The look on his face at the end was like, "...Where am I gonna stay now?"

He is using her, and she is just smiling about everything.

I am strongly against any single mother introducing her kids to a man that she has not known for at least a little over a year.... We have too many children these days dying at the hands of their mother's boyfriend because they think a new boyfriend equals new babysitter

Can't stand a grown ass boy that doesn't work. Then doesn't do any work around the house. No license is no excuse. CATCH THE BUS BRO

ladies, it is completely ok to be single.....don't settle for a thing like this.... please learn to love yourself FIRST...BEOFRE you just get with anyone.

Dude is using her for a place to stay.

Being from the DMV and knowing Alexandria, there is no way in the world this dude could not get around and get a job. There is public transportation all over Alexandria. This dude is using her because he knows she has low self-esteem and is in a tough position having children at a young age.

He was looking for a move in special not a relationship. Get him gone!

it's always a quick connection when they other person has their own place

I wish a grown ass man who don't work, cook, clean, have a car or any motivation would try to go thru MY phone lol

How could it ever be a good decision to move a man, with no job and who you haven't known for too long, into your home with your two kids? They both just make bad decisions. These two have got to get it together. Those kids will have a rough life with two goofy people as their legal guardians.

Judge Toler is so on point!....she always has a wealth of wisdom to share that goes well beyond the situation presented to her. That's why I like this show so much!....Not only do I learn from the couples on the show, but I feel like the words of wisdom she shares with the couples are words of wisdom I can apply to my own life.

Wait, she moved in an unemployed man to live with her and her kids after 3 months? And he sits at home, plays games, doesn’t cook/clean, and then she chauffeurs him around town when she gets off work? Whew, chile. And we are supposed to feel bad that we are single? Ok.

Many people appearing on this show have fiances or spouses that are bums, gold diggers, and over all nasty people. I often wonder how THEY are able to be in a relationship and here I am single. Then again, going back to my first observation I am single because I actually have standards. I don't have kids, I work in a lucrative field, and I enjoy my life. Being single is not so bad after all...

One thing I've learned from life, some people really do not want to be alone, real talk.

He's just PIMPING her and she don't even REALIZE it.

He don't have a high sex drive, he don't have a job and have a lot of energy.

His 30 second sales job should of been girl I just need a place to stay

The blonde woman behind her be judging so hard!

When judge Lynn starts preaching the hair on my pores raises

she woke up!!! praise Moses she woke up!!!

Im so glad the judge told her this man was using her. How she could not see that, i will never understand.

16 seconds in and this is a mess. She had two kids by the age of 17 and almost married a convict. Let's hope it gets better. It can't get any worst, I guess.

I've know all about that situation , I'm very grateful the young lady put the stop 🛑 on that one sided situation . If she stayed his behavior WILL get even more worse.

He wasn't in love that bum was looking for a home

Why can we never say women? Why is it always females? Like let's practice it "women".

THIS IS WHO TLC WAS TALKIN BOUT.

I need mothers to stop moving these men in their house with their children without knowing them after days and months. Stop being selfish and think of your kid's safety

Judge is so beautiful and intelligent. To everyone reading this message have a great, safe and productive life blessings

I love judge Lynn Toler. This was one of the best advice ahe has given. Many of us needed to know that.

dude needs to quit being jealous of the guys that she text and go get a job so she can send him lingerie pictures while he's working

This is the man you want to raise your children

Broke dudes fall in love the fastest. Lol...Talking about he connected good with her, nah dude you was broke and needed a place to stay.

Two kids at 17? How do these girls pull that off. My dad will roast and/or skin me alive should I do so.

Every Divorce Court is starting to be the same show with the man not working can we find some new material please?

Thank you Judge for speaking some truth to this young lady . I get it she’s young but she deserves better get a guy that’s going somewhere in life. And it’s also ok to be single and work on ur self too. He brings NOTHING to the table

i can name 5 things wrong w her that she couldnt think of on her compatibility test. 1) too trustworthy of men (i.e gives her heart to the wrong guys) and still hasnt learned not to 2) no self respect 3) subjects her children to men she doesnt thoroughly know who could possibly emotionally, sexually or physically harm them 4) an enabler 5) a pushover in relationships while allowing herself to be taken for granted. DUH

If she's 23 then I'm a teenager.

I love when Judge Toler highlights the elephant in the room. These no good BOYS! How you ain’t working and ain’t doing shit in the house🤦🏾‍♀️? How do you feel comfortable just being so lousy as a man? I swear I will raise my son different!

He is lying to you! He doesn't love you! And he is using you! what part of that don't you understand?! where is your pride and dignity?! you need to love yourself first!

The cheating is the straw that broke the camel's back? ....welp, at least something did...smh

He was over there looking so crazy at the end. He know he using that lady!!

The number of men who come on this show complaining that their wife isn't doing enough housework is astounding, but he "sometimes" does it...

Man she went in on her! She needed to hear that.

First kid at fifteen, second kid at seventeen? She must've been one of the "popular" girls at school.

this stuff is too much for me, I feel sorry for her she doesn't know better being a young mom u jus want someone to love u but she's doin it all wrong. Go get counseling and help your children become great independent adults who wouldn't need to rely on ppl and leach off anyone. Only Jesus can help this broken heart.

I. love. judge. toler

Tyler thank you for coming o this show. Do not marry him.

She's adorable,...and I love the way her voice sounds lol

Wow she has zero self awareness. Who claims there's absolutely nothing wrong with them? And the guy is a user yes.

As a female Tyler I always get excited when I see other women with my name. :)

What is up with these women moving these no good men into their homes? Can’t they find somebody that at least has his own place to stay?

That woman deserves better, she's come a long way! I feel sorry for the brother, he seems nice, not many men will come clean the way he did! And that woman he slept with left her thongs intentionally, the guy just aint so smart!

I know DC is designed to maximize drama, but booking couples where the man (especially black men) is not working is really getting old.

Gilbert v Simmons: I bet he has no fingerprints from all that friction from the action of his palm 🤣

I can tell that she is not going to leave him though

She reminds me of Teena Marie.

He is homeless, jobless and lazy but cheating is the deal breaker... smdh

Well she said she wanted a "bad boy" and thats what she got.

I'm sorry for this young lady, noone had to tell her it was a mistake to even have the thought of marriage cross her mind. This young man don't have a heart man. He's playing on her self esteem issue, he sees it an he talking advantage of that ,cause she don't even realize that she actually have a self esteem and self worth issues. Someone should find this young lady and be a mentor for her. She need some help, and she need some good counseling. She don't deserve to be taken advantage of like that.😔😔

Strong connection? Is this WIFI?

23??? where?!

How in the world is this woman 23?. People on here look much older than their age

LMAO the looks on the judge and audience faces when she started with we have sex for 4 hours was hillarious.

I can't wrap my brain around this one. I don't understand how a man or woman who chooses to live off another person can actually have the NERVE to cheat on them in their own house?! To the women out there who love dealing with bad boys, this is what you are going to get. I hope it's worth it lol.

Run Girl!! He is trying to give you child #4 since he is child #3

He's jealous of her having male friends yet he's the one cheating? Make it make sense.

Didn't she say he just came out of prison? That's all that's needed before one runs 🏃‍♀️

Also, see how bad things happen and kids get abused... why after knowing a man for 3 months do you move him in to be with your kids all day while you work!? 🤔What the hell?

Treat u like a man? When u start acting like one 🙄

He moved in with her cause he needed a place to stay. I ain’t moving nobody in that soon. If you can’t pass the 2 year mark of being independent? Then thank u, NEXT! And had the nerve to sleep with someone else in her house and lie about the thong. Smdh, Adult Toys are out there for a reason. Use em and keep the kitty to yourself til a real man comes along, my dear

Judge Lynn got biological on her exit LOL

🤣🤣🤣🤣 She is so happy to say she have a man WTF I can do bad by myself I don't feel sorry for her

That's why you don't date people that don't have something going for themselves they dont value the hardwork you put in to get something so they destroy it. Like he did with her car 🤷🏾‍♀️

she's 23? wow

"He is more like my 3rd child". Red light right there! Stop the bus, get off and run for your life!!!!

With all the negatives, most women only heard that they have sex for 4 hours. That changes many minds about who he is

I absolutely do not understand! Ladies is okay to be alone. Why settle for stuff like this just to have a man?? This dude is sorry as hell. I got a dui 10 years ago I didn’t lose my job but my license was suspended. What did I do? Got a cab or got on the bus to get to work !! And the bus ride in my city is LONG. There no excuse. And tbh with just one misdemeanor dui, you can’t find employment. Maybe not what he was doing or a driving job other than that one dui does not ruin your life. He’s just lazy

Lady, flee and don't look back

He's just saying what sounds good

I have been waiting for lynn to tear up someone's certificate and it happened! Wow.. this series was so dramatic..

In her bed in her house you let a next woman in and she out working. She ad such a beautiful smile ☺ good luck to her and I hope she found love and pain her ♥ heart. I remember a male friend said to me after being abused 'learn to love myself first before I love any man"

Like, how does she, like, say having a kid at, like 15, then like, having another at, like 17, prove she's, like, getting her, like, life together?

Getting together so soon and quick does no matter but it's all about how you control and responds on ones behavioral ways of life and how much you value and care for each other feelings, ie learning more and don't go emotional ones you realized certain things you're not sure of; Tyler is such a loving caring beautiful lady but this dud seems he is not serious at all.

How can you be angry at your man for having the last time rendezvous with an ex-girlfriend when you're sending pictures of yourself half naked? There's no loyalty on either one of you . Be more careful who you bring around your children ladies please.

"Hi! My name is Antonio! I'm going to end my engagement in dramatic fashion on national television... and I deserve to get put out on the street as soon as we get home." Wow. Knew all along whose thong it was, lied through his teeth about it, and tried to make her the bad person for it. And took advantage of her generosity to mooch on her couch for a whole year 'waiting to get his license back' instead of asking her for enough to get a bus pass until his paychecks can cover them. I feel bad for Tyler, because like the judge summarized, something has been missing in her life for a long time and she's making decisions from lust and hope instead of sound judgment. Tyler, go it alone for a while - and that includes those "male friends" too.

RUN MS GILBERT!!!

Jesus take the wheel!!!

I wish I could talk to this young lady. I feel like Judge Toler. I'd love to have her here and talk to her. Her first step is getting rid of this dude. Not making that love proclamation was the best thing in her seeing the truth in how he really is and always will be. She can find me on Facebook with my username.

She's still a baby and needs some good guidance. Needs to take time out for herself to find herself, boost her self-esteem and know she's worth it and deserves so much better. Write down what you want and know you deserve in a man.

I sure hope she keeps walking. She doesn’t need him as much as she thought she did. He’s a freeloading, cheating loser.

Hats off to the judge. She gave the man some feedback on how he is holding together the home. However I wonder in this day and age that a woman that wants to keep house and kids is okay but a man wanting the same is somehow worthless? When women earn more degrees and make just as much as men?

just sad ,just sad smdh ,hes nothing but a user

If your partner can't have friends of the gender they are attracted to, you shouldn't be together. Trust is number 1. They should be able to talk to and see whoever and you should be secure that they're trust worthy

yeah...Judge cannot take her seriously...because..she don't take herself seriously...I would show him the door....>>>>>>>>

I had a baby young and that got my life together, AKA, having another baby before 18 and the second baby daddy goes to jail. Shit if she has her life together, how fuckin good are we all doing? Lmao

She gave you 6 reasons for why he's a scrub. TLC made a song about "Scrubs". She needs to listen to that song on repeat.

She looks 50.

Why do some women meet men and move them in with their kids, go to work for hours??? What do she like, love so much about him?? He has to much time on his hands, she expects nothing from him. She literally have a third child.

All I had to see was 29 and unemployed. I was done then! Lol