ONE YEAR POST OP!: A Year In My New Body (AMAB & TransAndrogynous)

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🦋 Social Media: instabio.cc/20427AfMqBB
🦋Time Stamps:
Surgery Preperation: 4:17
Physical Healing: 15:10
Emotional Healing: 24:27
🦋 Anti Trans Laws Map: www.aclu.org/legislative-atta...
🦋Resolving Feelings Before Surgery: • FAMILY, FAITH & FEAR: ...
🦋Connecting With Femininity: • CONNECTING WITH FEMINI...
🦋Bottom Surgery Vlog Pt 2: • Bottom Surgery Vlog Pt...
🦋Gay Man to Lesbian: • GAY MAN TO LESBIAN: Ho...
🦋 Bottom Surgery Vlogs: • Bottom Surgery Vlogs
🦋 Post Op Videos: • Post Op Videos
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Egg Berry: / @shelleyberry188
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Ashton Daniel: / ashtondaniel
Isamisomiso: / @channel_miso
Flawless Kevin: / flawlesskevin
Luxander: / luxander1
Curio: / curiovids
ThoughtSlime: / thoughtslime
Ofherbsandalters: / ofherbsandaltars
Flying Squirrel: / @flyingsquirrel965
A. Wylde: • Non binary dysphoria e...
Ash Hardell: • 🌼 Why I'm Not a Boy 🌼
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@charlieb6210 Жыл бұрын

Seeing different ways of being trans by creators on KZfaq and Twitch really helped give me the courage to start transitioning. If only something like this had been around when I first tried coming out trans when I was in my early 20s I would have been spared years of isolation and depression. Thank you Bryn for sharing your life with us! 💙💜🤍

@brynavery Жыл бұрын

Im glad you’re able to find yourself and transition now, even if it took a while for you to get to that point. And I’m glad that my journey has been able to aid you in your own 💛

@DorianPaige00 Жыл бұрын

Just inform your doctor and psychologist that you are sure of what you want. I got denied estrogen twice because I said I wanted the traits that estrogen brings but still want to present as male. It was common for people in earlier generations to take estrogen or get FFS and live as male and perhaps be a female entertainer by night. However, I'm not into that aspect but I use estrogen to keep the male traits of my youth. Best of luck!

@CrowGarden Жыл бұрын

I'm sorry you have been dealing with trash people. For what it is worth your videos and your presence online have been a great comfort in my life. Sending lots of love your way!

@brynavery Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much 💛

@rat-of-pain Жыл бұрын

I'm transandrogynous too, and I found your channel when I was just about to start HRT, but was still a bit scared that it wasn't right for me since I'm nonbinary. Hearing your experiences with hrt helped me a lot in understanding that it was the right thing for me. It was also around the time you were starting your bottom surgery videos, and it was really nice to be able to follow your posts through a step like that while I was taking a big step that I've been anticipating myself. Now it's been over a year and I'm happy that I took that step. Thank you for sharing your experiences, and 🖕 transphobes for being so bothered by our joy.

@brynavery 11 ай бұрын

I’m really glad my videos have been able to aid you in your journey & feel happy about the steps you’ve taken And thank you! 💛

@michaeleberl2222 Жыл бұрын

Still the best channel on KZfaq. Thank you for not trying to sell us things and for not yelling stuff like "smash that like button!" Lol. It's good to hear you're doing well. Keep thriving 💗 Also, made it to the end.

@brynavery Жыл бұрын

You’re so sweet, thank you so much 💛

@all-the-spiders Жыл бұрын

I've commented this sort of thing before, but your videos really meant a lot to me while I was making the leap to medical transition. I really resonate with this idea of convincing yourself that you don't want what you clearly want/need. I was depressed to a degree that would worry mental health professionals, yet I still refused to even consider hormones, let alone other things, even though I was an out trans person anyways. But as I made the leap to hormones, which I felt was too much of a commitment, I realized that it freed me up to be happy and live a life worth living, even if it meant occasionally going to doctors more than most cis people, or being on meds for the rest of my life. Now I can say that commitment is a lot less difficult for me, and transitioning has made me feel in tune with myself and others in a way I never thought possible. So basically I relate, and I thank you for your videos

@brynavery Жыл бұрын

I’m really glad you were able to make the decision that’s best for you. I was out as trans for almost 2 years before going on HRT. Lots of fear and confusion (especially since I was out as a trans woman, not non binary). Fear is a normal part of life, and nothing to be ashamed of. I’m glad you were able to make the decision that’s best for you in spite of fear or whatever else was holding you back, and I’m glad that it’s given you a breath of fresh air and allowed you to live a healthier happier life 💛

@Aquatendo Жыл бұрын

Bryn, sending some positivity your way! Of trans and non-binary KZfaqrs I watch, you are my favorite. I feel like I share similar thought processes to you, and love the way you convey those thoughts to us in a calm, balanced way. Earlier this year I finally came out to my family at 26! Although I’m still really tentative about expressing myself because of all the walls. (Like, only a year ago I literally could not say the word transgender out loud - that’s how awful my walls are. Now, I can say it so easily it’s almost ridiculous.) I wish it wasn’t so difficult, but the relief I get when I finally break through tells me it’s worth it!

@brynavery 11 ай бұрын

That makes me so happy, thank you so much 💛 I totally understand about how difficult it is to say you’re trans outloud. I went through the same thing when I came out as a gay guy at 14. Went through it when coming out as trans, non binary, and recently a lesbian. It can be difficult, especially if you face opposition from those around you. I’m glad you’re able to find yourself through it all 💛

@user-eh5mw8tm4n Жыл бұрын

I love the term TransAndrogynous so that's a really cool thing from your channel ^^

@brynavery Жыл бұрын

🥹 thank you. Honestly when I came up with/started using that term I was worried a lot of people would have something negative to say about it, but I’ve had a lot of people tel me they love & use the term themselves, so that makes me really happy. Thank you for letting me know it resonates with you 💛

@skylarmoehs5068 11 ай бұрын

hey i don't have much to say, but thank you. i found your videos when i really was first coming to terms with myself in 2020, and figuring out how there was a way to explain me being transfem and fitting any sort of stereotypical image of a hyperfeminine straight trans girl who has """always known.""" i've come so far since then, and gotten the confidence to declare myself openly as a fairly gnc trans woman and lesbian, but it always makes me so happy to come back to your videos to remind me of how much they helped me when i started, and that even though we might never meet in real life, there are so many trans people out there living their lives and thriving, dealing with some of the same intense struggles but still reaching fulfilment and true happiness. thank you again

@brynavery 2 ай бұрын

Sorry for the suuuupppperrr late reply, I barely get on here anymore lol Thank you so much for this. I can’t tell you the joy it brings me to hear about stories like yours. I recently ran into someone at a bar who recognized me from my videos and shared similar sentiments. Congrats on discovering yourself, and I’m really glad I was able to help be a part of your journey. Much love 💛

@beautifulgirl219 2 ай бұрын

Great video Bryn. Shaing your thinking and feeling on all these issues provides so much context for so many of us. Inevitably many of us share some aspect of your experience, and when we do not, it still helps so much sharing in others experience. Your courage and openness helps many of us. I relate to much you say.Thanks.

@brynavery 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for this. I’m really glad my videos can help people, and I appreciate people like you reminding me of that 💛

@riverchampeimont 2 ай бұрын

I know it's kinda unrelated to the video, but it's really great you listed other enby/trans KZfaq channels in the description, there are amazing resources there!

@brynavery 2 ай бұрын

Aw, I’m glad you like that! I got lots of comments about how hard it is to find other non binary KZfaqrs so I wanted to make it easier for people. If there’s anyone you can think of that’s not on the list, let me know and I can add them 😊

@KL-zt6jx 10 ай бұрын

That emotional connection to life that you described after your grs, sounds based tbh. And 26 is still young, so raising kids sounds still very viable. With your emotional maturity, I'd imagine that you'd be a great parent!✌🤟

@brynavery 9 ай бұрын

Is based a good thing or a bad thing? Lol I looked it up on Google but it had two different definitions. Sorry for my naïveté 😭😅 And thank you so much! Not to brag but when I was with my ex and raising her kids, it came really naturally to me, and everyone around me could see that as well. I’m hoping to have kids some day, that’s where my heart feels truly alive.

@KL-zt6jx 9 ай бұрын

@@brynavery Haha, language is a strange thing. Based is somewhat equivalent to "fucking awesome". Happy (almost) weekend!

@user-wd7gs3po9p Жыл бұрын

Your videos have meant SO much to me and helped me SO much. Your authenticity is undeniable. Thank you!!!

@brynavery Жыл бұрын

That makes me so happy to hear, thank you for letting me know 💛

@jetbuilder Жыл бұрын

Hugs I’m having my very first zoom consult next week for bottom surgery! I’m so excited!

@brynavery Жыл бұрын

Omg that’s so exciting!! What surgeon (if you don’t mind me asking)?

@ugotiii3530 Жыл бұрын

We love you and missed your presence. I would think about you and hope you were doing well. Fuck the haters. Why tf u gonna watch a video just to talk shit.. people are bored I guess 🙄

@brynavery Жыл бұрын

That’s so sweet, thank you. 💛 honestly I’m sure most of the haters don’t even watch my videos, they just see the title and get mad lol. I got a lot of rude comments on my “gay man to lesbian” video, I guess that pissed a lot of people off lol. Normally I don’t take them to heart, and sometimes I try to educate people, but idk it can definitely just be exhausting. Thank you for your comment and it makes me feel special to know you were thinking of me when I wasn’t posting! 💛

@strawberryowl3211 Жыл бұрын

Try not to let the negativity get you down. Your videos always brighten my day.

@brynavery Жыл бұрын

Thank you 💛

@LightningHeart93 Жыл бұрын

These series of videos have really helped inform me on my decision to go forward with bottom surgery. You are an amazing soul!

@brynavery Жыл бұрын

That makes me so glad. Thank you 💛

@tobiasruland4553 Ай бұрын

53-year-old mtf non-binary from Germany here. I'd simply wanted to drop a comment full of love and support here on your channel 🌈🦄🫶

@brynavery 13 күн бұрын

Thank you so much!! 💛

@znswanderer Жыл бұрын

Hi Bryn! As usual, I made it to the end ;) It's so good to hear from you again! I'm so sorry you're getting so many negative comments and it's good that you're deleting them. Yes, it's getting more and more toxic for trans people and the news from the US (especially Florida) is pretty shocking. I live in Germany where the situation is not so bleak at the moment, but the conservatives here are getting louder and louder and a group from a conservative party visited Ron DeSantis last month, which is quite alarming to be honest. Yes, you've had a very positive impact on me. For example: I had my GCS in February this year and I took your advice to bring my stuffed animal. That helped so much :) I can very much relate to what you are saying about how one changes after surgery in terms of commitments. I'm so much more active now than I used to be because I'm no longer waiting for the stars to align before I start something. And it's good to allow yourself to wish for something. And yes, I would love to have children, but unfortunately I'm too old to adopt. But that's okay. It's okay for me to have that wish, even if it can't come true. It's much better than ignoring it or telling myself I don't want kids. I wish you all the best!

@brynavery Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your support, and congratulations on GRS!! I hope Germany doesn’t get out of hand regarding anti-trans policies and stuff. It’s nice to hear from someone who had similar results with surgery (in regards to commitment). I’d never heard anyone else talk about that before. And I’m sorry you’re too old to adopt, but I think it’s very strong and powerful of you to able to admit what you want, even if there is no solution. Best of luck with everything 💛

@znswanderer Жыл бұрын

@@brynavery (Regarding commitment) I think once you have committed to something like GCS/GRS most other commitments are kind of trivial ;) Now most other things in life pale compared to that. I think this is part of the reason why I am trying much more things than before.

@brynavery Жыл бұрын

@@znswanderer I totally agree!

@leejid5042 Жыл бұрын

Bryn! I don't comment on your videos so often, but I see you, and I'm so glad you choose to share with us. I'm sorry you've been getting hate. I'm sending lots of love your way!!!

@leejid5042 Жыл бұрын

Just finished the video. Appreciate you. Your mention of wanting kids really resonated with me, especially telling yourself otherwise to preemptively avoid disappointment. Glad you came around, and I'm wishing you the best. I liked Ash and Gray's videos about their journey and would love to hear other stories of non binary parents.

@brynavery 11 ай бұрын

Thank you so much 💛 I’m glad to hear you enjoyed my video and could relate. I haven’t seen Ash’s videos in a while, I knew they had a baby though. I’ll have to watch their videos about their journey into parenthood. Thank you again 💛

@JaxTheCartographer Жыл бұрын

Dude your videos are amazing. Im still very early in my transition. Im starting hrt soon, and due to your videos and a lot of other creators and obviously assessing my own needs and desires. I realized medical transition is probably right for me(Im still so scared of it tho too so not an end all be all but I need to at least try for myself. I definately relate to your content so much, its helped me through this process. I appreciate your willingness to share your experience. Trans androgynous amab people like you and myself exist! And content like yourse helps this niche community realize its possible and its ok to have feelings like this. Its Difficult and confusing and everchanging, but its possible and these are the feelings I didnt have words to put to and you truly helped. Thanks :).

@brynavery 11 ай бұрын

I’m glad you’re able to be honest with yourself about what you want and need and are able to make decisions to get that. I’m so glad I help you feel seen and helped put words to your feelings and experiences 💛

@Sean48827 Жыл бұрын

Hi Bryn, you're videos are great! You have helped me realize that I am nonbinary trans because I have had a similar trajectory to you and your videos helped me feel seen at a very vulnerable point in my life. I had been trying to force myself to be a very feminine trans woman and it felt slightly off, and it was mostly because I was not giving myself permission to just be myself. Your videos helped with that.

@brynavery Жыл бұрын

That makes me so happy to hear. You deserve to thrive and be free to be yourself 💛

@BWAcolyte Жыл бұрын

That hair color with your eyes 😍😍

@brynavery Жыл бұрын

Omg thank you!! 💛

@geezergo7186 8 ай бұрын

Hey Bryn… I’ve been following you for several years now, and always appreciate your content. I’m sorry to hear you’re receiving negative comments… sadly there is a lot of vitriol out there. I’ve been living in Florida for three years now (after spending 19+ years in California), and of course the legislative attacks are more than disconcerting… And i know I need to keep my options open in to leaving this state, if worse comes to worst. I will say that there actually is more community, and opportunities for building resistance. I feel far more connected within the trans community here now, so that is a positive. I will say I’ve always admired you and your level-headedness, and the fact that you have successfully navigated transition at such a young age (and despite your other health conditions). I am non-binary as well (though I do feel more connected to my female psyche), and also at some point do want to have bottom surgery…. As someone who is several decades older than you, I kinda feel my time is running out. 😢 Please keep posting no content and try to not to let the trolls get to you… It’s amazing that these folks CC are so obsessed by us to be spending sooooooo much time on our social media pages. Hang in there, Bryn! - You’ve got a bright future! ❤️🌹❤️

@brynavery 8 ай бұрын

That makes me so happy to hear that there is a strong community for trans people in Florida. Seeing everything that’s going on there breaks my heart. Something I’ve always loved about queer communities is how well we care and provide for each other. When the world turns their back on us, we keep each other afloat. And although it shouldn’t have to be that way, it’s fortunate that we have each other. Thank you for your kindness, it’s nice to be reminded that in level-headed (sometimes not-so-nice people try to tell me otherwise lol). I will say I’m very fortunate to have figured out who I was so young and to have the ability and emotional endurance (as well as the support system) to transition so young. Honestly when I look back I think it’s crazy that I did that. Not in a bad way but just like wow, how tf did I manage that? Lol I know this may sound cheesy, but it’s never too late! I know that obviously depending on age and health conditions etc, surgical intervention can be risky (and just in general it’s a pretty invasive procedure). But I’ve heard of trans women in their 60s and 70s getting bottom surgery. I would just say to follow your heart 💛 I know I haven’t posted in a while but it’s not because of the transphobes lol I’ve just been busy and haven’t had the energy or time to really plan out a video. Plus I’ve been going through quite a lot mentally/emotionally (nothing bad, just heavy stuff). But I do plan on posting again soon. Thank you so much for your comment, it really does mean a lot. Much love 💛

@goodbit11 5 ай бұрын

6 months too late, but oh well. I came across your channel while discovering my own gender identity, you helped me accept myself and showed me its possible to be who I really am inside and out. Now I'm 18 months on HRT, out as nonbinary to everyone I care about, and living my life in a way I didn't think was possible 2 years ago. Thank You!

@brynavery 2 ай бұрын

Congratulations, that makes me so happy to hear. You deserve to live your best life, and I’m so glad I got to be a part of that process for you. Much love 💛

@Quinn82901 Жыл бұрын

Your videos and wisdom have been more impactful (in a positive way) on coming to terms with my identity and my gender than any other info I’ve seen. You are the best ❤

@brynavery Жыл бұрын

That makes me so happy to hear. Thank you so much, and I’m so glad I’ve been a positive impact on you 💛

@lensolla7777 Жыл бұрын

Missed you! Hope things are great lately

@brynavery Жыл бұрын

Thank you, they definitely are 💛

@mohsenhosseini2570 3 ай бұрын

I think your videos are honest and open. They are helpful to people experiencing similar issues. Sorry that our society is moving in a transphobic direction. People forget that, in the end, we are all humans going through our individual journeys in life. What gender expression or gender orientation one has is only one's own business and no one else. Wish you the very best!

@brynavery 2 ай бұрын

Thank you so much. It’s definitely scary seeing all the political and systemic pushback against trans people. But it’s been happening for many other marginalized communities for a very long time, so I’m not surprised. I do believe in the end we will win, and someday the world will be a place that is loving and respectful to all communities and demographics of people. But change doesn’t happen until things get really bad. Thank you again for your support 💛

@dawnslack5515 Жыл бұрын

We support you, Bryn!

@brynavery Жыл бұрын

Thank you! 💛

@electric.castle666 Жыл бұрын

Your videos have been really healing for me and I'm very appreciative to have a snapshot of your story and growth.

@brynavery Жыл бұрын

Thank you, that makes me so happy 💛

@Piotrus208 Жыл бұрын

You are so easy and enjoyable to listen to. Your positive attitude is so inspiring...despite all the challenges. I love your concise and masterful command of the english language ! Your narrative style shows your thoughtfulness. Please continue to thrive and be happy. Remember that you are never alone.

@brynavery Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! Honestly I take a lot of pride in how I speak and I’m really thankful that it comes relatively naturally for me. I appreciate this so much thank you 💛

@Piotrus208 Жыл бұрын

I also like your smile

@brynavery Жыл бұрын

Thank you! 😊

@Heliokinde Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing so many steps in your journey (journeys? I'm here for the transition stuff, but so glad you do videos on other struggles a community of peeps can help with and be informed by). You were the first story I ever encountered of someone AMAB, trans, yet androgynous that also took medical steps to heal their selves. I needed this when I felt I didn't deserve medical help. I'm so dissapointed to hear the frequency of negative comments has increased, and am here in the comment to drown the hate in solidarity and love :) 💜🦾

@brynavery 11 ай бұрын

I’m so glad my journey can be of help to you! I felt really lost for a long time because I didn’t see representation that truly resonated with me, so the fact that I can be that representation for you and so many others makes me so happy. Thank you for your support, it’s very much appreciated 💛

@bluecandy99 4 ай бұрын

thanks so much for putting yourself out there on the internet as a trans creator. I used to watch your videos before I was out as a trans person and they really helped me to understand my emotions and know that they were similar to what you were experiencing. Your videos helped me realize i am trans. Your videos also helped me feel comfortable starting hormones. I remember I used to watch your videos when I thought I was non binary and feel confident and happy because I saw someone else who was non binary take hormones and saw that that was something I could do. After coming out to my parents I decided to start hormones and felt comfortable doing that because of you. Recently and for awhile I have been considering getting bottom surgery. Your videos have been really helpful in helping my emotions see that that’s safe and ok. I actually live close to DC so I am looking into Dr Del Corral as a potential doctor. I wish you all the love and happiness in the world and just know that everything you have produced so far has been great and has already helped me immensely. -Eloise

@brynavery 4 ай бұрын

That makes me so happy to hear. I smiled reading through your message. I’m glad you’re finding your way, and that you’re able to be who you are. Dr. Del Corral is amazing. I hope you’re able to take any steps you feel are necessary to be true to yourself 💛

@idasvenning3892 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this video! Your thoughts always resonate with me, but especially your description of dysphoria as a wall. I had such a hard time understanding it before I alleviated some of it by changing my clothes and hair. Now I know what it's like to feel (somewhat) connected to your reflection so I can see what the wall kept me from feeling before.

@brynavery Жыл бұрын

I’m glad my words resonate with you. Dysphoria was really confusing and challenging for me because I didn’t have that intense hatred that it seemed like other people felt/feel. But once I was able to understand what dysphoria is to me I was able to start breaking down the “walls.” I’m glad it seems like you’ve been able to break down your own walls and begin to connect with yourself. You deserve peace and joy 💛

@pmhr2153 6 ай бұрын

Thank you for producing this series! 💛

@brynavery 4 ай бұрын

Glad you enjoy it! 💛

@christinahamiltonracing 10 ай бұрын

I don’t comment often but I really enjoy what you have created and posted. I’m transbian and I really relate with a lot of what you’ve said about gender here and in previous videos. I identify a lot with what I hear from non binary and somewhat androgynous sapphic people, but I never really believed in the limitations of the gender binary so the label of woman just felt and continues to feel right to me. The haters will never know how incredible life can be when you can create and be the person of your dreams. 🦋 Sending love 🩷🤍🩵

@brynavery 9 ай бұрын

That makes perfect sense, I’m glad to hear we can relate in a lot of ways. Thank you so much for your support 💛

@jakobbach1192 Жыл бұрын

Your videos have helped me a ton

@brynavery Жыл бұрын

I’m so glad 💛

@lovehatemediaproductions Жыл бұрын

So glad we got to speak. Always excited when you upload, as always! Stay groovy - Stacey

@brynavery Жыл бұрын

Thank you 💛

@curly_sunshine Жыл бұрын

Your videos have been key to my transition 💕

@brynavery Жыл бұрын

That makes me incredibly joyous to hear 💛

@amaram4217 10 ай бұрын

Binging your videos today, i find your work very helpful and insightful!

@brynavery 9 ай бұрын

That makes me so happy, thank you! 💛

@JessicaMcShane462 3 ай бұрын

You have been a positive influence on me. love you girl and stay strong!🥰🤍

@brynavery 2 ай бұрын

That makes me so happy to hear! Thank you 💛

@mrwinky696969 3 ай бұрын

Bryn, hi dear, how are you? I made it all the way to the end of your video. I'm glad I watched. I learned so much more than I thought I would. I am going to process this and pay attention to any noticeable adjustments in the way I think and feel and if this modifies my behavior. I am a Bipolar queer. I am happy you feel more freedom. I'm very grateful that you have more videos for those that are looking. I clicked on your video totally at random. I saw the thumbnail for this video. Your red hair caught my eye. I think you are naturally attractive, with pretty green eyes (no need for makeup), a beautiful smile and a nice voice. I hope you get everything you dream of. Thank you and take care, Bryn 🥰🤟👍

@brynavery 2 ай бұрын

Thank you so much! 💛

@user-db8nc6qd5b Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing your experience. Your videos are very supportive and get my one more step closer to realization that I might be trans.

@brynavery Жыл бұрын

I’m so glad my videos help 💛

@DKTGSupport Жыл бұрын

The still picture that you used for this video that is also how I feel about it being one year. The earliest video I saw with you was the 4 year HRT. But that a have passed so quickly is really weird. And I found that video cos I was searching answers on my own gender problems. Thank you for being nice & open.

@brynavery Жыл бұрын

Damn so you’ve been here for quite a while then! Thank you for watching my videos and letting me know how I’ve helped you. 💛

@MarnieSea Жыл бұрын

Thank you for posting, and for going into detail. It really helps me feel more confident in going ahead with bottom surgery :)

@brynavery Жыл бұрын

Glad to help! Do you have a surgeon/date for surgery? Or you’re still looking into all of it?

@Rhyswithoutherspoon Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing Bryn. You’re videos have really helped me on my journey. I’ve really been able to understand myself a lot better because of them. I always get a smile on my face when I see a new upload. Please stay safe, it’s so scary seeing what’s taking place in America.

@brynavery Жыл бұрын

I’m so glad my videos help you understand yourself. That’s my main reason for documenting/posting my transition. And thank you, I’m glad to be in a safe state, but very worried about the next presidential election for sure.

@claraa8275 Жыл бұрын

It's good to be able to watch your journey. I'm glad that you're happy with your outcomes.

@brynavery Жыл бұрын

Thank you 💛

@catheran Жыл бұрын

Appreciate your videos, helps me deal with my situations.

@brynavery Жыл бұрын

So glad to hear that 💛

@mynameissurya18 Жыл бұрын

I love listening to you! It feels so relieving to know of other trans people :)

@brynavery Жыл бұрын

So happy to hear that, thank you 💛

@popando Жыл бұрын

love your videos

@brynavery Жыл бұрын

Thank you 💛

@Aligarde Жыл бұрын

Got to the end of the video! And your content did help me during my journey, I like watching it again from time to time… Also, it's really nice to see how far and positively you've gone! You rock!

@brynavery Жыл бұрын

Aw you watch my videos more than once? That’s so sweet omg 🥹 thank you for your support 💛

@Aligarde Жыл бұрын

@@brynavery Haha, yes I do! Thank you for the good vibes!

@dez3051 7 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing your story and being so vulnerable with us. I watched your video to learn about the trans experience so that I'm not ignorant of the trans experience but your story is really amazing I thank you for being so vulnerable because you are teaching me something and I really look up to you for that and congratulations on your surgery!!!!

@brynavery 6 ай бұрын

Thank you so much!! I appreciate that you’ve taken the time to learn about me, and I’m glad I’ve been able to teach you! Much love 💛

@brynnmeixell-wo3lf 9 ай бұрын

I am also a transgender woman, and I choose the same first name! I tried several names and none of them seemed to sit well, then came across this name, and it just... fit. Anyway... I appreciate this video so much, and your other videos too. Thank you so much for the time you took to so thoughtfully make them........

@brynavery 9 ай бұрын

It’s a wonderful name!! I’m glad my videos are able to help you 💛

@SLMS2001 9 ай бұрын

I love this channel! This video is so great, I’m starting the process of getting my surgery funded by the province and this helped answer so many questions I had. I found ur channel from ur video about internalised transphobia and I think it’s fuckin sick!! Made it to the end too

@brynavery 9 ай бұрын

So glad to hear that, and thank you!! I hope you’re able to get the surgery you need, and are able to get your province to help pay for it! 💛

@jdthompson01 Жыл бұрын

My consultation with Dr Del Corral is Monday May 22.

@brynavery Жыл бұрын

Oh my god that’s so exciting!! I hope it goes well, he’s amazing 💛

@jdthompson01 Жыл бұрын

@@brynavery thank you so much they have been wonderful. Asking my pronouns and my name. God I hope he can help me. It’s been a great year huh?

@brynavery Жыл бұрын

So glad you’re having a wonderful experience so far with him 💛

@ryanmua4597 11 ай бұрын

❤❤ I love you so much, hang in there! ❤️❤️ you encourage me to be more open about my transition

@brynavery 11 ай бұрын

Thank you!! So glad to hear my videos help you feel confident in yourself 💛

@KL-zt6jx 10 ай бұрын

Countering the useless negative comments. Thanks for all the info and insight for all these years! (And I just have to say it, your hair color is banging. I love it!) ❤✌🤟

@brynavery 9 ай бұрын

Thank you so much!! 💛

@CountessCarmilla 8 ай бұрын

I always love your earrings.

@brynavery 8 ай бұрын

Thank you so much!! 💛

@starangel369 9 ай бұрын

Thank you.

@brynavery 9 ай бұрын

💛

@ScarlettRoseword 8 ай бұрын

I live in Maryland to!

@brynavery 8 ай бұрын

Omg!

@Quinn82901 10 ай бұрын

Would you be able to do a video on how you developed your androgynous sounding voice? Something similar to your voice would definitely be my goal (I’m AMAB btw)

@brynavery 9 ай бұрын

A lot of people have been asking for a video like this, so I’ll definitely have to make one! And thank you, being told my voice is goals is so validating! 💛

@Quinn82901 9 ай бұрын

@@brynavery Awesome thank you sm Bryn. And I’m happy to hear that ❤️. I’m sure many other enby peeps who watch your videos agree :)

@Jutty04901 8 ай бұрын

When will you be sharing your next video?

@brynavery 8 ай бұрын

I’m hoping to make one soon. I know it’s been a while, I’ve just been super busy. Thank you for checking in 💛💛💛

@davefitzgerald5334 3 ай бұрын

Practice charity. Donate to the poor and homeless and the starving people of Africa. That's my advice to you Bryn. I like you and your interesting mind. Marisa x

@brynavery 2 ай бұрын

Thank you 💛

@amethyst4582 Жыл бұрын

did you hated your genitals and now you feel more comfortable with yourself? because i really do and sometimes it feels to me there's no one really hated to have male genitals as much as me and i know that's not true but i just feel really alone and i know many trans women who have bottom surgery and they felt the pressure to do it so they feel affirmed and they did not mind to have their penis and they were secretly like to have them but enjoy being presenting as a woman and some of them regret their surgery and that's why i feel i'm the only one. and when i'm going to have a surgery i'm not going to regret it because anything better million times than having dysphoric and shame everyday to have male genitals, i even was born with them and they are uncomfortable to do any activity or when you sit or sleep and they look disgusting. i know i sound so immature but that's how i feel

@brynavery Жыл бұрын

You don’t sound immature at all. Your feelings are totally valid and understandable. Personally, I didn’t “hate” my genitals. I definitely had a fair amount of frustration with them, and I felt disgusting with them (especially when I could see a bulge in my pants or things like that). And I basically never looked at that area of my body. And since having bottom surgery I can’t imagine going back. I had a dream once that my old genitals grew back and it was awful lol. But I think for me there was a lot of dissociation in regards to my birth genitals. I have a good friend tho (ftm) who hates his birth genitals in the way you’re describing, so I definitely do think there are people out there who feel the same as you do. I definitely didn’t feel pressured into surgery (honestly everyone-besides some family members-has been incredibly accepting and I’ve never really been rejected for my genitals, and I’ve primarily been with straight men and gay women). But I do think there are people who do feel that way, that they have to have surgery in order to appease society or certain people in their life. I hope you’re able to get surgery, Dysphoria is not fun at all, and I’m sorry you’re struggling with it so heavily. Best of luck with everything 💛

@amethyst4582 Жыл бұрын

@@brynavery i couldn't explain it better. thank you and i really appreciate you talking about something makes you uncomfortable and there's a lot of people did (SRS) who missed have their penis and when they wake up from their dreams or sleeping thought they have their genitals back it's called phantom limb syndrome. i'm not transgender i'm just a male or androgynous person and i would be so much happy if i have an empty crotch instead of having a vagina or a penis, also i can't think of any good reason to have this disgusting thing in my body because if i keep it it's almost i'm code dependent on it so i could survive not dealing with depression and more emptiness than i already have because i know when people get rid of their genitals their body will not function in a normal way unless you have a hormones and in my country there's no (HRT) i don't want to take testosterone because it will increase my body dysmorphia and i really struggle a lot with my body structure and i really enjoy being feminine

@amethyst4582 Жыл бұрын

@@brynavery i'm a nullo person by the way

@susanmargaretwills6432 Жыл бұрын

Hi Luckily I live in a very open-minded State that is Italy🇮🇪 - here there even exists a prison exclusively for Trans where inmates may dress/make-up as they please, there's a documentary series on it where Trans folk r falling in love which each other etc; prison guards r relaxed coz there's a calm atmosphere in there as opposed to the gang warfare type institutions typical of the US ~PS I'm not Trans rather I'm a straight grandmother Ciao

@brynavery 11 ай бұрын

Omg that’s awesome! I have a friend who lives in Italy for a few years, and has his Italian citizenship. Do you know what the name of the documentary is? Idk if I’d be able to watch it in America (or if they’d have English subtitles) but I’d love to watch it if possible.

@susanmargaretwills6432 11 ай бұрын

@@brynavery Hi Bryn, the Italian prison with the Gay & Trans Wing is called "Poggioreale" at Napoli - I saw the documentary a long time ago & on the tv on one of those minor Channels; on Febrary 23rd of this year (2023) the 1st Marriage was celebrated in the prison between an inmate (male) and a male non-inmate EVVIVA L'AMORE💙🥳💙

@brynavery 11 ай бұрын

Thank you so much!

@evangelinholst7066 Жыл бұрын

promo sm 🎉

@brynavery Жыл бұрын

💛

@ribbrascal1065 11 ай бұрын

I can tell you grind your jaw, especially while sleeping.

@brynavery 11 ай бұрын

Lol I do. What made it noticeable?

@ribbrascal1065 11 ай бұрын

@@brynavery The way you talk and hold your jaw muscles. I was a massage therapist for years. You seem to have a significant case of it. It's predominantly a female affliction, a lot of unresolved subconscious tension. It's called TMJ syndrome, it can lead to chronic head and neck problems, teeth wearing down over time, horrible noises for your partner.

@brynavery 11 ай бұрын

@@ribbrascal1065 how does one go about fixing it? I’ve grinder my jaw as long as I can remember. I’ve read that it can be linked to adhd (I’m diagnosed with adhd and take meds)

@ribbrascal1065 11 ай бұрын

@@brynavery Start by massaging your face and jaw before you sleep. There are muscular release techniques I used to do with clients. Otherwise, maybe a hypno-therapist can help with relaxing your subconscious. That's way out of my field.

@brynavery 11 ай бұрын

@@ribbrascal1065 thank you!

@Jodivalley Жыл бұрын

You are a spectacular young lady. I wish you were my daughter.

@brynavery 11 ай бұрын

Omg you’re so sweet, thank you 💛

@breannazoey1072 Жыл бұрын

I really appreciate your videos, especially this one! As a fellow amab non-binary person who's had a traditional bottom surgery, it's so nice to see other non-binary folk out there similar to myself. 💛🤍💜🖤 thank you for always being venerable and sharing, I know it's helping so many more people than you may realize!

@brynavery Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much. I’m glad my experience & visibility has been able to be so helpful 💛