On Fear-Based Parenting
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Күн бұрынParenting with fear will inevitably lead to unhappiness and frustration.
@blacksoul2410 2 жыл бұрын
@3:30 that is a great analysis of self. i've thought about the possibility of the expectations I impose on my future jits(children) would wind up hindering there development
@elywananda 2 жыл бұрын
I had a bit of an epiphany this weekend in that regard which I think I'll do a quick vlog on this week. Basically, I must learn to stop micromanaging my children! I'll be much more at peace and they'll be able to grow and learn at their own pace.
@blacksoul2410 2 жыл бұрын
overall a great video. an astute understandin' of the dynamics of parentin' and shapin' the tastes, desires & outlook for your jits is a necessitative underpinning of bein' a parent and 🔑 to their overall growth. To me in a sense & I'm gonna use a boxing analogy(bc I love my boxing) its a matter of "styles". as they say in boxing "styles make fights". one "style" of parenting isnt better than the other it depends on the environment & you cater the style of the "parenting" to the environment in which one rears their jits up into. Great Video nonetheless gonna share with my ol lady and my folks see if they'll give their input
@elywananda 2 жыл бұрын
100% bro. I don't know why this notification completely missed me until now, sorry about that. I love the boxing analogy, so true - you need to flex and adapt as required. No one style will work all the time!
@blacksoul2410 2 жыл бұрын
bout to listen to this while on the jobsite
@elywananda 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks bro. Hopefully some useful nuggets are in here!
@blacksoul2410 2 жыл бұрын
& ive heard of leyton, from what i hear a pretty notorious area.
@elywananda 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah it's got much, much worse than it was back in my youth. The last decade or so it's become a bit of a hotbed for gangs. But, at the same time it's also becoming more and more gentrified and expensive. Classic two sided coin.
@blacksoul2410 2 жыл бұрын
@10:45 😂😂😂😂
@elywananda 2 жыл бұрын
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@blacksoul2410 2 жыл бұрын
@4:40 the racial component is a VERY big thang for me & ive talked to my ol lady about this for quite some time and we both agree in regards to where the schooling SHOULD be but life will dictate how thangs will go in regard to finances unfortunately
@HP-il4xf 2 жыл бұрын
thank you for your video 😊 I wish you the best and hope you message is heard, discovered, & learned from I wish for you the best possible you deserve as much I hope the family have just as happy a time as I'd wish for you
@HP-il4xf 2 жыл бұрын
growing a healthy community would grow the well-being of those involved and connected to that group if your neighborhoods got each others back, work with each other, support each other, more ease would come from this. catering too your children's logic and critical thinking skills these kinds of thing combat propaganda as dose an understanding of rhetoric & an expansive vocabulary so they can better express themselves.
@elywananda 2 жыл бұрын
@@HP-il4xf Thanks fam for you love and great advice. It's definitely all about community, and we are building some good friendships and connections, slowly but surely. And I'm glad you reminded me of the critical thinking. I must seek out some materials that helps develop children's critical thinking skills.
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