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To endure as much evil as you have, but still be such a wonderful, empathic, helpful human being. You are a beautiful and strong soul, Danish.

‘’ if you are born into a narcissistic home you are doomed to suffer’’ truer words have never been spoken.

Healing your inner child is the key to moving on. I'm so proud of you Danish.

Whoa. I am that daughter of a narc mother, and the perp was my dad. She outcast me from the family, by telling lies about me when she found I was talking with my youngest brother about the sexual abuse all 6 of us children blocked. I was feeling so alone today. But this vid helped me see that I am person of strong and beautiful soul, like you, Danish, and there are many of us.

My mum ignored me being abused. When i spoke out i was evicted from my family and called a home wrecker and liar. He was her husband since i was 2 years old. Thank you for being brave and speaking out

Danish,I am so sorry for what that horrible person did to you. It's very common for narcissists to sexualy abuse others, especially helpless children.

You are not alone. I am female. My mother was my abuser. My dad walked in and it stopped. It went on until I was about 4 1/2. You are seen, you are understood, you are valuable, you are whole♥️

My older sister went through this with our dad. What did our mom do...nothing! My heart goes out to you Danish. Thank you for being you and bringing us on your healing journey.

I'm so sorry 💔 😓

I saw the caption and burst into tears. A fine wonderful young man who is giving me strength and help, not as a KZfaq sensation, but rather showing me that in this world of bad and horrible people there is a true and brave person that has overcome horrific torture as a child and somehow solely parented himself into the great person he is today. Thank you Danish for this video.

This is actually quite hard to hear. It's really a great feat how you became the person you are today, despite such trauma. You've helped many people.

I was sexually abused by my father. My sister was too. It primed me for marrying my ex. Total narcissist. My heart breaks for you. You are such a wonderful person and have helped me more than you will ever know. Sending love and support your way.🤗❤

Danish, I am old enough to be your mother and I cannot tell you enough how proud I am of you-your courage, your strength, your resilience, and your personal truth, power, and authenticity. You are a force, and I stand by you 200%-for both parents you never had. I was raised by a single mother who had her own unresolved demons, projected onto me my entire childhood and as I’ve written to you before, married into a narc cult family; my husband is a malignant covert, enmeshed incestuously with his vulnerable communal altruistic malignant narc mother, and his carpet-riding useless feigned religious siblings. Now, my only teen son has drank the monetary Koolaid and I feel I’ve lost everything. I am working on my way out of this nightmare now. Again, your courage gets a standing ovation from me, from all of us who follow you, of this I am sure. Never give up 💪💪

Dearest Danish, I'm so gutted, so sad to know this abomination was forced on you so young. You were just a baby! And as u said, it is the sick response of ur parent to this heinous crime that drove the twisted dagger into ur heart even more deeply. You're a walking miracle and your ability to survive and share this deeply horrendous experience is a testament to ur high intelligence and will to live! You are the bravest among humanity and ur healing work is shattering the silence that this demonic perpetrator forced on you when u were most vulnerable. The isolation you must have felt is soul crushing. How lucky we are to know you and hear your daily healing words so we may in turn help ourselves. My deepest condolences for all you have suffered, Danish, and gratitude with congratulations for the beautiful person you have become. We love and cherish you more each day; ur our forever hero! Warm hugs ❤ 😢

Speaking about sexual abuse, especially from family, is already extremely difficult, and men are shamed or dismissed even more than women for it... Your bravery and strength are immense. Sending love and healing 🩷

My grandmother molested me for my entire childhood, with full knowledge of my parents. God heals all wounds. Thanks for letting people know that all families are not as they seem. Be blessed, and thanks for your work.

You are absolutely right when you say that worst than the sexual abuse was the lack of support from family members, especially our parents . But it was due to their negligence that we were abused in the first place. Abusers are cowards and preys on children they see are unprotected by an adult

My god, I am deeply sorry for what happened to you, Danish. Here's to us all recovering from growing up with these monsters!

I was sexually abused by narcissistic relatives. My Mother did nothing bc she had been sexually abused. My sister and I were taken away from our Mother and I was sexually abused in different foster homes. My first marriage to a narcissist lasted 15 years and he sexually abused me. My second marriage to a narcissist lasted 10 years and he was constantly unfaithful to me. We're STILL going through a rough divorce bc he turned everything around on me. I'm so sorry you went through this Danish. You are SEEN & You are HEARD!!! 🤘✌🏽💜💜💜

My narcissist ex husband did the same. He, unbelievably, maintained (and tried to force me to maintain) a relationship with my childhood sexual abusers. I never had a child with him because I could not trust him to keep my children safe. Now I am divorced and hope to have a child away from all abusers - including my ex.

Being molested by a Narcissistic father, is torture, but you are right the fakery & invalidation from a covert Narcissistic mother is worse. I am so sorry we endured this injustice of sexual abuse. My heart goes out to you. You are so brave & a real hero to me. May our healing continue.

A Lot of kids are sexually abused, a LOT MORE than we think. I'm a sexual abuse survivor & I am finding out Most of the people I know Are😔! I don't think ppl have a Clue how prevalent child sexual abuse is. Thank You for sharing this Important Topic, Thank You Danish 👍❤️

I also suffered this abuse three years. I’m 80 and still ache over this from my childhood. Very sorry for you.

My heart bleeds for you, Danish, your early years was a living hell.. You couldn't escape .. No child should experience such 'killing', Yes I call it killing! Thank you a thousand times for all your knowledge, comfort, advices, healhtbringing 'lessons' here , I listen almost daily.. And right now I am happy to say that I am free from 'my' narc, he is defeated! ❤

The first time I was sexual abused, I was confused but later told my mother. She did nothing about it for 2-3 years. When I went to kindergarten, the golden child was alone and vulnerable because I wasn't around to abuse anymore. My mother finally told my grandfather what was happening because it looked like it was going to be the golden child's turn. That's when something was done. I learned my lesson that I had no value to them. Later when I was sexually abused by another person, I told no one. Later when I was raped, I told no one. Who would care? Not my parents.

This happened with me for 12+ years thru both my parents and elder brother. I had/have no one to talk to because nobody believes me. Only who have gone thru this belief others who have gone thru it. So happy for your bravery and speaking up about your sexual abuse. You are so courageous!🎉

Narcissist parents put their children in very dangerous situations and then deny it.

You're a pure and a brave soul Danish bhaiya. We love you ❤

Dear God...Danish I was sexually violated from ages 2-3. I also had/have repressed memories from those events. It has taken me a lifetime to overcome all the damage. Thank you Danish for sharing with this community such a vulnerable story🙏💜

In our narcissistic household, sexual abuse was unfortunately a common occurrence, although it wasn't directly perpetrated by my parents themselves. It was actually their friends who were involved. When we finally mustered the courage to tell our parents about it, they would dismiss our claims and make us feel like we were fabricating stories or even going crazy. I vividly remember the first time I woke up and realized that my mom's friend was undressing in front of my brother. As a young child, around five years old, I didn't fully comprehend what was happening, and I just remember thinking that they were undressing together. It didn't make sense to me at the time. But as the years went by, they tried to engage me in inappropriate activities or convince me to play along with them, and I always resisted. I have a memory of one particular friend who had a big screen TV and would let us watch Playboy, followed by offering us a small alcoholic beverage, perhaps to lower our inhibitions. These encounters usually took place in the morning after her husband had left. I would often catch her with my brother. He tried to rationalize it to me, saying it felt good or seemed cool, but deep down, we both knew it was not okay. Now, at 42 years old, my family still denies that any of this ever occurred and continues to portray me as a liar or a mentally disturbed child.

My heart aches ,I strongly wish and believe a law has to be enforced on Narcissist Abuse, similar to domestic abuse!

Your channel is God sent. When you are a neglected child, for lack of better words, you have a ghost on your image that attracts abusers. They can tell you are unloved and they show you a little attention to bait you and abuse you more. The predators are good opportunistic observers. It's the silence of the victim that keeps the abuser thriving while the poor victim chips away their entire being. It's sad that I feel a burning sensation in my shoulders and arms as I type this coz it's bringing sad memories back.

I’m so sorry Danish! ❤😢 I spoke up at 22 years old, there was no reaction really. I was only 7 years old. My abuser knew how my home life was, used it to silence me. I never felt safe anywhere as a child. I took matters into my own hands when I was 22 yrs old and confronted my molester in person while he was at work. He ran from me.

My step father is a pedophile, my mother is a narcissist. She told me that it was my fault and lied the police in order to protect him. I understand you, Danish. I've been there. I'm so sorry that you had to go through this nightmare 😢! Take care of you! ❤️

I am so sorry you experienced this as a child. I’m so glad you are intentional about your healing. I thank you for your vulnerability & courage to share. You are an inspiring man.

Hello Danish, As I listened to you I thought this guy is a super hero for having survived all this and having the courage to talk about it. Till this day, and am in my 30's now I haven't talked about my own experience. I once told a friend who shortly after that ghosted me. I just decided to stay silent -forever hold my peace. Thank you for your courage in sharing this. May be one of these days I shall find the strength to do the same.

Thank you Danish, this feels so validating 🙏💕 this happened to me also, for 8 years. Abuser was a family friend. He took his life with a shotgun. My parents were more upset about that than the abuse he put me through. Thank you for talking about your mother, mine is the very same. 😢❤

Wow, dude You are so nornal and good person. Many people at your place would do not make it and end badly. You are so strong. Its not shame to talk about it. You are a true hero.

Oh Danish. I’m so sorry. I seriously cannot believe your strength to not only talk about this, but to share it with all of us, to help us. My heart sends you the biggest hugs and much love

I just knew this was coming. In all your videos it always felt there was more, like you were holding back something 😢 This is gonna help a lot of souls walking around both young and old who have been through a similar experience. You are full goodness and purity.

Danish, I feel sorry about It. I was sexually abused by my stepfather. When I told my narc mother, she had the same reaction as yours, and after she acted as yours too, as If nothing had happened. Even after she separated from him, they continued being friends. You are a great man for coming at tell your story. A big hug from Brazil .❤

Danish - Thank you from all of us for speaking about your experience. Many don't know how common it is to be s*xually abused in narc extended families, and therapists often only see it as two distinct traumatic events, but it's not. Narc families don't have morals or boundaries and so they decide how to inflict pain on us - whether physical, emotional or s*xual. And this is why you are one of the most important voices of our times on making sense of it all and I am so grateful to have found you. I applaud your courage and thank you for being you. Love you Danish. 🧡

I was abused to from 6 to 12 years old...when i told my narcissistic family when i was 6 they ignored me and i had no choice but to suppress for years. Thank you for sharing Danish ❤ You’re an angel and a truly good friend to humanity.

Thank you for being so brave to share your story.

Danish you are an AMAZING MAN and your so brave ❤ Your family does NOT deserve you!

Oh my fkg god Danesh my heart is broken for you. So brave to share and the work you’ve done on yourself is mind blowing. I am so so so sorry 😢

I always knew there was something special about you Danish. I am mortified that you had to experience this and offered no protection from those who should have protected and even just listened. The only positive thing that came out of this is the fact that your experience molded you into the man you are today. It gave you an empathy and compassion needed to help all of us females and males alike with the trauma we our experiencing. No other Narcissistic Recovery Specialist has delved into this topic the way you have. I learn more and more and more from you everyday. You are blessed and highly favored and from all of us we love you with a perfect love!

Yeah, mine denied it happened too, even insinuated that I may have liked it. When I brought it up later in life she started shouting, *"DID YOU EVER THINK ABOUT MEEEE? HOW IT MADE MEEEE FEEL?"* When I look back at her response, the absurdity makes me actually chuckle a little. She's just pitiful, like one would pity Gollum. If you know what I mean....so broken that there is no humanity left inside her. Now being on the other side of healing and no contact for over a decade.....I find myself feeling that I was blessed to have made it thru all that. I stopped feeling like I was cheated. The depth in understanding of human beings is now like a superpower. And the ability to see the pain, even in "evil" people, is priceless. They really don't know how to do humanity. It's so sad.

We are so similar...my father started when I was three....very violent and perverted. My mother and siblings scapegoated and gaslit me. I have been a suicidal mess my entire life. Just now healing. I'm so sorry for us.

Danish, I'm so sorry that you had to go through that total mindf*ck. She knew exactly what she was doing with that photograph. You are one of the strongest people to have survived so many layers of betrayal. Thank you for sharing your story.

Danish, I am devastated to know this. Know that you have turned your pain into a guiding force of healing and light for so many of us. Love and healing prayers Danish. - Nidhi

Thank you for being so open and honest. Just know you gave me the courage to leave my covert narc husband of 20 yrs. I thought I was crazy. What an insane 3 yrs trying to sort all this out. Your bravery and videos have helped me more than you would ever know. I think it takes a very kind human to come out of this and still be kind and help people. You are one of those people. Thank you so much.

I'm so sorry, Danish. That was not OK, and you didn't deserve it. I'm so glad that you have healed as much as you have. Your are a test to the toughness of the human spirit and soul. My covert narcissist female biological didn't make me feel better about it, and she didn't say I was lying. I told her and I expected love and compassion. Maybe even a hug and to cry on her shoulder. Instead, she just called me a whore and left me there. I had to find another ride to my own home after a harrowing rape at 15 years old. She never, ever, ever mentioned it again and I never brought it up again either. I was too humiliated and shame bound. F--- THE NARCISSIST! Bless you Danish for sharing these things with us and helping us not to feel absolutely crazy. 😊

You are incredible. Going through so much long term abuse in your life and you are now here helping us. The universe knows. 🙏

The only person who can heal your inner child is your. Don’t expect a parent to understand or help you heal. They won’t. You are the healing angel you need. Embrace your strength!!!! And journal. Writing is so therapeutic!!! Get it out. Get it all out.

Danish I am so sorry for what happened to you. It is remarkable how after so much trauma and suffering you have the strength and the will to help others. Thank you so much for your kindness and love .God has truly made you a light., a beacon of hope for people who have suffered narcissistic abuse and child sexual abuse. I truly hope that you have found peace in your life. You deserve to be cared for and loved. Just know that so many of us who follow you appreciate everything you are doing. You are helping us cope with all the pain we feel on a daily basis. Thank God you are here . Thank you for being so open and honest about your own personal experience. You are a true friend and an exceptional human being.

You have been through a lot of pain, agony and suffering as a child Danish and I can truly understand your feelings. My daughter went through the same pain for seven years since age five and guess who the predator was ??? Her own biological father , my husband. I am glad I took a stand for her and sent my husband to Jail. I don't need such a basterd anymore in my life. Have faith in yourself, love yourself as you are a wonderful human being who is doing quite well for himself. You are helping so many people by sharing your experiences. I would pray for all those people who went through any kind of abuse emotional, physical or sexual by a narcessist, including you and my daughter. You all are brave survivors.

Thank you Danish.💕 I found out later after my divorce with my narcissist ex husband that he targeted one of my sons during our turbulent marriage. To this day he he denies doing what he did, and acts like he is the victim.. My son told me he did this to him when he was around 9... These people use the cover of relationships to carry out evil..

You are so brave to talk about this Danish. Thank you. ❤

I am so sorry for the pain you went through, physically, mentally and emotionally. I can understand you're distancing yourself from all them.

Me too brother ❤ It was my step dad, my mother reacted poorly as well and saw me as the other woman. Keep speaking, more men need to feel safe to speak. So proud of you ❤

Blame beatings and verbal abuse were my parents answer to finding out about my experiences of sexual abuse. I feel your pain and I see your struggle to heal. My compassionate empathy flows out to you. You sharing your story gives me hope.

I had a narcissistic husband & his sister and was emotionally, sexually and physically abusive. I have a son now he is in his 20 and believe me he took away the most precious person in the World from my life. My SON HE IS The APPLE OF MY EYES, MY HEART & MY LIFE. Praying to GOD to forgive forgive both of them for what they have done to me 😢

Danish. You are a beautiful soul with empathy. You are so brave and are helping so many of us heal from traumatic abuse from narcissists. Im so very sorry for what you went through and what so many of us went through. The cortisol and anxiety has been a constant in my life and so many others as well. I too had a Narcissistic mother. My father was too. I have adult children who are also narcisdistic. They choose to continue to follow the darkness. That too has been painful beyond words. 💔 Thank You Danish for the healing work you do and sharing your story with us. Love and light to you and all of us

You are the greatest example of surviving to thriving. Thank you for sharing your experiences. I went through sexual and narcissistic abuse for many years. I am still healing every day and I am 70 yrs of age. I hope to understand the dynamics better and your sharing gives me hope for more healing to come.

I am sorry this happened to you. My sexual abuse happened outside of my family. My father was cruel, insane, my mother was the narcissist but one thing that helped me to move on was telling myself that at least they did not sexually abuse me. You are strong and intelligent and put together. I would have never thought this happened to you. I have learned that sexual abuse is very common. It ruins lives. I am thankful you were able to transcend the abuse. Sorry if I didn't express that right. Such a delicate subject. Thank you for all you do. May you know joy and peace the rest of your life.💖

My child abuser was my moms brother in law she chose him till his death. Her betrayal was painful and traumatic she called me a liar and was very disturbingly loyal to him.

Your story is the same as mine... Even these days, my mother in those pictures near to her "happy" relatives... But at the end is just her mask of false victim because I realized she is a narcissist and always she was... I took distance from these family members also...and I started to feel myself really liberated ❤

My mother did kind of the same thing to me! She abused me for being raped by my father! She blamed it on me! I was the one who wanted it, she would say! She beat me horribly for it! Every time my father would rape me, she would beat me for it! 😢😡👿 Much peace to all of us who've been victimized this way! 👣🙏♥️

Danish, I see you. I see what a magnificent man you are. You survived a horror of a childhood. You didn’t destroy yourself or those who caused you to suffer. Instead, you chose healing. Then you turned around to help others. You did not perpetuate the abuse you lived through. Instead, you chose to spread your insight and the wisdom like no one could do unless they have been through the abuse and healing. You are a remarkable man. I honor you so very much! God is so pleased with your beautiful heart. I am so grateful for your videos. I am so grateful that you are helping me and others. God bless your life! God bless your dreams! God bless your very bright future! The best is yet to come for you! I truly love you and will meet you one day online for an appointment for my healing too. I’m so delighted for all that you’ve overcome! God bless your socks off!!! 💝

Narcissist are pure evil. I am sorry to say. Bro their betray is real. I'm so proud of you. 👊🏽

I can so relate to your history, my mother was the same. Thank you Danish ❤

Oh Danish 😢Thank you for your courage to speak up and share this! I pray you get your complete freedom and healing!❤

I also have gone no contact with my entire narcissistic family Danish...I feel your pain. I thank Jesus for you and your channel.

Thank you, Danish for sharing this. Tears were streaming from my eyes as I listened to your words. I'm so sorry that happened to you. My abuse started at age 5+ went on into my teens. He was my parents' friend.

Thanks for sharing, very strong!! My parents are narcissistic I suffered many years I recognise the signs now They feel threatened over my reactions now

All my thoughts to you Danish. It is very brave of you to share this horrible abuse. I was also sexually abused. It was my mother. I know how you feel. I decided to file a plaint and sue my progenitor even though I don't know the outcome of it.

I am sexually abused for 16 years by my husband This is the truth I want to talk about I want to tell whole world that my husband is a monster And the PTSD I got from this sexual abuse shaped my life

Dear Danish you are such a beautiful person. In spite of being hurt so deeply, you are helping so many of us in our healing journey. I could see the pain you have gone through. We are a family and truly love you.❤️

As Marcus Aurelius said: "We might not controll what happens around us, but we controll how it effects us"

When I revealed my ‘history’ as an adult to a psychiatrist and my husband during an unfortunate episode of postpartum depression, I realized ultimately that no one really believed me. I was viewed as psychopathic by definition because I verbalized it-saying the unspeakable out loud. I was seen as being motivated to “give my husband a scarlet letter” and he hated me for that. I learned my lesson. I have a lot of regrets, but it forced me to reckon with where that history fits in the overall picture of living your best life in spite of it.

I went through sexual abuse as a teen n I am compelled to live with that person even now after a brief period of relief

I can relate to your dreams. Basically I have a childhood trauma about my own dad. I keep having nightmares about him. You're such a brave guy Danish. Thanks from all the abused children out there. ❤

You’re such a brave guy for sharing this. Thank you. When I told my mother that my cousin sexually abused me, she said absolutely nothing. Years later I found out she had repeatedly molested this cousin when he was very young, and then memories came back of her molesting me and my little sister too. Instead of apologising when confronted, she instead smeared me everywhere saying I have schizophrenia. Hideously evil woman. Every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child.

Danish, I respect you for sharing your past. It takes a real man to be as courageous as you. And thank you for dedicating your life to free people from the psychological prisons implanted by our abusers. May you be blessed with greatness, inner peace, and kind warmth.

Oh Danish whenever you share something I feel so proud of you, as you express feelings so effortlessly. Really, childhood traumas affects the later life. Specially when it comes to choosing partners. More power to you & God bless you 👍💐

Giving you big hugs,❤❤ I hate that you experienced that abuse and was not protected, I was so hurt😢 listening to your story, but I see that you are healed and that God has his hands on you my brother, I pray that you continue living your life at your highest potential, in high vibrations to continue to allow God to use you and your story to help us 🙏🏾 You are Loved ❤️ Thank you for sharing your story ... I never knew what a narcissist is until I saw your videos, I understand lots now, thanks to you ❤️🙏🏾

Thank you for this video, it's inspiring to see you taking such a horrific experience and turning it into a way to help other people. I went through things that were similar- my narc mother didn't protect me, she actually put me in harm's way. When she found out about one incident she screamed at me saying could I imagine how awful it was for her to have to deal with this? Recently she took everything I had confided in her, twisted it around to make it all my fault and me the abuser, and told everyone. I've lost all my family, all family friends, and almost all of my own friends. She has even reported me to the police and other agencies. The whole time she is playing the abused victim and has made me out to be the monster. She's even hacked into my accounts and stolen my mail for things to use against me. She's more of a psychopath than just a narcissist but never underestimate what a narcissist will do to maintain their image.

I am so very proud of you Danish , you are the voice for so many victims of abuse . Opening up about this must have been really hard and getting the response that you did must have been really horrible. I experienced much the same when I revealed some things about my childhood, just moments after it had happened , even when I revealed things that happend in my 20's I was blamed . Its the way you dress, you were asking for it, its your fault , if you dont act like how you do nobody will do anything to you . Most of us just want somebody to actually listen , but it seems like we have gotten the really bad end of the stick .Sending you hugs ♥️

Yes, my brother.... No one ever checks in with "you"- the child is for all intents and purposes is invisible. I was chided, "Children are to be seen and NOT heard!" My heart aches with your heart.

I am soooo sorry Danish...😭. You are strong, brave and a true role model how we don't have to be the victims of our past abuse. Lots of love and prayers brother❤🙏

I am very very sorry you experienced this abuse 😢thank you for drawing from your own pain to help others heal. I suffered molestation as a child. Left alone w/ relatives from my fathers side. As an adult, finally being able to process the trauma, I shared w/ both my parents what I experienced. My dad said nothing. My mom had the audacity to try and justify it. Both my parents as well as those who molested me All left here prematurely. I will say that because of my experience I was very protective of my own kids and taught them to tell me if they ever felt uncomfortable around anyone. God answered my prayer to protect them. I wish you continued healing and thank you for being brave enough to share🫶🏾

Dear U have gone through so much hell 😢

I am so sorry to hear this, Danish! Also glad for your healing and recovery! Ten years ago I gathered the courage to tell my mother what happened to me 30 years ago. "This is a lie, you're faking it for attention, I don't believe you!" she said. And I can't forget that empty, soulless look in her eyes. She never talked or ask me anything about that. Like I never told her about my horrible experience...I resonate with you...💯...

I am so sorry . I have one Client Who experienced the same. He refused to be healed and went to his dark life You are a great soul

Damn I know that couldn’t have been easy to talk about, Danish. Thank you for sharing your most vulnerable thoughts and feelings with us. This sad world doesn’t deserve you. Blessings to you on your healing journey 🙏

This is just terrible. I am so sorry you went through this! So sorry.. 😮

Thank you so much for sharing. I can understand how hard it might be to share this, but you did it. Thank you for sharing for all of us. All the things you mention, my mother said to me when I told her I was abused and then she turn things around didn’t believe me, that I was lying. Danish, I’m so sorry for what you went through, and so happy you sought help. Thank you for becoming a recovery abuse professional and helping others. You make a world of different. I wish you healing and peace. ❤️

The repulsiveness of their actions, the sheer evil is incomprehensible. I am so sorry for your suffering but so grateful that you have the heart to help others who have suffered in many ways at the hands of narcissists. I am in the thick of things and trying to get out. Your knowledge and experience, both personal and professional is helping many like me to escape. Thank you.