disowned. They can get a loan. Tell the wife she had the same amount of time to cut contact with daughters and family, divorce in a fair way or else you just donate everything, EVERYTHING, to goodwill. Freaking revolting. I'd go full scorched earth
@DuelTubeChannel3 жыл бұрын
And after that, still disown the daughter.
@kylesearle69373 жыл бұрын
Omg I want u to be my devorce lawyer
@Eman-San Жыл бұрын
I wish I knew what happened after. This story has stuck with me for years.
@fufufuaru3 жыл бұрын
As a kid who quite recently had relatives who hid the fact that my father has been cheating and they've met his damn mistress AND their baby several times, I understand quite a bit why the dad cut off contact with his kids. Those uncles of mine had my utmost respect since I was little and they were like godfathers to me and a lot (if not all) of my cousins. But after finding out their silence and they wouldn't even outright give me an honest answer when I asked them directly, I cut off all contact with everyone from that side of the family. I will never be able to trust any of them ever again, especially with how most of my uncles had their own history of affair/s.
@francesjoerginasantos14253 жыл бұрын
he needs a new family
@Sound_Spark2 жыл бұрын
He needs therapy and to move out of the state/country and change numbers and block his wife on every social. As for the kids that is something he needs to decided. At the least I'd go no contact with them for a year while he works on himself and getting himself back on the road to recovery.
@spaceracer233 жыл бұрын
Send AP the "At least you tried" Simpsons gif.
@pavrajgrewall47663 жыл бұрын
I’m not getting married after this
@deaftone3113 жыл бұрын
After listening to these stories for over a year bro even the word marriage makes me nauseous.
@LiwaySaGu3 жыл бұрын
not everyone are cheaters. you're in reddit where people expose their cheating spouses. you need to see happy married couples and it's not here. don't let others' sad stories define how you write your life. others have happy stories also
@hessranch3 жыл бұрын
Wow, we need another update to this story, please!!!!
@LadyBern3 жыл бұрын
Ok I may get heat for this but it's chilly here so bring it on: If all of this is true then what that woman did to op is beyond messed up but another small part that's missed is that she messed up her affair partner too. Now he knew he was messing with a married woman, he had no sympathy from me for that. But for months that boy was catching feelings for her and she kept coming back to him, even after getting caught she's still messing with him. Now if these stories have taught me anything it's not simply a call or text of "hey, hubby's gone, come over." No there was emotions and false promises. "I love you." "If only I wasn't married." "If only Blah blah blah." For months that fool buys into the romance of the affair and thinks they can run away together given she's still with him after being caught so she must want to be with him. So when he tells her to divorce and he'll provide for her he sees she ain't giving up her comfortable life to be with him. She don't love him. Divested and being a bit dramatic he tries to kill himself. She ruined 2 people.
@cliffd83803 жыл бұрын
I think that is why OP made to note he was 17 years his junior. She used him for fun. She was never going to leave her wealthy husband for a younger man. I pretty sure she hangs around socialities in Dallas and no doubt religious. Her rep would be trash.
@ianjbanks35283 жыл бұрын
I'd write my kids out of my will as well as disown them
@Sound_Spark2 жыл бұрын
I don't think he'd disown his kids, his wife oh hell yeah she's removed from the will completely.
@theguy15803 жыл бұрын
Those dogs kept him sane, its always the pets that are the most loyal
@rabbitsfoot83 жыл бұрын
When people cheat on their spouse what they never figure is how it embarrasses them...especially with their own kids...also to put her own daughters in the middle of her lies...smh
@Sound_Spark2 жыл бұрын
I mean the daughters are also to blame, they knew and said nothing. Instead the oldest and the twins took bribes to keep quiet.
@Thespokenone3 жыл бұрын
I'm starting to think I don't want a daughter, damn.
@trailtrs13 жыл бұрын
She doesn’t love you. Dump her and find a new woman. Your daughters need to see you strong against her evil
@whosyodaddy763 Жыл бұрын
I wonder if the kids are even his?
@anacarolinajesussantos85113 жыл бұрын
Sincerely thats a sad history. Imagine that the love of you life, you friend, who you know almost the childhood, betrays you so badly. And the worts thing that wasn't only her, he were betrayed by his own daughters and the most closest to a family for him. I hope she back to USA and solve things. You be hard, because 25 years are not yeasy to forget, but eventually he will get it over. And before come to Brazil and have some fun, go to the beaultiful beches of Copacabana or Salvador.
@gervang24453 жыл бұрын
Was there ever an update to this? I hope the OP didnt end himself. Damn... thats just so messed up.
@sairen51212 жыл бұрын
Disown the children, live your life with a new family, have new kids and value them more than your previous family. Cut all contact with your kids and wife and live your life.
@BigJon2003 жыл бұрын
Man spent the holidays alone and betrayed with a bottle of blue label……and then drank more at his parent’s graves. This whole thing hurt me to hear. 😢
@andysixxstalkerangeloftrag58333 жыл бұрын
I'm so confused,... He keeps saying my brother-in-law 's brother,.. Wouldn't that make him the brother of the wife?.. Even if they had a different parent, it's still blood.
@jamesdosher20573 жыл бұрын
Nope. His wife had a sister. That sister married some guy who became his BIL. His BIL had a younger brother, so not directly related to the OP or his cheating spouse.
@popkings45723 жыл бұрын
We need a update on this story
@Sound_Spark2 жыл бұрын
Won't find one, the users account was deleted as from what i can find.
@comeandsee20122 жыл бұрын
@@Sound_Spark Yeah I read it before, I wish he could update us on his current situation.
@AthleticEducation3 жыл бұрын
Only 46, plenty of time to start a whole new family
@srsh12345 Жыл бұрын
My heart is broken just learning this story. Betrayed by wife and each of his daughters. Parents dead. Where is his support system?
@jjureidini75305 күн бұрын
It was Reddit 🥺
@notaverage39653 жыл бұрын
This seems kinda weird growing up with someone then dating them its like being siblings
@Sound_Spark2 жыл бұрын
It's rare. But I guess the parent weren't the old school type and had an arranged marriage set up between the two. At least this way they could decide for themselves if they went the dating route or just stayed as childhood friends.
@brenwan21903 жыл бұрын
man that was upsetting I feel for that guy, not having anyone he can really trust or go to since it does seem like everyone knew about this.
@normantheforeman98662 жыл бұрын
Your money became your downfall. Not only that obviously, but what a betrayal by your own kids.. sorry that happened to you
@livevine3351 Жыл бұрын
Mother got killed by a drunk driver...decides to drive extremely intoxicated. My heart goes out to this man but that was a crappy thing to do.
@cliffd83803 жыл бұрын
I don't think OP is going to make it.😭 These heffers actually took bribes to stay quiet.😠🤦 That is so F'ed up. He really has no one he can trust. I mean his family basically screwed him over except for the dogs and his dead parents.😓
@catgivingspeech46633 жыл бұрын
Honestly, when I was like in 5th grade I found a message on my dads phone that was really weird and made me believe he was cheating. I was so scared at what would happen and didn’t know what to do, and I didn’t tell my mom. I felt so guilty and eventually told her like almost a year later. She already knew but I can’t imagine staying quiet about catching your parent in the act twice. Finding a weird message was enough to drive me insane, I can’t imagine how I would’ve felt actually catching him
@KeniSlayer3 жыл бұрын
When he said he could feel his dad disappointment and how much he missed him i almost started crying LOL
@jguterrez01 Жыл бұрын
Personally, I would immediately divorce the POS future ex-wife and frankly I would disown of the daughters I wouldn't even bother having them take DNA. I would have a lawyer draft a will that when I die everything would go to charity. Change my number and after the divorce I would move from that location and good absolutely NC with the wife and daughters.
@MizzShortai3 жыл бұрын
I cannot believe his children knew and didn't tell him. That has got to hurt really bad. And the daughter even came to him for comfort saying its all my fault. What did she expect him to do when he found out.? I hope they are glad with the parent they chose because that will most likely hang over their heads and hurt their relationship with their dad for life.
@shaishavshah99823 жыл бұрын
I keep coming back to this story every few weeks, wondering about the reason the daughters might have had to betray their fatherlike that. It's as if they'd so anything if somebody would throw a few coins at them... I really hope there's an update soon where OP is stable and happy again!
@Sound_Spark2 жыл бұрын
Considering the account has been deleted, you'll have to settle for using your imagination.
@brad51672 жыл бұрын
I wonder what happened to OP. I would like to know he had a happy ending here and didn't drink himself to oblivion and depression.
@Infinitespace04 Жыл бұрын
I'd disown all of them. Daughters even accepted hush gifts. Wife known since birth. This is so heartbreaking.
@jamalgoldstein65593 жыл бұрын
Poor fella
@justadummy80763 жыл бұрын
When a man has a midlife crisis, he buys a car When a woman had a midlife crisis, she ruins her entire marriage
@Sound_Spark2 жыл бұрын
I wish all men would buy a car for a midlife crisis, that is easier to deal with. Some decided to cheat.
@ralphseller64373 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately I couldn't blame this guy if the next thing his daughters hear is the American Consulate in Brazil telling them he has been found dead. Praying that doesn't happen, this is what I suggest he does: 1. Get sober! 2. Go home and consult a lawyer (preferably a scorched earth one) 3.Get some individual therapy quickly to stabilise his emotions! 4. Liquidate all his assets, post quickie divorce. Wife's confessions if out in public will probably tank her business and reputation, if she wants to delay things! 5. Go back to Brazil, as he now has no "family" in the USA. With the money he gets from liquidating his assets, he will be able to live like a Lord down there! 6. The daughters will be fine without him. The STBXW has her own business and money, and the daughters are the kind of treacherous money-grubbers who will quickly fall on their feet by marrying some poor blue pilled S-MP. He should try and forget they ever existed if that is possible! Good luck to him, as he will need every ounce he can get, I figure!
@tallyp.76432 жыл бұрын
Sheesh, the hits just keep on coming toward OP. I hope he's doing much better now after all this time. To know the daughters found out what was going on and said nothing to their father (and getting bribed for their silence) must stab him in the heart. I don't generally wish ill on people, but I hope he left them with the bare minimum if anything at all, and the nastiest part of me hopes they get cheated on and other family members cover it up so they feel the pain they put their father through. If they want to whine about not having much money, they can sell those bribes and get extra cash. Easy come, easy go. He was betrayed on all sides, and I hope if there's any sense of justice in the universe, he got a big chunk of it in the past year and change.
@rashadellison95933 жыл бұрын
Damn this is Fucked, but it is such a great story n I can't wait for the Update, He has to do the update, He was going to find peace with his daughters then Boom they knew, profited, n think want to be forgiven.. Write em out the Will, they do not have his best interests.. This is going to get to OP that he is reddit famous, bcuz this story stands out....
@saturnringer2673 жыл бұрын
Did the guy update anything?
@mariokart7for3ds553 жыл бұрын
@@saturnringer267 I tink he deleted his account, can't find anything on Reddit bout it
@kevinfields75003 жыл бұрын
That's very hard brother. Yall been together since birth basically. You're still young. Move on and focus on yourself.
@timtompkins87742 жыл бұрын
I can get past them not telling me, with some time but them accepting bribes would push me over the edge. That is ridiculous I would never be able to accept bribes for not telling my dad that my mom was having an affair.
@Sephiroth7663 жыл бұрын
He had a justifiable reaction. Not only did his daughters keep it quiet once, they did it twice. His daughters don't love him, if they did, they would have told him especially the second time it happened. Instead, they were bought by their mother. They protected a cheater and a master manipulator. The husband/father deserves better then these women which is really said especially how he describes the relationship with each of them. The only reasons the girls confessed was because they couldn't handle the guilt. I find it rich how they were all bad mouthing her when they all kept her secret and took gifts to keep quiet.
@shlokverma32413 жыл бұрын
More than anyone daughter action seem to drive biggest knife in heart. I mean they were closest to family OP had and they treated him like an ATM. They only apologized when they realised they messed up and won't have any say in money if they didn't side in him. They didn't side with OP for love but money. Also anyone saying it was manipulation let's be clear - 1)The moment they accepted the bribe it was never a manipulation but a trade which they accepted. 2) They should have told the first time but even if they don't they should have told when they found out second time. 3) Even if they can't tell OP they could give hind or hints to OP. 4) This could have gone forever if not for the AP who committed suicide otherwise they wouldn't even apologize. Let's be real here they didn't apologize bcoz they were sorry but bcoz they were caught and still wanted financial aide of OP
@nileshprasad183 жыл бұрын
Damm I feel soo bad for him. I don’t think he can never recover from this.
@Sound_Spark2 жыл бұрын
He can, it's a matter of does he want too. The guy really has nothing left. His parents are both gone. His wife/kids all basically took turns putting a knife in his back.
@Dk-hh3uc3 жыл бұрын
you should have put the divorce realy quick she drained you through your children with fancy gifts, disinherent any children that you have with her, retake the gifts the children received and put a hit on bil