Aw thank you, I’m glad you enjoy and can relate to the video! You’re welcome for making it, I like to be open and (hopefully) help people who are looking for answers

It’s always interesting to look back and understand experiences that we didn’t understand at the time (like you crying over the book about a lesbian breaking up with her boyfriend) It can be very relieving to finally be like “oh that makes sense now.” That’s so funny about your mom thinking you were gay 🤣

You’re welcome! I definitely agree, I always see videos about how HRT changes the body, but at least for me, HRT has affected my brain and my emotions much more than my outward appearance. I’m glad you enjoyed ☺️

That’s awesome! I’m glad transitioning has helped you to be able to understand yourself more and expand your horizons and interests when it comes to sex. And I love that you used to write stories about gay guys, that’s awesome! I’m sorry you feel like you missed out on having a lesbian relationship. I felt like that a lot once I started learning about my sexuality after transitioning. I hope you get to experience it some day (if your husband/partner is ok with you exploring that)

Aw thank you! 😊

That’s really wonderful that my emotions are able to reflect a part of you, even if we also differ in ways. That’s the main reason I started making videos-for connection. I’m really glad my videos are relatable and also enjoyable. 💛

Aw thank you!! 🥺💛 I definitely have figured out I am *very* sapphic. And before transitioning being sexually attracted to women just felt icky. But I’ve definitely come to a much better place now in understanding my sexuality (I’m confident/comfortable with the term bisexual). And I know what you mean about feeling dysphoric around a romantic/sexual setting with a straight person. It can make you feel like you’re put in a box, or *should* conform to the box in order to be found attractive. Thank you for reaching out (and for calling me stunning 😭💛)

Thank you!!

That’s awesome, glad I can help!

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Thank you I have definitely found happiness 💛

I'm really happy for you !

Aw good ☺️

Glad you could relate!! I remember when I first saw Titanic I kept wishing that Jack was a girl, that just made a lot more sense to me 😅

Aww! I’m glad you resonated with me! That’s such a great feeling. And thank you, I feel flattered 💛

@@brynavery Thanks. I already love you lots 💓 🤗. I'm also looking to get on a lowish dose of hrt, looking into how to get started. You were they last straw the convinced me. The only issue for me is I wanna make sure to not f my reproductive system I still want kids, rare case I think.

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On the run, answering so I remember this thread: Same here, I also align with the idea of being a lesbian, because I want to move more towards femininity while still identifying myself as Non-binary. Remember that NB people can still choose to be masculine or feminine presenting and androginy is not the requirement to identify the way you feel comfortable with. The lesbian question is a tough one tho, but most people I know kind of engineer the answer for themselves. NB genderfluid feminine presenting and being attracted to femininity is my answer for myself, but it might be different for yourself. I will probably use estrogen hrt, but I'll try to contact a therapist first to solve other matters, because sometimes the greater problems seem to hide themselves and transitions sounding like new beginnings can sometimes sound just too good to be true. That's just me tho :p

If you feel like you need HRT, I say go for it. There’s no “rules” for how you decide to transition (or not transition). There’s many non-binary people (both AMAB & AFAB) who like women. And I promise you’re not a fraud 😊 best of luck to you and if you ever need to talk you’re welcome to message me on Instagram or comment more on here 💛

I definitely agree. It’s hard to find terms that “officially” refer to non-binary people, being that we live in a very binary centric world/society. So it’s definitely up for interpretation and your own personal feelings about what titles or identities feel the most authentic. I wish you the best and you’re always welcome to direct message me if you’d like 💛

I'm AMAB and have been on HRT for a year and a half now, and have always been interested in women (and once I knew they existed, some nonbinary people). HRT has been the best thing for me, my body and brain both definitely function better now than they did on testosterone, and I'm becoming even more sapphic. I tend to describe myself as non-binary and/or trans-femme, and as sapphic, because both of those feel accurate without being as restrictive as some other descriptors I've tried.

I totally get that, I tend to gravitate towards lesbians even before they’ve ever come out to me or made their sexuality known. I really do believe that all different types of people hold different types of energies.

Always love to hear that 💛

Aw thank you! 💛

You are sooo cool!

@@michaellawrence6696 thank you!! 💛

I haven’t had any voice training, besides practicing a bit on my own (not often tho). Your comment made me smile, many times I feel like my voice is too low/sounds masculine so that seriously made me so happy. Thank you 🥺💛

I can’t find your original comment, but I’m sure it didn’t offend me. I try to educate so I try to make sure people understand, so I tend to be very direct. Sometimes that comes across as angry or rude so if that’s what happened, my apologies. And thank you for clarifying 💛

I’m flattered 💛

Me too duuude

@Ivee it was @ the person who made the original comment and I view the word as gender neutral, that is only to say I had no bad intentions, cause I know some people don’t like the word still

hey, thanks for clarifying. "dude" is a tricky word for me, but in this case, I don't mind it. three years later, I've gone from transfem enby to just transfem and my transition is going great. 💖 (Bryn still looks hot.) hope you're in a good place as well. much love.

Thank you!

So before going on HRT (hormone replacement therapy), I was attracted to men and not women. Once I started HRT I began being attracted to women as well as men. Looking back I definitely was attracted to women, but because of my gender dysphoria, I was unable to understand that (ie, the thought of being with a woman in any physical/sexual/romantic capacity made me feel incredibly manly, so I was unable to connect to that type of attraction). Since starting HRT (about 6 years ago) my Dysphoria has lessened, thus allowing me to connect with the attraction I feel towards women. I recently had bottom surgery (about 6 months ago), and that’s helped me feel even less dysphoric as well. As far as attraction not changing with transition, it honestly depends on the person. Honestly, most trans people I know have had sexuality shifts since beginning their transition. I have a family member who was a straight man before transitioning, and now she’s a straight woman-complete 180. I also have a friend who once identified as a lesbian, and since transitioning is now a gay man. But there’s also lots of people who I know that have transitioned who’s orientation hasn’t changed. It all just depends on the person I think. Hope that helped!

@@brynavery Thank you for your kind response. Yes that helped a lot.

@@originalThePlague yay! I’m glad 😊

Lmfaooo I’ve been working on that

heya, just saw your comment and wanted to say that it's prolly not a super great thing to say to trans folks. Might be different for some people but I know a lot of people (myself included) who wouldn't take it that positively and wanted to hopefully help educate you on that if it's something you didn't already know XD

Erikkan Farraige I am sorry if this came across wrong in any way. I also want you to know that if this wasn’t a public video I would never have mentioned it. I wouldn’t say it to someone. I know that sounds ignorant and I appreciate you educating me. I like to think of myself as an ally, but we all need to start somewhere. I have a trans friend and maybe because I know him (ftm) so well it’s different and he doesn’t get offended as he knows me. But would be different if it was anyone else. Anyway. Please accept my apologies. I thought I was paying a genuine compliment x

@@sally8432 Thank you for hearing what I said and being super chill, I'm sure your friend is lucky to have you as an ally

Erikkan Farraige thank you for being a continuous educator. I appreciate it. I never want to upset anyone x

Not meant to sound sarcastic

Thank you!

Hopefully that’s a good thing lol 😅

@@brynavery she passed away :/

@@theDrzhivargo Awe I’m sorry to hear that 💛

@@brynavery no prob, she drank alot of energy drinks