This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my KZfaq channel 9 months ago about self development. Now I have 1,615 subs and > 1,000 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I could haven’t learned without getting started in the 1st place.

You are not anyone else. You are you. A solution that works for one person won’t be the solution for you. No one in the history of human existence can ever take credit for any anything in life. All your achievements, success, IQ, personality, looks and all the hard work you put in all come from chance and luck. From chance and luck you get your genetics and dna. Genetics opens the door to all the good and bad that comes your way in life. You are not who you think are. Be humble and appreciate what you have. Love is anxiety. Attachment is suffering. Life is suffering. Everything we do is out of fear and love. Live everyday like it’s your last. Tomorrow is not promised. Tomorrow does not exist. In the end nothing matters. When the brain dies consciousness dies.

very insightful, thank u:)

You should never be goal oriented, you'll be doing things just to reach a goal, it's an endless loop of wanting more and not being satisfied.

Thank you! I'm struggling hard with this and going to therapy but never been able to see the problem as clearly as you explained in this video

well said Oliver! We should also seek out people that are pursuing their purpose in life and build relationships with them. The journey of getting unstuck is more bearable when you do it with other people

Thank you!

Best analysis bro !!

Thank you , yes the lost feeling. Crikey I’ve sort of had a problem for a long time. That’s not having a closer connection or intimacy with my wife. The challenge is to create more openings for more connections over the holiday period. I went to see a PT / Personal life coach the other day with the intention of looking building confidence in talking out loud in a group or public speaking, it’s my big birthday coming up and figure I might have to say something to everyone, yikes! . But I came out with a totally different thing I have to work on , and that’s my personal one to one time with my wife. It was totally weird how I thought I needed one thing and someone else putting a finger on the HUGE thing in the room. Cheers anyway I’m a keen listener and follower and still working my way through your Shadow Work 31 day challenge. 🌟

Just saw your youtube shorts after this video. Wish you can enable comments and like button for your shorts. On 1 yt shorts you have some interesting, refreshing take on a similar resemblance to IFS model for your relation to "imagine theres a Child/ Teenager/ Adult" and write a letter from that voice role inside of you.

As someone who has lived an interesting life, even though the extent of my dysfunction through mental disorder has really only ever become clear to me over the past few years (which, admittedly, is not a happy story)... I can say the following. 1. Guard your baseline. Whatever it is. Physique, wit, general knowledge, art... Whatever keeps the foundation of what you can and want to bring, maintained. Never, ever allow yourself to fall through that floor. Because as long as you don't, you can always latch on - AND you may build some character on top of that. For me this was sports, and now it's becoming making music (which is a whole other level of suffering). 2. Take ownership of what and who you are. Don't hide from yourself. This process can take years, and it's the positive side of what could otherwise be construed as a total breakdown of your being as envisioned by yourself. These are all perspectives, and you have the power to accept the facts AND still come up with a perspective that can serve you. But this is the only way to peace, and it takes a lot of ammo out of other people's hands. 3. Give small things every day. Giving meaning nothing more than making a conscious choice to be a positive influence on someone else's day, life... Whatever. Can be so much as a conscious effort to give your best help, your best smile... Small things. 4. I'll let you know when I get there.

Excellent video!

I feel lost but most of it is down to a bullshit corporate job that I detest and have no idea how to get out of

we need to bump up his subscribers !

Just turned 30, hopefully turning to a new career soon, just balancing my life

but.... I don't know why we have to be motivated in the first plaace... it was our childhood dream to eat chips, sweets, play xbox, watch TV and movies, listen to music all we want... not have to clean up, and not be in school or not work. go have fun at theme park. Why do we have to be an adult? Why do we have to be a parent or a spouse? Just living with parents and work whenever we feel like it. Own pets. Drinking all the kool aid and coca cola.... Drive anywhere and go party. That's a good life right there.

Justin timberlake

what can I do if i'm just too dumb to learn something good ? I'm pretty average in terms of iq and have trouble learning at the same rate as others....

I have no reason to live.

Journalling is the most powerful personal growth tool you have at your disposal. Click to download my free 31-day fillable PDF. It gives you a single high impact prompt every single day. Download here: bit.ly/3ZQ54cx

418th like