Wow April i am sad to see these very misunderstanding comments..... Considering your teachings are very accurate to scripture but pleased with ur responses as it really shows u are not just preaching but also acting accordingly. U have been so helpful to me, a control freak 🤣 thank you and love you sister see u in the kingdom of heaven 💖

God Bless, such an important verse @ 5:52 Romans 10: 9 “That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.”

April you have a very gracious manner in which you tell the truth in gentleness, meekness and humility whilst bringing correction. I try to conduct myself in like manner but typing it in a comment my tone and sincerity and love for others may not be apparent but I hope what I am trying to convey helps - it may comfort others who have found it tough going like I have applying biblical principles in relationships and situations and have observed things that have been going on around them. Unfortunately these days because there are so many ‘motivational feel good ear tickling’ messages preached oftentimes people are easily hurt and offended and end up unforgiving, holding grudges and adamant that people have wronged them or been mean to them when in fact the people who are accused of being the villain are actually practicing biblical principles. It is very hard to deal with people Biblically when they have little knowledge of the scriptures and can go to any place that will comfort them in their way of thinking and behaving. Sadly even when we know we have been wronged the Bible is very clear that if we do not forgive others we will not be forgiven. Scripture can sometimes hurt but when it is accepted and submitted to it brings freedom and healing! The saddest thing I find is those that resist sound biblical doctrine or want to continue in the ways of the world and don’t desire to live a repentant humble biblical life - it hurts because it brings division, separation and we mourn them hoping God will do something to shake them up, and cause them to be obedient and love Him and others. Likewise preachers telling people that God will give them the desires of their heart like the husband of their dreams, money, success, health and the pleasures and luxuries in this life, free of pain, suffering and hardship can cause people to misunderstand God or be resentful at Him when they don’t get what they want. The Holy Spirit is given so we can do His good will not so we can have our will made a reality. If only we all spent more time being considerate of others wanting to bless them and do good to them, cautious and mindful of our own behaviour as to not cause harm to others, instead of focusing on how others have wronged us or how we are a victim we would be more content, satisfied, joyous and peaceful!

Very simple, but very thought provoking. Thank you. This made me think.

God bless you April - it is so true that we must subdue our tendencies to hold grudges or fall into the trap of justifying ‘victim mode’. This is really tricky when you have actually been wronged or the only one who gives gives gives and others just take and make excuses. So often we are quick to analyse what others do or did wrong ignorant to how we contributed to the outcome or what happened- the Lord has shown me how I have contributed in situations. Often people who have wronged me come to mind and it’s easy to give it airplay by talking about it or entertaining it in my mind - sometimes I manage to fight it off by asking the Lord to forgive them, to help me forgive them, for the Lord to bless them and if possible I do something to bless them. I find the best days are days that I am listening to the Bible on audio, scripture songs or hymns because they keep me more focused on scripture and talking about the scripture - especially Old Testament because it brings healthy conversations about things we may of not noticed or things we are still trying to understand. Or we sing along to the hymns or scripture songs and talk about lovely things like the hymn histories or Davids beautiful relationship with the Lord , I want to love and understand God like he did! However if we haven’t truely let something go scripture can still bring the problem up because that person/people may be described in those verses. It’s hard but I pray for the Lord to help me have a loving and forgiving heart. Only He can change me and give me the strength to love those who hurt me or others. Widows overseas in persecuted nations are such a glorious testimony of saints who are wronged yet love and forgive men who have killed their husbands or family members and done all kinds of evil to them. They forgive and pray for their enemies to be saved. Imagine those evil men forgiven and changed by God? If they used the energy and zeal they use for evil for God’s kingdom instead to evangelise, witness and labour for the lost how wonderful would that be? I think that for those that have been so ignorant in my life or who have wronged me - I hope God will open their eyes and they will see how they let down and hurt others so they repent and start being considerate of others and live to serve the Lord and the brethren instead of being so self-focused. Grace yields so much more than punishment - how wise our Lord’s ways are! Lets pray those who do evil or are ignorant are given the grace to see how they cause harm and the grace to change and glorify our beautiful Lord and Saviour in heaven! Sending much love and many blessings to you dear April, your family and anyone that reads this comment ((warm hugs))

Oh! The timing of this! I know some things people do are not intentional, but I feel so hurt everytime I'm left out, specially when I'm not appreciated by people I love and care about so much, and by the church.... I've been exploding about it these last days, it does feel good to reclaim one's right to be taken into account, but at what cost? I don't know yet... I don't know how to get hold of my emotions anymore, I just want to let out all this accumulated frustration over everyone who caused it.

Not sure about these very negative messages but I feel April is on track with scripture in male female responsibility to Glorify God and give Grace to our spouses.

Guilty gulilty guilty. I am so sorry Lord. I have just realised yesterday that my righteousness is not righteousness at all. Only God sees everything in its true continuum. So I am actually out of line when I try to combat people who wronged me. And actually I find it a blessing now, because they are forcing me to die to expectations and to my flesh. Which makes it possible to live in Christ. My focus should be on the Lord and whether or not I am doing his will. Not trying to correct other peoples wrongs. There is one lawgiver, who is able to save and to destroy: who art thou that judgest another? James 4:12.

April....I have listened to your videos on a controlling wife, my wife is at that place now. It's breaking my heart and destroying our marriage. What can I do as a husband to understand her control issues. We have been to multiple counselors and she continually gaslights and blames me. I am ready to give up.

This is so sad. Please check in to a behavioral health facility. You are out of your freaking mind.

I’m sorry but your videos are so concerning to me. I just came from the one where you said it was a sin to say no to sex with your husband. Consent is so important and those kinds of messages are extremely dangerous.