For me, this is one of your best videos out there Andrew. For everyone out there deeply enmeshed in such toxic relationships, I sincerely hope and pray that it does not take you too long to come to the realisation of what has been highlighted here. It is never too late to do the right thing and start the healing process.

Aggrevation, humiliation, disappointment, exhaustion, disgust, embarrassing, pitiable, cruelty, and pure evil.

“The narcissists tiny little pea brain” 😂 Always makes me laugh, thanks Andrew ❤

I'm a bobble head right now. 🎯Yup yup. So true! Yup yup. 🎯 I fell much too easily because I was needy. I loved the love bomb. It was intoxicating. But it was all a lie. It was never love from them, it was 'use then abuse then smear then discard'. I can't be their saviour and I'm ashamed I ever thought they could be mine. Nor will I ever again be their scapegoat, doormat or whipping post. Life's too short to play their mind games. I don't miss the mind games or the heartache and tears for one minute.

The narcissist is the most extremely boring person on the planet @ 12:09 yes especially when they go silent.

After you’re out it’s hard to trust anyone because you also realize that many around you are narcs and I didn’t realize it until after the marriage was over. We’re like Velcro for narcs.

I've learned that being with a narcissist was like an unskippable quest in a role playing game. It was impossible to progress in the game of life without overcoming their challenge.

Sycophants (AKA people pleasers, brown nosers and doormats) are always taken advantage of by narcissists. If a people pleaser (PP) starts saying NO and sets limits, it's perceived as "having an attitude" or "getting revenge." Narcissist target those with low self-esteem. Some PP are raised as children to never say no or that everyone (especially authority figures) can say no except them. PP are preyed upon and their kindness taken for weakness. The narcissist will demand perfection, but no one is. Even if we WERE perfect, the narcissist would hate us for THAT. They will hate you for something; and when you change it, they'll find something else. Harsh, relentless criticism can destroy someone's confidence. You can make sacrifices, work your fingers to the bone, and they STILL don't care. They're never satisfied. We need to set boundaries and say NO to people at work, home and everywhere else. Some people just aren't worth trying to please. Life is better off without them. 💯

Eurythmics: Sweet Dreams are made of this…. Some of of them want to abuse you, some of them want to be abused………..

True never never be enough

Hey Andrew and friends! 🙌🙌❤️🩷💖

The boredom with a narcissist is real. However they project that word onto their supply and they don’t care about your interests, opinions, etc. they want to use you for their benefit. 🌳❤🙏

I didn't know what I was dealing with; fell in love with a demon, and he nearly drained me bone dry; mentally, spiritually and physically. Before I ended it, my life was about to completely crash. I spent decades building my life and was approaching my equilibrium -- he came in with his illusions and manipulation, and nearly burned me down. There is no justice for the pain I'm feeling... and I don't even know if I can heal; I am beyond angry, beyond vengeful -- it's not my money, my house, my mind... he damaged my heart, the core of me. And left a hole that I can't seem to fill with anything... he was pure evil.

If you gave up your whole life, and many here have, it will not be enough. If you became a "zombie slave" , it will mean even less. You will be just a "tool" to be used and discarded when broken. Do not give the narc or any toxic person one more minute of your life. We are NOT slaves, or prisoners, ONLY IN YOUR MIND you are and you can break free at any point in time when you are willing to accept the truth. Free yourself!!! Blessings! ❤

All of the time and energy I wasted… ugh…and he was so boring… never did anything he promised early on…just sat on the couch watching tv and me doing everything… and criticizing it…

Thank you for sharing with us, Andrew! Cheers,

Narcissist are selfish as you rightly put it. When he was sick I was moving up and down taking care of him. When I got sick he left me on the couch almost at the point of death. It's my sisters and brothers who came to my assistance. Ironically Narcissist are always having health issues.

Always provoking; veiled concern. Making jokes at your expense but then saying you have no sense of humour…. Thank you Andrew ❤️

I recall the exact moment, after 24 years of marriage, that I accepted THIS WILL NOT GET BETTER .. and I left. The peace and contentment I now have brings literal tears of happiness to my eyes almost every day. 😊 Leave! Its never going to get better.

When I told the narcissist that I could write a book just on the texts he has sent me, he was shocked that I never deleted any of them. I would show him what he wrote, versus what he says, he has not contacted me in this last week. I feel so empowered!!!! And stronger. This last week for me has been so peaceful. Thank you Andrew for your knowledge and positive encouragement.

Get off their radar...AND their GPS 🤣🙏😅 K Andrew? K? Lol 😂

Man i love your videos. They've helped me get closure that the Narc wouldn't.

I was with a histrionic for two years, which is the "friendlier version" of a narcissist. I was in competition with her every day, every fucking day!

Body count is what she told me

Oh my gosh! Absolutely and painfully true! I have never been nor will ever be enough. I can never do enough either. And to add salt to my wounds... My husband tells me I don't do anything for him. (I just fininished the dishes... his clothes are being washed... then took out the garbage and watered all the plants - thank you little invisable slave fairy!) I also take care of my 90 year old mother who lives in her own apartment at my house. At least she is grateful some of the time. And BTW... the aging narcissist is EVERYTHING Andrew says they/he is!

Yes they certainly are the most boring people, thats because they lack substance, it’s like there is nothing in there, or they have no soul. I havent quite worked it out but there is something missing. My ex lacked presence. We’d go on a family holiday and he’d be there in body but not in spirit. I always felt so alone even though he was with me.

I spent the better part of almost 52 years fighting with my mother about every disrespectful behavior she had towards me (and there were many). Some things she did were crazy including buying my husband and I a house I did not want and when I freaked out about her not even communicating with me/us about it she called me ungrateful, etc. Note: we did not ask for this or need help in this area. The insane things I have seen and dealt with are so freaking beyond crazy....that the phrase, "I couldn't make this shit up" became common. All these years I spent in a silent war with my brother (the golden child) were calculated by my mother. Our entire lives...pit against eachother. So so sad. He had drank so much of her shitty cool aid he is a 50 year old man child that she created to be so co-dependent on her he can't wipe his own ass. I cried and cried month after month trying to figure out why she said "I love you", but it was nevet backed up by her behavior unless I was getting attempted love bombed to which I always declined gracefully. (Which drove her crazy). I realized I idolized her until I was 7 years old and she took me to a psychiatrist as soon as I tried to assert my independence and learned I had my own thoughts and desires I started to articulate. I was adopted by this "thing." I hardly look at her like a person. 2 weeks ago I figured out she is a covert narcissist. I went no contact after a series of horrible behaviors. I feel like a weight is lifted off my back and don't have anxiety every time I see her come up in my phone. I am looking forward to a life without this evil in it. To all who suffer at the hands of these poor excuses for human beings. Free yourself!!!! No guilt!!! Run away as fast as you can. You don't need them. ❤❤❤

They are careless persons but there is one thing that they about and that is supply.they deplete sypply's energy and because narcs are careless people you can't approach their perspective.

"I, I, I, me, me, me" is the same quote I wrote in my journal. When I asked "what about what I want?" He fell silent and looked confused. Be strong x

I think one of the most practical lessons that came out of this for me (in terms of keeping narcissists out of your life in the first place) was: keep your cards very close to your vest. If you have stuff or money or anything of value (vacation home, etc.) do NOT talk about it. Narcissists are always trying to play the game of one-upmanship by bragging about whatever. Whatever you have, really learn to keep that to yourself. Very, very few trusted people are to be let into your business. If narcissists think you are a crashing bore who doesn’t have anything to offer them, awesome. You don’t have anything to offer them. We only now share with people who respect us 🙃

I cant wrap my head around the fact. Of her blaming this on me. Knowingly and still can't accept responsibility for her actions.

No good deed goes unpunished with the narc

The narc NEVER has enough & lives to NARC ON to endless supply! Be Well 🌈🎀😘

"Each and every narcissist relationship has an expiration date." 8:04 🤨

Man you preaching bro. My narc wife is sooooo boring. Even when we were "getting along", it wasn't 💩 to talk about. Watch the same movies over and over. Same music playlist. Sad

Thank you Andrew for your daily support of us all in the community.

GOOD morning Andrew🇫🇷🙏💯once again,, you speak the TRUTH,,, I am on my healing path !! And look foward moving towards more blessings & living my BEST LIFE EVER🙏💯🇫🇷🤗🌿🌿🌱🌱🌿🌿🌿🌿

Thanks, Andrew, you are 100-percent correct. Inconveniencing others and being unappreciative is a great sport for the narcissist.

I swear you are always doing videos on EXACTLY my thoughts for the day!

When it comes to narcissists, there is no middle ground where you can both live and thrive in the relationship. The only way that you can stay in a narc relationship is to agree to always be wrong, to always be responsible, to ignore poor behavior, and constantly take their abuse,while they drain your resources. That is why leaving is the only choice where you leave alive.

Thank you again NARCDAILY 🙏

Thank you Andrew ❤ I totally agree with you.......I realise that I would never be enough.....but more importantly I now know that HE would NEVER BE ENOUGH!! Moving forward is the only way as they are a drain on our emotions and our physical health .

OMG...I had a recollection last night (I'm going through stuff, trying to get organized) and my horrible memory was that while I was in labor with our FIRST child...he kept disappearing...he was off in the hospital snorting coke ...and his mother had packed food for him for our Labor And Delivery...(Tuna salad with raw onions). I was in serious labor when I said, quite civilly of course! "If you keep breathing that onion in my face I'm gonna puke." His response (which I had repressed until last night) was: "Don't you yell at me or I will F%CKing LEAVE you here!!" I should have told him to leave then and there. I hadn't even yelled, although I was in LABOR GIVING HIM HIS FIRST CHILD! I also never screamed during that or the following two births (Gotta be STRONG!!!) but I'm screaming now! Thank you, Andrew...like my shrink said: It's HARD WIRED in him, it's not going to change.

Top of the page in my journal: "NEVER ENOUGH" Her middle name is/was "never enough!" After so many years of never enough; the next _____ is going to even better! she would say, and I've never been a quitter... I gave up the extra effort. Then gave up, period. I "ruined her life" she told me. My grown children now tell me she would say, "So predictable" whatever gift, act, time, card, etc. given. She gave up her children vs saying I'm sorry for anything. 3 no contact, 2 moved away, 1 keeps in touch to supposedly just siphon from her, and play her, because they have our only grandchild.

Too much is never enough for the narc. Narcs are insatiable, they have no self control. Their lusts, cravings, addictions, their incessant need for something new and attention keep them yearning and looking for the new best thing. As Andrew says, even their perfect package of things would never be enough, their need or addiction for the next new thing or conquest keeps their turn over rate churning along. Each new supply is nothing more than a used up paper towel to be discarded and move on to the next one. You are way too valuable to be treated like that, no one deserves that. Once you recognize/identify your narc, get out as safely and quickly as you can. It never gets better, it always gets worse with the narc. ❤️

Great video Andrew!! For a narcissist too much of everything is never enough.... That includes the abuse they inflict upon people. Wishing everyone clarity and peace... ❤

Reinforcement Andrew so vital for me on those reflective days...thank you so very much 🙏💜

Thanks Andrew. Good Day 👍🙂

So very thankful for this channel. The aging narcissist is so seldom discussed, for all the pain suffering and hurt they’ve put us all through it’s encouraging to know that the narcissist will eventually get what is coming to them. They will be left alone for overplaying their hands and juggling multiple sources of supply aka human hearts 😟

Or paid their bills, asking for more, buying things claiming serious need and then finding fault with the purchase, unreal

Ty Andrew ❤💯‼️📣 Jelousy shaped my entire life.

I did wonder why I was so tolerant and forgiving? I think when brought up in a house full of siblings, you fight and argue and in a day you forget all about it till the next drama. There may be a self-healing mechanism that prevents from holding on to negative emotions or you're used to an expectation, "all is forgotten and forgiven by you and that other sibling."You may believe that "normal interaction ( not for all families)" holds with adults. Not so with a Narc, they see you as a pushover to con you. You're right about those 3 types of people and a vicious, cunning Narc won't stop. Namaste.🙏

Thank you 😊❤

I feel like I am reliving my entire 30 year marriage, but this time, knowing why some of these bazaar incidents happened, but that I could never figure out. SO MANY examples of things that happened. Mind blowing!

Hi Andrew, every word is on point 👍👍

Invaluable daily support and encouragement. Thank you. A great start to every day, to go forward and have the best day, post-abuse 🙏🌸

I'm not in contact with any of the narcissists any longer. It's extremly lonely. Today I will go downtown and visit my fav café. I talk to all kinds of people. One day I will meet a nice person.

When you have spent 40 years with one. It can be devastating. But I'm out, and away it's been now 60 days no contact. I get stronger every day. I've made new friends and joined a church,made more friends. I'm going places, and doing things. 😊❤

true

Spot on Andrew! Yes. yes.. yes..!!!!!

".. they have 1 foot in it and 1 foot out of that relationship..". A narcissist relationship is waking up & finding yourself in the middle of a nightmare. Excellent video Andrew 🙌. Packed with wisdom, discernment & truth. You are a most excellent teacher. Love your background 🌳🍃 God bless ☀️ Hey everyone, I am healed. You can do it. Take as much time as needed. You will get there. The longer you are out of the relationship, the more clarity you'll have. Take everything on your heart to God in prayer

No hello in the morning, no texts, letting me come over and watch them smoke pot in a chair, cursing, telling how I ruined their life, day after day. In a trance of feeling so unwanted that I start to cry at work as a physician when someone touches my feelings.

I believe you, Andrew. Saying no to anyone, is by far a super powerful thing im learning the hard way. Thanks for your time

NAMASTE ! ANDREW , complétly right !!!! NEVER enough and it leaves you feelling like : what ? Iam giving even more than you should have expected and still…. Great info. THX

The texting games of the narcissist. Exactly. I finally got the courage to block my ex this year, after YEARS of falling for the texting game. Now I know that he was texting multiple women at all times, and when I thought we were “broken up” another woman probably thought she was “back together” with her boyfriend. It’s a sick game and it’s mind-blowing how deceitful a human can be. They are toxic, envious, hateful energy parasites.

Wow! This resonates so much with my experience with my covert narcissistic mother. I felt we failed her as she suffered mini strokes in old age and her mask started to slip. Caring for her lovingly 24/7 wasn’t enough. She wanted to crucify me. I loved her. She said everything I was doing wasn’t enough (immaculate housecleaning, nutritious meals, foot massages!) She lamented how her life should have been so much better……. ex: “If only I’d had more “music” in my life”. I felt guilty for feeling like I should be doing more to have made her life more fulfilling and happy. My gawd! I forgot to add music!!! How did I forget (or even know??!) she wanted music???? I know I am still traumatized and processing the pain of 55 years trying to please a narcissistic mother, but I had NO idea it only gets worse as they age. 😰😰😰😰

oh and.. I just had another lightbulb moment. tell me if I am wrong or overthinking it.. but I think this is one example of how the narcissist I was in a relationship with would try to have me doubt my abilities or accomplishments: I am a big on the gym and I was making some serious gains.. I brought up my excitement to the narcissist on the phone and he says "oh yeah you definitely made some gains, but don't get any bigger than that". I felt like that he was trying to say that I was on the verge of being too bulky. a truly supportive partner would've said, "wow, great work! that takes some serious dedication". its not like I needed his confirmation on my progress, but it is normal to expect your partner to notice you and support you. who's with me???? :)

He did this constantly! He was certifiable. I was supposed to stop my life for him.

Its time i may never get back. For real, no bandage for the baggage . Tissues for your issues and healings for your feelings are here

Thank you again for my daily confirmation of what I went through. You videos are brilliant 👏 ❤xx

Firstly you do make me smile and chuckle Andrew you're incredibly articulate. The relationship was topsy turvy for sure, the more I tried the more he devalued me...I didn't love him but I cared deeply for him. Bizarre, confusing actually really confusing...... painful and soul destroying. I now know it was HIM !!!👿 Unadulterated evil in front of me.... cesspit of lies and deceit. I'm free and my life is bountiful once more 💜😊

Great video Andrew, thank you❤I remember my ex narc husband could hardly string a sentence together when I'd be speaking to him yet was able to sit online on social platforms for hours at night and weekends or going to work dinners wink wink and I used to wonder what on earth he could speak to these people about when I could hardly get a few words from him - now I fully understand it, he was getting all his supply from them whilst I was raising our 3 daughters and juggling my own career. Life is great when you escape these people and get well on your road to recovering ❤Stay strong guys

Omgosh the texting was SO spot on Monologues from me and I would get Ok in response or 3 days to respond Infuriating 😖 I would complain about his inability to communicate But it wasn’t that He was doing it purposefully 💔☹️

Andrew, I really appreciated this video topic. The amount of work in the narcissistic abuse cycle goes beyond the pale. The work ramps up during the devalue stage. And heaven help us, if we ever sit down for a rest. The narc has an insatiable quest to compete. The narc has fly in a pop bottle energy bursts. Buzz buzz buzzing around and stirring up the energy, in a go go go go go some more, as they start 3 tasks at the same time and do not finish any task. They are moving the goal posts, changing mid stream, in a discombobulated train of thought. They accomplish zero, while people literally run around after them picking up the messes. I used to wonder, how much work can this person get done in their work environment? And more importantly, how much extra work they create for others in the work environment... They have got to be high maintenance employees. I worked tirelessly and to the bone daily on a miriad of tasks. Just being around them is a full time job.

Andrew just wanted to let you know I’m still listening and with you 😊🤗

Even the new supply wont ever be enough. They're constantly bored

THANK You❤😟💚🙏

I agree that narcissist is truly boring, lack imagination and creativity.

Thank you Andrew!!!! 💯🎯

Yep they always have more than one phone

ANDREW KEEP SHINING THE LIGHT ON THESE IMPOSTERS, WHO PROCLAIM TO BE SOMETHING THEY COULD NEVER BE, NO EMPATHY,HATE THEMSELVES NO LOVE, JEALOUS, ENVIOUS,HATERS, IDENTITY THIEVES

Yes..i was never been enough. He had a dozend supplies while we were together... and i knjw now, that he did it also with his former women. Cant understand how someone can look in the mirror every day without any thought of the burned up relationships and hurt women... Im out and healing. Thanks Andrew. You opened my eyes 🙏🏽

You are encouraging

⚠️⚠️⚠️@Andrew They're BLOCKING my internet right now!!! 2 days straight.

"Dirty Fangs! Dirty Fangs! Dirty Fangs!" I got bit so much pain & loss & heartache too much venom. Listen to Andrews wisdom & look for the red flags because they are so deceptive don't get bit& if you have heal in Jesus name

Nothing is ever enough,with my health issues he just gets worse,no patience or compassion for me,but won’t leave me alone either,so I blocked him😎

What a wonderful video. Thank you so much Andrew for making these that heal and help so many regain their footing again. I am so sorry you speak from experience because I hate to think you were hurt like this too. Bless you for helping others!! ❤

You just described my son.

Thank you.

So true at the very beginning I felt and brought it up , why is everything a competition to you I'm here in this relationship to work with you not against you. Ow yes and from the start it was let's start a business together and I always told her it's like you have 1 foot out yet you say I'm not fully invested.. crazy times

1? Step into the ocean of ours is the same , we share water, how we Will see need . Together we share water. 🏝️😋

Thank you

Great stuff

if they can get you in trouble, or arrested, or fired, they will if there's something these clowns are "good at," it would be teaching you that evil is very real, and to hold on to your altruistic self i swear to you they are sent from Satan himself to be a thorn in your side they derive great pleasure watching you fail and not being able to grow into your own life story stay strong people 💪

Thank you Andrew ❤

Omg your so right wth that’s exactly what he said constantly was don’t fall in love and at first I always said what’s love got to do with it but as soon as I did fall I was discharged or discarded. I thought I was the Narsasist why do I feel that way? ❤

You could hand them 67billion in gold bars on a silver platter and they'd raise hell that the plate wasn't gold as well

Bored people 💯 no deep conversations never, just superficial talks. You had funny moments bc you funny. Good conversations bc you put the conversation. And like that all in the relationship, all ia in you bc you have the ability to create that, bc in their part there is nothing on their core. Once you start to heal is a little shameful and insulting how brainwashed we were.

L.A. GUNS > Never Enough 1989. Lyrics take on a whole new meaning when there is personal involvement. This crap has been going on a long long time. But i do believe it has evolved, like society, to a more malevolent nature.

Thank You Andrew. You keep me going XXOO