Kev Hick Talks Guys with Girls . Great that u inform the younger and/ or unknown ppl. Please, young boys and girls protect yourself. Don’t think that self protection is the job of the other person u slept with- it’s your very own responsibility for yourself!!!!

Get tested together or show him your paper work that you got tested I got receipts📝

Wtf is going is going on ? Theres a guy who I know for years, there was always some chemistry going on between us, but I kept him as a friend, bc he is a player. (good looking-sucessful-selfmade) two years ago I went out in a bar. this bar owns his mum, I saw him & I felt in love so strong. Since then we are more in contact but we are not seeing eachother so often. last time I could spend time with him was last summer when he took me to italy with him on vacay for 3 days. We had sex for the first & last time. after italy he gosted me for 4months. then this januar came back, again texting & calling wanting to see me. I said to him, we can have sex but I also want an relationship, a marriage, kids. (he is 26 & I‘m 33). he said he doesnt want a relationship. I think thats the reason why I‘m avoiding to see him. He clearly said to me he dont want a rp! I know he would break me completly if I slept with him & then he gost me. That would be horrible for my mental health I know this feeling already. It hurts that a person I‘m knowing for so long, I couldnt get him to commit. Three days ago I texted him I have no time to see him bc I‘m busy working. So he asked me for a nude picture. I sent him one but I have a towel over my body. After the picture he was good and I heard nothing from him since then. I decided to go out in the bar of his mum with friends. I even brought his mum a little flower as a gift. (I felt somehow akward after giving it to her, because her son was IGNORING ME COMPLETLY the whole night OMG !!! He is hiding me like he is ambarresd of me or something omg!! the same guy who is texting me for weeks wanting to see me, ignored me yesterday completly !! what the fuck is going on??? I feel terrible 😰

Cindy Lou What does it mean when he blocks me after we had sex?! We are in contact for months over the phone. He reached out to me first (I know him for years) & after we had sex he was gone... don‘t even stayed over this night !!! But huged me and kissed me like he love me. He does this every time to me & break me again & again... even told me he is moving to another country... I was like omg what ?!

Anastasija Beograd What does it mean? Girl drop his ass. That’s what time it is. Date someone else that values you.

Same

I don't make eye contact with single mothers.

Same

Same

@@shonuffizhere5670 😂😂

I hope you have a long, happy life with him! Congratulations ☺️

@@austind4301 Thank you.

Well done 👏I'm happy for you

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@Night Shade hi haha

Exactly! All of the requirements, all of the compromises are assigned to the partner with less/no baggage. Boundaries and respect are important from all sides for all sides. Can’t all be about one person and respect for them, boundaries for them when there are two people in the relationship.

Good point!

Agreed!

Excellent point

you have the room to leave tho… they bm & bd don’t. your respect goes a long way.

When people are older, it's pretty much impossible to meet anyone single who doesn't have children.

@@maryamkim1281 unless they have grown kids.

Facts

Maryam Kim yep

Facts especially if he has more than one that’s a damn hell no

Eternity With Christ not even 2 lol

THANK YOU. Tired of all the bull shit comments here this was refreshing!

@@goosekevin Butthurt much ?

Beautiful

@Chats With Flo, I'm curious... How did you feel for the past 29 years? How did he treat you, his ex, his children?

@@lai8986 same here. I am the one who believe that it could eventually work out with more understanding, respect, and patience.

@@Chasmaria exactly

@Eternity With Christ im not going to risk another 20 years finding that out

No one wants to be second best in a relationship.

@@MelaniaRose true that

Chas son too.. I used to laugh at my dads fiancé because she would beg for his attention and he flat out told her we come first I laughed in her face..I use to do little petty things to let her know that he’ll never love her like he loves me... kids are ruthless 😂

They use their kids for cover ups

Smfh! Men!

Well shoot☹️ im Sorry hun. Glad you left him! Domt let this experience be traumatic but fuel and motivation- knowing that YOU deserve better & that you trust NO MAN

@@BeautyMarkBeautyMark Worse some make the non mom take care of the children, while they are out having fun. So people are peaces of Sh....

Lots of it

Hey Miya, totally applaud you for being selective, but don't get it twisted, a 30 year old woman and 40 plus don't want to always date a man with kids either. We just as equally want the same freedom. Age has nothing to do with it, it is about the individual.

As you should! I tell my young friend that all the time. Kids come first and being as young as you are, she will never understand that. Be selfish and think about yourself, it’s your right as a young woman. As a older woman with kids, I would want them to come with their own kids. Kids for me means that they understand that you have priorities that don’t include them.

I'm 34 with no kids and want none of my own and I want a man with no kids. Or have grown kids that I don't have to deal with like that.

I’m 20 and I agree with you

Rhoda Warren I have a friend that’s seems to always date dudes with kids and she knows what that comes with but now she’s with an ex that cheated on her before and he also cheated on his pregnant girlfriend at the time 🙄 and he’s also a known fuckboy but some drama happened last month and she thought his baby mom was behind it and my friend was saying “ she can be mad all she wants she has to deal with me” I’m just sitting there like well actually you have to deal with her I’m like just stop the dumb petty shit

You dodged a bullet!

Your amazing lady I want to be like you !

@Fola A Didn't mean we'd be best friends but just introduce and talk to her out of respect since I would be around her son.

That grown boy wanted a human teddy bear and a surrogate mother

@@reashabiggs2236 😂😂😂😂😂Yassss he did!

@Eternity With Christ A man should put his children first. Im saying it's not compatible with a single woman WITHOUT children or vise versa.

Yes I broke up with my ex yesterday because of his kids

Eternity With Christ Baby mommas don’t care about you, they are selfish and vindictive and could care less if they destroy you’re relationship. Childless women are better off without baby daddies.

Watching All of Us reaffirmed this lol. Niecey was always around lol

yes!!!! Absolutely no way. Baby mother and a one year old baby?? No thank you

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Me too..I’m 24

I’m living this now and he knows I’m out and is trying all types of crap to keep me.

Today I decided I’m not going back. Babysat his bad kid today and I’m done. Very entitled man.. won’t take me anywhere or show intimacy.. claims because he doesn’t want his kid to see it.. but wants me to babysit and make dinner 😂😂 never seeing me again

Exactly

bigjayking24 cool

bigjayking24 that is because you are in your 30s hun, if you reread the comment you might understand what she said 🤔

@bigjayking24 Would dating a woman with a child be your preference though? We'll use an example of 2 women you like equally in looks and personality (1 with a child and one without). Some people aren't so opposed to the idea simply because they know it's common especially after 30,but if they could choose, they'd say no.

I am in my 20s, I don’t have any children, and I wouldn’t date anyone with kids. However, if I ever become single again and I am 30 plus I would consider it.

@bigjayking24 Okay I see your point. I'd rather not date a man with children, but in your 30's maybe 60% of the time men have children or the ones who don't are immature or looking for perfection. I guess if it's meant to be the Lord will make it happen even if it's not what you thought of as the ideal situation.

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Yes especially if they are responsible and loving.

Thinking the same thing as you

You are better than me ma’am lol

I refuse to settle for single fathers! Nope! I'd rather die alone!

So many excuses

I think it’s ok if you may not want kids. But I agree

Everyone is different. Some people cannot have kids..

That is facts.

Yes

Where are they?

@@naimatabernuro9945 Not on your sight. You don't see them because they don't exist in your mind. You only like rubbish men.

@@kitamiwoome9349 😂😂😂😂

@@naimatabernuro9945 laugh away

Some women like rubbish men and don't like good men and complain that there are no decent men around.

I agree

But he’ll never love YOU, that’s the point. His ex got put first, treated like the love of his life, etc. and you’ll only ever be second-best trash to him. Look at all the testimonials of women who’ve been through this situation, it’s always the same story, almost verbatim

@@austind4301 Whatever you'll look for you'll find. Just like you found the audacity to speak confidently on behalf of millions of people.

@@AC-we4xx lmao, millions of second divorces, broken families, and women with ptsd from dealing with you dysfunctional, sociopathic single parents. Talk about fucking audacity, you fuckers use childless people.

@@austind4301 Surprise, I am the childless people

OMG I love you Sarah. Yes. Thank you. I just had something end and he always acted like that and gave those excuses. He gave off so much drama that didn't need to be. I was way more flexible and accommodating than I should have been given all the excuses. Didn't realize some men would use it as way to get what they wanted without being more serious or involved

Yup, it happened to me, I was respectful and supportive of him with his teen daughters , 3.5 years patiently wait for them to accept me and our relationship, even we got married, he still want hide from them , act like we did anything wrong by be together, I sacrificed myself and my happiness for them, so what, they cast me out and bullied my young daughter who eager to please them, Those entitled kids, judgement society against step parents, men put his new wife as secondary thoughts, this video is so one side of it!

So true

Fair enough I feel the same way. It’s not impossible to find someone who feels the same as you.

Tell me about it. This guy I was talking to told me that him and his baby mama is not in a relationship and I go to her IG page and they are literally in pictures together on a “baecation” less than a month ago. NEXT.

Would you ever consider dating outside of your race then?

I SECOND this sis ... this is why I'm struggling.

Exactly, and teenage girls can make your life hell

🗣Ain’t no other bitch finna be running my man and accessing him whenever she wants cause they share a child! Fuk that scene!

Well said! 🙌🏽

Right!! 🚩 🚩 🚩

Very weird and uncanny

That is a HUGE Red flag issue! This type of example man will Never be present nor provide for you and any kids you have with him in future! Dont mess your life up with sick men like this ladies. Peace

You ma'am speak the truth! Well said 👏

yes girl you did the right thang

Yessss some men with kids are needy asf like what can I benefit from this relationship?

I agree bravo 👏

When people are older, it's nearly impossible not to meet other single people who don't have children.

True maybe I should create a dating website for people who don't have children and see how many people sign up

@@maryamkim1281 agrees. I'm 39 and men my age has children and grandchildren🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

Bree Wright yep!!

Maryam Kim just date someone younger 😂

Mm Hmm I just commented about the time spent with his children. Very true indeed.

Thank you 🙏🏾 sis

Amen amen.

Sounds about right but alot of men r having children now unfortunately majority have annoying bms who r greedy n selfish...some single father's ended up with single mothers who r just as selfish like the bm

dominique browne I’m speaking from experience, but I don’t disagree, there has been a rise of this generation of adults with kids, but not enough that you should settle. If dating a single father isn’t an issue for you, go right ahead. But the moment you have even the slightest of inkling that you’re not about that life. Bounce or you will be kicking yourself when you have his baby and either him or the BM start tripping. ❤️

Preferably a multi millionaire or billionaire who not afraid to drop his cash on me that’s the only time it’ll be worth it.

@@jacubtscorpio5084 same

Same.

Exactly me too xxx

That part!! People really don't consider that either.

Same!!!! I know what you’re talking about because I grew up with half siblings I don’t even have a full sibling

@@aylanae4797 yes and this goes for men and women too cause I know a lot of women with 3-6 baby dads and same with men and they see nothing wrong with that

Are you still in this relationship? I have a mad feeling you are not?

That's manageable.

Lucky

SOOOOO lucky ... if only that was my situation right now but instead I had to leave.

@@veeoby3364 I'm even cool with the mother. It's all good.

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Grown children can be problematic too though. Like if you're dealing with someone who has a grown child who lives at home and still doesn't work even though they're over 25 and there's nothing preventing them from having a job. No thanks.

@@bealivebefree9136 I fully agree that grown kids can be problematic too, but you could deal with a grown child that was not financially dependent on their Dad due to age and living out of the home. As I would not be that woman dealing with someone, that had a grown child at home that was unemployed.

I'm 43, and don't want to deal with that co parent mess. My daughter is 19, away at college. And I aint trying to start over with somebody else's kids.

I'm 42 and my boyfriend is 29 and has no children....your standards should go up as you age, not down.

Well said!

@@aishahwilliams378 thanks

I wouldn't even bother with single fathers. Especially if you're childless. Why settle for another woman's left overs? And put time and effort into her kids? Nope! No childless woman with sense and self respect should get with single fathers!!! But some do and it makes me wonder why? Why? Settle for these men who've messed up in life and they truly have, and who've experienced what you haven't e.g.having kids? But guess I've got too much self respect settle for single fathers!

Damn that is smooth asf🥰💯

Most childless women with self respect and intelligence know not to get involved with single fathers. We definitely can't control who we fall in love with but you can use your intelligence and common sense and not date them! Single fathers=misery no childless woman deserves. Avoid single fathers!!!run 🏃away 🏃

It's usually assumed you'll run into issues with the child's mom, but him putting the children over you is a serious thing people don't seem to talk about much. I always hated it even though I understood his main loyalty belongs to them. It'll mess with you especially if your love language is quality time.

Ms. Perfectly Ms. Perfectly Imperfect Righttttt exactly... have no time 👎🏽 Never again...

Learn from that mistake girl. Do not let that happen again! Experience is the best teacher!

I've been there myself!

I'm 39 and still come across men without any kids

Exactly...

Nothing wrong with having those preferences. I have an adult daughter. And I don't want anyone with young kids. I done raised my child.

@@melaniegriffin78 We are in the same boat! I’ve raised my daughter (23), house to myself and baby I’m ready to live my best life! 😂

@@staceywilliams1863, Wys.. my daughter is 20, and away at college..

@@melaniegriffin78 Mine graduated college and out on her own starting her life journey. 😎

Why did he have a kid with a crazy bipolar woman?

@@cha9165 I asked him and he said she didn’t show any signs of being bipolar when they first met. Only after she got pregnant and had their son did he say she began behaving that way. I don’t know though… all his words. What I do know is, I don’t plan to get caught up in their drama, so I told him I’m no longer interested.

Thank you! 😁

@@KevHick You're welcome!

Agreee.

It's all about the person with lids having boundaries. Being mature enough to say to the ex look this person is important to me and, this telling the new partner she is important, letting the ex know its really over and being amicable for the kid. The man needs to do this but they usually don't.

Date younger men and men who aren't Black.