TRAUMA Wounds EXPLAINED |"Do I Have An Emotional Hangover?"| Psychotherapy Crash Course

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Támara Hill, MS NCC CCTP LPC

Támara Hill, MS NCC CCTP LPC

Күн бұрын

Traumatic experience is something that can lead to a variety of consequences.
One consequence is that your emotional reactions to minor things or significant challenges in your life can be BIGGER than you want them to be.
That's because your body has learned to react to any threat the brain me "see" coming a mile away.
When you experience something as a threat that (has or will) negatively impact you, you may wake up the next day feeling completely depleted.
In this video, I discuss the negative impact of intergenerational trauma and emotional hangovers.
#trauma #ABUSE
#tamarahilllpc
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DISCUSSED IN THIS VIDEO:
0:00 intro
1:47 hangovers
2:29 the brain is "high jacked"
3:30 feeling "unplugged"
4:14 adverse events that causes emotional hangovers
-DNA
-Risk factors
-Cumulative trauma
-Microaggressions & cultural conditioning
-Altered memory (dissociative amnesia & declarative memory)
-Normalization of marginalization
-Feeling of family & community disconnect
-Traumatic dumping
-Trauma comparisons
-Family estrangement
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References:
1. Bezo B. (2015). Living in “survival mode:” Intergenerational transmission of trauma from the Holodomor genocide of 1932-1933 in Ukraine.
sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0277953615002294
2. Kolk VDB. (2014). The body keeps the score: Brain, mind, and body in the healing of trauma. New York, NY: Penguin Publishing Group.
3. Very Well Mind: www.verywellhealth.com/interg...
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*Videos are provided for exploration and educational purposes only and does not constitute clinical suggestions or consultation for individual cases.
If you or someone you know is having a medical emergency involving harm to self, please reach out to the suicide prevention hotline suicidepreventionlifeline.org/.
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@TherapistTamaraHill
@TherapistTamaraHill Жыл бұрын
Well, my first mistake of the year LOL! This wasn't supposed to go live until 9pm tonight. I'm so sorry for those of you who enjoy being in the chat box during the videos. I will see you FRIDAY, 02/10 5:20 LIVE instead. ☺
@DeborahOlander
@DeborahOlander Жыл бұрын
Oh my God. Explains why I'm still suffering massive exhaustion. I have trauma stacked on trauma stacked on trauma and I've been literally trapped in a traumatic situation for nearly a decade with little support. All of my support has been paid support: therapists, ARMHS workers, peer support. I have felt intensely isolated. Add to that, even though I have as little contact as possible with my parents, they have financial control over me. I'm 55, completely compose mentis, just ill with chronic fatigue and CPTSD. I've been unable to work for 5 yrs now mostly because I've raised a child who had major mental health issues and is now physically disabled as well. So I've been caretaker of someone who abused me daily for years juxtaposed with no familial emotional support and in fact emotional abuse. I'm completely burned out. Exhausted. And still fighting. I want to be healthier again.
@poohbear0320
@poohbear0320 Жыл бұрын
Wow, that is true with me and others with disabilities. We are so marginalized by society as a whole. We are not just marginalized by society, but sometimes by our families and places of worship.
@libertycan6959
@libertycan6959 Жыл бұрын
🙏🏼
@ReincarnatedMystic
@ReincarnatedMystic Жыл бұрын
I just wanted to say thank you for taking the time making this video. I am learning how it connects into my religious trauma and it’s been very helpful. Thank you
@TherapistTamaraHill
@TherapistTamaraHill Жыл бұрын
Yes, you're welcome. 🤗 Very glad this was helpful. If you are looking for more on religious trauma, you may like my older video here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/mrKPZs9jnbGpk5c.html
@momoye77
@momoye77 Жыл бұрын
THANK YOU!!! I woke up with an emotional hangover today, and this helped process what I’m experiencing just at the right time! It helps to be able to put a name to this phenomenon…I appreciate your channel and wisdom so much.
@TherapistTamaraHill
@TherapistTamaraHill Жыл бұрын
Wow. That's amazing timing. You're welcome!! And thank you. :)
@Macchiato2398
@Macchiato2398 Жыл бұрын
Dear God, I've experienced nearly every trauma you listed. No wonder I'm exhausted. Thank you for this video. It was enlightening!
@ChristineBalarezo
@ChristineBalarezo Жыл бұрын
Támara, so grateful for you! You packed in a lot in those minutes😊I’ve been experiencing trauma unloading/dumping by folks and have had to put strict boundaries. Would love to hear more on how to redirect conversations. I’ve had to cut off folks by simply saying I prefer they didn’t tell me this stuff, not because it’s triggering, but it’s exhausting. Thank you so much for your work 🙏🏼❤️
@TherapistTamaraHill
@TherapistTamaraHill Жыл бұрын
You're welcome Christine!! And thank you for these kind comments. I'm so glad you find the content here valuable. And I don't blame you for having to put a stop to unhealthy behaviors within the family dynamic. It is exhausting and also humiliating.
@user-mg8if8po4e
@user-mg8if8po4e Жыл бұрын
Gracias por traer este tipo de temas a flote, en este caso me quedé muy impactada, todo lo que describió en el vídeo fue bastante acorde a lo que he vivido y sobretodo en mi entorno familiar con una madre narcisista.
@TherapistTamaraHill
@TherapistTamaraHill Жыл бұрын
¡Sí, de nada! Entiendo que esto es difícil de creer, así que cualquier cosa 😕 que describa a este tipo de personas puede ser impactante. El siguiente paso es a menudo la aceptación y luego decidir qué tan cerca de esta persona quieres estar.
@NYKIRA
@NYKIRA Жыл бұрын
Love the range in vocabulary, honestly sometimes it's good to have a phrase or name to identify to bring clarity and allow relief. I'd never even heard the concept 'emotional hang over' before this video yet I know I've experienced many. Thank you for educating!❤
@TherapistTamaraHill
@TherapistTamaraHill Жыл бұрын
You're welcome!! Absolutely. That's how we grow. 😊
@AdamantlyAdams
@AdamantlyAdams Жыл бұрын
Wow! I've been there for a long span of years. Tamara, thanks for the videos!
@TherapistTamaraHill
@TherapistTamaraHill Жыл бұрын
You are welcome! It is draining indeed.
@kellyburgess671
@kellyburgess671 Жыл бұрын
this is an eye opening video... so much of my life ....
@SunflowerHeather
@SunflowerHeather Жыл бұрын
I get confused about how this differs from true burnout. Is burnout physiological based similar too chronic fatigue syndrome or adrenal fatigue? Look forward to learning more from you. Thank You Miss Tamara
@TherapistTamaraHill
@TherapistTamaraHill Жыл бұрын
Yes, I can totally understand that. It's coming tonight 9pm est. See you tonight.
@citizenkang2524
@citizenkang2524 Жыл бұрын
I find that contemplating how my ancestors overcame hyper traumatic events in my family history makes the best coffee for traumatic hangovers. Finally broke down and purchased and downloaded David Clark's and Aaron Beck's "Anxiety and Worry Workbook." Working my way through the 308 pages.
@laurad1487
@laurad1487 Жыл бұрын
It's great that we start giving likes to your content in anticipation because we know it's going to be good
@TherapistTamaraHill
@TherapistTamaraHill Жыл бұрын
🥰🤗Yes indeed!! I am so grateful for that.
@kimberlydavis5034
@kimberlydavis5034 Жыл бұрын
I've been through more bad then any good in my lifetime. I've been through every kind of abuse you can think of. I don't drink alcohol at all. I hate alcohol and drugs. I don't do drugs either. I was abused almost my whole entire life. I had to cut out all the unhealthy toxic relationships out of my life, including family because it's just unhealthy toxic relationships.😭
@TherapistTamaraHill
@TherapistTamaraHill Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear this but am very glad to hear you haven't turned to drugs or alcohol to sooth what you may have been feeling. Most of the time this makes things worse or catches up to you in the long-run. And I'm glad you separated yourself from these unhealthy relationships. That's truly the first step toward healing.
@kimberlydavis5034
@kimberlydavis5034 Жыл бұрын
@@TherapistTamaraHill I don't drink alcohol at all because there's already enough alcoholics in the family and so called friends. I've seen people who have drug and alcohol problems destroy relationships and be out of control and very violent to family, friends etc. I just can't handle it anymore.
@nobullzone8394
@nobullzone8394 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. I needed this I miss the live session but I was able to listen to it the first thing this morning before taking my goddaughter on the tour of her college campus this hit home now how to deal with emotional hangover what do you do, can you please talk about that next because I've been hungover for years 😂 much love Doc
@carlynherbert5523
@carlynherbert5523 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for putting a name to it. Emotional Hangovers!!! Wow, just knowing what it is lifted a Tension/Burden off my shoulders. However what are the Remedies for Emotional Hangovers??🤔🤔🤔
@deebedee8912
@deebedee8912 7 ай бұрын
can you put a link to how to cure this. i know about it. but i need to heal
@ayeemjay7063
@ayeemjay7063 Жыл бұрын
How do the "live chats on Wednesday" work? I am new here ❤️
@TherapistTamaraHill
@TherapistTamaraHill Жыл бұрын
Welcome to the channel! Glad to have you here. I now do live chats on Friday's after 5pm est. You will see them posted on my channel prior to me going live. If you hit the bell notification you will get notified 30min before I go live. I hope you can catch it this Friday!
@fairygurl9269
@fairygurl9269 Жыл бұрын
🫂
@CherrysJubileeJoyfully
@CherrysJubileeJoyfully Жыл бұрын
So DNA modification AND ....AND.......AND......AND YES!!!!!!
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