No friends equals no drama.

*I have zero friends because I'm incapable of pretending to carry a superficial friendship relation since I have very little in common with most people.*

You can be alone and not be lonely.

having no friends is really good at times, but it also gets extremely depressing at times. Have yet to meet people with the same interests, and mindset as me.

friends are over rated

People don’t know how to be friends anymore anyways. Everyone is always talking shit behind everyone’s back, no one is loyal and most people only want friends so the don’t look like loners.

I literally had to rewatch this several times in order to remind myself that it's ok to be alone.

the thing about friends is that its hard to find real good kind people , most of my friends have been fake, envious, only contacted me when it was good for them or they needed something..

I just broke down a few minutes ago, went in my room, and typed in the search bar, "no friends." This is the first video I clicked on, and I I really appreciate this video, I've never heard of this point of view before. RESPECT.

being alone gives you time to be self aware of who u r and what u wanna do in life.

The ability to recognize "associates" from real "friends" is a priceless ability....work on yourself and you'll eventually replace a mediocre circle with a great one

Honestly I'm alot happier having a very low social life really makes me happier as I'm not attached to others issues constantly

I've dodged a bullet by not having friends. The people in my community seem to find enjoyment in being judgemental, and gossipers.

I choose to have no friends. Sometimes it gets really lonely, but other times it feels good. It's better to not feel mentally drained at the end of the day by "trying" to hang out with people and hear negative, gossip, lies. It's difficult to find people who want to relax, care, and be genuine in life.

I dont have any friends cuz i focused on my academics and guitar.NOW Im a Doctor.

Having no friends is just super great!, it will give you enough time to think about more important things, it prevents you from being influenced by negative energy from others and let you be your self. I'm more happy alone than with friends.

_friends are toxic no matter what._

For some reason, I like having no friends :D

I have no real friends anymore. I do activities with people, but I have realised that friends can drag you down sometimes. Ive ditched a friend cause they don't make an effort to hang out with me so ive decided to work on myself now and let fate take its course and see where it goes.

I'm a 16 year old and on Facebook I just see all these people and friends going out and having fun together and it just makes the fact that i have no social life more of an impact. I try to study a lot and like you said, take these opportunities to better myself but i cant get rid of the really lonely feeling and shit

Honestly just stop giving a Fuck about peoples opinions. When I started doing that I worked out alot more went on two dates, read through the batman comic series just enjoyed life... starting giving a fuck again, and everything sucked again. it might be hard but just try to realize when your over caring about others opinions and slap yourself or whatever you need to do to get back on track. when you dwell on things like opinions, or try to align your opinions with others just to fit in. people consider you weak and therefore do not want to deal with you. your goal as a person should be to improve yourself in anyway possible and act indifferent socially. Honestly just try this and people will impact you emotionally alot less, and you can truely be happy. also meditation is super helpful!

Having real friends is great but its best being alone when you know the people around you are not in your best interest, you can still make it in your own .

I've learned a lot about people since I have no friends... Yea I'm a girl and 14 and all I want is a best friend to hang out with and talk to, but everyone just sees me as nothing.

THE BEST PART ABOUT HAVING NO FRIENDS IS YOU CAN ALWAYS GIVE YOURSELF PRIORITY IN EVERYTHING..

i have no friends cuz 2 much drama 4 my llama

this is great ! as a stay at home mom I realized that having friends only brings trouble... all those women that just care about nice houses, cars, clothing. I've noticed my self getting sucked in. I would rather spend time learning and teaching my kids something new. Thanks!

All my past "friends" turned out to be "frenemies" or enemies that ACT friendly .

When I was 23 my best friend was murdered. He met a woman in a nightclub and after a period of time; they kissed one another. Her brother seen this and along with four of his "friends"; jumped, kicked and jumped all over my friend's head. My friends parents had to turn off the life support machine. He was buried on his 26 birthday; which fell on Mothers Day. He had 5 A-Levels and 10 GCSE A stars. A gentle soul with the looks of a young Keanu Reeves. He had the world at his feet. I locked myself away from the world for years. Smoking weed everyday and drinking far too much as well; trying to mask the pain. Some of my other friends I had tried to encourage me out, and albeit they certainly tried their best to get me out the house, they eventually moved on and I don't begrudge them. Life is short. What hurt me was the amount of faith I had bestowed upon them. To me a friend is someone I will love unconditionally to the end. I'll be there if it turns ugly and stay. I was taught to look for personality traits to help me define a character. If I saw you stealing from someone you know, then I knew I couldn't trust you. Talking about your other friends behind their backs, etc, etc. My point is this: if we make mistakes in judgement and let people into our life that will end up hurting us- that's our fault. Don't put too much into people all at once either. My definition of a true friend is unconditional love. This takes time to achieve. In many ways having friends is very much like being in a relationship. It takes time. You don't just jump in head first. Test people's character before you give them your heart. But don't let anyone hit you off with words that are reflective telling you that you don't need to have friends. You are the average of your five closest friends. Surround yourself with good people. Love and grow.

I have very few close friends , I rarely watch TV and don't have a smartphone . That way I can spend most of my time on building a great life . I can feel that I really grow mentally and spiritually because of very few distractions . I feel great most of the time . Everyday , I focus on things that I have and I am very grateful because I am fit and healthy , have a roof over my head , have food on the table . I know there are millions of people who are homeless or have to go to sleep at night , hungry .

There’s a difference between being ‘Alone’ vs being ‘Lonely’ and it’s usually the Lonely ones seeking emotional validation to make themselves feel good. Great content btw.

Friends are a waste of time and energy anyway so yeah

It took me years to love myself without friends. I used to hangout with a group “friends” to make myself looked “cool” like them, but it turns out its not worth the price. Obviously we don’t have nothing in common so I learned the hard way....Don’t be in wrong crowd, be you, do what you love and one day, you’ll find the right people who are truly supportive!❤️P.S, thanks for sharing this video!😊 very helpful!

i have no friends just because i seem to always push people away...

I don't need friends. I don't want popularity, too many people will know you. No problems, no drama, I keep to myself for a good reason. I love my own company. I only have my dog. That's it!!

Very well said brother. I`m a military man and have recently been transferred to this very remote place in India. Forget about a girlfriend or friends, there are barely people here to talk to, but i have taken that in my stride and have started to grow. Got into writing and designing my own website, and very soon I shall be coming up with a new book too. One more thing however i`d like to add to what you said, is that we must bring out happiness within ourselves, and that will draw people to us. Neediness and sorrow is never good for making friends or long lasting relationships

I love living a life of solitude. I value isolation because it allows so much room for introspection. And you're definitely right about the growth aspect.

As of today I am closing out all my friends, family and society permanently. I already feel at peace just in the knowledge that I can do whatever I want however, and whenever I feel like it. There are only 3 people I will keep in my life, my partner and 2 children. I will never have to deal with drama and crap ever again. True freedom starts in the mind. No more society for me.

True friends are not on social media 'truest friends are those who got your number ' directly call you instead of texting 🤔🤔🤔 and people who don't have your number are not your friends ❤🙏 and you have to be your own best fan..

Today's society breeds fair weathered friends totally different from yesterday's genuine pals Imo.

Some people are in your life for a reason and some for a season. I had a group of "close" friends, I used to hang around in my early 20s.Some I've known since childhood. I developed a chronic illness around 25 and those people who I thought would stick by me, like I did for them, are now all gone. Our decade long friendship long forgotten. My advice is find contentment within and achieve goals you set for yourself, rather than trying to live up to the societal belief that everyone most be an extroverted social butterfly. You would be lucky to find at most one or two people who you can count on in this life.

Having no friends is sad but it's the best thing for me as well😊💙

Alone but not lonely ✅ Independent do my own things ✅ Comfortable not surrounding by people ✅ Love being my own space ✅ Alone is my happiness ✅

I have people I hang out with but I don't really consider them to be my friends just people around me who I hang out with when I feel lonely they don't no me I don't like people I just want someone Dan has PHIL, Tyler has josh, all of my "friends" have people they like more than me. I just want someone I feel comfortable around and I don't mind hugging me. I want someone

Great video. Thanks for posting! I have no friends right now due to my high levels of anxiety and depression. I'm also very introverted and find it comforting being alone rather then being around a lot of people.

Other people usually hold you back. You start making decisions based on what other people will think about it.

People that beg for friends and say I’m lonely online just know that makes you weak you should be stronger than that live with it just like a lone wolf and let friends come to you

I agree people say oh hang out with me or don't be alone anymore. For me some reason I love being alone because I get more stuff done less drama and yet wanna improve my art skills.

Well it's fucking summer and I want to have fun

I've been alone for 25 years now & I find that having people around me all the time, i don't get anything done, my old friends left me as soon as I gave up drinking and smoking, I'm a writer/poet & I love to be alone, Thanks for the upload, Great video, Cheers - from Australia 👍

Friends hold you back. You can do whatever tf you want without them. I’ve been friendless for 6 years and I’m much happier than I was with them

I have no friends but I'm still happy

I have no friends due to 3 years of isolating myself and abusing drugs and alcohol. I recently stopped on my own although the lack of support in my life has made sobriety harder I'm getting through it on my own. Trying to counter my depression with positive thoughts and keeping myself distracted whenever I have urges to use. This is a great video and very motivating. I just hope I can do it.

I do wish I had friends tho, I want to talk and play and joke around and just be together irl.

I have no friends and I’m happy.

I am mostly in solitude and I notice my success (career and academic) grows. I went to an MBA meeting and realised how far I have become and confident with my inner self and strengths with whichever choices I make. I find that a lot of women (not all) become jealous and are intimidated by successful, strong women. They become unnecessarily harsh by gossiping instead of being supportive (of course, this is a wide generalisation and there are exceptions). My role models include Ivanka Trump, beautiful, independent and successful. And thank you for your excellent advice on books and other things - it reinforces my focus. I am different, I like to think creatively and outside the box, and happily converse and collaborative with others.

I lost all my friends as i got older..now i don't have or want any..It was really hard at first cause I was a very social person..But ive learned to deal with it and its alot less stressful..Im working to better myself and thats so much more rewarding..

True, when i lived alone i did alot of praying & spiritual things & i got very peaceful & my life improved and i got time to work on myself & make improvements, i really enjoyed that time

Love traveling and doing things by myself it’s nothing wrong not to have friends

I haven't looked through all the comments, I'm sure there are a few haters...but I have to agree with this guy. I've gone through similar phases and they've been the times that I've grown the most. Sometimes you just have to get rid of all the distractions to move to another level. Good vid and great advice!

This advice is good. When I was a teenager I had no friends but I didn't know that at the time. I drew and my art was sold ... I struggled with friends over the years because they never asked me how I was but condemned me for focusing on my children. Now I am older I actually have just booted false friends. I am soooo comfortable with me... I have induced a lot of changes. No one wants to know me but I use that to develop even more insight like a fly on the wall. I don't miss the people who said they were friends. I enjoy the time alone and always think of any person who comes into my life for what they are... they want help or low level companionship ... people are not genuine... they want something and if you can't give them the low level companionship they can't cope. Better to have no friends than a false friend

I am happier when I am alone.

At the end of the day, no one really gives a crap about you, even family members, no matter how loving and chill you've been. Better to be your own best friend.

I see in the comments that some need a friend because they're depressed. If you were to get a friend, would you be a good friend? I feel people forget friendship is a two way street (Not surprising bc when you're depressed, you tend to become very self-involved). If having a friend would help your depression, what would happen if your alone? If you don't have that friend? You start becoming a leech on this person, overly dependent on them to achieve your own happiness (at times the price of their own) because you're unable to be happy by yourself.

YES!!!! After taking time off from socialising with friends and getting rid of toxic friends who were only in my life because I knew them for so long, I’ve never before felt so at peace, relaxed and accomplished making so much 💵💵💵💵💵 without them! People can be a massive time and energy waste.

Being self reliant and strong willed >>>>>> Needing other people to get through life

You grow to find yourself and accept yourself during alone time.

This is very true! People are always impressed with my analytical side and I think it has a lot to do with the knowledge I amass when alone!

You're catching on for real. I'm introverted and live alone and I love it

I enjoy my alone time, it's so stressful someone turn to toxic friends who ruins my inner peace. I usually got used by someone when I close to people so it's better to be alone to be happy and be healty. books movies musics sns are quite goid friends to me.

I think the expectation of having friends makes it feel lonely but when you don't put the expectation on yourself it's actually quite enjoyable to be alone

I've always loved to be alone and read, meditate... this way I get a lot of energy to stay with people sometimes and share good things with them.

Friends = they will use you and you can't say no Crushes = they won't respect your feelings There is no one only you at the end for yourself ✌🏻

Being alone is better than keeping fake friends

Not having friends means no one can stop you from reaching your goals, and no one can screw you over. It's as simple as that.

Listen up people, I used to be a people person, let's just say people ruined it. What this guy is saying are all true, guy's jabbing facts left & right.

I actually like being alone.

Also an advantage is you can discover who you really are through solitude and become the person you really are deep down once you do

You have a peace of mind and a sense of freedom once you have no friends. You have nothing but time in your hands. You have time to create something for yourself or create a legacy that could potentially change the world. The greatest people in human history spent a lot of their time alone.

I don't have friends, just people I know. I am a lone wolf and do whatever I want. Discover yourself.

Backstabbing, disingenuousness, change in lifestyle, maturity levels, malicious gossip, defamation of character. These are only some of the variables that continue to work against you as long as you have them. The only thing you can consistently control is yourself. I've severed ties with all the nonsense and I couldn't be happier.

Thanks so much for your advice. I don't have any friends. I just turned 46 yrs old and it's hard make to friends let alone trust people these days even at my age. I'm at the point where I'm just like screw it. I don't even hardly have a close relationships with my parents and most of my family. I feel I'm better off by myself. So I'm doing me. I'm going to do the things you had mentioned on here like reading and focusing on my talents even more. Thanks again for your advice. U pushed me more to really try harder and focus even more on me and my health. I just had a surgery three months ago and I had been taking care of myself with no help. I broke up with my boyfriend the week of my surgery. He didn't do shit. No one had asked how I'm doing or even reached out. It's like I never had a surgery. When u r really at ur lowest point, that's when u know who ur real friends and family are. So I'm doing like u said, research on getting my health back and I'm doing me😉. Also improving on my talents and goals!

I’m a woman in my early 40s living on my own in a foreign country which already makes u feel pretty lonely once u haven’t got your family around but trying to blend with ur own people particularly in a foreign country can b a very disappointing experience the backstabbing is beyond words n even the fact that u have a good command of the English language or live in the country lawfully generates jealously... it’s too competitive n it’s sad that I can’t rely on my own ‘tribe’ for support n that made me come to the realisation that I can’t b bother with people anymore as friendships seems to b an exchange of interests these days;it has lost its meaning...My friends are my family and God and they are the only ones u can rely on no matter what...

so what you are saying is don't feel bad about having 0 friends just embrace books as my friends omg you helped so much!. I doubt I will ever have friends but knowing books will always be my friends makes me feel a bit better to cope with being forever alone. :)

I'm so fucking lonely and frustrated.

I liked this video! I'm a new kid at this high school and I just don't seem to fit in. :( Maybe I should just focus on myself and trying to get better at grades and things like that. You inspired me, thank you!

i grew most when I was with friends but I've changed and it scares me, I can't stand being with people, but I also want to build friendships

instead of just sitting around being depressed this summer as usual because i have maybe 0.5 friends to hang out with besides my boyfriend, i'm using all the time to myself to my advantage to open my mind to the world and explore things that i've always wanted to try

yeah being on your own makes you grow spiritually it also shows you things you wouldn't normally see say your going for a walk up a mountain with someone they talk distract you do it on your own and you see more feel more interpret more life's more interesting

I find having no friends limiting, not liberating. I have control over my time with people and myself. I prefer to have the freedom to choose between being with people and bring by myself rather than being forced to be by myself. it isn't good to have no friends, but it is good to make the most out of whatever new free time you got out of it.

Entertain yourself, don't let anyone pull you away from anything you want to do, i reckon isolation is the best. 👋

I am capable of making friends, but eventually they just leave me. Every friend I make is stripped, whether that be by choice or by fate, and it has come to the point to where I have fully given up on trying to make friends.

Just learn to be a positive person, everything will be easier

every time I had a friend my life always went shit, I mean no progression at all... and when something happened, we argued and separated or just moved to somewhere else etc... i realised what i have to do in my life. During friends time a fucking fog took over my brain

Friends/girl friends let you down. I've lost interest in relying on humans. Be by one self.

I just wish I had someone who could talk to me and have fun with me and just be grateful to be with me

When you are all alone you get closer to your purpose in life much faster. When you are more in tune with your true self, You can more easily identify what you want out of this world, and the people you want to be around. I stopped having friends around 23 because I saw that I had nothing to gain from any of it. Partying and and doing stupid shit gets old fast after college, and the nature of life seems to change.

Can I just say, this video is the best video on the internet. I recently lost all of my friends and i can definitely relate to this video. I'm an only child, so I am used to being alone. Having no friends has definitely improved my grades. I spend my time planning for the future, which gives me a feeling of statisfaction. THANK YOU SO MICH FOR THIS VIDEO!!! You have influenced me to be a better and more productive person!

Its ok to be alone. Actually some people are meant to be alone. I am this type of person. I hate arguments and drama. Most relationships no matter what type, are never perfect but I just hate the fact that there is always some type of disagreement. I like being alone now and I feel more confident also. Always feel like people no matter who they are, very judgemental and only care about themselves. Also money comes into factor. Especially if you have more money than that other friend or person they always asking for some and being broke. Got tired of handing out and letting people borrow money. One more thing is friends coming to you about their bad situations that they are having in their life. Most of the times they never listen even though they want your advice, I always notice they do what they want and make their situations worse. On that note, then they come back saying I was in the wrong and that I was the cause of the situation. Ha! As I have went through life and many friends now I trust nobody now. So it is depends on the person. I know one thing God is your friend and yourself.

You go through life with many friends. You get burnt over the years, and your friends get thinned out. You reach a certain age when you make the decision to not have friends, or limit your interaction with them. At the end of the day, is not a bad thing to be alone, it doesn't mean you're lonely, it's the choice you make.

Is there anyone watching this who is 33 almost 34. It seems to me most of these videos are made by younger people. I am alone and it hurts. It hurts so much at times I don't know what my purpose is in this world. I appreciate that people have posted videos. It helps to know I am not alone with this feeling. It's hard when you feel that low to concentrate on anything.