I'm 29, Still Never Had A Girlfriend and That's Okay!

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MrGamingGuitarist

MrGamingGuitarist

7 ай бұрын

Here are the people that helped me get out of my desperate mindset
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@MrGamingGuitarist
@MrGamingGuitarist 6 ай бұрын
It is perfectly okay to be single. It's okay to want to be in a relationship. What's not okay is to be desperate for it, and it's not okay to have the feeling that you won't be happy until you get a girlfriend. You have to learn to love yourself first. That's where I'm at. Everyone is on their own path and we shouldn't judge each other based on who's single or who's a virgin etc.
@user-ul7bv2gu9d
@user-ul7bv2gu9d 6 ай бұрын
I love you man, for real.
@cesarkaplan4495
@cesarkaplan4495 6 ай бұрын
Your face is pretty, you need "Kontaktlinsen", get rid of your glasses, they makes you look weird to women.
@bng4ng
@bng4ng 6 ай бұрын
only person who does @@user-ul7bv2gu9d 🤣🤣🤣
@DefaultFlame
@DefaultFlame 6 ай бұрын
Tell me if you feel that way in 7 years.
@lkayde1996
@lkayde1996 6 ай бұрын
I’m 27 and I’m single
@xxxtentacien
@xxxtentacien 7 ай бұрын
Aye man, takes balls to post something like this online. We all proud of how far you've come bro.
@RazeVamp
@RazeVamp 7 ай бұрын
and bros still searchin on hub
@InstitutoBTC
@InstitutoBTC 6 ай бұрын
Hope he use those balls to get a job and stop using as a excuse he’s depress 🤣😂🤣🤣😂
@alext1452
@alext1452 6 ай бұрын
Well said brother
@LilXancheX
@LilXancheX 6 ай бұрын
He will never get laid 😂 poor bastard
@Pedroism
@Pedroism 6 ай бұрын
Loser
@XCVi_MAC
@XCVi_MAC 6 ай бұрын
This hit at home my brother is also 29 and he’s also never had a girlfriend. He had a tumor in his head when he was a child ( surgery caused him to lose function of certain areas of his face, paralyzed half of his face) as a result his physical appearance affected him and brought out a lot of insecurity. I remember in elementary school kids would mock him and tell him he looked like a monster, he acted tough ignoring them. He’d go home and lock himself in the room breaking down in tears thinking the world looked at him like a monster…. He’s now very successful in his work life bought himself a house. I love him to death and it honestly brings tears thinking about what he went through.
@alanm6o9
@alanm6o9 6 ай бұрын
God bless you and your bro
@Millenium-Christ
@Millenium-Christ 5 ай бұрын
God bless I pray that he will meet his wife
@channelmar15
@channelmar15 5 ай бұрын
@@Millenium-ChristHe never will. At least he’s financially successful, though. He shouldn’t try, either, as women nowadays will accuse you of SH or SA if you approach them (unless you’re the sexiest man alive.)
@WeebsArePathetic
@WeebsArePathetic 5 ай бұрын
@@channelmar15 Don't get your ideas about women from the internet. Plenty of women are normal and would love to be asked out.
@TylerYam-zk9tm
@TylerYam-zk9tm 5 ай бұрын
I would recommend your brother becoming a passport bro.
@adrianace1725
@adrianace1725 4 ай бұрын
I'm 39 and have always been single but I'm pretty cool with that. Saying that it's taken me nearly 40 years to find that inner peace and acceptance within myself. It's been a lifelong journey for me.
@adrianace1725
@adrianace1725 4 ай бұрын
@@DerrickMarkleymusic I think we're very different people. It's worth baring in mind not everyone wants the same things in life. We all have different paths to follow. What brings me true happiness is being by myself. I've always been an introvert, outsider and loner so what you consider a good life is different from the way I see things. Peace and happiness! 😎
@adrianace1725
@adrianace1725 4 ай бұрын
@@DerrickMarkleymusicOh, I've experienced it many times and love every moment however I can live with or without it!. It's not life threatening! 😅
@manosijroy8282
@manosijroy8282 4 ай бұрын
Damn man. I am a guy who turned 23 just 13 days ago and I never had a girlfriend before. I had my first ever date over 3 months ago at the age of 22. She is 19(turning 20 after a week) and we went to the mall and ate in Mcdonalds and took some pics and hugged each other and I was pulling her cheeks a lot too. But 2 weeks after the date she turned out to be mean and toxic and blocked me on all social media. She basically used me for free lunch and take pics of her so she can post on social media. I also have a big crush on this girl who is in my class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college like 5-6 months ago and now planning to study MBA. She is also 22(turning 23 in a few days). She has called me cute several times before and I pulled her cheeks too and gave her chocolates once but I mostly see her with her male friends and I am shy near her in person and she is the one who initiates conversations with me so it gets difficult. Over 2 months ago, I went out with this another girl who is also 23 in that same classes. We roamed around the city and had lunch in a big restaurant. I pulled her cheeks too while taking selfie but was shy to ask for a hug. She also has called me handsome before and even said I am an amazing person she met when wishing me on my birthday a few days ago and we may again go out somewhere this month but we are just friends now. I also follow several girls from our institute on Instagram and they are all within 21-25 age range but I am yet to message them. For several months I also have been chatting with this another girl on Instagram who is 19(turning 20 in April). She was in the same school as me but we didn't know each other that time. She is very sweet and we send each other virtual hugs daily and plan on meeting soon to eat somewhere as we are both foodies. But I am still single in the end.
@adrianace1725
@adrianace1725 4 ай бұрын
@@manosijroy8282 I wish you the best of luck in your future romantic endevours. Never give up hope and stay positive! 😎
@bartk8672
@bartk8672 4 ай бұрын
@@DerrickMarkleymusic that's just rude. I pretty much have never been in a long term relationship but thinking about all the effort and money needed to establish that, just gives me depression. Not everyone wants a relationship, a lot of people get into a relationship because of social pressure and are very unhappy. Ask yourself if you really want to be with someone or are you just doing it to fit in
@rickfreire8510
@rickfreire8510 7 ай бұрын
I bumped into your video today about being 27 and never having a girlfriend and it brought tears to my eyes just seeing the state you were in and the battles you were facing on a daily basis . To my surprise later the same day KZfaq recommends your video and I clicked on it expecting something negative again but after watching it I’m so so happy to see how much better you are able to handle your struggles and how much you’ve grown as a person. Wishing you nothing but the best for you, Carey on doing what you doing it’s working.(Btw I also have GAD so I know how you feel in that regard)❤❤
@Jeff-cm7kz
@Jeff-cm7kz 7 ай бұрын
I just got done watching the other video for the first time.
@Yourlordnsavior-1
@Yourlordnsavior-1 7 ай бұрын
Meanwhile I’m happily single after being in a 4 year relationship and had sex with over 100 girls. Seriously get a grip and work on yourself
@Matthew_Kuna
@Matthew_Kuna 7 ай бұрын
Same
@bradenwalker3923
@bradenwalker3923 7 ай бұрын
Dude what stuggles could this guy in a first world country with an insanely high quality bed and phone and even microphone and camera and internet access be going through that he didn’t cause himself through sin or lack of self development/care
@surtivmak4715
@surtivmak4715 7 ай бұрын
@@bradenwalker3923 people do everything for the sake of avoiding sufferings, no matter where and what conditions you live in, you cannot belittle mental health value in our lives
@albertforline9175
@albertforline9175 Ай бұрын
So I watched your video saying your 27 and no girlfriend. Your speech has unbelievably improved coming to this vid. Good for you
@austinlee5408
@austinlee5408 4 ай бұрын
I actually just finished watching your "I'm 27" video and can't even believe you're the same person. You seem like you're in a much better place. You look better, seem happier, and you are much better at talking to the camera. This has definitely been an inspiration. Keep up the good work!
@jthatruth9975
@jthatruth9975 4 ай бұрын
The Copium is real 😷
@camelcasee
@camelcasee 3 ай бұрын
He looks exactly the same
@MyFinaldays
@MyFinaldays Ай бұрын
People finding happiness without having a gf is a cope? Get a load of this guy​, with that mentality i bet my savings you aren't getting any gf in your life @@jthatruth9975
@Merseyrock
@Merseyrock Ай бұрын
proof that peace ultimately comes from within; not from the random person that you met at the club 😉
@lecljone2566
@lecljone2566 6 ай бұрын
Takes guts to be able to speak about this kinda stuff openly to thousands of strangers online. Hope everything gets better for you and everyone else that‘s going through this kinda stuff.
@WeebsArePathetic
@WeebsArePathetic 5 ай бұрын
I honestly don't think any of this shit takes guts lmao. What are strangers online gonna do? To me this isn't much different between venting on Reddit. I guess you lose anonymity? But it's not like any of us know this guy irl.
@StormofdyingRage
@StormofdyingRage 4 ай бұрын
It doesn't really take any guts at all, he's just saying the truth and afterall, Having a girlfriend is nothing to flex with.
@lecljone2566
@lecljone2566 4 ай бұрын
@@StormofdyingRage😂
@rio3dtv
@rio3dtv 7 ай бұрын
Hi, I'm 32 years old and I've never had a girlfriend either. When I saw your first video I was moved and felt a certain comfort because I saw that I wasn't the only one in this situation! This year I started going to some rock shows, I know you also like this type of music like Paramore etc, and at one of these shows I managed to kiss a girl for the first time, I confess I expected more, but it was cool! Now I'm looking to improve myself, working out, getting a job, etc. I believe that one day you'll also get a girlfriend because you're a really cool guy! good luck!see you!
@initiatorhater0688
@initiatorhater0688 7 ай бұрын
but sadly i'm going to assume you have not done anything more than kissing with a woman, and i assume losing your virginity to an escort or sex worker, paying for sex, is completely out of the question for you?
@ernestosandoval7575
@ernestosandoval7575 7 ай бұрын
@@initiatorhater0688If he values his body, he won't care to pay for an escort. In due time, if he's doing what he says he's doing then he'll find someone really worth keeping around as a life partner.
@Skursss
@Skursss 7 ай бұрын
no self respecting person would do any of that anyway.. anyone who has morals or something to live by would not indulge is something so obscene.. obv you can believe in whatever you want but i sincerely hope that you can understand what im talking about. @@initiatorhater0688
@rio3dtv
@rio3dtv 7 ай бұрын
@@initiatorhater0688 Yes, I want to find the right person to have a relationship with, it's different when you just pay someone to have sex with you because a relationship goes far beyond sex, that's what I'm looking for at the moment!😅
@nixonagnewreviews7206
@nixonagnewreviews7206 7 ай бұрын
@@initiatorhater0688Dont encourage that shit, if he still has virginity at that age then the right woman will find that as a rare special thing. Dont give it away to some meaningless floozy who just wants your money etc.
@aig5429
@aig5429 7 ай бұрын
Thanks for the positivity! Im 29 and struggle with social anxiety and depression. I never had a girlfriend. I finally got a job and was able to pay for my own xbox. Now thats progression
@GodzillathekingKongbane
@GodzillathekingKongbane 7 ай бұрын
Video games will never leave you
@rubydiprose8968
@rubydiprose8968 7 ай бұрын
@@GodzillathekingKongbane you lowkey right 🔥🔥🔥
@badge5575
@badge5575 7 ай бұрын
Bruh an xbox😢 bruh I was able to get that as a teen your goal should be getting supercars or a nice house
@aig5429
@aig5429 7 ай бұрын
@badge5575 I have severe depression so I couldn't work and I'm heavily medicated. I've seen lots of 30 year olds with shit average cars
@GodzillathekingKongbane
@GodzillathekingKongbane 7 ай бұрын
@@badge5575 you must be young. Wait for the real world
@ceooflonelinessinc.267
@ceooflonelinessinc.267 6 ай бұрын
I’m going to turn 34 soon. I never experienced any kind of romantic contact through my life. I never had a hug, a date, a kiss, or something as a relationship. The depressing part is that I put myself out there: I asked women out, I signed up on dating sites or joined new groups to meet new people. But every girl rejected me before I had something as a date. More and more I think it is due to my disability (Fetal alcohol spectrum disorder) I am suffering from. It seems that whenever I tell women, I only work minimum wage jobs, they seem to be less interested in me. Once a woman even told me, I am a loser for working as a dishwasher. The older I get, the more depressed I have become. It feels devasting going though life without any kind of intimacy, being rejected over and over again, being told you are not even good enough to get on a date with…
@mitu123Copper
@mitu123Copper 6 ай бұрын
Not even a kiss or hug? That is brutal. But yeah this all sounds wild man!
@ceooflonelinessinc.267
@ceooflonelinessinc.267 6 ай бұрын
@@mitu123Copper Unfortunately not. Like I wrote, I did already get rejected for something trivial as a date...
@manosijroy8282
@manosijroy8282 6 ай бұрын
​@@ceooflonelinessinc.267Damn man that's sad. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before but I just had my first ever date 2 months ago. She is 19 and we went to the mall and ate in Mcdonalds and then took pics and we hugged too and I was pinching her cheeks a lot. But 2 weeks after the date, she became toxic to me after I texted her and she replied very rudely saying me to go to hell and leave her alone forever and then she blocked me. She basically used me for free lunch and take pics of her so she can post them on Instagram and other social media. I was shocked and lost hope. Then few weeks ago, I went out with this another girl who is also either 22 or 23 now. We go to the same class for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 4 months ago and planning to study MBA next. We both roamed around the city and had lunch in a big restaurant and we had fun. I pinched her cheeks too while we took selfie but was a bit shy to ask her for a hug. We might hang out like this again. I also have crush on this another girl in that same class and she is also 22 but I am shy so she is the one who initiates conversations with me and last month she asked me how was she looking and I answered she looked cute and pinched her cheeks too which made her blush a bit. I also gave her a chocolate about 2 months ago. Sadly she has several male friends so I feel scared.
@ogmudbonefoo7237
@ogmudbonefoo7237 5 ай бұрын
That’s a fatality Man
@misterh4184
@misterh4184 5 ай бұрын
But just think about it : you could meet a maniac or sadisitic girl would you like to suffer ? Sometimes it's better to be alone
@Ruckus88
@Ruckus88 6 ай бұрын
When your doing what you love in life and have everything you need on your own you will send out positive vibrations and start attracting the people that are meant to be in your life. Keep pushing through and dont stop challenging your self to break whatever limits you think might have. Rock on!
@nucleus_zalikell
@nucleus_zalikell 7 ай бұрын
I hate how society shames men for not having certain things, I thought we were able to think for ourselves.
@naosei72876
@naosei72876 7 ай бұрын
Anyone who cares about what society preaches and affirms is already lost inside
@SesterSinmon
@SesterSinmon 6 ай бұрын
Society has always shamed men
@mitu123Copper
@mitu123Copper 6 ай бұрын
@@SesterSinmon True, and it has gotten worse now!
@joelra3702
@joelra3702 7 ай бұрын
Never underestimate the positive effect you've had on other people by sharing your story and emotions so openly. It's a sign of great strength you're helping others to break through their own internalized stigma when it comes to mental health. Learning to love yourself is difficult and painful but probably the most rewarding thing you can do to improve your whole life, not just your relationships. We're all on the same path, all of us...whether we realize it or not :) 🙏
@EddieHallslittlebrother
@EddieHallslittlebrother Ай бұрын
Man you're lucky. You're not missing out on anything but pain and regret. If I never had a girlfriend I'd have so much more money right now. I wish I had spent my 20s not worried about women at all.
@Smatic2117
@Smatic2117 6 ай бұрын
Oh wow your improvement is awesome! The way you can look back and say how you struggled while also acknowledging your progress is something i want to achieve too👍
@anon877
@anon877 7 ай бұрын
I like these videos because they make me realize that my situation is ok. I like knowing that I'm not the only one
@JosephJsjs
@JosephJsjs 7 ай бұрын
I know some who are above 40 and still virgin
@infestchristopher1457
@infestchristopher1457 6 ай бұрын
Same
@anon877
@anon877 6 ай бұрын
@@nsa8225 haha same to you!
@mitu123Copper
@mitu123Copper 6 ай бұрын
@@JosephJsjs Yep, I even talk to a guy who turned 48 recently and never had a GF and now claims he'll be lonely for the rest of his life.
@venento
@venento 7 ай бұрын
I'm glad you posted this follow-up video, man. It's nice to see the growth you've undergone in the year and acknowledge the mistakes you made along the way. I hope your corrected mindset takes you far.
@mumpygumboo8554
@mumpygumboo8554 2 ай бұрын
Wow, what a turnaround! I haven't watched any of your other videos, except for the "27 Never Had a Girlfriend" one right before this one. Good on you. Your whole persona has changed, your tone of voice, your attitude, etc. Wonderful!
@friendlymods6567
@friendlymods6567 5 ай бұрын
After reading your comment, I totally agree brother. You can’t chase love or relationships because when you finally get in one, it ends up being easily ruined. When you learn to love yourself first ,love will find you eventually in one or another. Keep your head up king 👑
@daviboiify
@daviboiify 7 ай бұрын
you are in inspiration dude! being as open as you are is not easy at all. i have so much respect for you and i wish you the best.
@DaBoyCloudy
@DaBoyCloudy 7 ай бұрын
Sometimes it's not about what you don't have in life it's about what you do have. You can't control that girl's can't see what a great human being you are. You can control your feelings and emotions. No one deserves to be depressed let's end this together everyone! I'm done seeing all the great people in this world getting tormented the most. Fight back against this demonic world and prove to it you can be happy against all the odds.
@ticktock79
@ticktock79 5 ай бұрын
"You can't control that girl's can't see what a great human being you are." Yes, but also no one is owed a relationship, just because he likes them doesn't mean they have to like him back, If I'm being brutally honest he needs a shave, and to start a physical hobby, running, swimming cycling, lifting, something that gets him up and outside and meeting people. Mental and emotional attraction follows physical improvement.
@ticktock79
@ticktock79 5 ай бұрын
he needs to smarten himself up, get off the video games and broaden his personality. THEN the girls will come to him in a much more equal playing field. Wallowing in self pity isn't attractive
@LeonardoJunioSilvaCorrea
@LeonardoJunioSilvaCorrea 6 ай бұрын
Thank you for doing those videos man. When you post a video and i see you smiling i feel like we all gonna be ok. Thank you again.
@demontamerbf18
@demontamerbf18 7 ай бұрын
I just commented in another video about how much you had improved since I arrived to this channel through that "Never had a Girlfriend" video, I didn't know whether you had found a person or not but I could see you looked more confident and happy in your videos. My case has been so similar, I was also very obsessed with finding a Partner since 2016, but since around 2019 I've been doing way better thanks to therapy and meds. Haven't found someone yet but now I'm happy for what I have, instead of being miserable for what I want to happen and hasn't happened yet.
@Gab-og2bo
@Gab-og2bo 7 ай бұрын
The video about meditation helped me realize how miserable and depressed I was and that there's possibility of improvement. Thank you!! I am also very proud of your progress.
@zloboslav_
@zloboslav_ 6 ай бұрын
Having your feeling revealed like in your previous video and keeping it online takes a lot of balls, man. You've got it and you're on the right path. I believe in you and I believe you'll do great in the future, so keep on pushing forward! I like your current mindset. :)
@zhananedyalkova6955
@zhananedyalkova6955 6 ай бұрын
So glad you had this revelation Jaron! Im a female & personally i find you handsome, i feel like the growth and healing you've been experiencing this past year has made you so much more confident & it shows in ur demeanor ❤ confidendce is the key
@brandon-alcocer
@brandon-alcocer 7 ай бұрын
I don't usually comment in these types of videos, but it is refreshing to see someone work through their issues publicly. Great job! I think as you feel better you will also gain more confidence and attract people toward you. I saw your video about taking better care of yourself physically, and I want to do the same. Exercise is important as well as a morning routine. I wouldn't be surprise to see your appearance and grooming improve over the next couple of years as you see success on this platform and in life.
@ecoreas3878
@ecoreas3878 7 ай бұрын
Night and day difference man happy to see you doing better. What I got from this is you’ve taken back control of your life and own all of your failures and successes as one and come to peace with all the decisions you’ve made. Keep becoming the best Version of yourself!
@agentfifteen
@agentfifteen 6 ай бұрын
Wow you are so much more grounded and confident now. Good for you man! I really admire your courage for making these videos; It's really helpful to a lot of people.
@Besotted85
@Besotted85 6 ай бұрын
I really respect you for telling your story! Brothers gotta back each other up too! Your 29, i think you can get there buddy! But focus on you!!! Your the most important in your life! Subbed, and thanks!
@Type2Shea
@Type2Shea 7 ай бұрын
Keep going man it only gets better from here. We’re with you👍🏾
@Elandgol
@Elandgol 7 ай бұрын
Jaron, You're seriously so awesome for doing this and putting yourself out there. I'm so glad you mention Dr. K. I'm happy you're getting positive feedback because this is an extremely important message these days. I wish you the absolute best, along with those who relate, and I'll be following along to see how you're doing. Keep going!
@mr.kilpatrick2991
@mr.kilpatrick2991 5 ай бұрын
Good for you man. Organic calm self analysis. Meditate, musical instrument, exercise, good diet, positive thinking. Look at what you have to be happy with instead of focus on what you don't have. Sounds like things are moving forward for you. Good luck and congrats.
@cernunnos123
@cernunnos123 5 ай бұрын
Dude, this was so good to watch after the 27 years video! You've come a long way! Thumbs up and cheers!
@maiorrroberto
@maiorrroberto 7 ай бұрын
Honestly bro, seeing your progress and how awesome you are now, is such an inspiring influence. Keep the good work bro.
@koturum6616
@koturum6616 7 ай бұрын
I seriously love to see people working on themself. Even life most of the time not fair, its just gives me hope on humanity. You were in a dark place in your viral video. Easy to manipulate these kind of struggling persons by radical ideologies. Im just so happy that you dont care you just work on yourself. Please keep up man and spread this positivty
@morgannnfreeeman968
@morgannnfreeeman968 3 ай бұрын
Even though I have been in a relationship every word of this hit me like a freight train. I also struggle with letting others control my happiness and self-worth so it's comforting to know I'm not alone. Thank you for sharing your struggles and I'm so glad you are doing better!
@americium1158
@americium1158 6 ай бұрын
Glad to see you making progress!! i can relate to some of those situations you've been through, but because of this video, I realize there's more stuff beyond being in a relationship, it's seeking one's dreams and simply enjoying what you do, thank u!! Best wishes brother!
@devil_pls
@devil_pls 7 ай бұрын
Wish you all the best man! I'm in similiar circumstances. Absolutely love the progress you are making. I hope you keep us updated in the future. You seem like a really great guy!
@BubbleVanilla02
@BubbleVanilla02 7 ай бұрын
One thing I learnt in my life, is that, as soon as I got out of the "I need someone to love/love me" mentality, I realized that life is much more than that. Honestly, life is almost never about that now and my perspective on world improved so much its crazy. Now I get to do what I love, I woke up everyday to do exactly that, and I enjoyed every second of it.
@Doughboy14145
@Doughboy14145 5 ай бұрын
I’m so proud of you, Dude. Foreal. Keep going. I’m always rootin’ for yuh. 🍃
@dustybawls3561
@dustybawls3561 5 ай бұрын
You’re on the right path. I’m proud of you brother.
@micahhafen6209
@micahhafen6209 7 ай бұрын
When your view to like ratio is this good, you know you've connected with people. I'm proud of you dude.
@norodzubara8888
@norodzubara8888 7 ай бұрын
Wow you have made so much progress indeed ! Keep it up buddy many people think that being alone and having no relationship is bad which is father from the truth no one can make you happy no person whatsoever and it's about learning how to be comfortable on your own and gaining Self love. I've been on the similar journey and I'm so happy on my own that I don't even care if someone comes into my life I just don't care that much as I used to having said that I wish you all the best on your journey. Keep meditating and growing 👏😉
@QuantumMind88
@QuantumMind88 3 ай бұрын
Glad to see that you're doing better, my friend! You look and sound so much better! I'm super happy that you started meditating and finding your inner peace! Many blessings and love to you!
@JoJoMan860
@JoJoMan860 6 ай бұрын
I'm really sorry that you had to go through so much pain that you don't deserved. I'm 21 yrs old, and I also didn't have one or never had experience being in a relationship before. It really does sucks because when you use your energy to this one person you cared about and all the sudden, that person never appreciated your very best efforts or never looked up to you. Which made me realize that some people are not being thoughtful and they don't have the encouragement to giving them a chance. I hope you stay strong, brother, and one day you'll eventually get one who loves you first the way you are.
@Truth_Hurts_Bad
@Truth_Hurts_Bad 5 ай бұрын
Comments like this get me to imagine myself reincarnating as an unattractive dude, and it scares the phoque out of me. There's definitely a strong physiological factor to attraction, and I hooked up with my childhood friend (sister's, in fact) with little effort, because I'm cute, but you just have to up your personality stat through attractive traits. If you don't look good, all you can do is behave well, speak well, carry yourself well, dress well, temper your physique, discipline yourself etc.
@georgepliskin5199
@georgepliskin5199 7 ай бұрын
Great progress man! You're an inspiration for thousands of people for sure. All the best to you, keep building your happiness from within! That's what really matters.
@DerFuhrer76
@DerFuhrer76 7 ай бұрын
You’re awesome man! Also you are 100% correct in your assertion about the “needy and clingy’ mindset with woman. It actually pushes them away. I had that mentality after my dad died when I was 25yrs old. Thankfully a year later I met a girl (through a friend) who I just instantly loved and who instantly loved me back. We have been together 20yrs this year and have two sons. Wish you all the best with your channel and life Jaren…I’m a subscriber so will follow you.
@Chanbrumbell
@Chanbrumbell 6 ай бұрын
Good for you man. Its this kind of self love and acceptance that is immediately apparent in your confidence and demeanor, and it can lead to the indifference that girls find much more attractive than the projections of the last video. Its great to see you growing man. Best wishes
@waynecampbell9208
@waynecampbell9208 6 ай бұрын
Don't feel too bad, dude! I'm 57 and never had a serious girlfriend either! Oh but I have had several crushes! The more I look back, I don't think I've missed very much!
@camelcasee
@camelcasee 6 ай бұрын
How do you cope with such a life?
@waynecampbell9208
@waynecampbell9208 6 ай бұрын
@@camelcasee That's a great question!...It's kinda hard to explain! There are just several reasons why! Just to name a few, It just seems like all the "good" women are either married or have steady boyfriends! Also I live in a small town where they're even more scarce! In a nutshell, there's just too much going on in today's society nowadays! I'm really getting to find out there's really no single women out there because even if a woman were really single, their expectations have gone WAY over the roof big time and sometimes even when a woman is married or going steady, they would have at least a few more guys on the side just in case something would go wrong in the relationship so I think that pretty much explains to me why there's really no single women out there!
@manosijroy8282
@manosijroy8282 6 ай бұрын
Damn man really at 57? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before but went on my first ever date on 16th September 2023 which was just almost 2 month ago. She is 19 and we went to the mall and ate in Mcdonalds and we hugged and I was pinching her cheeks a lot. But 2 weeks after the date, she became toxic after I messaged her saying me to go to hell and said swear words and then blocked me on all social media apps. It looks like she just used me for free lunch and to take pics of her so she can post them on Instagram. I lost some hope. But 3 weeks ago, I went out with this another girl who is also either 22 or 23 now. She is in my class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 3-4 months ago and planning to study MBA next. We had a great day and I pinched her cheeks too while we took selfie and had lunch in a restaurant too. We are just friends tho and we might again go out on 22nd November. I also have big crush on this another girl in the same class who is also 22. I am kinda shy near her and usually she is the one who initiates conversations with me but 3 weeks ago she asked me how was she looking and I said she is cute and I pinched her cheeks too and she blushed a bit. Nowadays I noticed she smiles at me whenever I look at her and tells her friend about me while looking at me and smiling. But she has several male friends so idk whether I have any chance with her or not.
@waynecampbell9208
@waynecampbell9208 6 ай бұрын
@@manosijroy8282 Yeah!! At 57!! I know that hard to believe dude!! Tell me about it!! I wish you the best of luck!
@ommanomnom
@ommanomnom 6 ай бұрын
I have been following your videos because of that video. It's really good to see your attitude is changed and you are on the right path. There are really important things to deal with right now, like getting debt free and stable. Getting fit etc. Work out what you want to do now your mind is more free and do it a little bit at a time. A relationship is not as important as these baseline things. Well done man
@iamFracture
@iamFracture 7 ай бұрын
I really admire your realism in the words you speak. I hope life treats you well man, we all deserve what we dish out. And when it's positive it shall always return in positivity.
@MasterDifootball
@MasterDifootball 7 ай бұрын
Of course its okay dude as long as we are moving forward with life. Keep grinding 💪
@bollock1213
@bollock1213 7 ай бұрын
No its not okay, the whole point in an animals life is to procreate. And for humans especially we need a partner, we are social beings. He is clearly depressed about it as any human would be.
@MasterDifootball
@MasterDifootball 7 ай бұрын
@@bollock1213 Its okay to be single, not okay to stay single. Two different things mi amigo
@jahyeet1137
@jahyeet1137 7 ай бұрын
@@bollock1213he’s working on it and has clearly grown as a person and in his approach to the idea which is all that matters at this time and yea I get what you’re saying but hey he’s still working on it
@billiebob2211
@billiebob2211 7 ай бұрын
@bollock1213 then you already recognize this poor guy is falling behind tremendously considering he's nearly 30 and still has yet even gets girl, c'mon man, our sole purpose as a species is to procreate, everything else is subjective
@St1cksz
@St1cksz 7 ай бұрын
​@@billiebob2211Some can't procreate at all and are still in a relationship. Thinking life is only about procreating is a dumb mindset, with that mindset we would've still been in the stone ages discovering fire. Yes we are meant to procreate but we are also meant to fight and survive as we have been doing for all of our existence, instead of always thinking about reproduction we need to think about the present.
@KELLYKH
@KELLYKH 3 ай бұрын
Your mindset on this topic is so refreshing. Proud of you and i wish you all the happiness!!
@Ilcosta3
@Ilcosta3 6 ай бұрын
I send you a hug from Italy. Stay strong man.
@iwantyourcookiesnow
@iwantyourcookiesnow 7 ай бұрын
I just saw your 27 video today. I got married at 42.We have an 8 year old daughter. You still have time to develop yourself even more.
@nobodysperfect06
@nobodysperfect06 4 ай бұрын
I assumed you had girlfriends in your twenties
@ilikegirlswholikegirls
@ilikegirlswholikegirls 3 ай бұрын
​@@nobodysperfect06no he lost his virginity in his 40's. That's why he telling him he still has tome
@nobodysperfect06
@nobodysperfect06 3 ай бұрын
@@ilikegirlswholikegirls damn that's not how life is meant to be lived and I wonder how he feels about not having had sex for that long
@furbabies11
@furbabies11 7 ай бұрын
Don't worry, we are at the highest rate of being single in the last century, you don't need someone to be happy, I haven't slept with a women in 5 years but after enough times it's same thing. I'm 28, but I have my dogs, family, and video games, so I'm happy and content with life
@almighty5839
@almighty5839 7 ай бұрын
Exactly women these day have destroyed the dating scene in this country reason why men are becoming more and more single
@doctordetroit4339
@doctordetroit4339 5 ай бұрын
Guys think they will get companionship, etc. from a woman. They will get headaches and stress most of the time.
@WeebsArePathetic
@WeebsArePathetic 5 ай бұрын
There's a difference between having it and getting tired of it vs never having it at all and not even getting to make the choice.
@GeomaxxingBlackpill
@GeomaxxingBlackpill 4 ай бұрын
Sorry but we have to fucking rock this society to its core it’s ridiculous that we have let average women be programmed by smartphones and algorithms into thinking that they’re took good to get fucked by the average male. We can literally fix this problem if we have the political will and wear with all to do it. Women cannot stop us because we are stronger than them
@toreksrevenge3821
@toreksrevenge3821 Ай бұрын
@@User-718_what’s your iq level?
@articcircleado
@articcircleado 6 ай бұрын
You’re killing it homie. Glad to hear you find meditation!
@__willgraves2166
@__willgraves2166 4 ай бұрын
I love this video. Proves that growth comes with accepting where you plant your seed.
@kappakumpa
@kappakumpa 7 ай бұрын
Remember my brother: Being positive doesn’t mean you have to be happy all the time. Instead it means having a bright outlook no matter how shitty life can be. Comparing you previous video to this one is the perfect example.
@joshuaadrian480
@joshuaadrian480 6 ай бұрын
You're awesome man, these are impressive words of wisdom. We need more people like you! Self love above everything!!
@vviimmi
@vviimmi 6 ай бұрын
I'm extremely proud of you! You are looking so damn strong, strong af.
@louishall7340
@louishall7340 7 ай бұрын
its so great to see that your doing so much better, i only watched the other video last night and the amount of emotion and sadness that you have thought for and now used ti make yourself stronger is inspirational
@mudhutonthemoon
@mudhutonthemoon 7 ай бұрын
I’ll most likely be in the same position when I’m your age. This is the way it is for some people, and things will never change.
@GregoryAlanBaileygamereviews
@GregoryAlanBaileygamereviews 7 ай бұрын
Life isn't fair, that's just the way it is. Everyone is born with different privileges that are completely out of our control. There's a movie called "Falling Down" with Michael Douglas that really hits hard and drives home that reality.
@camelcasee
@camelcasee 7 ай бұрын
Even he had an ex and kid@@GregoryAlanBaileygamereviews
@dericmederos1514
@dericmederos1514 5 ай бұрын
I do get the sense you're doing a lot better mentally and emotionally so good job on trying meditation. It's also good you realize the value in that old video, since you learned and grew from it. Keep up the good work
@jchabo82
@jchabo82 Ай бұрын
I'm glad to see this man. I saw your other video the other day and I really felt for you. I'm a guitar player myself and I spent the majority of my 20's single. I just never knew how to approach girls in my youth. Once I became comfortable with myself, things changed. I'm 42 now and been with my wife since 2010. You gotta find happiness within yourself and the good stuff will find you. Do your thing man & focus on doing the things you love. You're on the right path.
@ryko72
@ryko72 7 ай бұрын
It's great that you've come a long way, much love brother ❤
@Girth.
@Girth. 7 ай бұрын
Saw your other vid a while ago, I'm glad you made a follow up video. I think relationships are great but I also think having or not having a relationship shouldn't take away from the rest of your goals in life. It should be something that makes you happy, but not something that you need to be happy, if that makes sense. Take care.
@ThatsNotFunnyThatsSick
@ThatsNotFunnyThatsSick 5 ай бұрын
I'm 55 and I don't have a girlfriend, never been married, and never had kids. I lived with a woman in the 90s, but that was stressful and expensive. I own my own home and never have to go to work ever again. Pussy ain't everything.
@sinsemillao
@sinsemillao 4 ай бұрын
You’re a hero foreal. You are not alone. Do you. Keep improving. Your life is yours to live. Thx 4 the inspiration. I wish you nothing but the best. Much love & respect. Stay strong bro✊🏽
@jackcleary1879
@jackcleary1879 7 ай бұрын
Really happy for you man!! You're doing so so well, keep doing what you're doing:))
@Webedunn
@Webedunn 5 ай бұрын
BECAUSE YOU ARE WORTH IT!! Because you AREN’T ALONE! Bc you are one of millions of ppl going thru very similar situations.
@brighton09100
@brighton09100 6 ай бұрын
The thing that I like about your videos and I’ve only watched two so far is that your a genuine and a honest person. That is what alot of people lack These days. Keep up the good work!
@lifeisliterary
@lifeisliterary 6 ай бұрын
I love this video man. Gives me hope and inspires me - I’m 28 and while I’ve had a small handful of short term romantic relationships, I’ve truly never had a true connection in my adult life. I sometimes feel that I’ll never be able to be in a relationship or find someone who will actually be into me in any romantic or sexual way. But I don’t want to lose self esteem and I also don’t want to be obsessed with attaining something I feel I lack. Thank you for sharing your experience
@treibc4343
@treibc4343 7 ай бұрын
I know you have received a lot of comments on this video, probably too many to read but I wanted to show my support. A quote I like to remember is, “comparison is the thief of joy”. Focus on building the best version of yourself and the other aspects of your life will come together. It makes me happy seeing all of the progress you made since your last video discussing your struggles. Keep going, keep playing guitar and rocking out, keep gaming! Stay true to yourself, love yourself, and good things will come! Edit: One more thing, you have a pretty soothing voice and you like to meditate, have you ever considered making guided meditation videos?
@liamross7
@liamross7 7 ай бұрын
Keep up the good work man!
@marie-soleildauphinais9530
@marie-soleildauphinais9530 6 ай бұрын
Wow! I just discovered your channel from this other video you are talking about. And now, this one. You've done such an amazing shift ! Thank you for sharing 🙏 Recently, I've been studying about healing depression, anxiety, addiction, trauma and relationships with the Centre for Healing. They have many free videos and I truly believe that you could benefit from them for your healing journey. They summerize very well all the new scientific discoveries that have been found in neurosciences and psychotherapy. Matt and Ryan explain so very well what's going on in our nervous system and why it shows up as depression or anxiety. I wish you all the best ❤
@user-jw2yo5xn8j
@user-jw2yo5xn8j 6 ай бұрын
One of the very few honest videos I was able to find! This is so impressive!
@darkbrother339
@darkbrother339 7 ай бұрын
Meditation is the gateway to a better life. Even though it may seem like such a small thing, learning to let go of our ego is one of the most important things we can do. Glad you were able to acknowledge and move passed these simple concepts like getting women or sex. Its such a minor thing in the grand scheme of life.
@JCVetShoota
@JCVetShoota 7 ай бұрын
Have been busy lately and haven't had a chance to stop into the lives but LOVE YA BROTHA!! Hope you are doing good!
@STAR-TRAVLR
@STAR-TRAVLR 3 ай бұрын
6:50 so happy and kind of impressive that you mastered your emotions like that. What really sucks is it's normally the people who have gone through unsurmountable pain and mental confusion that come out on the other side stronger, like you have. Your words are proof. I read something that said, "How can you become the person you wish to be... unless you live the life that you wish not to live? How can you be brave, unless you've felt fear? How can you be strong unless you were once weak? Thank you for being you and inspiring people to live the life they wish to live. And when you do find love, which you will, it will be so genuine and mutual. And we can't wait to see it. 💎
@cliffimages1785
@cliffimages1785 6 ай бұрын
Thanks for expressing your feelings about this issue. It takes guts to admit what your going through. I feel your pain strongly. I know it's hard trying to get a young girl you like, but it's also good to be single also. You hang on in there my man.
@ParallaxDimensions-YouTubeYT
@ParallaxDimensions-YouTubeYT 7 ай бұрын
Just wanted to say, I was in a rough spot mentally about my own lack of a dating life a couple weeks ago and I found your video. I related so heavily. So I watched some more of your videos and it’s honestly inspiring how open you are with your emotions and how you try to put yourself out there and face your fears. You’re awesome man, and clearly the rest of this comment section thinks so too. And I also have been getting into guitar so you seem like an older version of me. I also wanna say that the comment about getting in shape is true. I started hitting the gym a few months ago, and even though it hasn’t helped my dating life at all, it’s made me so much happier in my own skin and it’s honestly invaluable for your sense of self confidence. Even if you can’t join a gym, try doing callisthenics. Self care really really helps, because girls or no girls we all die alone and the only person you’ll always have is you. So it’s really very important to take care of yourself. But I know you know this, you started meditating and doing the hard work for a reason. Stay awesome man.
@speedracer448
@speedracer448 7 ай бұрын
you mean women, not girls.
@tpola3648
@tpola3648 6 ай бұрын
Focusing on self-improvement is the first step to finding somebody, keep at it!
@KenoSNeal
@KenoSNeal 5 ай бұрын
Beautiful comment. Thank you!
@thewhitestrussians2514
@thewhitestrussians2514 5 ай бұрын
Glad you are doing better bro. I dated an attractive girl for a couple years every guy I knew wanted to be with. She is the only girl ive dated or slept with. She had more issues than you could imagine so i broke up with her. Now I just concentrate on my hobbies and career goals. I'm ultimately looking for a wife and if that never happens, who cares. Being single gets lonely but it's better to live in peace than deal with a woman who brings misery.
@lanarizsuperlativa
@lanarizsuperlativa 4 ай бұрын
thanks man. I'm going through hard times and your videos help, good job!
@SpiderBite90x
@SpiderBite90x 6 ай бұрын
I really wish you the best man. You seem like a really good dude, I really truly hope everything works out for you
@rdk89
@rdk89 4 ай бұрын
I'm 34 and still didn't have a girlfriend or sex, that's life, I don't care anymore.
@teodortodorov1662
@teodortodorov1662 6 ай бұрын
I`m 20 years old have never had a gf and still virgin, but this actually make me proud and confident. The fact that I have kept myself pure and improve my life daily instead of dating girls makes me feel like I become better than others. Now it`s the time to improve yourself not to date girls (of course you can communicate with them). This bring meaning and fullfield your life. My lack of experience with girls made me release the mistakes men do and that there are so many better things that having 2 weeks relationship Also you should be ready to enter in relationship. I`m still not ready to handle it, so I should improve until I become ready
@anonymous-ku4kd
@anonymous-ku4kd 6 ай бұрын
you're speaking facts bro. thats the only way to go honestly, go your way, be happy with your life, if something happens good, if nothing happens good too.
@KenoSNeal
@KenoSNeal 5 ай бұрын
Cudos to you my brother. You probably don't even realize but you are doing so much good for the world by sharing your story and being unashamedly vulnerable. I am almost 28 and I've also never had a girlfriend. I've gone through it all man.. suicidal ideation, overthinking spirals, private emotional breakdowns. One thing I've learned through it all is that mindset is most important. If you talk down about yourself, you will stay down. I'm so happy to see the positivity radiating from you now. Honestly dude, and I'm not even BS'ing, but you honestly aren't unattractive. Just by the way you're carrying yourself in this video is instantly better than how I perceived you in the last. You're not making excises for yourself and asking for pity. That right there is beautiful. You will find a woman who will be so lucky to have you someday. Just keep up the good work. I'm progressing along with you bro. Sending you my love and respect 🙏
@lucky806
@lucky806 4 ай бұрын
Took me till I was 32 to finally be happy with being alone. In my late teens and 20's i was constantly down on myself about not having a girl but now I'm at a point where I don't want a gf anymore or even care about sex anymore. It also really helps that I have no interest in having kids and raising them. It's peaceful and I'm too used to it at this point and I wouldn't trade it for anything. Keep your head up.
@manosijroy8282
@manosijroy8282 4 ай бұрын
I am a guy who turned 23 just 3 weeks ago and I never had a girlfriend before. I had my first ever date over 3 months ago at the age of 22. She was 19(turned 20 a few days ago) and we went to the mall and ate in Mcdonalds and took some pics and hugged each other and I was pulling her cheeks a lot too. But 2 weeks after the date she turned out to be mean and toxic and blocked me on all social media. She basically used me for free lunch and take pics of her so she can post on social media. I also have a big crush on this girl who is in my class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college like 5-6 months ago and now planning to study MBA. She is also 22(turning 23 in a couple of days). She has called me cute several times before and I pulled her cheeks too and gave her chocolates once but I mostly see her with her male friends and I am shy near her in person and she is the one who initiates conversations with me so it gets difficult. Over 2 months ago, I went out with this another girl who is also 23 in that same classes. We roamed around the city and had lunch in a big restaurant. I pulled her cheeks too while taking selfie but was shy to ask for a hug. She also has called me handsome before and even said I am an amazing person she met when wishing me on my birthday a few days ago and we may again go out somewhere this month but we are just friends now. I also follow several girls from our institute on Instagram and they are all within 21-25 age range but I am yet to message them. For several months I also have been chatting with this another girl on Instagram who is 19(turning 20 in April). She was in the same school as me but we didn't know each other that time. She is very sweet and we send each other virtual hugs daily and plan on meeting soon to eat somewhere as we are both foodies. But I am still single in the end
@solarlight10
@solarlight10 5 күн бұрын
Pulling cheeks like what ur grandma does when your a child ? Girls like this? Wtf lol
@ryanmaxwell1444
@ryanmaxwell1444 7 ай бұрын
keep your head up man and keep progressing u have made great progress and that something u should be proud of man! ❤️
@bradthegigachad7120
@bradthegigachad7120 6 ай бұрын
You’re channel came up in my recommended. I can’t quite relate but I definitely know what it feels like to be alone dude. Just got out of terrible breakup with a narcissist. The depression was soul crushing. And I’m homeless as well so there’s that. Amongst the worst I’ve ever experienced. I’m 32. Too young to be so jaded. But then I realized that anyone willing to treat me like I’m nothing is not worth my time. Best to be alone. Try to make friends and restart my life. I work on goals. Any little thing I can do every day. Because I made up my mind to continue living and not let the depression consume me. It’s hard though man. What do I want to do for the rest of my life? What’s my passion? Im also an artist. Stay positive dude. You’re a brave person.
@DelshontiThomas
@DelshontiThomas 6 ай бұрын
You are growing and have grown a lot my guy. Keep pushing. Your helping a lot of us wether you know it or not. Make 2024 your year to be who you want to be💯
@cristianlopez9997
@cristianlopez9997 7 ай бұрын
So basically, don't obsess, fixate, and crave a relationship and try to make it the basis of your happiness? The "only once I have this, I will be happy"? And focus on what you love doing? I think I understand what you're talking about because I think I'm going through the same thing. I've been trying to let go of this fixation on being in a relationship and being okay with myself and accepting myself even if I'm not in a relationship. So that I can be more present in the moment and receptive to what I am experiencing and feel more happy and healthy in general.
@francostevo9939
@francostevo9939 7 ай бұрын
Look I’m turning 29 soon and never had a girlfriend ever in my life but to actually feel sad about it at all is such a stupid and pathetic thing to be sad about at all. Just love life and do something that gives you gratification based on the skills and talents you have.
@cristianlopez9997
@cristianlopez9997 7 ай бұрын
@francostevo9939 I think that it's okay to feel sad about it. I don't think that it is a pathetic or stupid thing to feel sad about. Why do you think so?
@tpola3648
@tpola3648 6 ай бұрын
@@cristianlopez9997 Just keep focusing on improving yourself, that's all you can do
@moogdome2562
@moogdome2562 6 ай бұрын
Well done friend. You've obviously come a long way,. You should be proud of yourself. It takes a lot of courage, to be so honest like this.. There is no shame. You make so much sense.I find it hard to find a girlfriend. I had social issues myself. Attitude is everything. Girls often pick up on, being too needy. You're not bad-looking, but looks don't seem to matter. I used to stand at the bar, and talk when girls came up for a drink. I wouldn't introduce myself, I'd say something like, are you having a good night?. looks as though you are having a great time. and get I to a conversation nothing heavy. Find something about her you like, not looks, they have heard it so many times. Compliment her on her hair dress etc. The secret is to get out there, get on with life, don't wait for something to happen. Good luck moog.
@L7B1C0S
@L7B1C0S 6 ай бұрын
You good brotha you really not missing out. In the modern world of dating, it's nothing but short lived relationships and hook up culture. It's hard to find a mate, a life partner, someone you truly love.
@FemalePsychology_
@FemalePsychology_ 6 ай бұрын
This is lovely that you open us to us like that! 😍
@electrodynamicorb6548
@electrodynamicorb6548 7 ай бұрын
You’re almost at wizard status
@mudhutonthemoon
@mudhutonthemoon 7 ай бұрын
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