I think this young man knows his dad better than any of us🤷🏾‍♀️He’s ( grandpa) not interested in that black baby. Period.

@@vpfyi5525 that baby is three-fourth's Asian...

@@vpfyi5525 dont say thats you dont know olso the father well in this situations just be in the midle let each side litle by litle come forward the father event hi's not saying he will come he want to see them but at list he send letters

You seriously think the grandpa cares about 3/4, 1/2, 2/3 ? Any black is ALL BLACK TO A RACIST DEAR. 🤷🏾‍♀️ Read ya history books (look at the history mixed slaves in America)

Sorry Ryan not understand what you are saying....too many typos. I still think Justin knows his racist dad better than you or any of us. If YOU wanna keep hope alive then more power to you dude✊🏻.

I agree that he will come around.

The grandma is ignorant he needs to go see his grand child

I mean, the letter wasn't bad....I can think of a lot of reasons as to why he didn't say more in the letter. He may have been told about your channel and know you share everything, had he said he loves you and wants to see you, and his wife is crazy, what do you think would happen to him? I think it is a move in the right direction, because if he didn't care, he would not have bothered to respond.

Nah. His hesitations are based off of a narcissistic racist and controlling wife.

ToJustin & Sarah, no one in this universe were given the chance to select their parents. And if the grand creator of us all had thought it wrong for different races to marry and have children he himself would have made it preventable. In my heart I believe Justin's parents may fear seeing and bonding with their beautiful granddaughter. After all "what would our jealous neighbors think"? The nations of this world have forgotten how to love each other and are bent on destroying thanks to governmental thinking not offering any future hope. Give your parent's time to want to naturally bond with their new family member. In their hearts they really want to. Almighty God has promised to repair our damaged human society. The two of you continue to love each other and your newborn. DHR

@ITHEREONETHATHASNT You can't stop multiculturalism. Different cultures will always exist within groups of people, regardless of how homogeneous they are. People don't like the rules, so they make their own. That's how it goes. In the past, people had the luxury of literally finding and founding a new place; but there's no where else to go now. People will naturally clash more. There are way more people and way more ideas. Get over it.

That’s not “culture “that’s racism straight up. The grandmother is a straight up racist. Calling it “culture” it’s just a way to sugarcoat evil behaviour.

I truly believe this commit. Your dad needs time. Plus he is in a difficult situation at this time. With other family members so to speak. Stay strong and I know Sarah was support you during this time. Not Having family support makes things harder, difficult. You and Sarah are a very strong unit together! God bless you two.

Agree. It's like he's edging towards agreeing to see her but his head and heart are battling each other. It's a positive thing that he's written at all.

yes, but so sad that he could be a grandfather and see his granddaughter. He is avoiding them. wow...

@@babyfaceifill2726 he'll surely come around

But he his advice was generalized based on life to care of Sabrina in order for Justin wellbeing. According to that also feel that Justin must ask directly the question without any introduction to clarify and clear out

Good advice. I hope Justin will read this.

One should not be controlled too much by another person.

I agree...

M r Its an asian cultural thing. I am asian so i see the reasoning but this letter breaks my heart. His poor father truly really wants to be in his life but his fathers wife is probably consistently at his throat! Asian women especially the older generation are the most stubborn little creatures!

@@sjm545 yes but just because it's a thing doesn't mean it's right. Their feelings are also important.

keishasBusiness I agree with you❤️❤️❤️

michelle yes, I was thinking the same, his sister or somebody probably shows them the videos.

I’d be horrified if a family member was talking about me or sharing letters I wrote on a public platform, or even to anyone who was not meant to hear my business. If they see the videos, I feel like it would make them even angrier. The race and religion thing is ridiculous but it would make sense for anyone to get mad over videos like these when they’re being spoken about.

Hopefully the mother doesn't watch them... she might get angry with her husband! Come on grandma, look at your beautiful grandaughter and learn that love is love no matter the color, race, or religion!

I bet his parents don't understand English.

Aikaterine Illt shut your evil ass up so much hatred.People like u need Jesus Christ

I think she will too. For some reason, I can foresee Sabrina being VERY determined to bring her family together. She may even have Grandma's spirit, but in a positive way and won't be taking "no" for an answer.

I agree !! Keeping faith

It is a cultural thing - you have to understand how deep rooted this goes especially in Asian culture. I am still estranged from my grandmother - decades later, as an adult. My grandfather was the only one that accepted me. He hid to come see me a few times so his wife did not know. At 90 years old she literally called me last week to tell me she loved me. I felt nothing, sad but that is my truth. Do you have any idea how cruel that is.

@@thatsvickiIRL understood

Very well said

Idk about that. My son's 3 years old now and his grandmother wants nothing to do with him or me. Saw him 3 times as a baby then was done.

@@thatsvickiIRL yeah sadly a lot of people before they died or as they get closer to death they change their mind about stuff like that and usually try to make amends with their family, the sad part is that they forget their actions have consequences and people do not just forgive and forget.

LA L I’d be upset if my husband was hiding our child from his family.

@Get Real Move on, it's only been a couple of years. I studied East Asian culture in school. They tend to play the long game. They are looking at generations down the line. I know we like to say we are real, and we sometimes end up in Jersey shore style fights, but this guy seems to have been raised with East Asian habits. He probably works hard and persistently, planning for 10 years from now and not thinking about satisfaction right now (the instant gradification we love). See how things are in 10 to 15 years. Then he can decide to give up. It may never happen and he has to call it quits in 10 years, but for East Asians giving up now would be too short of a time period.

​@Get Real It maybe racism or lack of/fear of knowledge of other cultures and it will happen to whites girls as well: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jtemksicp8vUgmw.html This guy in the link is married to a white girl and he had to cut off contact with his family as well. Similar reason for marrying a non-similar culture. He tried for about 5+ years. He also never told off his parents either, he just slowly stopped contact with them and the reason for that is he will probably try again after sometime. They do not want our style of keeping it real. Their are a couple of factors that these older generations fear which is their culture being changed or wiped out, fear of not being able to fluently speak to their daughter in law (which means lack of control), foreign divorce rates and retirement issues with a non-similar culture. Some people need help with a changing world. They need help slowly, not our style of threw it in their face, I'm right and you will see my light of righteousness right now: lets duke it out Jersey shore style. We are right, but give them time. These people eventually want to rebuild a connection with their parents and will not tell them off because culturally that is how they are raised, which is respect your elders even if the elders are wrong. This is a depressing situation. Here watch this couple instead and be happy: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/ipl6g7iK28-vkZc.html and something like this: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/mryDZtKIvtCmXYU.html

back in the day when it was unacceptable here in the US to have a kid out of wedlock. My cousin did. My uncle told my aunt who was not excepting the baby. i'm going to see my granddaughter with or with out you. She ended up going with him.

Yes, I second this.

Special Events i feel like he doesn’t need to come round, not the same way Justin’s mum needs to come round. Don’t you feel like dad is actually ok but the mum is compleeeeeetely holding him back and standing in the way of dad and Justin? **sigh** its so sad 😔😔

Special Events addressing her by name...is this how little acknowledgment baby Sabrina will expect from those who may not like her? Don’t use this baby to change their mind because it looks like Justin & Sarah are manipulating the situation with the baby as part of their arsenal. Sarah, Justin should not be exposing both of you to this. Sarah, you are sweet but your are playing dumb and you keep giving him false hope. He married you not his parents. You are forcing him to show weakness He is trying to tell Sarah that he is not going to keep talking about the baby and he doesn’t even want to visit. He’s correct. He needs to stop visiting all together. That’s what a real husband and father would do. They display strength. That’s exactly what Sarah’s father should have done instead of leaving her mother due to his family’s wishes. Sarah, you both need to stop trying to push your relationship on your parents and the world. If it’s true love then It needs no convincing. His parents will no longer be on this earth one day and they have to answer to God. They don’t owe you guys anything. They made their decision and that’s it, now grow up. At least they are not lying to you. This is not a movement it’s a marriage. I to am in an interracial marriage. My husband and I had to painfully cut ties with many relatives and we are happier for it. Sarah, stop acting like you don’t know what a broken family is. Let go of your fears and helplessness that your mother taught you. Stop acting weak. Justin’s mothers is running circles around you and all she has to do is ignore you to trigger you. Sarah is triggered by abandonment because of how your father left. Men don’t respect women who act sweet all of the time. Yes it hurt, but don’t display that to the world. It’s like you both want his parents to be convinced by watching your videos. His parents (especially the mother) is laughing at you and your tears. Everyone is watching you guys being torchured and Sabrina will feel that she is the problem. I would suggest that you make a video listing why you guys as parents are choosing to move on from this toxic situation. I will guarantee you that Justin’s mother and the rest of the narcissistic adults that you keep trying to manipulate will not have the power any longer. Why be codependent on people who ever showed you no respect? I wish you two all the best. You are a lovely couple. Sarah, this your life on repeat. Your husband wants to be with you but if you don’t separate your daddy issues, stop sweetly lying and stop pushing your husband on his parents then you will create the same situation that hurt your mother because she didn’t put her foot down. It’s a tug of war sis and Justin already knows his mother’s tactics.

Kali S the comment I made about coming around meant he’s probably going to make a decision to see the baby on his own regardless of how his wife feels. He just needs a little time

Special Events oooooh ok ok i understand your comment now.

Lotus MUA let’s just say we can agree to disagree. 😕

Exactly Lydia. Korean parents or from older generation are very prejudice but he might come around in time.

Yes I agree. In his own way he was showing care.

Lydia Andrew are you serious?

Miss Daisy, if his father didn't care at all, they wouldn't have received any sort of acknowledgement from him. Not only did he respond, but he was giving fatherly advice to his son who is a new father. So I believe his father cares.

Some times you just have to accept things for what they are. Is it fair to them to keep trying with getting nothing but rejection? When his dad is ready let him make the first move, all they can do is just pray about the situation.

karrie lim I don’t think he’s scared. But consider how long he’s been married, how long he’s kept his cultural traditions. Grandfather probably think he has to choose between wife and son. He loves them both unconditionally. This takes time because interracial relationships is brand new concept for anyone born before the 70s. Anyone 50+ has been alive and developed their personality for so long. We can’t expect them to welcome change. But over time it’s Possible

translate the whole letter word for word if you are bothered cus justin couldnt understand some of it i wanna cry too

Yeah, I think his father is afraid of starting conflict between him and his wife over this. I hope they can all eventually be able to love and accept this beautiful little family

would you mind transcribing the letter?

I think you are right.

I agree. Continue sending prayers.

Girlie Girl ...prejudice is unhealthy when it comes to family and grandchildren. Come around? Life change and totally unlearn mind set? When is he starting?

JUSTINS PARENTS ARE A DISGRACE IN MY OPINION

Girlie Girl I agree he cares about his son but his wife is making it difficult a and things are complicated I believe his dad would come around if he did not care he wouldn't even send the letter or even tell him about Sabrina's well being ya know

I AGREE! It was sweet.

His child should be first place no questions asked and if he doesn't place Justin above his wife, i would also break ties with the grandparents. your own child should be nr.1 at all times in life, if that is not the case you are not a parent.

I agree. The letter, his advice for childrearing, and the fact that he called her by name means THE DOOR IS OPEN (NOT CLOSED) for your family. There is hope!

This is actually what he’s saying, I’m fluent in Korean so trust me! He is happy with the arrival of your baby. Typical Korean dads, they aren’t very good at expressing love. Instead they will give you instructions and guidance - going around and around and around in a circle and not going straight to the point.

Aw thanks for taking a moment to translate what exactly his father was expressing. That was quite meaningful!

Agree with you 100%

This was so adorable! So nice of you to say! I totally agree! ❤️

Well said Marlene!

Marlene but the bad thing is we always say “ your family should come first and follow their rules “ so it’s wierd urgument

@@rosesamuelson3356, Justin and Sarah are family, they must start their own traditions. 1st is to raise Sabrina to be loving and open, not bias, love is patience, understanding, kind. NO MATTER WHAT RACE, NATIONALITY, COLOR, CREED, OR RELIGION.

Agree

100% agree. The dad made an effort. It was as far as he could go right now. Give him space and time. Patience is hard.

I agree. My mother was fairly abusive in a sometimes passive aggressive/ sometimes blunt way. She was definitely the dominant one in the relationship. And she tried to rule her kids the way she rolled her husband. He has to live with her. He has to abide by what she has set forth. Maybe one day he’ll be strong enough to realize he’s got to break free. I feel bad for him too. I also feel they were raised in a different era where people weren’t supposed to mix you were just supposed to stay with your own kind. So that whole concept is probably very foreign to them. The one I’m most disappointed and is your sister because she’s younger but then again she lives with a controlling mother.All we can do is send good thoughts their way too because they’re wrong and they know it but will not admit it which is sad in and of itself because life is too short to bear grudges like this

I agree

I agree.

Asian women are the dominants in marriage, the entire culture. Unless they marry outside the race.

So sorry for the hurt you are both going through. My kids grew up without grandparents for other reasons, but they know they are loved deeply.

Lavender Life I think we’re giving his dad too much credit. Who wouldn’t fight to see their own grandchild? He’s ok with not being involved in his sons’s most important moment in life. The letter isn’t good enough. At what point does human nature override racist ideologies? That’s his flesh and blood. If he really cared he’d make more of a effort, despite Justin’s mom. As a man he should be more authoritative, and not let his wife keep him from seeing his own flesh and blood. This just makes me so angry, it’s nonsensical.

@@holisticcoachvictoria elderly people hold on to their tradition almost to a fault. Going about it with negative energy isnt going to help i have seen the most stubborn person soften up. His father will come around with gentle push

live that life but my question is; why is being racist an acceptable “tradition”? Why don’t we as a society take racism more seriously? What person in their right mind wouldn’t see their own grandchild? Racism is a mental illness. If you dislike or deny your own blood relative because of race or the color of their skin, there is something seriously wrong with you. People like that need to be medicated. I hope you’re right about him coming along but the behavior is inexcusable. We shouldn’t make excuses for people because “they’re old”. These people attempt to pass on these same thought patterns to their children and not everyone is as strong and has the ability and intelligence to think for themselves like Justin. I hope and pray for the best for these three. They are true role models, and I love that they are shedding light on racism and not only how it affects people’s lives, but how to stand against it.

​@@holisticcoachvictoria Racism is not a mental illness. It is, however, a negative social (religious or cultural) construct within sociology, anthropology, gerontology, history and slightly the field of psychology. It is a fine balance getting to have older individuals shift patterns of thinking and behaviors which have been taught young and reinforced over their lifetime. It is much easier to have individuals shift their perspective, be open-minded and less stubborn/concrete, in addition to recognizing their ignorant belief system when they are young. His brain, especially in the second half of his life, has neural pathways and connections which prevent him, alongside how he was raised (indoctrinated) and racially/culturally cut off prior to immigrating to Canada, from adapting quickly and with ease. His role as a father, his hints at the desire for kindness and connection, and his role as a husband and his cultural/religious identity are likely at odds and putting pressure, strain, and confusion onto him. Intelligence doesn't have to do with it. I am sure that he is an intelligent man but it is very difficult to change perspectives as we grow older. Change in behavior cannot come without a change in beliefs first. The brain is extremely complex. Some research could provide you with more insight - cognitive psychology, the psychology of learning, developmental psychology across the lifespan, neuroscience (specifically unlearning unhealthy or toxic thought processes) www.businessinsider.com.au/why-are-older-people-racist-2018-7?r=US&IR=T

Shewolf Huntress WELL DONE👏🏾👏🏾 too many people on this channel are giving the grandad way too much credit

So true!

Kee Kee true he will come around sooner or later hoping for the best for them..

Yes god is working i love it ❤❤❤❤

So very true! I would have said the exact same words. May God Bless! ❤

Kee Kee I don’t know about that. Grandma is a tough critic. She is a hard 🥜 nut to crack. If I were the grandpa, I would choose my son over my wife, because she is in the wrong here. This is sad and troubling on all levels............

It's not nationality, they're just racist, trust that they would not be against it if he had married a white woman

My heart breaks for you it would have been better if he did not respond

@@smorris7864 I don't think so. Justin may have thought that his father never received the photo album and maybe his mother confiscated it. At least his dad acknowledges that he has a granddaughter and that his own son is now a father. He may come around. I believe the grandfather is dominated by his own wife and in order to keep the peace with the volitile and judgmental grandmother, with whom he resides and is married, he had chosen a gentle approach. Justin would always wonder. I think the letter was at least something that may carry a bit of hope.

@Garrett Dodds yeah I agree with you. But nothing can be learnt from your parents when they demonstrate such a strong distaste for anything that's different to their old school beliefs. But I think they failed as parents. Shame on them. Who abandons their kids like this?

Don't apologize for being sorry your point was beautifully taken I don't know why they waste their time trying to kiss up to Grandpa Dukes. Some people you just can't reach..

His mother is an evil spirit

YESS! I believe dad is torn. I believe dad is hurting... He loves his son so much..u can tell.. My mom is same way :(

I agree with you ....but then it may be a cultural thing regarding pride or what have you, something only the grandfather and Justin's family would understand....for now the only thing I can say is that time sure does fly by in a wink of an eye....and I hope Justin's parents come to their senses and not let a lot of time go by before the decide to make the step to extend their arms to Sabrina....it would be their loss. Sabrina has everything and more that life can offer her in the sense of a family that loves her...she will not lose out on anything, except a vague thought of why her paternal grandparents would be so close minded. With this said and done...a child grows to love the ones that truly love her. When there is a non existing parent, (or grandparents in this case) they function perfectly fine if the bond and structure is strong with other family members...and of course...how not so? she is a heavenly child..blessed by everything important to her in her life.

Yes! And keep sending updated photos maybe even a little video

This is wisdom!

So true. The grandfather is telling you to take care of her, keep her safe, take care of yourself. Time will heal the rift.

100% agree with you.

100% agree with you.

I agree with you. I found a lot of love from father to son in the letter. I guarantee you he wants to meet his granddaughter in the worst way but the poor man has to live with his daughter and wife and is probably subjected to a lot of verbal abuse regarding his support of his son. He's by himself with no one to stand up "with" him against two very strong personalities...and at his age he probably just wants to live in peace.

I thought the same thing! Koreans are subtle and reserved about these kinds of things, the letter seems almost bold from someone who suppsedly disagrees with their marriage and child. I hope with time they keep the lines of communication open and dad will come around. Koreans love their grandchildren and families, I can't imagine his dad doesn't care at all.

That was a piece of great insight. you educated me on the Korean culture. I wish I had you in my corner when going thru my trials and tribulations with my Mother In Law

we got email now, why people send letter i dont know. lol

dang0088 da they said the grandfather always checks the mail so he is more likely to see and reply

That was a positive response. It was a step in the right direction. Advice on how to protect and care equal love ❤️ Your father cares otherwise he wouldn’t have responded. Be patient with him.

I feel the letter was not as bad as you indicated. When he meets the baby and he will, he will have no choice because his heart will definitely melt that's a promise. He came from a different generation but I assure you the baby will surely change his heart from passive to DEEP LOVE.

I believe this aswell

Sherri Nguyen Girl, that’s all you can do is live. Enjoy your life until they reach out. Once they do embrace them. ❤️

♥️

I'm sorry you had to live that Sherri. But I'm glad you survived it.💛

Nicole Salmon thank you

I love this advice. Beautiful

@@TrishaMoli thank you💖

Beautifully said Diane, yes please start calling your daughter by her Korean as well. Finally, whenever you need grandparents look no further than your KZfaq Family we will gladly stand in.

Diane Williams beautiful advice, and I fully agree. Sometimes we interpret things the wrong way and I want to truly believe that he meant well.

Exactly, I was surprised he jumped to he didn’t want to see baby. He felt the need to give advise and responded. That’s the opening.

me and my brother we were disowned at birth by our german side of the family , my mother is southern african. I have never been ashamed of it . I am never going to be a difficult dad in law to my kids, then it took me a whole 5 years to also be accepted by my senegalese wife's parents . It wasn't on the ground of race, it was my albinism that they had to come to term with . One of my kids is also also albino. i had no idea i could pass down the gene, but it is what it is .

Lib N Me isn’t it so sad that in this day and age, the color of skin still rips families apart??? When we are rushed to the hospital after car crashes, plane crashes, fights etc... I’m sure these people don’t ask “what color skin did the person have who donated the blood that it took to say my life” or the life of my child ??? So, so sad!!!

@@PHlophe Wow! I'm truly sorry. My daughter has never been ashamed of being Bi-racial. She looks more Latina then anything. She is proud to be Black with a Latina flare. It's important that we don't pass ignorance on especially being Black or of the African Diaspora. Albinism can be passed on(obviously).. I saw a Documentary on Albinism in Tanzania.. I think. They are quickly given away and some people think their blood has mystical powers. Sick. LOVE your children with all your might Despite. Were you finally accepted on your German side? Or do they still hold firm?

@@islandliferelaxation6257 Some people just don't stop and think. Some are just shortsighted and don't see beyond what's in front of them. It's like.. I Hate Broccoli..I despise it..but does that mean I got to poison my child's mind because of my opinion? No. I wish some people would use that analogy, maybe things would be better.

I am so sorry; yet this behavior is still common in 2019. My comments appear harsh; however, people who can't get past their anger, embarrassment, or whatever surely does not know, or understand God's Love. 🙏🏽

May the Gracious Lord protect your relationship, continue in your God given Love, Sabrina is a Real Blessing frm because the Bible says that Children are a Blessing from God, Psalm 127 vs 3, Just Trust God to make everything Beautiful

You are such a Beautiful couple

I agree It's a good idea to keep communicate with him about his granddaughter sabrina. Write him how she's doing and what good parents you are to her. He will come around. Sending love and prayers your way.

I feel like his dad is obviously being manipulated by his mom/his dad's wife, he should not be convinced by her and let her influence his life choices, he should also have his own feelings and his own mind of himself and do whatever he wants and not let her control him

I thought so too. Culturally African parents don’t show affection but we have learnt that they express it in various ways such as telling you how to take care of Sabrina. 💜. Give him time. He loves you. He loves Sabrina.

I agree i think Justin’s dad cares about Sabrina he just needs time.

Eddy127 yes ideally you’re correct but when talking about strict backgrounds, where feelings aren’t openly shown and traditions are in bedded in your upbringing it’s easier said than done... but I’ve got a good feeling he will come around !

carol king what are u even talking about creepo, his parents aren’t even Muslim 🤷🏻‍♀️😝😝🙄 Hahahah

the mother is the real issue, and his father just doesn't have any backbone to stand up against her.

I think that your father cares. Maybe he's a bit racist, maybe he is not. I don't know.What I DO know is that you MUST focus on YOUR family. STOP letting this negative situation define your life. Negative thoughts, actions, attitudes can only suck the joy that your family should be sharing together. The two of you have a loving relationship.You seem to be made for each other. Let NO one have a monopoly on your feelings and emotions. Now, you have a Beautiful baby to raise together in your love. NO one has the RIGHT to command so much pain and grief in your lives. BABY feels EVERY emotion too! It's not fair to her or you! Maybe your father will come around. The letter seems slightly hopeful, but, don't let your hopes get up, and then you are devastated again. If he comes around , fine. If he doesn't, don't dwell on it. Send your cards, etc., but DON'T try to elicit any feelings or hopes to him. Send cards that don't require an answer, yeah or nay. Keep correspondence neutral. Don't MAKE more wounds for yourselves. Focus on the love that you DO receive from those whom you KNOW truly love you and give you that love and support that you NEED.Other than THAT, rewire your brains to "Whatever will be will be.We are fine WHICHEVER way the wind blows." You have love, family,(A Wonderful little baby!). Thank GOD for all the GOOD things that you have in life. Be thankful for them. DON'T LET ANYONE STEAL YOUR JOY!!!!!!!! BE HAPPY. LIFE WILL HAVE MANY UPS AND DOWNS. LEARN HOW TO RIDE THE WAVE. THINGS WILL GET BETTER IF YOU DECIDE THAT THINGS WILL GET BETTER. THAT STARTS WITH YOUR ATTITUDE, AND HOW YOU WILL LET CIRCUMSTANCES AFFECT YOU! DECIDE TODAY THAT YOU ARE OVERCOMERS, AND THOGH TRIALS COME, NOTHING IS GOING TO STEAL YOUR JOY! YOU ARE THE ONES WHO CAN REWIRE YOUR BRAINS AND YOUR ATTITUDE TO DECIDE HOW YOU WILL THINK AND RESPOND, AND WHEN THINGS GET TOUGH, YOU HAVE EACH OTHER TO LEAN ON AND OVERCOME FOR YOU AND YOUR BEAUTIFUL FAMILY. SURROUND YOURSELF WITH POSITIVE PEOPLE.THEY HELP YOU TO STAY POSITIVE, PHYSICALLY, MENTALLY AND PSYCHOLOGICALLY. YOU CAN DO THIS.START NOW.MUCH LOVE TO YOU AND YOUR PRECIOUS FAMILY AND ALL THOSE WHO HAVE YOUR BACK!

What about the grranmother .??

Awww.. 🥰 Thank you so much, Andre! It really lifts our spirits when we hear that we're doing a good job as new parents. And we really appreciate your kind words & greeting for Mother's Day! Thanks for watching & Happy Mother's Day to all the lovely moms in your life, as well! 😁❤️🤗

I 100% agree with you

But why should he disrespect his wife? There’s no reason to! Honestly I’d close all doors! Enough is enough! Justin is right, she carries the same last name and blood and all he cares about is his evil wife... such a shame... smh!

I don't think so。they told them from the beginning about the baby and even sending a photo album of a baby without mentioning in his letter is so painful for the parents.asian parents can ignore their children but the birth of a baby can make them accept their daughter in law.she was disowned by her father and her in-laws especially the wife is too much to bear for her. I think they need to move on his parents want to see their daughter someday so be it.but this time focus on their family.when the in laws doesn't accept the wife of thier son it is more painful for his when the grandparents will not accept their granddaughter

I dont even understand Korean but dad was talking about baby throughout the letter (based on your translation). He may not have quite said what you wanted to hear but he has shown interest in you and baby.

tef gutierrez unfair. Put yourself in her shoes. Where is she stopping him? She is gracious and kind and is being incredibly supportive.

@@ColRusSer the Grandfather's wife (the grandmother of Sabrina) watch the video where they meet "Korean parents meet blasian gf" the Korean mom is the one against them

Andrea Perez thank you. I actually did, but it doesn’t negate the fact that his daughter in law has the doors open for them to come see Sabrina. Also, the grandfather’s duty is to accept his granddaughter despite his wife’s feelings. She is being incredibly selfish, and quite simply; she is wrong. Also, if she wanted only Korean for her son, why did she move to Canada? Hypocritical. She wanted the benefits of living in that society but to live in a bubble? It doesn’t work that way.

@@ColRusSer Indeed. If I were the grandfather I would certantly get divorced this old racist witch. She is a hater of her own kin. 😡

tef gutierrez ..my heart

Brandy The Beader if only they knew their pride makes them scum. Misplaced pride is one of the greatest tragedies out there.

It's happening on both sides of the family.

The mother

It is all rooted not only in false Pride of parents, but more so on ignorance! Ignorance breeds pride & lack of understanding & disrespect for other ethnicity or religion! Prayers, constant, fervent Prayers work miracles! The Love of JESUS is The Way To Love of Oneselves (Look after yourself, your wife/partner & your little Angel Sabrina! What a lively name Sabrina) and Love for others, including parents & siblings! Despite each other"s families attitude and ignorance just keep your love for them in prayers, not sadness & resentments! We say "Time Heals!", but do not easily give up on HOPE through sincere & constant prayers. It is not that you cannot live your own life without them, but that it would be good for them to accept reality & respect your choices as whom to love or marry as you are.both responsible adults! Do not worry for now about them not accepting even your beautiful baby, think of how you live your.Life together as own family, for "Life Is How We Make of it! HAPPINESS comes from.within ourselves, do not yearn for it from others even from your parentage & siblings! May GOD Bless you both and the baby in many ways, be strong in your love and devotion for each other and your baby!

To their credit, Justin's parents shockingly haven't had to or have gotten away while living in Canada with their fixed narrow-minded beliefs regarding race and family lineage. As a result of not being forced to address it or being faced with something personally impacting them until Sarah came into their life, they are older and therefore less likely of having their thought process be malleable (neuroplasticity). The father is torn as a father, husband, and with his beliefs from his country of birth/upbringing. As for the mother, I think that it does have to do with pride as Korean mothers tend to be overbearing especially to sons. www.businessinsider.com.au/why-are-older-people-racist-2018-7?r=US&IR=T

P.S. Don't force a meeting, please. That will come in time. Take things slowly and things will fall into place when they're suppose to. Not in your time, but in His. 💕

M A, I totally agree with you. I did not get the impression that he said he did not want to see the baby or be in the same room as her. He sounds as though he is giving Justin some advice on being a good parent and also taking care of his own health. Justin and Sarah do not give up on him as yet.

I totally agree with you. He didn't have to write back. It's a hard situation but I don't see the letter as a totally negative thing. I would still update him on her. When she grows up she will know that her parents didn't give up on the relationship and tried the best they could for her to have a relationship with him.

M A well said.

Truth.

Very true.

Beautifully said and I agree totally

I agree! Keep sending photos and short letters of Sabrina’s growth and milestones. I think your father would appreciate that! He may be very sad as he tries to please your mother.

S Elleiggins totall agre