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Thank U.

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So what kinda scam yall running. with these THANK ME LATER closings? I could give a damn,,GOD SEES ALL,,,VENGEANCE IS HIS!! I'm too old to micromanage a grown ass man!

@John Clayton don't give up my brother. I have been through a similar situation with my family and my father sexuality abusing me. Then I attracted women into my life that were narcissist. There is hope my friend. Sounds like you are doing the right thing. Love is the answer. This is something the narcissist will never understand. Sending love to my friend. Don't give up. You have got this and the darkness can be fruitful and a time to find your light.

@Dehlilia_ 8thHouseMoonRabbit and they say the ex husband is a jerk there are 2 sides to every story

100%

This woman in work is divorced and claims her ex is a jerk but she played games with me for a bit and she thinks she is a nice person? Wtf..

Dude this was literally my ex. She "love bombed" me and made me believe that she was innocent, caring and just a wholesome soul. She always played the victim when talking about her past relationships and how I was just so wonderful and amazing... 3.5 months later I caught her cheating with my once close friend. But yeah, sweet girl.

yeah, my one fires up like crazy for the slightest precieved criticism.

I think one year to recover from a 6 years of narc relationship is incredibly fast, you are doing amazing! After being gaslit for such a long time, the brain must do a lot of reality observing and recalculations. Hope you can replace this with a lot of kindness and love and rest. The best!

Been there done that 4 years took 2 to get over it best move I made was to walk away

Simp Someone idolizing mediocre 🐈

Omg I dropped 800k and now he wants to fight for custody. Impossible when he tried to sell me our daughter. And he uses her to know everything about me. He's creating a big situation in our recoveries.....

The child will be a victim not a narcissist

Facts!!

guitawrizt for real I am posting that quote

Profound

Deb- should be part of the 'Golden Rule'.

@@guitawrizt thank Maya Angelou

The loudest person in the room, is the weakest person in the room.

That is an excellent and profound statement. Every social event will give opportunity to observe both...

Took me 25 years to learn this

Wep not really true

@@TheReal1ThatGuy and what ig you are at the rage against the machine concert? You just talking shit

I’ll take her.

2 months now after 8 yrs stay strong. Been really hard for me.

@@dynomike502 leaning this way. absolutely dying inside. i know i have to get away just havent taken the leap.

Keep on walking, pick Up the pace and never look back, Never.

@@disgamecheats5195 You need to get away, she eventually cheated and moved on, but she still emails me daily, but she wont talk about what happened at all she acts as if it never happened, its a ploy. Its such a hard thing to be in love with a girl like this. Because inside you want to help, but she is an unfillable pit that requires happiness and that is delivered only in being a slave and buying gifts to make her "happy". Its shortly lived. Mine put me 15k into debt and is currently driving around In a lease I've paid for the last year or so. I figured after 8 years we can do something like this. DONOT CO SIGN for anybody on anything!

Hope you do get out

Get out! It has been 19 years for me and they only get worse

I’m so sorry

Be strong for your kid . You have the power ⭐️🙏🏽

So sorry, I was blessed in being able to cut those ties to getting entangled with her by the grace of God.

trouble is lack of confidence is also silent. actually shy. but most people confuse silence and shyness..

FACTS

The loudest one in the room is the weakest one in the room...

CrimsonHazmat Wooorrrd

CrimsonHazmat what a perfect line...

You just gave me hope im trying to build evidence on my current spouse so i can get full custody of our son. Ive been secretly recording arguements and most of our arguments stems from her telling our colic 2 month old son to "Shut the f*ck up". Every time i call her out on it, she denies it and hits me in the face but were fighting a cps case currently because she refused to stop smoking marijuana while pregnant (we live in Texas so its illegal here) thats why I havent called the cops and with my luck i would go to jail with a bloody nose anyway and ever since she quit smoking since his birth she hates me like its my fault she got pregnant when she was always the one to want sex 1st even the 1st night we met. Im secretly saving up lawyer money and evidence because i know push will come to shove eventually and when it does i want to prove my innocence. I work from 6am to noon everyday at my new job and she always wakes me up to start fights around 3 am telling me "hes your son too, its your turn you watch him." When ive only been asleep for 3 hours or less and calls me worthless when i cant hold my eyes open and its affecting my job performance and my well being in general. My mom has been more of a mom to my son than his birth mother. Please pray for me

Look how you said you were physically abused and only 2 comments. If that was a chick someone would of cared. Take that bitch to the cleaners like she would of done you if the situation was reversed. Nail her for Alimony, child support, and throw her in jail. Force her to take rehab. Coach your kid into saying she touched him/her. Annihilate her to the point she dont wanna live anymore like woman do to us

@@johnsonbobo2376 word up

@@mikelenetv6329 hope all is well

I wish you and your daughter love, laughter and happiness together. Well done Dad! Best move you could have ever made!

A narcissist cannot be reached. They don't admit fault. Their manipulation is purposeful. If you are seeking truth, you aren't one.

Very true!!! I definitely have traits. I’m unlearning and praying

I agree, I tried to reason, forgive the female narcissist I am with and it was no hope.

🖤

well said.

Prob right, maybe thats why that recent former coworker, couldn't quit (every hr atleast) talking crap , takin breaks , and whining about how bad his back hurt, the whole day. All the others who were more trained were silent, and he was just a laborer like me.I never heard that 1

💯💯💯

if the can is empty how will it rattle? An empty can will be silent, and so confident :-)

Facebook is misused excessively by certain personalities

Yes Erick Cisneros I definitely agree👍

Erick Cisneros Yes, especially Instagram. It exists for no other reason. Facebook at least has some legitimate social networking uses and allows friends to communicate.

Erick Cisneros There is way more to FB than just this.

Yes I’m Blessed Yes I know that. It wasn’t created to be that way, I believe it’s an unintended effect. I haven’t been on Facebook for almost 6 months life is better

My narcs is firstly my dad , then my sisters and wife and their reletives are enablers and helpers of them. I then was in a 6 year relationship where I stay loyal and loved her but ultimately due to her bpd she cheated on me with a "friend " and during discard she brutally devalued me and insulted me and behaved very rudely.

It frustrates me to no end how my wife gets away with everything shy of murder because she is a woman! It’s a shame the doubles standards!

Why?

@@RileyElite11 your life will change dummy

Terry Riley same here. Don't miss it a bit!

Good for you!!...i never ever opened a facebook or instagram account....!!my friends look at me like I m an alien...but all I really see is them competing constantly with eachother to who has the best picture....the best family....the best couple...the best holiday!!....instead of really focusing on LIFE....💚

Unless I want a internet job and expose my talents and my work!

True. I learned the hard way. I tried so many times to have a relationship with my mom but she keep putting myself down. Talk nasty comments about my son and husband. I said no more. I want a healthy environment for my son and family. Enough is enough

my ex GF tried to turn my family against me and was jealous of trips we had gone on before I met her. every time when our relationship was on the rocks she would go to my other and portray me as a terrible abuser. one time she did this while drunk and had my mother on the phone for 3 hours crying and telling all kinds of lies. then when she finally got off the phone at midnight she decided to cook something and then fell asleep on the couch and the food burned on the stove. so sick of that insane drama all the time!

Yup my sister in law

Try doing that when society is gaslighting you to keep the birthrates up while every lady you meet sees you as a utility and has great contempt for you unless you give into her impulsive whims and demands.

Same. My SIL. But how can you eject them without ejecting your loved one too when they control your loved one??

This was my ex fiancée

truly exhausting lol

great comment - lived through those exact things with my ex. she had conflict with everyone - workmates, family members, friends and of course with me. always she was the innocent victim. everywhere we went she would have a judgement about how people looked or dressed.

@@RedroomStudios I think we were seeing the same woman. Wouldn't surprise me...she was banging everybody behind my back.

My sister in law lol always the victim always quits her job because she’s always being persecuted my poor brother has to be at her beck and call and she spent his whole inheritance 😭

This is exactly what my narc ex did to me, multiple side guys, playing the victim including having me wrongfully jailed for domestic abuse, tried to run my finances dry. Once I got out it was like a weight off my shoulders.

Chris H It’s insane behavior. Literally insane behavior.

Joshua Merlin She did you a big favor by hitting you hard and fast. The slow drawn out torture is worse in my opinion.

gross....

Is she good looking? Pimp her out.

then she'll accuse you of being a coward..

@@primalway1317 right accuse u of abandoning her!🤦‍♂️

@@Lee-lilo-Noto My ex did this of me and her other exes. However, we need to understand she doesn't deserve us to worry about HER narrative. She is sick and has pushed us all away...Not our fault.

BrotherTree1 me too

Me to me to one deep 4life

Yes sir. Love yourself and do your own thing.

Sometimes it’s healthier.

Same here

just found out i might have traces of that as well

Exactly.. spot on!

YES!

Yup

I'm freaked out my ex I loved her a lot!!!!she was I think competing with me instead of being my partner it s plain bazaar.

So fun

Attention and promoting a fake image will be her number 1 priority. I feel like my life is shattered and I was only with her for 7 months.

My ex was always trying to keep up an image, and my mentality was "Who the hell are we trying to impress??"

@@danparish1344 exactly I need to fix this

With my narcissist (Sister) she showed the worst when I started growing up and maturing, thus, living my own life and taking care of myself, reducing the attention that I was giving to her. Then I experienced some of the worst behaviors from this sort of people. In one occasion that she exploded, her attitude was the very of a little imp, was a very child with the body of an adult, which was pretty violent, there I realized this people in the bottom are crazy, cause her behavior in that particular occasion was the very definition of madness, was pretty scary but showed me who she really was. Very violent, gossiping all the time, manipulating and putting everyone against me (And basically all the family is narcissistic, with she being the worst, against me), trying to damage my reputation and destroying my moral by any mean. In my experience, I can tell you, there should not be place for tolerance. No man nor woman deserves to have this shit on their life; there shouldn’t be place to have this shit in your life, they should be thrown away as rubbish is thrown away.

@@esmooth919 looooooool I had a few friends like this. They lived for the applause of men

I’m about to break up with my fiancé today and I know it’s going to go exactly like this LOL! Wish I could just send a post card and be done with it. Been watching these videos so I don’t feel bad and fall for any more of her stuff, I know she’ll be pulling out all the stops 😅

I spent 10 days with a narcissistic, that was enough for me. Called police to remove her from my flat.She was intimidating and abusive. They don't take responsibility for their actions. Taking time to recover. They are the bad guy. Take care, God bless.

Lucky you

I know the feeling ..

Me too

A decade here! Chin up bro's

ghinso1967 ya me too . Then I thought I was stronger , smarter and let her reel me in again! Hope I’m really smarter now!

Completely understand. 2 years of hell and another 4 years of not even considering another relationship. Ironically, she has a KZfaq channel dedicated to dealing with a narcissist and is now scamming others.

You have described my life to the letter.....

That's my wife total devil . Call me a cunt infront of my children? I never got guys to Hoover the car when I took it the car wash. Why.

Yeah I agree except she acted literally like an angel at first lol. You don't know until you know. Then you end up here hahahaha

That was my ex best friend.. she was just like that.. WOW!!!

I have felt so alone in this...But seeing these comments I know it’s not just in my head and I’m not alone in it. An example, “I would never have a child with you” (even though we have one already)...then after watching the Christmas lights with our Son we stop to get a snack at a drive through. She says “Ok, so I’ve been taking prenatal vitamins and they are almost out, should I just finish them and that’s it, or get more?”...I looked at her with complete shock at what she just said and asked her “what do you think?”. She got really angry about that and made sure to let me know I was such a horrible person for responding like that. Just something that came to mind first...but there are a million instances like that. Including her telling me we need to keep our personal life to ourselves...and then I find out randomly from others that she has talked at length with with people and made me look like garbage. I came to a point where I completely lost myself. She had completely stripped away any self worth...really anything. Everything with these people is so cunning and calculated...it’s hard to believe how well they spin their web.

Betty Boo's Sister my mother to a 'T'

Baker In the House Ain’t that the truth

yup that wraps it all up. Ready to burn the barn down.

Mashed with made up lies about you. Yep!!!

Well said

Bully is just the old word for them. Narcissist makes them sound cool. My sister (adult) refers to her screaming public temper tantrums as 'Narcissistic Rage' as if it were a badge of honour.

I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact John to help he is a genius. You can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) and don't forget to thank me later

Sexual bully. Lol

@@iniubongnkanga9390 will that evidence stand in court?

Inflicting pain to 'elevate' them- their ticket to Hell.

They'll picture her as a cute caring angel. I know I'm the only one seeing her demonic face, covert narcs tends to have two faces, that caring face to the public and the demonic face behind the closed doors.

yep - she was an actor in public and in front of family so she could always claim to be the nice one and stab me in the back making me out to be an abuser! but she was like living with someone possessed by the devil. mine was on medication for anxiety and she was also an alcoholic. the anxiety medication specifically warned that it should not be taken with alcohol because when she did that the effects would be reversed and she turned into a raging paranoid nut case. thinking back on it now I dont know how I lived through the insane drama for so long (5 years). I wish I had it on film because trying to explain it to family and friends is so hard and they almost cant believe what you are saying.

@@RedroomStudios Gone through a very similar thing recently (though just 1yr). Trying to explain it to people is so hard... I found writing it all down helps or putting screenshots together if this abuse occurred via message. Hope things get better for you.

I grey rocked after she started hoovering me, then she started gaslighting me to hell, it was the most painful guilt trips I've ever felt

Excellent advice. I just ejected from my life this narcissistic creep who was after me. He would even come up to my friends and ask them, 'Where's Lisa?' I told them I was ghosting him, so they wouldn't tell him, and it drove him wacko. I moved so he can't find me.

I just learned this. Broke up with her 3 days ago.

Friend I work with a female narc and what a bitch it's no good arguing because they suddenly become the innocent one!!!

True, love can make you blind. But many aren’t blind, they tolerate it because they “love” their abuser

This is literally what I went through with my narc

That's why one should never judge by superficial appearances.

This Sh¡$ hurts like hell...

My last boss was a narcissist and I put up with his shit for 3 years, then he retired. I still hope that I see in the local news that he died in a car accident or in a bar parking lot. Him winding up eating out of fast-food garbage bins would be OK, too.

@AlbertCarr5025-It does. However, you wouldn’t be commenting here if you haven’t already began moving on/letting go. So, good for you-protect yourself, and accept that you want and can have genuine people in your personal relationships. You just have to find them and it can take time do that. You’ll go through some unsavory people, it can feel lonely at times, but you’ll survive. Quality over quantity. Best wishes.

I want to be able to move on from her so, so, so desperately bad. It's been a month and a day. Our relationship was about 18 months. My life has gone down hill very much so in the past 12 months. I knew before she cheated and I found out and she discarded me that it would almost take miracles for it to work with her. The way it ended seemed to really be scarring me. Why? Cause I was chose over? I'm sure that's a big part. God, I just want to be ok without her. I want to be there right now. I'm scared I will never find the connection that I felt with her, and I am fully aware it was never special to her, nor was I. I'm fucked. I think I'm broken. Help me please.

Ray Jones The Narc I know buys everyone all kinds of gifts so everyone likes gifts right? She found out early, that people can be bought pretty cheaply by her shiny things. When she was young she controlled my little brother with penny candy.

This is mind blowing. I'm awakening I think.

And that's where I started being played a fool. I pleased her using my money. Lucky for me we never went beyond friends.

@@noreenstarck992 I understand completely. This is also my Sister. I have been widowed 4 yrs so I moved close to the town where my divorced older Sister lives, thinking this would be good. Boy, what a mistake. She is a loud mouth bully who insults everyone and says the most mean spirited things to me. I could go on and on but instead I think I will move to another state. I need to be away from her.

"I have my own money." But she'll happily have him spend his on her.

No matter how much of a man you are, a narc woman will destroy it. Or try.

Wtf... I thought I was crazy that happened to me before my ex said the same thing to me

I got the "you better pay attention to me or you'll regret it one day when I leave you, and I'm not coming back."

rvz77 I still don’t understand the logic behind it

@@jamessimpson5636 a narc womans identity is incredibly fractured. And she refused to face her flaws. So she wants attention, adoration to feel WORTHY. She wants to feed off the attention you give her. That's all she cares about you...what YOU can do for HER. A full, solid person who loves themselves doesnt need others adoration, or attention to feel good about themselves. They enter rltnshps to SHARE the love they have within. There is no need for a happy person to TAKE. But to GIVE AND SHARE. Find a person who is happy on their own and who is content and doesnt need your adoration to achieve happiness or self worth.

Peace To you Learner

Needed to see this..

Not in most cases, some times you don't know what your going up against because a Narcissist knows how to hold there composure. Play it out cool, mirror you without you being aware.

Nothing to do with healing....just Snap out of it, & move on, but learn from your mistakes & experience be easy with yourself

The fact that you could even realize that shows that you are definitely on the right path.

Unapologetic and no accountability for there actions and situations..trust me trying to show her was like pulling teeth

John Behneman Great Point!!

I totally agree! They enjoy asking for advice but never seem to ever do anything with it...

That's a really good eye opener thank you for that.

This is so very true. I myself am into self-improvement (which led me to this video) and my ex (narc) would never so much as pick up a book or make any real effort to improve herself.

Of course it runs in families! That's where narcissists are made!

I had a similar experience!

Richard Lepri yea I know how that is I’m dealing with the same thing with my husband n his mother

it usually does! my mother is narcisstic and my brother is worse than her.

Yes, it ruined Me, I was a tool for years, there way or no way, I was the blunt of there comments for 25 plus years.

Thanks. I put in 23 years. My life is fucked.

@@ACEDIAMOND666 you can rebuild and you deserve to be happy

@@ACEDIAMOND666 wow 23 years i did 18years and shes now still trying to get family and friends to get to me

Don't look at it as a waste. You will be able to spot the next one that comes along. Use every experience to make yourself a better person.

Don't you kings fucking dare say your life is fucked. Yes, you lost time, but you will come back even stronger!

@Druid VW stay strong, good luck

Snap - I lost 10 years as well :(

This sums it up for me. I have 2 kids though and don't see how I can leave them or take them with me. Woman always wins over man in law.

The competition part is the CRAZIEST part!!!

Better than 27 years....

It needs to start in Middle School and continue all the way through High School, to really ingrain that shit into the students.

Yes it does people need to be more and more aware. I didn’t even know that such things existed and even when I started to I didn’t know the name for it. Just proves my ignorance at that time.😔😔

Schools will never provide real life education. Schools are there basically to distract kids from real life.

🙏

Has anyone ever been or claimed to be healed from narcissism? With evidence that supports its a genuine miracle. Cuz it would have to be. I believe there with the Bible calls reprobates and their conscience is seared with a hot iron and they cannot be saved and their mind is defiled and they're always Liars inventors of evil things Covenant Breakers proud boasters lovers of self never admitting wrong taking accountability always worried about clean and unclean Meats it says it all routes back to when they knew God they didn't honor him as God and started worshiping other things so God gave them over to a reprobate mind that they would do those things that were at the very least inconvenient it's a lot harder to be the way they are than it is to just be nice or the person they pretended to be to suck you in. That's what blows my mind because I've been the victim of a few of them on with one now and she did a good job acting I'll tell you that cuz I was trying to be extremely careful looking for the red flags and she put it on for like 4 months and she did a good job there wasn't one slip-up that I noticed that I've got really good discernment. I know I'm not perfect I'm not a narcissist either but at the same time I don't know how I missed it I almost want to blame myself not like punish myself to stay in this I'm currently trying to work out a way to get out of the spider's web if you know what I mean. I moved in with her so I live with her at her place and I'm unemployed right now with no vehicle I sold all my money in a hurry to get it fixed so we could both use it and now she doesn't even let me use it when I need to and I need to make sure I have secure employment with transportation and my own place to leave could actually if I got a vehicle I will get a van or a truck so I could just sleep in that leave immediately and just get back to enjoying being me. I mean I love me and I'm good friends with me myself and I but it's really hard to enjoy being me when I got to walk on eggshells and I'm constantly finding myself caring about someone who doesn't care about me and I know it I'm trying to figure out why they want to be that way even though I know what they are Holding Out for it and they know they are what they are but it's always I know you are but what am I I just don't understand why they even want to be that way cuz it's so much easier to not be that's what it says they do things that are inconvenient. That's a nice way of putting it cuz never found it hard to love God and others as myself or care about someone's well-being or be humble admit when I'm wrong take accountability and really get to know myself and love me and healthy way but it's like she won't even let me love her anymore and you can tell she's going to try to push me away cuz when she was faking it and pretending to love me and pretending to receive my love even though it wasn't the real her she seemed like she enjoyed it and I couldn't tell it was an act so it's absolutely mind-boggling to try to understand why or maybe that is the real her maybe not all narcissists are hopeless that's what I want to believe about her because I've really done my research on this has been around them and I know that that's where she is now maybe it's demon possession that's taking place prior to a person becoming a reprobate like Saul was on his road to Damascus and Jesus said the blind him and knock him on his damn ass cuz he was either going to repent and get saved or become a reprobate that very day I firmly believe it. And when someone's on the road to being one especially if they're really close to that cut off point cuz there's got to be a cut-off Point. Everybody's born that way it's hard to tell if they've already passed it or not and one of the things that really gets me is is there anything going on that is super evil that's like a plot not even just cheating which I don't believe there is but I think sometimes there's a larger agenda to either try and harm me or really just try to ruin me even if it takes her whole life I feel like sometimes she's having conversations with people talkin about their plans for me and it's disguised as other shit and I'm not a paranoid person and I'm not a person that thinks I'm that important that I'm more important than other people or something but I really don't try to just dismiss it with the same time when there's so many times that it just really screams out to me like this is obvious there's no such thing as a coincidence especially when there's too many coincidences and I don't like to stir the pot and I know they won't tell the truth but sometimes I like to just let her know that I'm really distrusting of her and I'm on to her and if there's anything going on it's going to be bad news for her cuz I'm a child of God and she will lose. And it seems like it gets her mad that she knows I know shit that I haven't been told and shouldn't figure out and that I'm right about what I'm saying. But it's not like she's mad because wrongly assuming falsely accusing her or even accusing me of making shit up that's crazy sometimes she just gets real quiet when I say shit to her that I feel is going on and I know if someone said that to me and I wasn't doing it I would not only be hurt that they thought that but I would wonder how they came to that conclusion I would want to make sure that not only did they know I love him with my actions every David make sure there's nothing wrong with them like paranoid schizophrenia but that's the thing I'm really observant and I have a sound mind and a good conscience towards god with a humble attitude when I say I have a lot of wisdom and I'm not stupid I'm not somebody that likes to be abused either but it's just so weird that she's quiet room even if she wanted to lie it would be so much better for her case if she just acted like it didn't bother or pretended it pissed her off that I was believing a lie but she sometimes just shuts down when I say shit that when I say it I wanted to not be true but it's so fucking obvious in I feel like it's so evil what's going on that I got to put it out there cuz I don't want it to be true but if it is I want to let them know that look all this shit that you're doing to try to gas me up so you can like me is just going to burn you cuz if it is what I think it is it's not just her it's a whole new group of people and they all work together I really feel like it's a koven and they're taking orders from and they're taking orders from probably Satan himself I also feel that's one of the reasons she changed I don't know where maybe she figured this would all have been over with and she got fed up with she's having to wait longer day get paid or get her reward will get out of the situation and go do what she wants or get on to the next victim but it's really obvious that something's going on. It's made me want to go out see other women to be honest. We're not married on government paper or any of that we believe in biblical marriage or at least I did and she lied about it but I still live here we sleep in separate rooms it's been about four months since we've been slow dancing in a burning room and I've been walking on eggshells and we haven't been intimate in all the last time we were it seemed like for that month it was a different person and she needed a good job of Faking enjoying a lot of shit including sex and love and all that stuff and then she acts like she did tests it now like she detest holding my hand when she used to be so affectionate I don't know but I don't want to overthink it and I don't want to assume shit that's not true I just know I have the discernment and I'm on to something but if they think they can take me down in any way they got another thing coming cuz Papa Jesus Got a Brand New Bag... of old tricks that are refined better than ever remember Elijah was calling fire down on them from heaven after he was calling them out publicly telling everyone why. Hates them and they would get hit with fire from heaven I mean could you imagine it and that's what all the narcissists are there reprobates reppy's I call him LOL

23 yrs of her playing the victim

Can you imagine what would happen if female narc meets male narc⛏️☠️💀😳👹👹 I tried to find an exploding bomb but even that wouldn't qualify!!

@@amandapryar4675 is it even possible by because the Nac believes they are The center of the Universe and all things revolve around their epic gravitational pull. Could you even have 2 centers? It's seems like narcs specialize in Drawing Co-dependants and ematha and rescuers and such (enablers). Also maybe borderlines. If two narcs met each other I'm suspicious they will hate each other with burning passion (how dare a second person claim to be the center of the Universe?). I bet some of the most heated rivalries if all time were two narcs just hating each other.

I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact John to help he is a genius. You can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) and don't forget to thank me later

This is exactly what happened to me it's cold blooded shit y'all

This is exactly how I was discarded by my narc ex-gf... So f***ing frustrating!

they have a taste for military men like you wouldn't believe.

@@mysticpizza02 that statement is true through the looking glass as well.

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Danny Adames right. If you’re feeling insecure about a woman’s beauty when talking to her, say to her what you would say to one of your most stupid or most humble friends when replying to her. This quickly breaks the ice.

I was trying to rap to someone else who was also hot who seemed to respond favorably but I couldn't: all that slap-ass had my mind in prison, I felt like I was taken so shouldn't when there was really nothing wrong with it, we weren't hitched yet. As a result of how it all turned-out I don't rap no more, at all; let someone else lose a fortune over it.

@Distilled PUA never thought of a man as his status. I can do things and handle my own very well.. I enjoy a man that has a good sense of humor. that's better than anything!! 😊

Aggravated and she is drowning when her main victim distance him self from her need for refuel of false worship.

Bro, any relationship you get in out of lust is bound to be taken away from you because it's idolatry for the simple fact you're putting it before the ONE & ONLY living God...

The spiritual types behind this are Jezabel, Delilah, Lilith, Ahab, and the like. All required worship.

I'm learning it takes a lot more than lust and desire for a real good relationship. If you know yours and your partners "Love Language", that is half the battle.

Thank you man you keep taking me out of situations

im really sorry man.

literally????😀🖒

They will discard you no matter what man. I owned a house with her, paid all the bills while we were engaged and she was pregnant with my daughter, doing everything for her and providing unconditional love even though I was treated like shit. She discarded me like it was nothing after I went grey rock for a bit, to move into the ghetto lol. They do not give a single flying fuck about anything

Oxalis wife is debating now on breaking up a family. we all go thru it

Sad but these people are heartless. Don't feel bad, God will bless you with a loving woman.

Absolutely correct, trust your friends advice too, they can see it from the start, whilst you get wrapped up in her.

And they love bad boys with lots of money because they 'see through the facade' (actually, they just think all women are trash and enjoy watching them try but to a female narcissist the qualities of 'their man' plays into their grandiose image of themselves so they deceive themselves into thinking he knows their innermost desires even though he's really just playing along with whatever she says and having fun degrading her and bragging to his buddies about how stupid she is).

The idea is literally to DESTROY THE NARCISSIST before he destroys somebody else. You DO THIS using the same tactics he uses to 'gaslight' with (except that we're not gaslighting but telling the truth, although the narcissist will ALWAYS condemn you for 'ad hominem' attacks, conveniently oblivious to the fact that it is the narcissist who always relies on character assassination). And I discovered that the only thing that was preventing me from speaking 'truth to narcissism'... was my OWN egoic need to be different from the narcissist (but I DO have a confident, aggressive and feisty side).

I actually think the best way to get revenge on a narcissist is to let them keep being a narcissist. For example my dad abandoned us for hookers and meth, so my revenge on him was letting him live a life of hookers and meth. Like what they are doing comes with its own revenge. My revenge on my ex is also just letting him be him. No girl unless she’s extremely insecure, manipulative, and abusive, will stay with him and he’ll never have a deep meaningful connection with someone because he doesn’t do that. It’s like the narcissism is their own revenge and if they stop it then they’ll be happy but also they’ll deserve to be happy cause they stopped it. It’s karma basically. Whatever they are doing they are doing to themselves to the equivlent. Just don’t reward their behaviour by giving them attention, even if it’s negetive attention. Cause “please don’t do this to me, I need you” is a stroke to their ego and motivates them to do it more for more of your approval. Just leave them and go be happy without them, that’s the revenge. The revenge is to let them be destructive and not let it affect you or bond to that.

+Elicia Garcia Appreciate everything you just said, but narcissists can be 'worn down'. The results are unpredictable (e.g.: they might KILL you), but they're actually very easy to 'defeat' as they're extremely predictable.

Drummers Eve I totally agree mate.. my ex wife has destroyed my relationship with my children and I said and done nothing but she mad my kids stop seeing me even bribing my daughter with a little pug big if she stops waning to see me.. she will get it all back someday from the kids.

Gareth Mason I wish there was an easy way help children being raised by Ns as the kids will experience abuse and continue cycle. Kids will go through the same sick abuse and never being taken care of. Not given a choice, they and become either a narcissist like the mom or scapegoat (sometimes switching roles.) In my case I became a scapegoat and subconsciously tried to make it out getting good grades to go off to college but ultimately formed a stress induced illness that took me out, never being taken to the doctor and even child protective services not doing anything. I ran away to a family member who took me to a doctor and temporarily house me. Ended up also being very narcissistic and kicked me out last semester of HS. During this whole time never having anyone tell me I was set up for failure in the hands of these Npeople no matter how hard I try. Took me until mid twenties and an abusive partner to finally stumble upon this information and taking steps to finally take my life back and know who I really am and not this terrible person this Nfamily has painted me out to be.

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Edward Norton that is what my dad did when I was 10.....LOL..I'm ok with it. Now that I am older I know why and it wasn't ME)))))

kim peridore that’s the problem with this scenario. Dad’s destroy kids when they do this until they become adults.

Edward Norton AMEN.

Lol Edward

Yup. Mother is a narc and 2 out of 4 kids are narcs, too. I live in fear they'll found out where I live.

oh ya, they hate it when they get caught out! they make you go through hell for that!

Yes, Ns react 1 of 2 ways when you try to hold them accountable. They either go ballistic (like my NMIL), or they ignore you & give you the silent treatment (my former wife did this a lot).

@@RedroomStudios Haha heard that

@@nopcshere6097 facts im 7-9 days out of a relation with a narc and the both things you said she did and shes on #2 now

You got this brother, keep your head up.

People recover from depression cause by this abuse when they remember to keep the narc out of they’re life, just remember to stay away and focus on yourself :)❤️ I’m feeling much more like my old self already and the world feels like a much safer place! 😅

Same here..

Speaking from my long embarrassing hell road experience that i wish I should've made a quick Uturn from driving down, I agree

I don't know... I have delt with both a female and a male narcissist.. A narc is a narc. The difference in my experience with them is... The male I knew cheated a lot.. The female I knew took advantage of her husband to get things she couldn't afford..put them in debt..

@@Eyeshaveit female narcs cheat as well. Trust me.

@@Hollywood-vu7cf yes, I agree with you... But I think there are more men cheaters than women.. I could be wrong,.. I don't know.. It's only from what I have witnessed in my life... Every now and then I have to deal with seeing women that my ex cheated on me with .. And it was a lot... So maybe your right.. They are just as bad as him... Doing the same thing... I know he cheated on me even with his buddies wives/girlfriends... But no one believes me... It took me a long time to figure it out... I have some proof... But not for them all.... But many red flags... It's sick...

@WolfThorn wow.. That exact same thing happened to me! I tried to warn my ex's buddie that his girlfriend was screwing my husband.. He didn't believe me... And made me look crazy.. That's when he put me into a mental ward after that.. Saying that I was hallucinating... And saying that I wanted to kill myself... It was all lies.. And he wanted to try and keep me in there.. Then told people that I put myself in there... It's like a lifetime movie..

Agree with both of you. I was never enough for my ex and it took everything from me.

NvmMind 0616.. Careful, It might wait, even years, then come hoovering back on the off chance. They'l get supply from you whichever the outcome. If you stay firm & true and grey rock/blank them They'l just get supply triangulating you with whoever, saying oh I ran into that ex I told you about, he still not over me, wouldn't even look at me blah blah blah

@@stan1050 She is going back north, so it is officially over. Now i am on the road to success!

*some women. Please dont generalise. There r men like that too.

Yep... make it a game to bring you down. But I am planning my exit and living my life raising my children..... until that day

yep, been through that cycle 5 times in 5 years! well actually way more than 5 times but that was how many times she moved her furniture in and out of my house.

@@RedroomStudios close that chapter for good bro! Run fast!!

My ex wife. It's all finally over and I couldn't be happier.

Bbbrrruuuhhh, I'm going through this RIGHT NOW.

@@adamstampley7207 I went thru it last summer

Preach . The perfect and elegant equation . Might even get it tatooed on my forhead . For real . x

Exactly why tf do I need algebra

Jim it need to be taught in school

Jim schools don’t even teach you this shit🤦🏾‍♂️

@@G20T For real. I dealt with a Narc and I took Psychology in college and they didnt mention Narcissism at all. Only that it's a DSM-5 and parr of all disorders but don't get in depth. Who would have thought that one semester of General Psychology would actually serve me in my situation with my Ex Narcissist GF.

Melbester9 I feel you

Absolutely true!

Agreed bother. I've even thought about moving country's

Benjamin Street Well what I went through, I don’t like to be in the same state as my ex. I don’t trust her at all. I won’t allow myself to be in close proximity to her. If I ever was, I’d want several wittinesses.

@@dennisconrad6124 interesting.. My ex told me I was mad. So I put myself through a lot of medical tests to reveal nothing wrong. Then my doctor after a year said maybe you should keep away from your ex.. Funny story as I'm starting to feel better and get friends again. I lost a lot of good people

Benjamin Street I lost everybody. Kids too. But God worked it out so I just starting to get a relationship back with my kids. It had been 20 years since I last talked to my daughter. She’s 35 now. It took my son getting a cancerous tumor on his kidney to do it though. That’s what a Narcissist does. They try to convince YOU and all your family members and friends your crazy or something mentally wrong with you. Sorry to hear you fell for it, but I kinda did too for a while. All my old friends are gone. Sorry for their loss. It’s been 22 years for me. I don’t believe you ever get over it, but you do learn to deal with it. AND YOU NEVER FORGET! Edited to add this. Hang in there. I know what your going through. My story, you could make a movie on it. But, after reading hundreds of stories that people have told in the comment sections of KZfaq videos on Narcissism, I’ve come to realize I’m not alone. In fact, that’s what started to heal me. When I realized that thousands of people have been through being the victim of a narcissistic person, many of them with even worse experiences then what I went through, it started me down the road to finally coming to terms with everything. I’m a free man now!

@@dennisconrad6124 how are you today brother

Good on you :D They're real man

SAME LOL

Looks can be deceiving, even with a nice ass

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