A relationship is a real thing, and they can genuinely fail for all sorts of reasons. With a narcissist, there was never a relationship. The narcissist is never actually in a relationship with you. The relationship exists only in your head, and of course, that’s one of the more devastating things to realize as the smoke starts to clear you feel crazy.

My Buddhist friend taught me this that might help you with ruminating: Imagine a box with a lid, any shape, any size. It's your box, make it what you will. When a thought comes into your mind that is "upsetting," take that thought and put it inside the box and close the lid. Then take the box and put it somewhere else, i.e. on a shelf, outside, into the core of the earth (which is where I put mine), etc. The thought will always be there in the box if you want to revisit it, but in the meantime, it will be out of your mind. This will help you let go. So, imagine a box...Namaste.

Acceptance is the key. Some people aren't capable of love. It has nothing to do with us. We are lovable. It's their loss. Thank you Andrew ❤

Yes and what the relationship was or is with a narcissist is a living nightmare. The evil-minded narcissist sees you walking around looking like a living corpse from an overload of chronic stress and they act like there is nothing wrong with you. Find a way to get away from these heartless monster's while you can. Thank you Andrew, stay strong Survivor's.💪

A narcissistic relationship is our most difficult life lesson

This is one of your most comprehensive and best podcasts, Andrew. I feel confident in being able to speak on behalf of this community, that we all love you, too!! 👍🏆💜

Im Erica, from Rio de Janeiro -Brazil. Eight years away from the creature, I'm still alone, recovery can take time, I'm a veteran survivor. Narcissism is evil personified, it's darkness trying to turn off the light (we are the light). These creatures know who we are, they always have, but we... We were blind! Now, we see them, we identify them! Whether light! Stronger every day! Your light will eliminate these bugs! I have no religion, I have Jesus! With much love I wish you physical, mental and spiritual health.

Acceptance is the key, truth hurts but truth sets you free.

I was discarded and never heard from her again. It’s been 31/2 years. Best thing I’ve ever done was not to chase after her. Thanks Andrew for all your supportive information. Couldn’t of have made it without your support

Excellent Andrew. The brutal truth can sometimes shock us in the short run, but in the long run it sets us free. Facing the brutal truth is liberating. You should not deceive yourself. I prefer to hear the worst truth than lies and illusion.

You're right in saying that you knew something wasn't right about the relationship but if you have no name for it you think it's just in your head. Once you can name it as narcissism it's like a lightbulb goes on. and everything makes sense. Thanks for the video!

You are so right. I was abused. Sexually and mentally. I rose up like the Phoenix through the ashes, but not before it almost killed me. It's done. I accept it. I see the beautiful flowers in the neighborhood and notice the smell of nature. I can spot a narcissist right away. That is the gift. The trauma bomd kept me alone and isolated. My family helped bring me out of this. I almost died because of him. I feel so fortunate to have learned this lesson. Thank you andrew!!@@❤

The regret and not knowing about narcissistic abuse is real .. thank you Andrew yes it was a gigantic lesson on how not to be co dependent , people pleasing , to discern and trust my intuition , self love , self worth , self dignity , I chose me

I dumped all my friends for my narcissist. It's awful... And had zero boundaries with the narc none he walked all over me. Thank you Andrew for what you do

💗💃 You may find out soon enough that the narcissist/toxic person is not living their best life when they try to come crawling back to you. Just remember why you discarded them or they discarded you, in order to help you stay away from them.

I told my therapist that it’s one thing to have a great relationship and then it fall apart. It’s an entirely other thing to think you had an amazing relationship only to realize it was never what you thought it was. Losing that false reality is a much bigger loss than losing the actual relationship

Watching this at 02h43am after having flashbacks. It is exactly 1 month since i left her, and this video is exactly what i needed. The part about "left for dead" really resonated with me as after i discarded her she tried by all means to make sure i am LEFT FOR DEAD, police cases, trying to get me fired, removing my child from school etc. I have started practicing radical acceptance. I understand it will take time, but that is the only way. Thank you Andrew.

One of the hardest lessons I’ve ever learned. I survived! So grateful! TY Andrew for everything you do. Your the first voice a lot of us heard just coming out of the fog! Telling us we’re not alone, being so loving and kind. I can’t tell you how much that means to me. This page and what you do is a gift! God Bless! 🙌🏻💙🙏🏻

I accept the relationship for what it was - a relation$h1t. I also forgive myself for not knowing what I didn't know before I knew it.

The truth is extremely brutal but we need to accept it. I have accepted it and will do my best with the years I have left. Thank you Andrew ❤

Thank you for sharing your past and for helping us heal from our past. We all had to go thru the painful relationships to rise out of the ashes like a phoenix!

I'm so glad you mentioned - falling in love again -. I would never dare to write that here. It's still my dream as ridiculous as it sounds at my age.

Awesome video, Andrew. WOW! So relatable for me. I was in the darkest place i could ever have imagined. I kept attracting toxic relationships...narcissistic mother, husband, and business partner. Until I watched one of your videos, I thought I was losing my mind. Now, I am turning my life around with much hard work. I have been able to turn those narcissistic relationships into positive life lessons. For all those still suffering, I pray your voice, Andrew, reaches them as it reached me. You have been hugely instrumental in putting me on the path to a fulfilling life. TU.

I knew the relationship wasn’t good from the beginning…yet I stayed. I took him back countless times until…I finally blocked him. Blocking was the key. It’s been 16 months. I received 2 hoovers which I ignored. I’m thriving and he’s in my past, but that wouldn’t have happened without blocking. Block. Block. Block.

You are a true pillar of courage, Andrew. Always saddens me to think how you were discarded the way you were. What kind of person does that? An evil one, that’s who.

Gorgeous setting! Excellent metaphors! Alw appreciate your videos, Andrew, and the camaraderie offered by the community you have created around our shared lived experiences. God Bless everyone! You are not alone and jubilant triumph is ours!🙏🏼💯☀️

Being with a narcissist is like having a nuclear bomb going off in your life. And out of the wasteland comes... Well whatever energy you bring to it.

Great video, Andrew. Everything you discussed is 💯 accurate. The only thing that I can say that won't happen for me is falling in love again. At my age, I seriously can't imagine that it is going to happen...like you said, no one's going to come knocking on my door, offering his heart, and sharing the golden years of our lives...just as there wasn't anyone that was coming to knock upon my door to rescue me from the narcissistic abusive relationships I landed myself in because of my ignorance of what it was. But, "...such is life...", "live and learn." 😊 Radical acceptance for every aspect of my life has come into my life to stay. In the scope of my present life, I suppose that there are worse places to exist...and I have much to be thankful for. My children and grandchildren, and being alive. If tomorrow comes, the sun will shine, and the birds will continue to sing their heavenly chorus ❤🐦🕊🦅🌅🌞🙏✌️❤️🤓😎

Andrew, I can completely understand and relate to everything you just said. I found going through the dark( coming to terms with the narcissistic abuse) and dark people(like Narcs) in life that creativity helps tremendously. I never wrote much my whole life. At this time in my life, I was reading a lot of psychology literature like Jung and Shadow and Creativity. Trying to find answers. Idk this is probably from 7-8 years ago. Subconsciously and creatively a reprimand to that narcissistic abuse. There is a lot of healing in writing and creativity. Here is a jingle I wrote. Some people might think it was stupid others might think it was clever. For myself it had meaning. #creativity As I look into the night. I write by candlelight. Who's to say what's wrong or right? Is it the black and white that gives you fright? Can you bare that sight that I fight for flight. That dream of the Knight that I do so invite. So despite your smite will reach that height. That mind of insight it does enlight. See the light how so bright. Yet still, I write to right that plight. It's my Rite and with all my might.

Perfect analogy of droplets of water 💦 on the rock 🪨. Thank you for another wonderful message and beautiful setting in nature. 💚🌊🌳

Every sentence of Andrew is accurate... 100%

3:20 I tell myself I'll look back on this one day from a better place. It gives me hope when I feel like I'm not doing a good enough job making progress on healing. I'm on 2 months and 8 days separated. Positive thoughts.

Brilliant reminder of how we need to stay away, realise we have our lives to live and not to give heartless toxic people anymore of our precious time in this planet 🌎

Always great Andrew! My divorce from my narssistic wife is about to begin. Your videos have given me the courage to not sweat it. Truth speaks volumes.

Is the lesson that can take our lives from us. It almost did for me. What a fight. It was like being in quicksand. The more time that passed the more buried in it we became. We must run and save ourselves from the narcissist. I am finally here. I have accepted the relationship for what it was. Thank you God and you Andrew and everyone in the community for sharing their wisdom. Let's continue helping those who are still trapped. Blessings to all! ❤

Some things I was criticised for - my shoes, my socks, hairstyle, cooking, interests, career choice, friends, family, education, voice, how I make coffee, how I make tea, restaurants I liked, places I wanted to visit, political views, what newspapers I read, to name but a few. These people are wicked, just cut them off forever and return to yourself.

I am so much better than I used to be! I have had 5 years to reflect on the last 20+ years and without the Noise and the Drama, I Am Happy...

I have never believed that more than now, I'm right where I'm supposed to be. Everything is working out well 😁 I was approved for housing and disability I am so grateful. Bob who ?😅😅😅

I'm SO thankful I'm with you now! I am 100% with you and my journey has begun. 🌺

I’m focusing on moving forward! It’s a slow build, but I’m worth loving myself💜

While I have taken the time to heal and have learned so much about myself, it still stings when I read the title of this video.

Your videos are helping, thanks man

Accepting the ARRANGEMENT for what is was. Yeah....

I am out of the toxic for quite awhile now, but, it still is soothing to hear you talk about it. TY

Left for Dead! Humm...... I'm thinking about that for a minute! 🤔🤨 There is literally, so much TRUTH in those words!! I'm praying for this community of people, whom have shared this experience. Please, Run, Get Out (with a Safety Plan) & Never Look Back! Most Importantly, Go No Contact! Cut off anyone who the Narcissist and you may still communicate with! Wish I knew then, what I know now, but Unfortunately back then, I would've Never believed it myself, if I haven't gone through it! I am one of the "lucky ones" although, I still don't feel 100% safe! Everyday is an absolute struggle, to not be living in fear, that they could show up, anywhere & at anytime? Thank you, Andrew for sharing your words of wisdom, your experience, encouragement, your wonderful smile and your beautiful soul! God Bless! 🙏😔💔💕❤️‍🩹♥️

Dear Andrew, I too was left alone to die. Was with my small daughter. I am stil here, too. Those monsters don't deserve to live.

It's good to acknowledge what we went through though. If we don't, we can't really comprehend the extent of the damage it caused us and heal... Life is a lesson, and with everyone we get smarter and learn from it. The trick is not to fall prey to another narcissist or let the past haunt you.

“Water is stronger than rock” - that is a profound truth Andrew 🙏🏼❤️👍🏼

I feel like almost every relationship I was in was a huge waste of my entire life.

Newbies...GET OUT. Trust me. I am a senior female. I was in the transaction 33 years. Out now 14 years. From my experience, I am convinced the longer I was in the transaction, the longer it takes to metabolize that experience. The pain is mine. It has changed me. The scars will last forever. Freedom rocks, and better late than never.❣️

It isn't easy getting over a narcissist that is for sure. I have 3 children and was married to him for over 19 years. I quit my career and became a homemaker, and I was financially codependent on him for 16 years. Worst mistake I ever in my life. He discarded and left my children and myself high and dry. Moved far away (in with the new supply) and gave up all custody of our children. It is the biggest gut punch ever. This is another great video, Andrew. Thank you.♡

This is wonderful... thank you❤ I read something that helped me the other day. Basically it said, If you think your narcissist abuser is not paying for what they've done, THEY HAVE LOST YOU, and THAT is punishment enough! ❤❤❤

I am in my third version of myself and am healed (mostly), but there is still stuff that I have a hard time totally reconciling. I still tell myself that she didn't really know what she was doing... that she didn't know she was being narcissistic, that she wasn't aware of her attachment trauma. Maybe that's true, but at the end of the day, she was using me. I was emotionally and intimately connected to her, and she pretended to be connected to me, but she wasn't. She had no attachment, no bond. To accept this reality makes me so sad, for me and for her. My narcissist wasn't as aggressively narcissistic as what others here describe their narcissist to have been like, but when I think back I can remember so many, many times when she behaved extremely selfishly and planned her life with her family without even thinking about me. It was so weird. It was as if I didn't matter. I was her lowest priority, her afterthought. When I would confront her about excluding me, she would apologize and act as if it has simply slipped her mind. I wasn't trained to recognize narcissistic behavior. All I knew was that it made me feel unimportant and hurt. I didn't understand it then, but today I see that I was really there to fill her 'leftover time'. Whatever time was left after planning her life with everyone else could be devoted to me (if she thought about it). I am the one who finally said I couldn't do it anymore, but then discussion ensued. Eventually, when she REALLY knew that I knew she was using me as narcissistic supply, she did the cold hearted and cruel discard that cut me through and through. My heart and entire psychological being was disoriented and in serious pain. It seemed unreal to me that anyone could discard another person so coldly. She'd had an abortion earlier in her life and what she did to me was EXACTLY like an abortion. She cut me out of her system, had me disposed of, and never looked back. That was ten years ago. Only now am I REALLY grasping what happened. Thank you, Andrew. Your videos have given me the information I that I didn't even know I needed, but truly, truly did. I am grateful to find this community. To hear you say 'you are not alone' is really, really healing to me.

I think this is one of the hardest things to accept. Especially all the time of your life wasted on a parasite.

💯% right! Live for today, learn from the past and look forward to the future. You can survive after the narcissist and be the best you can be. Never let them control your future. Love and light.

Understand ..I do not desire him harm ..just desire justice..I don’t hate him but all narcissists need to feel the pain they cause at some point”knee dropping hart wrenching pain”period(May kharma do her job..

Being totally honest with myself radical acceptance about the relationship with the narcissist, was one of the hardest things i had to do . I remember that night I was lying awake, couldn't sleep because I was upset once again over things with the narcissist. Finally I admitted to myself what I always had known deep down....He was using me. At the moment I truly saw him for who he was. The tears streamed down my face. I've been divorced from him for almost 2 months now. I have no idea where he is living, what he is doing and to be honest I don't care. Every day I think about him less and I am going out and doing things like I did before he came into my life. I pray he doesn't try to Hoover me. Best he stays away and leaves me in peace.

My son was in a relationship with a narcissist for 15 years. I thought when he finally walked away our lives would be a lot better. I thought the last 15 years was hell well now it's worse . Going through hell . My son had never been in trouble never hit a woman but he paid with his freedom for 14 months in prison while running a trial to prove he wasnt guilty. He got not guilty but I had spent 14 months on prison visits and waiting for him to call me on the phone. It was horrible and something I never thought I would be doing. Those visits broke me but held in my tears till I got out to the car . After court I saw her outside and stared at her and she said He made me do this by deserting his family and I had to make him realise how hurt I was . I walked away waited for my son. Got in the car and drove. I still haven't seen my grandchildren and my son hasn't seen his boys . He is a shell of the person I knew and has to build his life back up then go for his kids . She is going to make it hard that's for sure . He has been told when he goes for access he has to go no contact with the mother and have a pick up and drop off point. He told me things I didn't see . And apologised for taking her side all the time. This isn't over by a long shot but I have told him I am right beside you. I am an empath and it's very draining. Your videos are great and I'm learning I'm not crazy these people do exist and I had one in my family for 15 years 😢

It's misery loves company.

💯 wow yes it almost destroyed me ,you definitely can’t change a thing it’s the path we chose to take to learn & grow I had to do everything on my own except a handful of people that entered my life my councillor,a spiritual teacher and yourself you taught me all the terminologies everything made so much more sense thank you 🙏 I do know that my future is better than anything I’ve experienced in the past as I’ve reached that mountain top living my life gracefully and loving every moment

Thank you so much Andrew. Your wisdom and past narcissistic abuse has helped me find the light and I'm on the way out of mine. Much love and many blessings- nurse Katie🕊️✝️☺️

Your content is amazing! Learning so much from you! Thank you so much, Andrew. I was almost gone from this world too. 😮😢 The numbers have dwindled significantly and some was from my own withdrawal from people and not being able to trust anyone. I always regret it after I say something personal, questioning if it was too much information and what the person might do with it later. Working on it. Healing.

7:19 you have helped me more than I can even say. You opened my eyes wide. I am an empath, probably super empath. What you lay out is exactly what I did and what happened to every point without knowing at the time. My dysfunctional relationship ended abruptly. I stood up for what was wrong, he went into a rage including threatening me with physical harm. My what I now know supernova kicked in. Immediately, I had the police remove him with felony charges of terroristic threats. He found a new supply within a week but that didnt last long. After a year he tried to approach me but I walked the other way. He has tried the smear campaign, but that didn't work either. I thank you dearly for trying to help and spread the word. It is real and you speak the truth 100%. Amaste

You have to accept the relationship for not only what it was, but what it wasnt😢

I had a random conversation with someone years ago who said "he sounds like a narcissist" when I looked it up, everything made sense. Well spoken Andrew

You are so right. Lessons learned from this treatment. Designed to make you move forward not backwards. Your such a great public speaker.💯🤚💙💯

I feel that I should leave a comment because I have watched & listened to a number of your videos after they started consistently showing up in my YT feed a couple of weeks ago. What I’m learning from you still leaves me devastated as I try to process what started decades ago. It sucked the life out of me for a long, long time & still does to an extent; though I fully ended communication in 2016. Thank you for your wisdom. I will continue to listen in the hopes that I finally understand the why of it all.

Andrew it’s amazing how you speak from a place of roar and awakening, wisdom and Intelligence, without hesitation. You are a LION my friend. Keep up the great work ✊🌎

Thank you thank you thank you.. for the motivation, the passion, for sharing your own experience briefly.. thank you.. I strive to get to where you are

wow.... life learning....life altering is what has happened to me....I am so thankful for your videos and shorts....the guidance really helps me....

Well done Andrew! This has been one of your best videos. I’ve been with you on the same timeline since 3/2021 and we have reached indifference after a lot of hard lonely days of work on ourselves. Thank you for giving this journey a clear voice and for your efforts daily to clarify for all of us in this community. It takes courage to stay on track and heal when you’ve been crushed flat by a Narcissist. The hardest Aha moment for me was realizing that my whole 16 year marriage was a Con job, fake and confusing. I fell for it and stayed way too long trying to fix it and failing every minute of those years. I’m so grateful to be out of the nightmare and have radically accepted everything. I finally have my life back and mostly feel healed. You have been a constant source of support Andrew! I’m so happy for you and all of us who reach the pinnacle and feel the joy of life again. ❤❤❤

It was like being replaced as a lead in a play. It was all a performance until the narc felt there was a better person for the lead role. Love is real not a fantasy .

this guy is GOOD! he knows his stuff

Yes Radical Acceptance for what it was-for what it wasn't...and Now radical acceptance for the CHOICE to rebuild -reclaim- and focus on my goals-my taking my power back-living the life that reflects the real me- not the narcs....NOt allowing my energy to go back but to support me in the healing ( digging deep- reflecting) yes but also focused attention on step by step attention of reclaiming the joy and love of life that is my natural state- sooo obvious with him gone- focusing on the gratitude for being out of it- for the OPPORTUNITY to rebuild and cherish and honor life - free from the toxicity of the narc...leave it in the past- as you say CLOSE the CHAPTER..start a new one!!... This is a profound lesson in shoring up my boundaries with anyone...as an empath people seek me all the time..recognizing just how valuable my energy and time is...not willing to give it away anymore...I have lost a loved one and know the pain and process of radical acceptance...this type of loss felt stickier as acceptance that they never loved or where so fake and manipulative stings/hurts in a very different way - yet letting that go will set you free...there is so much beauty and real love starting with yourself... AGAIN SO GRATEFUL for Your Wisdom and support Andrew..we can grow from this ...and rise to a much better version as we take the lessons to heart and rebuild ourselves from the inside out ....the Narc will be left in past and we will move forward brighter than ever!!!!

I think our nature and ability to forget about fights is what kept us together so long. It's just the late nights gone that really bother me and the lies, if I don't discard them then I could end up worse off than I am now.

I found this hidden in my phone this morning that I missed deleting: " My kisses are communicating messages to you. You are loved. You are beautiful. You are my world. I desire you. I adore your body. I want to pleasure you. I want to take my pleasure from you." We were to get married this year. Asked my son for permission. Good "Christian" man who prayed for me. And then ghosted. And then channels like this made it make sense. The love bombing, future faking, the silence, etc. Looking back, click, click, click it all falls into place. Thank God. Thank YOU for revealing the wolf in sheep's clothing and encouragement. This was just what I needed tonight after finding that old text. I pray for his twisted heart and that I never see it again. I am thankful that I am not like him. I am water. But hopefully now, my eyes are opened too.

Profound. Thank you.

my mother for almost 30 years and still

I could say so much, but I think we all understand. Pinnacle has been reached, comfy chair in place, and I'm not moving. The path was rocky and arduous in places, but the view now is pretty spectacular. It happened because I listened and learned. For those who are somewhere in the weeds right now, take heart. It's achievable. Don't give up. We can do this together. 🌹

Radical acceptance. Thank you for reminding us. I am there and I am OK with where I am. I processed child trauma, living with narcissist trauma, trauma bonding, my shame of letting all that happen, being beaten down mentally, and being alone. I am fine with everything and as of today thanks to your videos I am happy because I know I am strong and I am not afraid of my future and I love being me and just being me. I still have a problem trusting people and that's why with me too. I am fine alone.

It was a life long lesson. I'm left to handle everything by myself. I could have never prepared for this. It almost took me out. It gets overwhelming at times. Sometimes I surprise myself when I don't need any help doing a two man job.I never want to go through that again.

you are, by far, the best person on the internet about narcissist relationships , bravo, prayers of love and abundance too you

The way that I realized that he was a narcissist is very unusual. It's a very long story but at one point I found myself in the hospital after having broken up with him a few days before and getting a message from him with a picture of a hospital board with his name on it, saying he had to have emergency surgery. I immediately went to the hospital even though I had broken up with him because I was worried about him. I happened to run into another woman that was doing exactly the same thing, he was dating her too. That wasn't even the half of it. We later found out about two other women! And the both of us talking in the hallway realizing what was happening, a nurse came out of the room and apologized for overhearing, but said that she was with a man just like that, he was a narcissist, and she finally got rid of him and met a wonderful man. I had heard the phrase narcissist before but kind of like you said, that it was just a person with a big ego. Then I started reading up on it, and realized that he hit every single milestone. Particularly the lack of empathy and the weird gaslighting Etc. At that point I also realized that a boyfriend that I had dated 20 years prior was exactly the same and I did not have a name for it at that time. It's been a rough road. I actually met a man a couple of weeks ago, and on the very first day, I detected the love-bombing. Over-the-top. I met him out with a couple of friends, and instead of being like a giddy teenager and being so flattered with all of the compliments I watched him and listened to him carefully. I saw him displaying dominance, subtle devaluing, ultimatums, inconsiderate behavior, and denial of that and refusal to accept responsibility. The very next day, we were communicating and text and he suddenly stopped texting me. When I questioned him the next day about it he acted like he didn't know what I was talking about and didn't think he did anything wrong. It's absolutely fascinating. He's 20 years younger than me, and I am positive that part of his game is that I should be flattered beyond belief that somebody that much younger is interested in me. He's not interested in me he is clearly interested in himself. He actually told me this first day that he is always in committed relationships and if I'm not into a committed relationship then he's out. I recognize these behaviors and words, it's almost laughable. I am pretty amazed with myself that I can read it so well. Turns out that he has a lot of money, a nice car, is good-looking, extremely intelligent and entertaining, but, without a doubt, he's a narcissist. He even made reference to the fact that he was abandoned as an infant and became a latchkey kid and was never adopted. The sad story is almost exactly like my former narcissist. It's heartbreaking that these people went through the things that they did, but it is absolutely terrifying that they become what they have become. Thank you again for continuing to educate us and all of these important reminders to stay strong and stay away.

Hi! I put duty, honor, loyalty, fidelity , love and dedication over myself, but being gasslighted i saw myself as a people pleaser cause the invalidation taken, the DARVO made me invalidate myself through the narcs gaslightin. I know i did what i had to do pursuing good but the narc has no boundaries to satisfaction and her envy made her even worst. WE THE EMPATHS ARE GOOD, they took over us and highjacked our light, KNOW THIS. Be blessed everyone in this good will channel. Thnx Andrew. 2years away from discard. I send you all my blessings.

TY Andrew. You have a way of explaining things that i didn't have a clue could exist. I knew something was terribly wrong but couldn't identify it. You were the first to educate me on everything i was experiencing. My only salvation is that after 28 yrs of hell he has passed. Im trying to put my life back together and climb out of this dark place . Trying to find myself again. TY again for your videos that are so kind and helpful. Bless you.

..... You will learn unconditional love,and patience and many other charistics as Andrew is sharing and teaching. Patience I am learning to have more of. Most importantly God loves each one of his children..... Pray to him and he will help you get out of this. He has a body of flesh and bones the son also, the devil is spirit only.........you can do this......get up off the dirt now shake the ashes of and go...... don't look back .......thank you Andrew for your unconditional love for each person here.....😅.....

I’m still recovering (one month) after my wife moved out. This really helped. Thank you.

As you grow to self actualization and heal from this trauma, you will realize that events and situations that happened were a well planned part of the scam. Nothing was coincidental. The further you are on your journey the more things come to mind. This is a sign of progress. Growth is painful. God Bless you all.

Yes, I thought I was the only person going thru everything you have mentioned and all is what I been thru . During all this my oldest son was murdered in a county jail by the hands of detention officers who didn't provide medical attention when my son kept asking to go to the hospital. Now as my lawsuit is in process , I have been healing, I asked Creator to show me who this person was truly and it was strange because the man that I thought I knew was not of the light . I almost died from the marriage as well as grieving for my sonny. I swear my Ancestors,My Ascended Masters and Archangels ,and Angel's were and are with me always . My son 😌 didn't deserve to die that way . As well as many others who has lost their lives in that facility and have been covered up or brushed under the rug . I stand not only for my son's wrongful death but for all who lost loved ones there that never got the justice or closure for their deaths . It's been going on for years, I will keep healing and loving me for who I am ,your an amazing person for helping others understand that they truly are not alone. I'm Grateful for your guidance and inspiration to keep moving forward on my journey many Blessings to you and your loved ones 🙏🏼💯

Thank you. I orchestrated the discard after I was back with him, and the backlash is harsh, horrible, destructive... Just grateful to be out and for your channel to once more put me together again

Water IS stronger than the rock. ❤❤❤ You’re right, the past relationship that sent me your way was a huge life learning lesson. BUT, I had SO MUCH MORE to learn. I mean, I’m not grateful for that chaos, but I AM so grateful for all the education. I feel stronger. More refreshed. It’ll be 2 years in July since I left / was discarded (sort of a mutual firing sound and running 😉), but I’ll tell you Andrew your education has improved my life. And it also peaked my interest for me in more. May God bless you more and more and more. 🙏❤️💪🙌💯

My relationship with the narcissist neighbour was nothing but a lie . I accept that now .

Honestly up to this point there is no such thing as genuine love😔😔😔I’m 50 so we shall see..it’s a “last chance”for an empathic soul to enjoy me…I still have no clue how a “healthy”relationship feels with a healthy mind(a mate)..

Andrew, you are on FIRE! This may be the best video so far...and that is really saying something. You help me daily to re-energize my commitment to stay away.from my narcissist. I cannot tell you how much I have learned from your videos. Thamk you so much my friend! Nameste!!

I am a widow and the repeatedly would say that everyone hates me and that my husband hated me and that he brought on his own death to get away from me.

Oh my darling friend Andrew, I understand the video completely 😢 but the best thing is that we are walking forward 😅, may God bless all of us that are suffering still 🙏 ❤️

~Vertical Horizon~ "All is Said and Done" is an Awesome song!

Great education. You came out the other side .. I'm so glad the world is waking up to these people... Imagine... Only till few years ago there was no content .. these people were getting away with everything... To now going to be exposed .. they need to teach about narcissism in schools

🎉 the rabbit hole was dark and muddy but i made it too the light . Thankyou Andrew❤🎉

Right time....LOVE this one!!!!!! What it WAS!!!!!!!!!