PEOPLE DIVORCE because of ...

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Hardly Initiated

Ай бұрын

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@prudencebrown9576 Ай бұрын

Change partners rather than change themselves now that is a word

@matthewbaines439 Ай бұрын

💯💯💯💯

@nikamoff5835 Ай бұрын

“Change partners rather than change themselves “ Speak Pastor Flowers!…you are right some people don’t want to hold themselves accountable so divorce for some is the easy way out.

@robingraham7618 Ай бұрын

You have to be able to trust where that correction comes from.

@WillGettinToIt 13 күн бұрын

If you're married, there is no excuse to not have the trust or you shouldn't have been married in the first place

@robingraham7618 13 күн бұрын

@WillGettinToIt you are correct. We tend to think trust is only about fidelity. I'm here to tell you that is only part of the conditions of trust. Trusting that you will have my back, that you won't intentionally hurt me, trust that you will protect me, trust that you will commit to the marriage nd not bounce at the first sign of trouble, trust that you will communicate your needs, trust that if I'm sick you will take care of me, trust that you will learn what motivates me or what causes me to shut down...etc. Trust is far more expansive than fidelity.

@Chichi0722 Ай бұрын

This is correct. Marriage is about growth...you get to see what you're truly made of.

@pamking5711 Ай бұрын

I love the concept of marriage but I didn't marry a person who shared that same concept. I waited but he just wouldn't mature into a man. Had to let him go.

@AnnesiaVienga Ай бұрын

Me too

@Coecoebrown Ай бұрын

Same

@KFontLab Ай бұрын

Yes… when aren’t committed to the same things it can cause lots of problems.

@mca217 12 күн бұрын

Honest question for everyone who agreed with the original comment. And it's no shade at any of you. I'm just trying to get educated on why this happens. Did you discuss these principles before marrying your former spouses?

@pamking5711 12 күн бұрын

@@mca217 Yes, those principles were discussed. But what I've learned is just because a person acknowledges doesn't mean that they agree. His actions and words did not sinq and I grew tired of finding out about them after the fact. That was no way to live.

@angelat56 Ай бұрын

So true. Lived it. I'm still working on myself. He chose to leave and not look at his flaws.

@OneNightSoiree Ай бұрын

You got this!

@MissSmalley Ай бұрын

I feel you Queen! Mine did the same thing and we haven’t spoken in 9 months. Punk Asq Nigga. My new phrase. He’s a PAN MAN !!😅

@keemamack7955 Ай бұрын

That was deep. Love that it came from a man.

@therelationshipzonet.r.z.2258 16 күн бұрын

Finished products are oftentimes unfinished, but people lie and deny.

@thatgirl4160 Ай бұрын

This is factual. Husband is currently going through an identity crisis and chooses to run to family who shadows his toxic behavior instead of changing consistently. When u have a spouse that wants better for u, u either listen or regret it much later. Free will!

@MrsMovieLuvr Ай бұрын

Frfr marriage is full of forgiveness. Above all things have fervent love for one another because love covers a multitude of sins.

@shareebell8857 Ай бұрын

Rather, change partners than change themselves, looking at perfection and a finished product verses works and grace.. Grace Forgiveness ,Maturity, and Grace!

@prudencebrown9576 Ай бұрын

Amen . Do the work.

@sweetcakes1509 Ай бұрын

Yassss! He nailed it👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

@erinsmith7171 16 күн бұрын

My first marriage ended because of his physical abuse and his outside child. I wasn’t going to stay in that situation. My current marriage is blossoming as we both did the work and we kept God in the marriage. There’s no abuse, no outside children, but only the love and the support that we have for each other.

@sanekathomas3290 Ай бұрын

Powerful!

@brookebellamy9864 Ай бұрын

As a 1 year newlywed this nothing but straight facts

@MsExit_ Ай бұрын

I don’t believe in staying married until death do us part because we do not always make the right choice in choosing a partner.

@Nicole-wp1ye Ай бұрын

If God chose that partner, then sure...till death do us part What God put together let no man put asunder. We have to pray to God for a partner and then wait until He sends the person. Then we leave our family and cleave to that person and the 2 shall become 1.

@WillGettinToIt 13 күн бұрын

First of all if you didn't come from a 2 parent household where your parents were deeply rooted in the Word of God then you have no business getting married in the first place. Marriage is about duty, honor, respect not happiness. You have no idea how to stay married if you didn't come from it. Unless you see it then you don't understand the duty, tge honor, the respect, the forgiveness and grace it takes. Both of you are going to make a lot of mistakes. Do you have the wherewithal to see it thru. Marriage is a hard job and not supposed to be easy because it's bringing a woman and man together and we're different in every single way. The way to stay married is to just stay in it and pray for each other everyday, keeping God first. But if you truly don't believe in married then you should be ok with never having a commitment from a man. The only true commitment IS Marriage.

@jalisazari9387 Ай бұрын

Amen. This is good.

@GRenee-xl6xp Ай бұрын

And some people divorce because God actually told them to not stay unequally yoked to an abuser who is trying to unalive them.

@srecreates Ай бұрын

dat part!

@williegreen3052 Ай бұрын

God gives you freewill, it was you that made that choice don't blame god.

@Coecoebrown Ай бұрын

@@williegreen3052 🤦🏾‍♀️ God repeatedly told people of the Bible to flee from certain danger and He still does it today.

@danilaroche1156 19 күн бұрын

Yes. My ex-husband nearly killed me. He was a Satanist. FR. I used to think it was wrong to divorce but God told me to let him go.

@roaming1996 Ай бұрын

Oooo this one hit, 💎💎💎

@joyinjesus4064 6 күн бұрын

So True !!! Pastor Flowers always bringing that 🔥🔥🔥

@kathycoates4333 Ай бұрын

Facts all those parts 💯 💯💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@debragaston5617 Ай бұрын

Mike drop

@samanthalianacole2386 Ай бұрын

We gotta be bout that work work ❤️

@sherrymalloy2376 24 күн бұрын

Love his ministry 🙌🏾

@judithstevens4323 29 күн бұрын

TRUTH❗💯💯🎯🎯❗❗

@Kadina8515 Ай бұрын

Facts! The perfection in the dating world and good forgiver in marriage... truth.

@edanablocker4248 Ай бұрын

Preach

@devanysneed2326 Ай бұрын

Yep 💯 Facts That's So Good 👏🏾🔥👏🏾🔥👏🏾🔥

@OneNightSoiree Ай бұрын

true!

@kippahthefrenchiewhippasni9689 21 сағат бұрын

REAL TALK 💯

@ParsimonyQueens Ай бұрын

I gotta see the full show now. 🔥

@mesha0932 Ай бұрын

Wow what he said is so true about dating these days. Wow

@makiebahatton2628 4 күн бұрын

My Lord this is a good WORD!

@ashleysmith8445 Ай бұрын

This was good for both parties man n woman husband and wife TO SWALLOW THEIR PRIDE TO BE SUCCESSFUL IN THEIR MARRIAGE ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

@1fancychik4God Ай бұрын

He sad it! Marriage and relationships are in a terrible downfall / people not taking ownership, doing the work on themselves, and understanding how to build better lives

@ddenise8428 29 күн бұрын

Wow, who is this man??? G-d bless him greatly. Hopefully many men truly hears this message! Cuz they like to think they perfect!

@familler7 Ай бұрын

Wow, that is a good way to look at! People rather change partners than change themselves!

@tamikamorrisonokeleke5328 29 күн бұрын

Amen 👏👏👏 #MarriageisforGROWNUPS

@naturallyours32 Ай бұрын

He's right

@joannawofford Ай бұрын

FACTS

@valerieh.1624 19 күн бұрын

Some people Never change, But expect their spouse to remain in a horrible marriage. Not out of love, but their not wanting to be alone.

@PumpkinPie1985 Ай бұрын

WE NEED A PART 2

@barbarasmith1110 Ай бұрын

Facts

@lisamcinnis6430 Ай бұрын

Testimony ❤❤❤

@sharyonharris Ай бұрын

TRUTH!!!

@OneNightSoiree Ай бұрын

agreed

@handsomebo9816 Ай бұрын

Amen

@jhenellecreighton1964 Ай бұрын

I love this!!!!!!!!!

@OneNightSoiree Ай бұрын

Me too!

@mariagreen1354 28 күн бұрын

I divorced for peace. That's a difference.

@greatness5154 16 күн бұрын

This is true. Question: How do you change a cheater?

@elainewilliams3114 Ай бұрын

Amen n preach it

@swatinupur8090 17 күн бұрын

Change myself....

@keiwill2911 Ай бұрын

I love this, well said.💜💜Reason why I’m going through this 2nd divorce right now.

@J3RRYJ Ай бұрын

🎯🔥🔥🔥✝️✝️✝️

@Iam_Blossomqueen Ай бұрын

Sooo good !!❤️🙌🏾

@conniev.r.1097 Ай бұрын

So true 👏🏾

@theeveronicadenise Ай бұрын

Thissssssssssss!

@Mizzwurie Ай бұрын

Wow this is so true

@nikie224 Ай бұрын

So true....

@chanelmitchell1632 Ай бұрын

A-mennnnn!

@Shehealedtolivepodcast Ай бұрын

So true

@TheBreadTalkInvestors 11 күн бұрын

What episode was this?

@thyneicebowden Ай бұрын

Yep

@djcheeseproductions Ай бұрын

Right tho !

@williamj.dovejr.8613 Ай бұрын

I knew my ex wife better than she knew herself, I could give her as good as she could give me in an argument. She preferred to win as opposed to being happy.

@Lesah_ Ай бұрын

💯💯💯

@claraht.6999 Ай бұрын

I could have used this advice 25 years ago, but I made the right decision because current wife did the same 😮

@PushRadio Ай бұрын

💯

@randi2618 Ай бұрын

👏🏾👏🏾

@bashiruddinahmad408 Ай бұрын

No sex intimacy in 30 months..married 5+years..and in tough times my wife wasnt theyre for me in the last couple of years.. divorce is coming

@CARIBCULTURA 10 күн бұрын

‼️

@Dazzlin826 8 күн бұрын

Or you can change partners to change yourself

@sherrylm2537 Ай бұрын

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

@Tempest-B Ай бұрын

That uuummm will forever be the official “that was deep in my opinion” sound. Red pill mess. 😂

@birdmanflygod Ай бұрын

Marriage is VERY one sided which is why MOST men aint signing up for it 💯 I still believe in marriage tho especially if you bring my kids into this world