Don't know why YT keeps cutting my videos off - tried re-uploading the whole 18 minute one and it's not happening. Leaving this up for now. Apologies for the inconvenience.

As a person who was also the “ugly friend” growing up, I call bullshit. I was still able to develop a healthy sense of self, enter into an awesome marriage, and not go around espousing ridiculous nonsense.

She seems like she always wanted a relationship and thought to herself “I would literally do anything to make that person happy and stick around” and just internalised that mentality without having the real life experience of why putting all your worth in another person regardless of how much you love them, isn’t healthy or safe

shes tweeted (and deleted ofc) a bunch of stuff about sex/age of consent concerning children as young as 12. its so disgusting.

I was in a relationship once where I was expected to submit to my then boyfriend's wishes. When we had a disagreement, it was like the topic became a poll in his family, everyone siding with him and calling me stubborn. His wishes were seldom negotiable, while my needs often got compromised. The hardest part was when I started to think I didn't want biological children. It became a huge debate and as I spoke to a mutual friend/therapist, she told me my uterus was not just my business but that my partner also had a say in if I would be pregnant or not. Luckily, I got out of the relationship, but the way my whole identity would have been erased on the expense of submitting to him is scary.

She has a former friend who did an interview and said this is a character she made up to troll and it became a successful grift for her so she kept it going.

i still don’t feel bad for her at all. i was the “ugly friend” too when i was younger and it also made me into a pick me in high school but i quickly grew out of that phase. she is 26, not 16 and “i hate myself and i just want a boyfriend” is NOT an excuse to spread this type of dangerous ideology. i don’t even care if it’s all just an act, she is still encouraging people who actually think like this.

Whoever was the primary caregiver for the children in the marriage or relationship usually get PHYSICAL custody with shared legal custody and regular visitation with the other parent. There is a LOT of abusers that use the family court system to torture the other parent when they try to leave the relationship. Women also have much fewer resources and money when they leave, due to being the primary caregiver to the children. That means less or no money for legal representation during a divorce.

The amount of times that I see online the phrase "men get screwed over in divorce" is alarming. It seems like then they just want to date forever. Then we have a situation, where all these 35+ year old men are making fun of women of the same age, saying they should have gotten married in their 20s, and YET, they were the ones who just dated their potential wives for years, wasting their time, because they were too marriage-phobic to get married.

two of the best youtubers who read pearl to filth, were brittany venti and galatea from the authentic observer. pearl isn't a "traditional" woman ... she's a grifter, who found that red-pill is a cashcow and she decided to milk it, but now she's trapped in it and decided to keep digging her own grave in it. also, it always makes me laugh when i remember that she gives marriage and relationship advice when she's never been married, never had kids, and never maintained a relationship. she's a hypocrite who found a chicken that lays golden eggs and decided to keep it. and let's not forget her undying defence of pimp and trafficker andrew state and putting the blame on victims of violence and s3x trafficking ...

Been watching you for years, but you still remain consistent and thorough with your insights. We will support you no matter what.

One of the biggest things I've noticed that people forget in marriage, is that you are human first. I always try and remind myself that other people you interact with throughout the day, that we are all human, we all have our own thought processes, emotions, past experiences. We are dynamic for a reason! "Submitting" is never something that should be forced.

"Pompous yet self-effacing" is a good way to put it. I've always said that those 'trad-wives' that are all over twitter are all such a bizarre combination of being super narcissistic yet having absolutely no self-respect or dignity.

She only talks about the side of women needing to submit to men. She doesn’t talk about the man’s side of that equation which is to respect, honor, and cherish your wife. Not to dog on men, I love men, but how many married men are really out there fully respecting & honoring their wife in everything they do, and then coming home and cherishing their wife consistently so that she’s in a place of truly feeling comfortable submitting to him like that? Men aren’t just entitled to submission, even in that belief system (or whatever you want to call it), they have an ongoing obligation to uphold their duties in the marriage as well, which isn’t just providing monetarily.

"I'd rather be a pick me than a skip me" Ma'am you're not an egirl men will never pick you and if you defend nazis you GREATLY shrink your pool. She also has a lot of opinions about marriage for a woman who has...never been married!

I have the highest hopes for Pearl: may she personally receive everything she advocates for.

She's not just pro-men, she's pro-red pill.

I *NEVER* thought you’d talk about this pick-me, thank goodness you did. A few reasons it seems some girls or boys become pick me’s because of wanting to be seen as desirable or low self esteem.

I can't understand why people can't see through her grift. It's so obvious. She seems the type who truly doesn't have any fixed beliefs and she says the things that will get her the most attention and consequentially money, she's just taking notes from Tate and that's it.

I like a lot of what you're saying about marriage being a partnership. I feel that way myself. My problem with people like Pearl and other people from the manosphere is that a lot of them have not even been in a functional relationship much less a functional marriage, they strike me as perpetually single and giving very toxic advice on how to deal with other human beings.

That video of Pearl in her car, was from years ago, before she took off in the manosphere. Pearl’s still wearing braces. And was still living at home with her parents in their mansion. Thing is Pearl is still single, she’s never been in a serious relationship. Pearl’s grift, seems to have no positive outcomes. But I still hope Pearl finds love. She seems to actually really want a family of her own. Sometimes she seems as if she’s quite unhappy.

Right off the bat, I just wanna say your look today is extra amazing.

I personally don't feel bad for Pearl. Like yeah she's human and has insecurities but she should've handled that better than just turn to the manosphere. She needs to give up and realize no man whatsoever is gonna pick you and I always say this about other pick-me type of people, atop trying to cater to a demographic that wants nothing to do with you and keeps you around for amusement and because you enable their stupid ideology. Fucking love yourself instead!! She should've learned to care for herself and put herself first instead of kissing up to pro-men/red-pilled influences just to make up for the self worth that she lost when her famous tiktok boyfriend broke up with her. I'm not sorry for her, these are the consequences of her actions.

I’m all for respecting your partner, not obey. Her recent rant is screaming please marry me, I won’t divorce you and take half your stuff. I think she desperately wants a partner but, don’t feel bad for her.

My brain was feeling bad today and I am so grateful to see your video! Your videos always help me turn my brain off and just listen for a bit💞.

I have a whole laundry list of reasons i dislike pearl. The whole divorce debate really gets on my nerves because, when a woman does it, she's evil. When a man does it, she deserved it, did something wrong ect The man isn't seen as evil. The man cheats, the women must have been neglecting him in some way . The woman cheats, she is just an evil slapper. That's literally the red pill black pill sphere for me. And i don't have typical views on feminism ect I hate what the movement has become. Its just an excuse to hate and bully women for not being men's sex and chore slaves

I love your lights and your face!! Sending all the love 💕

Yes, the famous un-pickable pick-me. 😂 Grifter of ragebait. 😂

I’m older than Pearl and I’ve never seriously dated anyone either. 🤷‍♀️ but I don’t use my complicated feelings about relationships to harm big groups of people and I know there are tons of other people like us that also don’t spread harmful rhetoric. It’s not an excuse. Work on yourself.

I think she would have a fit if she was told she couldn’t have credit and could not have her Twitter account w/o permission of a spouse, father, brother, etc.

is this video meant to be 9:51 long and cut off like that at the end? you didn't even have your outro

To everyone that has that uneasy feeling of an absent closure, here: Thank you guys so much for watching, thank you to my patrons as always, and I'll catch you guys next time.

Pompous! Thank you, I’ve been trying too figure out the perfect word that describes her I just call her a classic *pick me*

The red pill community is a business and they will say whatever the community wants to hear and they will pay in return. This woman is not a exception, even if she is single, overweight and pass her prime.

completely unrelated to the video/situation, but i’ve been going through a very difficult-possibly one of the hardest- times in my life. i’ve watched your channel for 5 years, and it’s a relief that even when everything else is going to hell i can still watch my favorite person on youtube that’s always made me feel less alone (as well as other lovely commenters in the sections of your videos) talk about stuff i care about. thank you, your presence means so much

I used to follow her before all this. she tried a couple of attempts to be known other than "angry reactions girlfriend" at the time. She definitely milked their on and off relationship. Once that was done, she tried singing but it didn't work out. Seems like she was always grasping at any attempt to be relevant, and that still stands today.

Thank you for covering such topics. I agree with your both man/woman equality, too many men get mocked for being ACTUALLY ABUSED, yelled and hit at for CRYING, and sent to conversion and torture camps if they aren’t “MANLY” enough.

Does she ever wonder why the men she appeals to don’t offer her the marriage of her dreams?

You are much nicer than I am. Probably because I worked FOR women’s rights.She has no clue about how much she has because of women that came before. Yes …you should have a backup plan … my father got sick and died and left us with nothing.

Pearl is a performer. She is just getting her money from pandering to these men .

Where's the end of the video? ❤

Why did the video end so abruptly?

Is it me or did the video get cut-off at the end at 9:50 like it was unfinished?

The thing about submission is that in the Bible (which is where a lot of people claim to take that part from) it basically says that wives should submit to their husbands, and husbands should love their wives ask Christ loved the church, enough to die for them even before they love him. If I have a husband that is willing to love me enough to die for me, I can submit to him. Pearly wants to say that wives should submit to their husbands and husbands have every right to treat them like crap, which is rediculous. Selfish husbands don't deserve submissive wives.

This is why i like you and your videos GC. i have the same views as you especially about marriage being something we need to work together with. So a clear line of communication is most important and transparency of course. And i think it's much easier for an Egyptian Indian like myself, because our culture focuses on this type of marriage, where things are foremost based on companionship. But there will be inevitably, some amount of compromises.

Okay I need your tee shirt asap

This video ended so abruptly I thought my phone died lol

The thing is there is a difference between submitting to your partner and being subservient. People get those two things confused. It's like how some parents consistently get the actions of being stern and abusive mixed up. More lean towards being abusive to their kids than being stern with them.

Submitting is for kink purposes only, thank you for coming to my ted talk

I honestly wonder if Pearl would represent her definition of a woman and related behaviours if she were in a relationship/ married? Ill tell you what my guess is…

Was the video supposed to just end mid sentence like that?

Pearl doesn't even strike me as the "ugly friend". I think it must have been ALL in her head.

I trust her as much as i trust Andrew Tate or the Logan Bros.

So excited for you to talk about this crazy lady lol

Seems like your video got cut off. I think you should call it what it is - society wants a dichotomy of truths and “right vs. wrong”. There are so many other factors that go into relationships and our personal decisions. It’s easier for people to digest “yes, no” than it is for people to think about reality on a spectrum. I applaud you for identifying this channel as one that only shares one point of view, largely for one person/community, and then preaching it to the masses. In any regard, we should be more aware of biases and social media influence.

2:02 I think you are accurate with your analysis that being chronically online is usually an issue. Your the only one who pointed that out.

I’ve noticed more and more, as I’ve gotten older, that people have it all wrong about self-esteem. They think that people who have high self-esteem go out and achieve shit and make themselves proud, but it’s the opposite way around: people who go out and achieve shit and make themselves proud… they have high self-esteem because they watched themselves do that. Pearl was raised by wealthy parents, and as such she probably didn’t have to go out and do much-everything was just brought to her. (I say that as someone whose parents were certainly not wealthy, but I had a privileged upbringing, and I have some low self-esteem too, although it doesn’t manifest in me parroting ridiculous manosphere garbage.) Her self-estrem would probably improve by leaps and bounds if she stopped trying to stand in the way of women out there accomplishing what they wanna do, and BECAME a woman accomplishing what she wants to do. Would she stop spouting this garbage if that happened? I dunno. None of us will probably ever know. But at least she’d probably settle down and find a man and perhaps be less annoying, maybe even personally happier.

Driving with earbuds and chatting distracted….she is dangerous.

I heard a family lawyer say that women get custody more often then men, but most men don’t show up to court. And in fact, in cases where men show up to court, they get custody more often. But the court sees not showing up as a forfeit so that’s why they really urge men to show up for their dates.

J aubrey and now here in the same week! We are blessed.

She's so funny to me 🤣 I want to be married and have kids one day but It will be a cold day in hell before I take marriage and children raising advice from a single woman that has never been married and has no kids

Finally. Thank you for covering! ❤

hi Giulia

Ok I know this isn’t what the content of this video is about but the color gradient hair here with the light and dark t-shirt to match. Guilia is serving an effortlessly cool look today.

The video just cut off for me ? Anyone else?

You have no idea how excited i was to see this notification popup

Imagine being so insecure in your marriage and your decision-making that you insist no one can ever do anything different.

Yes tNbc shirt! Adorable

Did that end early?

ReadyToGlare talking about PearlyThings? I'm ready for the popcorn, homies

why does the ending cut you off mid-sentance??& theres no outro :(((((((

The amount of tweets is wild.

Right off the bat, I definitely identify as a feminist, and am here to remind that feminism is NOT about putting women above men. I personally am really into intersectional feminism (because feminism without intersectionality is just self-help) and I cannot stress enough how much feminism is about fighting oppression as a whole (whether it's for the LGBTQIA+ community, the disabled community, POCs, etc...), and pointing out the fact that the patriarchy ruins everyone's lives, men's included !! It saddens me that "feminism" became such a bad word recently, but I swear, it's a cool world to dive into ♥

The video cut off suddenly..

I will also add she came from MONEY like, money money in a sense that her father had a private jet when she was little. She plays volleyball, that’s it lol she has no experience with men Or marriage.

Here's my take on it and despite Pearl's claims on being pro-traditional, here's why I think she isn't actually traditional. She claims to be against feminism and to be pro-redpill and yet the irony is that it's made her exactly the former where she focuses solely on career and behaves like an immature 14-year old dude. And she isn't seemingly looking to get married as a traditional person would, and yet complains about marriage being a problem for men as if it's her problem too... but she's a woman. So she appears to pretend like she's a red-pill guy but she's female. I don't understand that at all. I don't have an exact idea as to why she's behaving like this but what I say is that you can make alot of money and profits from either side of the culture war, left or right, feminism or redpill, etc. And if you go back to some of her past content, she has displayed support of being proud to be rich, as well as implying the support of white supremacy by interviewing one of her guests who was for KKK and a racist against blacks. This is what I've found but I'll let you guys research and draw conclusions for yourselves. But in my opinion, she's not all mentally there.

Love the lights, and shirt 🙂

honestly i hope she gets everything her poor soul wants. spare someone the trauma

But where do I get this t shirt please? 🥺 im in loove

Time would eventually have had to come where RTG would approach that topic. 🚬😮‍💨

That’s why the vows are so crazy and religion and then at the end, they say man and wife, husband, and wife that’s what it should be or how about this how about partners 50-50 supposed to be helping each other out, not submitting to each other, helping each other in sickness, and in health talking with each other, communicating with each other lifting each other up

“A lot of criminals are women” …oh boy do I know how horrible women can be now…..ruby franke and Jodi hilderbrandt. Of course I knew that before but wow….have I ever heard of a man being so abusive to his kids? I have…I know I have….but damn.

she should not be getting annnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnny form of sympathy, just because u felt that ur not worthy does not automatically mean all women are not worthy that's a you problem and she is a whole ADULT who chose to degrade women and push this negative mindset on women than seek therapy and sort out her issues, just because she has low self-esteem does not give her a free pass for all the bs she's done and that goes for both genders that constantly pushes this narrative and then blame mental health especially if ur an adult, I'm younger than her and felt that I was the "ugly friend" but at no point did I ever make the other people around me feel like they're ugly or not worth more, and I'm pretty sure there is a lot of women that have felt like that and not done the shit shes has said and done

Sigh... can we not? Can we not draw attention to her? Ugh, She gives me a headache

I had crazy low self esteem and literally developed dysmorphia and an ED over it, boys never picked me either. As much as I hated myself, the last thing I wanted was for anyone else to feel the same way. Idk how you can spew and profit such hateful and damaging rhetoric knowing the influence it has… 0 sympathy points from me!

Awesome t shirt awesome wig

“You trust him with your body, but not decisions” Yeah he’s a good lay but he’s shit with finances Pearl. Not everyone is good at everything 😂

Never thought there would be a worse pick-me than Blaire White...

I maybe wrong, but hear me out. I have this eerie feeling that someone important in her life is getting a divorce and she's not taking it well. Her tweeting this much about this can be reflective of her current circumstance and mindset in my opinion.

Why did the video get cut off??

What Pearl is really saying is: other women need to submit.

Hi Glare! 🤓😎🥸

i am the ugly friend and i don’t go as far as to talk about how young age of consent should be

anyone else think the video was cut off short? or just me?

I don't feel bad for her. It's one thing to have low self-esteem. It's another to project that onto other people

Did you accidentally end the video early? LOL!

She’s such a pick-me. I hope she actually gets picked some day lol. I’m happily married and we’re equal partners. I do not submit - I communicate and either push back or cooperate, or come to a mutually acceptable solution. I care about his feelings and he cares about mine and makes me feel loved.

After seeing her reason for being red pill i had to go comment something positive on her videos. Not excusing he behavior but attacking her in a negative way will further cement her opinion especially negative comments from women. I hope one day she can love herself so much that she wants to uplift others and doesnt need validation from deplorable men

Meh, I wouldn’t say low self esteem is the same as hating yourself, that’s a bit over the top

Hey, great video. But is it normal that the video ends at 09:51 minutes? Cutting you off mid-sentence?