"He doesn't understand gender from an internal point of view" - love the way you put it. This sums up pretty much every conversation I've had with cis people about how my gender feelings work. And this could also explain why transphobic ppl explain gender almost exclusively through what they see in others (external featured, gender presentation, etc) and not through what they see inside themselves.

I'm 28, non binary amab, and about to start hrt in January. Coming from that perspective, I just want to say you and your videos are extremely helpful for me coming to understand myself. So much of what you're saying I connect with in a way I don't quite with other trans people. It makes me feel validated. Like no, this isn't just some crazy idea I've gotten in my head, other people feel like me. It's helping me to accept that yes, I'm trans. Which is something I've been afraid to say out loud, despite knowing I'm non binary. And I really want to thank you for that. Because going into this can be really scary and confusing. But I'm connecting with almost everything you're saying (almost, I don't feel dysphoric about my genitals), and that gives me reassurance. You make a difference. Don't forget that. Congratulations on your surgery. ❤️

You're still one of the most relatable youtubers in my opinion. I always make it to the end of your videos. So glad to hear how well you're doing after the surgery.

I connect with everything your saying as usual. I deeply appreciate your vulnerability and authenticity. You've been instrumental in me understanding myself as non binary and yet allowing reframing my femininity

Whenever I watch a video from you, I feel better afterwards. It is so great that you find more to yourself through the surgery. Yes, often one is the worst gatekeeper of oneself! Even with things as simple as which toilet I use, I feel like I am intruding. I also find it an apt metaphor you use with the blank canvas, from which the OPs remove the false attributions of the past. Always helps a lot to hear your thoughts on these issues. Thanks so much! (And yes: I made it to the end ;-)

Glad you are doing so well getting in touch with your feelings and accepting your own inner guidance and own self-definitions. Femininity is awesome. You do you girl / non-binary! :)

I'm 4 months on hrt. A huge part of why I was scared to start is because there isn't enough trans nonbinary representation on that front. Your videos have been so helpful. There are so many experiences that I had growing up that I can relate with yours. I'm not out yet, and I'm still seen as a man largely. But I feel more comfortable accessing femininity and your channel has played a HUGE part of that. So thank you. Also, random aside, I love your voice.

Thank you for sharing! 💜 Commenting for the algorithm! Your views ought to be higher up in our feeds! Personally, I feel like an outlier without the “trans from a young age “ self story. …definitely felt outcast/inadequate/unfit/depressed for a loooong time. Comp-het & cis-het normativity felt super strong and …inevitable… And the world is better for your unique & raw explorations! 💜Thx!!

omg, those color plugs are amazing. never knew I wanted that until now

Hey Bryn, I see you have a list of other Non-Binary KZfaqrs! I have someone you should look into adding to that list: Lynn Saga is a Non-Binary KZfaqr who talks in-depth about being Asexual, being Aromantic, being Non-Binary, while also sometimes talking about how religion effected their coming out and accepting themselves.

I *love* calling myself Sapphic

I’m super scared of bottom surgery. But also very much want it. Thx for sharing!

I love that you’re doing well and will always thank you for introducing me to trans androgyny as a term. Love your content!! ❤

So happy for you! Your videos are always the best and relatable. I get the whole learning to break down walls and trust your feelings thing. I’m slowly trying to chip away at my walls, but also have yet to stop the gremlins that keep adding bricks while I’m not looking. Also, nice Waluigi in the corner lol.

I watched a lot of KZfaqrs talking about their experiences within the trans and non binary umbrella and yours is probably the one i related to the most! Thank you for sharing!

Love you so much Brynn ! Thank you for the content ♡ I have a question, we have a lot in common but I found a lot of euphoria working on my voice and letting it go higher, and that has been a really big step in connecting with my femininity, and I'm so curious about your relation with yours, because voice is a lot more flexible than we think. For months I kept my voice really low without aknowledging it, and felt so tired after just 20 minutes talking, and my sing teacher encourages me to go higher and so this removes the idea that any other voice would be less natural, so I progressively let it go, trying to find the confortable place at the level of the nose without forcing, as he was saying, instead of the root of the mouth. And it hasnt been so easy at first, but now I feel a lot more confort expressing myself Again, thank you for sharing ♡

You are amazing ❤

I’ve begun contemplating GRS. Thank you for sharing your experience. It gives me an idea what’s waiting for me, should I decide to go for it. My only concern is that I am older, and how that will add to recovery. Please keep making videos. We need to hear your experiences. Hugs! BTW: I made it to the end.

I made it through, and subscribed! I really related to your orientation! I'm starting HRT as soon as I finish jumping through the hoops! I've thought about Zero depth Vignaplasty, Sinise I am oriented toward women, not interested in men. Do you have any thoughts on that? ❤️

I get where you're coming from. The difference between a crossdresser and a transwoman. Superficial femininity and society's expectation.

About us (enbies) not wanting people to know our agab: I feel worthy people don't care (they accept us as enby) and people who do care to know our agab are not worthy to know it.

Going by how many of your various confusions over time have had to do with viewing various factors (body features, clothes, etc) in concretely gendered ways, can't say it's too surprising this has kicked in, due to just... feeling more automatically YOU. Heard similar from others too, just how much background dysphoria that simply was never obvious just up and vanished after bottom surgery, or ffs, or what have you, that you just suddenly aren't asserting yourself against in context of. And I swear I don't mean that in a presumptuous way. It's like when a cis friend of mine came out as ace, could there have been other explanations, sure, but as the explanation that it turned out to be, it was like "oh yeah that makes perfect sense".

“um especially since having surgery like I felt so much more like✨GAY✨” I love it! 💕 So happy for you 😊 Thank you for another great video

The way you feel and experience the Sapphic is so beautiful! I so feel you, as a non-binary trans woman. Thank you so much for sharing your experience!

Instagram link doest work. Or I'm doing it wrong, who knows. 😟

Sapphic?!? Love it. Something worth exploring for myself i think. But....for me right now, i love! Being trans and i think you nailed why..sort of. The whole having feelings and them not being appropriate for what i was told i was back then and now finally experiencing those feelings and not ignoring them and not ignoring my existence. And i always felt like they sewed this nonsense over what was there at birth or something. Like it's someone else's, not mine. oh i could on. As for sexuality..i honestly have no idea anymore. I have leanings but I'm just so unsure now I'm just shutting all that down for now. Also what i find interesting and unltimatly so validating is hearing other's stories. It blows my mind that hearing so many stories that no matter where we grow up or how can have so many similar threads run through them. It's each our own journey don't get me wrong but... Anyway. Yey a new video. Yourself and another trans woman on KZfaq have been big I'm my life since coming out. 1 year & 2 months on HRT. Thank you so much. And... sorry but just because i am telling everyone....Thursday i am having surgery (BA). I can not wait. So exited also starting to get nervous and on the 20th a consult for bottom. That i have mixed feeling on. Mainly why does the surgeon have to bring an entourage in with him? It's going to be so awkward. Again i could go on and i have so many questions but blar blar blar. Also are you still on tour? Did you get the moldy apartment issues sorted?

From your facial expression I think that really enjoy your life 😎 Could it be an idea to have a talk/interview with www.youtube.com/@DRZPHD. She has some rather good videoes with topics that cover your kind of transition.

I was so disappointed that women's toilets smelled more disgusting than boys and young women in particular were extremely aggressive.... ....besides, I didn't expect so much deceit and empty talk with some of my classmates Bryn, you are special like an angel : pure, innocent, honest and smart 🌈

Trans feelings ? What is that?

Connecting with femininity???? That's how you know you need help mentally. Women or girls don't have to connect with femininity...... you just are, it comes naturally. You don't have to search for it..... even when it's not wanted it's there. I hope you can find peace within. You don't have to mutilate your body to find peace within. Self mutilation will only generate peace from within temporarily. True peace can be achieved thru understanding AND accepting your true self. Understand accepting yourself for who you really are will be a lifelong journey.

I love hearing you talk about topics like these. you have such a wonderful energy and its lovely to listen and relate. I made it to the end of the video, as always (: 🤍

Real femininity is what one feels and how one thinks. HRT finally gave my brain the hormonal environment to fully realize the femininity I always had. My wife at first thought I was gay, but trans-feminine, sapphic, and ace are better descriptors. The mental changes are the most profound, but the physical changes are also huge; like I was on a ship examining the directory, but was provided a map to the wrong ship; nothing is in the right place. Always look forward to your videos, apart from the non-binary bit they really speak to me. 🏳‍⚧💛🧡❤