Better to be alone than in bad company.

I’ve never “given” as much in my life as I did for the narcissist. Looking back, it’s almost amusing- racing around like someone wound up ensuring all the chores and demands of the narcissist were fulfilled. Now, however, 9 months post narcissistic relationship, I’m energised and I focus on me, my family, my home, my pets and I’m relaxed, healthy, strong and totally accepting of the past. Indeed, it’s now he who I find amusing - the ageing narcissist who I’m sure still dresses like a 20 year old and will still be bitter, angry, cold and manipulative and who could never enjoy the little but oh so significant things in life. I feel it’s a blessing that I can now see love and peace in so many things, the flowers in the garden for example without being mocked by the narcissist for doing so. Boy how I have accepted things, for my acceptance has given me new life 🙏💙🙏

"The planet isn't fair" absolutely. And non of us will be here in 100 years. So, enjoy every moment that you can...NOW!!

Absolutely, to radically accept that the narcissist will not change and what happened happened is crucial, and thank you Andrew for bringing it up! Blessings

I enjoy your videos I believe you do a lot of good for the people who are struggling.

we can't heal them, only they can heal themselves but they don't see the need to

Forgive that person... don't let them back in your life. Forgive yourself and then walk with pride whom you are.

CORRECT SIR ! They will NEVER EVER change!!!! And until you come to reality and realize this you will drive yourself CRAZY thinking they will!!! When I was very young in my 20's I really thought I could instill great loving respectful qualities n traits into the narcissist and share the beautiful LOVE of LIFE,painfully I learned through experience NO matter how hard I tried to instill LOVE and SHARING in a teamship way it NEVER worked!! In my late 30's as I would cross paths with these NARCS I ACCEPTED RADICAL ACCEPTANCE!! I finally figured out ANDREW what your saying today in your video that it was IMPOSSIBLE for them to ever change,, IT was not in THEM!! Even if you still have the NARC 5 percent in your HEAD you will NEVER totally heal. You have to develop RADICAL ACCEPTANCE in your brain and mindset that they are just that way and MOVE ON!! Start the healing process, remove, block, have nothing to do with them again and Slowly your DIGNITY and PRIDE will start coming back again!!! Heal,HEAL, heal !! Great VID Andrew!!!💯💯💯💯💯💥💥🤚🤚🤚🙏🙏🙏

Narcissist portrays you as the perfect love of their life. With the passage of time they will take everything from you and will end up depleted, emotionally, mentally, spiritually, and probably financially. 💙KZfaqr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

We have no control over others and in true realty we have no control over pretty much anything! We can be responsible but control is another thing Acceptance means really seeing that for what it is We only have control over what we do Your videos are very insightful Thank you (:

Absolutely Andrew. It is a very important phase of the healing that a person has to do. And when we finally get there, it's like a huge weight has been lifted off our shoulders. I know because I did it. I feel free to live my life without looking back now. Great video as always! Have a great evening. 😘🌟 💜 🙌

I’d say that’s EXACTLY how I got over my ex! I ACCEPTED that he was an irredeemable, evil, insensitive troll, and I moved RIGHT the hell on! It took me a couple of weeks to GET to that point, but I decided I needed to face facts 🤷‍♀️ (sorry, I AM poking a bit of fun at him… for mocking my autism, rest assured he’s earned that and MORE) 😁 GREAT video today Andrew! Keep smiling 😉 😊 Have a WONDERFUL evening and STAY handsome! Don’t you DARE change! XO 😘

“Radical acceptance is also based on the notion that suffering comes not directly from pain, but from one's attachment to the pain.” This is so true! As individuals we need to detach from pain. For instance many years ago one of my brothers passed-away. I mourned him for four years. Yes this was a long time to mourn for someone! The truth is that I was attached to the pain and I had to release that pain. Then after I released the pain, I was healed! And my heart was no longer burdened. We have to be careful because we can attach to others and or objects as well, and we can be bound or be tied-down by unhealthy relationships and or things. We have to do our part to detach from a toxic and or a narcissist individual. In my mind I learned to relinquish or let go of the bad influences and or pain. This takes practice but it’s important to know that if we want to move-on, we have to be willing to release things that hurt us or that are a nuisance in our lives so we can move forward and live happy. Everyone has had and will have different experiences and or journeys with others and some will heal faster than others. Thank God that my childhood trauma’s have been healed. Enjoy your evening everyone and take care!

It took me a long time to get over the false guilt about seeing him for who he really is. So much brainwashing over many years but the acceptance of reality is necessary for healing.

The things that are out of your control, circumstances are the worst. Great video 💐🌿🕊️👏

I have taken my power back, and it feels so freeing! 😇💪

Thank you Andrew people have to accept the fact like my ex-girlfriend that I don't love her in a romantic way and I have to accept the fact that she's not with me anymore which is okay there will be someone out there for me and whoever that is I'm ready to share my love to that person

This has been my survival to except what’s been done I never realised about narcissistic people until I started to seek help over 10 years ago often friends would ask how I got through all this time I’ve always said you have to forgive except what has happened I’m not in control of what I went through but I am in control of me now it’s how you move forward in life .thanks Andrew for all you do your time etc very valuable to so many people

I'm out of it Andrew ! But you said it ! They don't back down from the madness. Ever !! Yes I did proceed with my life! Moved forward and staying motivated ! Don't want to ever grieve like that again ! Great video. Hard topic ,but real ! Thank you, thank you again for your help time , encouragement and inspiration 🙏💯😊🙌💪

Thanks to the many brilliant teachers in these thoughtful comments. What a beautiful community is here.

It's been a month and I'm just now feeling like I want to take care of myself. I'm feeling I have the energy now to take care of myself. He sapped my energy. I m starting to eat right, be happy, was only feeling lonely 2 days this month and exercise

You are SO correct Andrew. One can't change the past -- we have to move forward, forgive and heal ourselves. Leaving that terrible situation was difficult, and actually I left the narc I was married to at the foot of the cross. Let God deal with him!! Radical acceptance, then move on!! Thank you so much Andrew for another enlightening lesson. Love to All in this tribe as you move forward!!!!❤💚💜💙

Over a decade ago, my therapist introduced me to Tara Brach, Ph.D's book, Radical Acceptance. Freedom rocks and better late than never.❤️

I kept hoping that "this time" my Mother had changed. This time she wouldn't pile in & bully me or put me through utterly humiliating heartache. She'd left me with harmful people when i was little while she & my Dad went to the pub or party. With tragic consequences. Surely she was genuinely remorseful this time right? Wrong.. After decades of accepting her back after all her profuse apologies, only to see my real Mother resurface again as soon as I forgave her again, I said to myself "absolutely no more". I think the last time she almost broke me. I've always kept everything hidden from others as I'd been instructed from a small child to do. This time I felt so scared & anxious she'd push her way back in. Even if that meant her turning up at my home again with some sob story about herself & what her latest new friends had tried to do to her. I finally sought professional help through my doctor and a charity. I was told that "she won't change". It's too late & she's never admitted what she is to herself to seek change for herself. I felt like a huge weight had been lifted off me. I was also told that I owe her nothing. So now, I've told her she is not to go on any part of my property again. So she can't barge her way in to use & abuse me anymore. If she really wants to meet me, I am prepared to see her in a public place away from my home for a limited time. I've not heard from her since, except she said she didn't want to hear from me. She doesn't know I've got professional help now but she probably knows something in me has changed. It's hard at times. I feel anger that she could put a little, helpless wee girl to teenager through what she did looking back through my adult perception. All so she could appear to the outside world like "an important person in the town". Then I feel like a grief as I really have let her go. No more hoping & wishing in vain. On the upside I can feel myself getting stronger, calmer & gradually more optimistic for my future.

Thank you Andrew, as soon as I saw "divorce" as what the former spouse applied for (two weeks after my leaving) and it was on CASENET, it hurt that he was done and that was the final discard. I had to accept it, and go to meet my attorney, I heard him whining for Maintenance!!! Over the phone to my Attorney. It was not going to happen! The Attorney is always on my side, he's known me a long time. I've went back to a husband before who was a nightmare, Narcissistic personality, so impossible to please and live with, he had me over a barrel for the next 21 years! NOW WAY, NOT AGAIN. One thing I told the husband that was first, he hated, "Life ain't fair, and then you die!" That's meant for him, none of Us Good Guys! Hopefully All Friends on here had a good day ☺! Super Week to Andrew and All of Us! 🙏 🤲 ❤

Andrew thank you so much 🙏🏻❤️😊

Radical acceptance was hard for me, because as a child I was blamed all the time by my father. He blamed me for losing the "love of his life" (not my mother, they were still married at the time playing happy families while he had affairs), he said it was my fault because he had to come back to the "family" because I was a naughty child (unsettled I would say !) He also said to me as a child that i needed to stick by him no matter what because he stuck by me..... this was the foundation i was given for my future relationships!!! I can see so clearly why i was doomed from the start. This pattern was very hard to break for me throughout my life. Unfortunately narcissists love this and grab hold of it and like you say weaponise it to use to their advantage. The light bulb moments can flood in when you finally open your eyes and look back at your life. The answers are here and within, you just got to find them and be brave. Its like a huge relief, learning has given me peace within. I'm definitely not perfect, but I love to learn and learn pretty quick nowadays, and I can see clearer than I ever have before. Love to you all as always ❤ 🌻🙏 shine bright

The Human Magnet Syndrome by Ross Rosenberg is invaluable in the healing journey and working out WHY we attract these types 💖🙏

Hi Andrew. Happy Labor Day! I was in a 5 yr relationship which I can't change, but I forgive him, wherever he may be. I realize they're sick, and who knows what will happen to them in the end. I was with one, he's gone, and I was not meant to be with him.♥️⚘️

This is a wonderful video. Radical acceptance is acknowledging the fact that the narcissist cannot love you, never did love you, and never will. If you stay with them they will destroy your life completely or out and out kill you. Radical acceptance is acknowledging the fact that you could not love yourself and know all of this and stay in a relationship with this type of person. It takes time to learn that you deserve to have people in your life who love and care for you. Processing your childhood and other experiences, including with the narcissist, is absolutely necessary to help you grow, and learn to love, trust and protect yourself.

the soul feeds the heart. the heart feeds the spirit, and the spirit feeds the eternal mind this is what we share with the world and with the things we love around us that's radical acceptance ❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥

Wow, thank you. When I was discarded, I realized how much I took for granted. I thought there could have been a different way, but I realize now that there was no other way for me to get out. I’m extremely empathic and people pleasing and tried to please my ex spouse. Now I see that I need to accept that this was the only way for me to get out. The new joy, love, peace, and grace I experience now is on such a deep level. I only dreamed of what this could feel like. Now I get to experience it and it’s mind blowing. Thank you Andrew. Keep the videos coming.

I think this is one of your best videos.. it’s really a lightbulb moment when you used death ..you have to accept it. You can’t bring them back just like you can’t change another person.

Thank you Andrew

When I was 25 and in my first ever counseling I remember the woman saying that I needed to grieve some losses of some very close family members and I was shocked. She used the word “toxic”. - I went through a couple years of various forgiveness books and lots of therapy etc, but I never cut ties all the way. Instead, it was a long slow burning off and it’s mostly done now. Now if only there had been teachings on narcissism along with the other helpful things then maybe it would have clicked 🤷‍♀️ sooner. However so, I went through the years learning to walk away from things that just poison me. Very thankful for the here and now. Learning to say no and becoming more free. Andrew, you’re a gift to so many

Today I had young lady in ambulance who grieving for her father for a years. She visited psychiatrist, got antidepressive medicaments from her. I explained her that her father had life and she still has not. She accepted advice.🌈

I'm so mad at myself for allowing him to take my happiness.

"Life is worth much more than gold 💰" ~Bob Marley 😁 comes to mind. Thank you 🙏 for shining your beautiful light for humanity. Goodnight 😴 Andrew & other beautiful souls in the community.☮️❤️😁

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Another great video, thank you so much for all your help and words of wisdom and encouragement. 🙏

I've been working on radical acceptance and it takes time to work through but working at it consistently. Making progress but not there yet.

Andrew~~Bless you. This is such an important message. "Take-Take-Take" sums it up well. And we give-give-give. Radical Acceptance gets me "unstuck" ❣️🙏❣️

I loved the video! Not stuck anymore. Understand. Have done a lot of work to be okay. Very happy. Thank you Andrew for your lovely words. Blessings to you. Namaste 🙏🦋🌈⭐️

In a strange way it's comforting to accept this reality. Once you accept that this is the way they are and won't change, you can heal because you can see it wasn't you at all. It's the way they are wired and they thrive on narcissistic abuse. When my mind goes to memories of beautiful moments, I make myself see the reality that they were acting. It wasn't the truth. They were never truthful, except when they started coming unglued. That IS who they are

O yes..you have to stay in it until you wake up the the nonsense..those narcissist will drain you and drive you mad..you will wait and wait for years thinking they will change..but the never change..thanks for the wisdom Andrew🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾.

i enjoyed the video tonight i hope that one day i will meet your handsome self have a wonderful night Andrew you look amazing with your hair up please keep smiling 😁

Thank you for the video. Well I understood that the narcissist would never change and that they never loved me a little late but I see it now. This channel has been a great help. I'm learning and trying to move forward with my life. It still hurts me alot. I cry , I feel so alone and hurt and angry. I am working through these emotions daily but I'm making progress. I noticed that half my day will go by without a thought of that monster. Thank you everyone for your kind words. Blessings and love to everyone.

I can see how radical acceptance would be hard for someone you're in an intimate relationship with. It's a little easier I think for me because my father is a narc and he's 45 years older than me. When he was 75 and I was watching most of his relationships implode I asked him "Why don't you be nice to people?" and his response was "nice people finish last". I radically accepted he's not going to change seeing he's 75 years old and people don't change at that age. That's when I went from limited contact to full no contact because I couldn't take his abuse anymore.

I've spent the past 20+ years learning to radically accept things and I'm still learning...another gem. Thank you Andrew and much love from Jersey! Namaste 🙏🏻❤🥰😊

Radical acceptance is worth it. Its the only way to healing and freedom. Thank you Andrew. Namaste.

♥️♥️♥️ thank you for your radical truth. For healing . And wholeness. Because of you

The video I posted below really shed light on why it is so hard for codependent people to let go of the narcissist. We suffer from an abnormal bereavement. Letting go of them becomes as we are giving up on ourselves. Quite a pathological attachment.

Love your content, Andrew, and I always Like your videos, and this is how I keep track of what I have watched, too. We must accept what happened, and keep Hope for the future. After enduring thirteen years of devaluation, now 26 years post-marriage, and now am my own person, know that there is hope in new possibilities. Andrew helps us all to look ahead but also proceed with caution.

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I suppose I was practicing radical acceptance to a certain degree while I was still living under the same roof as the narcissist because I accepted for years that he was not wanting to change. Yet I thought I couldn’t financially do life on my own.. sadly I thought this is just how it is going to be🙃🤔 Happy on my own now! I researched now to get this in my mind. -Rather than being attached to a painful past, radical acceptance suggests that non-attachment is the key to overcoming suffering. Non-attachment does not mean not feeling emotions. Rather, it refers to an intention of not allowing pain to turn into suffering. This means watching your thoughts and feelings to identify when you are allowing yourself to feel worse than is necessary.🌿 Thank you for the lesson Andrew! God bless you 🙏🏼❤️🇨🇷🇱🇷✝️ (Perseverance: persistence in doing something despite difficulty or delay in achieving success.) Trials and Temptations Bible verse~James 1:2-16 2Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything. If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you. But when you ask, you must believe and not doubt, because the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind. That person should not expect to receive anything from the Lord. Such a person is double-minded and unstable in all they do. Believers in humble circumstances ought to take pride in their high position. But the rich should take pride in their humiliation-since they will pass away like a wild flower. For the sun rises with scorching heat and withers the plant; its blossom falls and its beauty is destroyed. In the same way, the rich will fade away even while they go about their business. 12Blessed is the one who perseveres under trial because, having stood the test, that person will receive the crown of life that the Lord has promised to those who love him.

The last thing I said to narcissistic ex husband as he was escorted away by the police was.. “Remember.. the best things in life are free” so true Andrew. I’m trying to practice radical acceptance. My pain is real but he had to go. He was Such a toxic man 🥲 thank you Andrew you are a true gem 💎🌈💕

the more you try in your life to succeed your goals the more envy the narc becomes,the more devaluation you get the more shitty you feel

The grieving process is torture but also redeeming. You grieve for the love they bombed you with initially, then withheld from you. I believe it can be PTSD. I still get anxious & nervous when shopping or seeing friends. I get fearful when picking my outfit for the day. I'm still in the fog of appeasing him to keep him calm. I hope with time that dissolves.

This is great, Andrew, thank you! But I am glad you pointed out that it takes time, because it most certainly does. I think before you can get to radical acceptance, you have to take baby steps, and this might look different for each person. For me, it was simply making small strides in using less energy on the narcissist (and all of the horrible crap that they do to you) and transferring that energy to myself. And that is such a weird thing to do for the empath, when we typically expend all our energy trying to please the narcissist. They are NOT worth the effort it takes to hold onto the past, what they did to you - to even hold resentment towards them after all of that crap...it's them still having control over you in non-obvious way. Don't let them win! Allow yourself to take ownership of that energy for your own wellbeing! We love you Andrew, thank you for the much needed help!

In post narcisistic relationships you need to focus on yourself and healing. It is vital to accept people and reality as they really are. We need to ground ourselves in reality and logic. Emotion should be observed and controlled and filtered through reason and logic. Controlling your thoughts and rejecting unhelpful ones is key to healing. Thank you.

Thank you for all your work.

His brother SAID: but, JESUS CAN CHANGE HIM. I BELIEVE GOD CAN DO ANYTHING BUT THE HOLY SPIRIT IS A GENTLEMAN AND IF WE DON'T INVITE HIM IN. HE WILL NOT COME IN. THANK YOU ANDREW FOREVER ❤️ GOOD NIGHT 🌉 NAMASTE

Gone no contact with a narc. She is dead to me. I get it. Facts don't lie. She is a pathlogical liar and never was honest once in 34 years. But now in my past, dead and gone radically accepted. Great video Andrew, like always..namaste.

Integrity

Hi Andrew from Beautiful Costa Rica

I hear you Andrew. I left about 11 weeks ago. You are right smear campaign, gas lighting, etc. No matter what I have a better life now without this person. I will Never go back. I am stronger than ever.... empowered. I can't believe I am no longer an empath. I know what the person did and is doing. Childhood wounds. Yea.... I am utilizing all my strength. I maybe without money, I will go to a food bank. Everything is getting better. I see the person gas lighting. This person is gas lighting me.Andrew I am a stronger person now. I know my reality and fortunately this person isn't in my life. I can handle what ever comes. People I know it is difficult, however, leaving is the right answer if you are strong enough. They will try to ruin your life, however, remember they were doing it when you were with them also. I saw it. Keep strong.... Your life is important.

The palms are creating a halo around your head!

This video and the one on trusting your instincts were exactly what I needed today. I was really second guessing myself. Thank you for explaining that “Radical Acceptance is a process” - I couldn’t figure out why I didn’t have a handle on moving forward/why I kept waffling. Now I get it 😃. I’ll be putting Radical Acceptance into place. This is gonna be tough, but it’s doable -and I’m worth it. 🙂

Sending Love from beautifiul Germany I am going to bed now dreaming from beautifiul Costa Rica ❤️

Cherishing freedom. You are radically beautiful. Thank God . For you.

Andrew - you mean so much to me every day! 🙏

Amen 🙏 still healing & focusing on working on me & getting my son home safely ❣️💯💖 Eating more..lol Gotta stop smoking... God bless you & we All gotta KEEP moving forward 😇💯💕

Where your thoughts go, your energy flows.

Thank you Andrew 🙏🏻

It’s nice hearing this spoken back to me. Thank you Andrew. Refreshing reminder.

Amen! Thank you, Andrew!

We can't stop them if they are government employees with electronic expertise to stalk on phones and pc too. 😳

God I needed this right now. I see the cycle I'm in, now that I've gained back some power and happiness, they are being nice, gentle, etc , I know he is trying to get my sympathy bc if he does, I soften up my boundaries and he can take take take and continue the cycle. I see it. I feel it. I know it but nonetheless it hard bc he's being who I needed and it does feel good (he is only in my life bc we have children tghr or I wouldn't be anywhere near them. The hover is real, the everything. It's hard. Thank you very much for reminding me of the reality, it refueled my power. Thank you Thank-you for doing these videos, they're healing the world one person at a time xoxo "When I was on some 'us' shit, you were on some 'you' shit, now that im on some 'me' shit you trying to make is some 'we' shit, but I got no time for that bullshit". *spot on xo

The ex narc I was with I don't believe he will be coming back no time soon he's on multiple charge's he done to me and my family these people are absolutely evil dark energy.👹👿

Thank you Andrew. This music where I go to find peace. "Estas Tonne" Just wanting to send you a most beautiful song. "Estas Tonne Earth Keeper Summit 2021" This is you sharing...No words I can speak can thank you enough. Hope that song by Estas can say what I cannot 🪶🌠🦙🔥

Beautiful all encompassing concept.

Wisdom! Loving this channel. It’s so affirming. The walk gets better and better. 🙌🏽

You know I've read a lot of books for many many years to educate myself and I try to be careful with everything I read in hear. Although they say that we have to be careful being on social media, that is a very very true but at the same time there are things on the internet that are helpful. One of them is KZfaq that really helped me and made me really aware of narcissism and other things. So you tube and the internet can also be an incredible blessing and so are you Andrew. 💖💖💖

Aloha Andrew! Thank you! 🙏🏻❤️🌺

Thank you Andrew. I really need to hear your message today. God Bless you. You have been my Sensei through this metamorphosis.

Thank you Andrew 🙏 I've been following you for 14 months now. Every time I dip into your channel, your words always reassure me and say *exactly* how I'm feeling. I thought I'd educated myself after my 10 year narc ended our relationship last year. However I've found myself in a new relationship and a new discard. I think the reason I'm holding onto this new relationship is because I lost my Mum this year. Perhaps I'm avoiding my grief by distracting myself with this guy. Except he's totally not interested so I need to find the strength to go no contact and start to grieve for my Mum. Thank you Andrew. Positive vibes always 🙏

I've been out of the relationship for two years but still allowing myself to be hoovered up. I didn't like or want it to happen - being abused. Up until a few weeks ago I didn't know or have a name for this, I've just felt broken and alone. I've felt lousy all day today, I wasn't going to go online, geeze I didn't even want to get out of bed. (it's winter time here anyway, so I just tell people I'm hibernating. A hibernating cow! - year of the Ox, lol) Which seems better than saying I've been hiding under my blankets crying all day. I'm glad I turned my pc on and heard this message. Emotions that have been locked away are moving from my head to my heart. Videos like this are my therapy. Blessings. Thank you Andrew

Thank you for helping me to find the personal space to start healing and growing again. I really appreciate your help 🙏 I hope you have a wonderful day 😃

Great topic and video. I'll add that radical acceptance is also a process. One should never stop practicing and I'd go even further and say it should be practiced in many facets of a person's life. I view it as a journey, not a destination.

You are a just like a huge full moon which shines light un the dark sky. Have been watching you since June when I let the narcisist go. Please write me if you come to Spain. Love to thank you un person. You cannot imagine how happy you make me feel when I friends & family call me thinkng I should be depressed. I've been watching you all day long during my summer vacation and now I'm back to work and happy. You are an angel. Such a kindered heart. Thank you sooooo much!

I moved out of state and blocked him and he called and left a message that he was an hour away! I’m so grateful for all your advice, I used to be so gullible before your videos! God bless you Andrew, you’re a life-saver!

I went from this excellent video on Radical Acceptance, serendipitously, to them a video from Dr. Daniel Fox, who I am following to heal BPD, his was also on Radical Acceptance today. Great for my Moving On, Self Love projects💛🙏⭐

Thanks and blessings, Andrew It’s been a year since I blocked the male narcissist in my life. I cannot believe how free I feel. Hang in there dear ones, if you are still in the fog. It does get better. Love to all!

Thank you. It’s good to hear the things that I’m thinking and know I’m not alone

Thank you for making me aware that cars and watches and money and things like that but I'm not important and that it's respect and love that it's important. I've always felt that I have never been enough to some people in my life. Although I sort of know which important and I don't need to prove what I have, sometimes it creeps up that people only care for you if you have met their standards of what they think they should be and how you should be defined. Thank you wonderful Andrew. 💖

Thanks Andrew, another video to learn by- 👍

Good sound. Great job! Thanks.

You are 100% on this yet again Andrew. I gave, gave and gave some more to this fake. Status means everything to him, yet without it he is no one special. His ex girlfriend, her mother and him bought a beautiful big Georgian house worth £500,000, it had a wine cellar and a separate wing for her mother to live in. It didn’t last long, the mother saw through him and moved out, they stayed on until it was sold and he bought a little house (with help from his new girlfriend) as not much money. As their house was further away from his work, he charged them the excess petrol money for the year he lived there….HONESTLY. 🤦‍♀️. He sold that house and we bought the one we’re currently in, a beautiful 3 storey house. 8 days from moving in, huge argument over nothing and he said he would buy me out, he only wanted the house, not me. We made up, but the abuse didn’t stop, so we put the house up for sale and it was bought the same day. We move out in 12-14 weeks. He is raging mad as he wanted this status symbol for himself. He has a top of the range car that costs the same as a small apartment, that he has to make monthly payments on for another 3 years then £15,000 on the day he returns it. He’s self employed, couldn’t wait to tell me how much he was paid each day and if we stayed together I would be financially secure for the rest of my life. I forgot to say he wanted me to sell all my furniture etc and my car……he thought I was daft, he wanted me totally dependent on him and have me with nothing. I still own all those things and so glad I have my head screwed on. 👍💪💪 Thinks nothing of buying the same clothes in different colours and 10 pairs of jeans he got 4 years ago that still have the price tags on. He has more shoes than any woman I know, more or less identical, and hasn’t worn half of them. Status is everything.

Thank you, Andrew.

Thank you ,Andrew🥰🍀