The Raw Attractive Power All Men Have that Women Won't Admit to Feeling

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5 жыл бұрын

The video that changed my life: • Gary Yourofsky vs. Ani...
This may be the most revealing video I have ever made. I didn't want to share this secret of the female mind but thought I should. I may have to make another more concise video on it but I will summarize my point below:
Just like heterosexual men see women differently than hetero women see women.... WOMEN see men differently than men could ever see themselves. It's just a lot of women won't tell men that they sense the fundamental core male energy that all men possess. Yes ALL men. I see it in literally any guy simmering under the surface. I guess sense it would be a better word as it is, as much as I hate that word, an energy, that affects the body.
SO this energy is simmering in men all the time but most men do not bring it out. You could go through a whole date with a girl with her sensing it simmering under the surface but you don't bring it out, and she rejects you. Does that mean you were unattractive or that the fact that you didn't bring it out was unattractive? It's the latter.
What is this energy? Well I know it's there but if I had to put words to it it's the power of knowing that
1. It's a real live man
2. He's somewhat fundamentally unknowable and mysterious in his man desires and point of view
3. He's got desire for women
4. And lighter fluid in the form of excess testosterone and physical strength and wild physicality
5. That he has like raw emotional intensity and strength just from being a larger, almost more wild rough version of a woman
All that is sitting there in check. Like I said you could get laughed at and rejected and the girl still knows all of that is inside you, subconsciously. She knows if you knew how to tap into it you could bring it out at any time. But you don't so you won't. So she can sleep easy.
Ways you can bring it out are through raw honesty about what you feel and want. Not watered down the slightest amount. In the excellent book Mode One by Alan Roger Currie that describes something similar, he says if guys took a truth serum and had to say what was ACTUALLY?? on their minds they would be suddenly much more attractive to women. They would be bringing out their RAW actually PRIMAL desires, and that is what women find attractive not your trying to impress her and flatter her. Women want to have the experience of a real live wildcard of a man...not a tame house cat that they can manipulate and control.
(no house cats were manipulated in the writing of this description)
I could reject a guy for not bringing more of this out (It's like something feels off to me and I'm NOT getting the energy I need from him so I have no choice but to reject him--is what it feels like) and still know he has it simmering under the surface. In fact, i'd be keeping him around, hoping he somehow wises up and brings it out one day, and when he does I would reconsider.
But I AM NOT going to hand him the keys to the kingdom. Subconsciously I feel HE needs to be man enough to find it in himself or I'll find someone else who will.
Every man has this quality. It can not be taken away from him. Maybe you understand what I mean if you're a guy and you understand that ALL women have something essentially feminine about them and it is always attractive no matter what.
I hope you understand my meaning in this video and if you feel me, please comment down below!
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-Victoria

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@Mark-zi6nt 2 жыл бұрын

Tell a girl she's attractive, she won't think much of it. Tell a guy he's attractive and he'll remember these sacred words till the end of his days.

@AwestrikeFearofGods 2 жыл бұрын

This isn't so much a male vs. female phenomenon, as it is an example of the universal human behavior of desensitization. People who get complimented often, do not value compliments. People who are rarely complimented, highly value compliments. Everything else being equal, women are complimented far more often than men. However, there are exceptional men who are often complimented, and women who are not.

@erichathaway8953 2 жыл бұрын

Truth!

@kantovagrant3194 2 жыл бұрын

Nah I think you got that backwards fam

@thorshammer114 2 жыл бұрын

maybe because you are ultra ugly🤔

@calebray4168 2 жыл бұрын

I remember every single compliment I get and I take them to heart, what can I say? I try to only make compliments that I feel as deeply about, but people, women in particular, do not take it as seriously lol

@streetshinobi1494 3 жыл бұрын

This video reminds me of the old days of KZfaq. No flashy editing, no jump cuts, clickbait, feel good rhetoric and false adverts, just a simple discussion. She’s got a good grasp on the idea of masculine power.

@matthewwalsh7813 3 жыл бұрын

REALLY though. Back in the days of response videos, when KZfaq had communities rather than niches. I miss those days desperately. I watched this video, and thought it might have been from 10 years ago.

@montyi8 3 жыл бұрын

Still it'll be better if she's able to tell in 5 minutes

@rexxbailey2764 3 жыл бұрын

YUP, BACK WHEN REAL PEOPLE SPOKE TO REAL PEOPLE . ALWAYS. BEFORE CORPORATE SHILLS DESTROYED EVERYTHING GOOD DAT THE PEOPLE GOT GOING .. AS ALWAYS. :-/

@Revion91 3 жыл бұрын

just 10 minutes to get he maximum amount of profit from ads though ;)

@KnowledgeVariable 3 жыл бұрын

just thinking that, had to check publishing date

@terrancognito6718 3 ай бұрын

When I was 24 a girl I dated for the first time laid her head on my shoulder after kissing me good night. I was smitten for years by that gesture. Never experienced it again. It felt like recognition as a man and trust from her. Women are taught to fear men and not look them in the eye but never taught the power of their own female energy over men. Some women know that and are popular because of it.

@8swerve 3 ай бұрын

It sounds like that girl you dated had a father she trusted. Then she recognised it in you. Trustability.

@rotmgdabeatz 3 ай бұрын

i remember a girl once did that shoulder thing to me, and secretly i really liked her but i was a dumb kid and i jokingly shunned her away becasue i just didn't have the balls to admit i liked her. makes you think how easy it is to miss a chance with someone for no good reason

@paulmeredith4515 3 ай бұрын

The head on the shoulder, leg cross over midsection thing is female body language that she totally trusts you and you're hers.

@fredotlogetswe3047 3 ай бұрын

Wow, bro this is true; the feminine " i trust you", " you can protect me" energy from a woman will melt your heart as a man, i very know that feeling. It is something that is very rare in these ages.

@Leftyotism 2 ай бұрын

Lol, "Women are taught to fear men." Jesus Christ my man, what has your childhood been like? (Rhetorical question!)

@gabrielantunesmusic6785 4 ай бұрын

The reverse for me is when a woman do something out of pure kindness or because it's the right thing to be done, even if it gives her some lost. It always captures my admiration.

@ugn154 4 ай бұрын

Same. In my case especially because I've met so many black hearted, manipulative women (not dated) which has made me appreciate the very few kind ones even more.

@WeebsArePathetic 4 ай бұрын

A kind woman with self respect is all I want.

@smokingcrab2290 3 ай бұрын

It's almost like people with a moral compass are attractive

@honeysugar8528 3 ай бұрын

yeah, a lot of men like self-sacrificing women because it feeds into their mommy fantasy.

@astroboirap 3 ай бұрын

blacks? @@ugn154

@gitgud-dota2188 3 жыл бұрын

You can’t truly call yourself “peaceful” unless you are capable of great violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful, you’re harmless.

@thematrix5115 3 жыл бұрын

@@cocoduck7745 lol

@renegadezen7841 3 жыл бұрын

Dope ass comment

@synthrostx4508 3 жыл бұрын

@@cocoduck7745 fuck no, peaceful people won't go arnd beheading people

@yukiolopes1671 3 жыл бұрын

People they didn’t understand but I got your point.

@bigpharma2705 3 жыл бұрын

@@cocoduck7745 Peaceful is being capable of violence but choosing not to participate in violence. This is what the op is saying. The terrorists aren't peaceful. They can commit violence and do so blatantly. Don't conflate the two.

@moheganson 5 ай бұрын

i’m so effing high i don’t even know wtf she’s talking bout and why youtube took me here

@saptaccrvima3563 5 ай бұрын

Something that makes less sense is why this got 29 likes 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@imnova4554 5 ай бұрын

Same brotha

@tanikotapine4217 4 ай бұрын

LMAO

@fritzblob 4 ай бұрын

Me2

@Stealth8O77 4 ай бұрын

same hahahahaha

@user-ec4so8ej7s 3 ай бұрын

Im pretty sure she’s talking about masculine energy. The types of men who constantly have this energy are: 1. Disciplined (have full control over their mind and body) 2. Confident (good self esteem) 3. Honest (says what is in their head all the time) 4. Goal oriented (they know who and what they want to be and is extremely focused on achieving it) When guys have these traits, girls can just tell by a glance and can sense this energy from them that they don’t know they even have. Their instincts say, “That’s a man who’s strong and confident. That’s a man who’s disciplined.”

@dearleader7623 3 ай бұрын

You know what, anybody can aspire to have these virtues and be hot stuff. I would trust any potential partner, man or woman, in my life when I can see these qualities and I don't see them compromising on any of them.

@user-ec4so8ej7s 3 ай бұрын

@@dearleader7623Yes, these traits I listed are just more on the masculine side. Tell you what, I don’t have much insight on this, but I know for sure that the feminine energy is as beautiful and powerful.

@lordsathariel4384 3 ай бұрын

i remember when i was in a depression spiral i lost my goals and discipline but was still confidant and honest with people and i found it bizarre people were attracted to me when i was literally in the worst shape iv ever been and two steps from full collapse.

@gilribeiro9632 3 ай бұрын

@@lordsathariel4384 how did you break out from the spiral

@krishafyme 3 ай бұрын

Period

@skirtinbed9923 5 ай бұрын

As a man, ive always been shy and have always felt rejected by woman. I am very appreciative that you decided to have the courage to be vulnerable because this honestly makes me feel hopeful going forward.

@kamikazekyre6101 4 ай бұрын

(Looks at username) Simp.

@Chadw1cKed 4 ай бұрын

@@kamikazekyre6101 Why are you here?

@happydappyman 4 ай бұрын

Best way to have people treat you like you're a confident, attractive person, is to 'pretend' to be one. Stand up straight, act confident. It's amazing how people's (women's) attitudes toward you will instantly change. Before long you won't be 'pretending'

@Crimson50 3 ай бұрын

@@happydappyman #1 this only works if you already are attractive physically speaking #2 trying to pretend for the rest of your relationship is A VERY BAD idea... eventually she will realize you are pretending and her attraction towards you will plumit, she will then proceed to slowly distance herself from you until completely dumping you.

@333333joshua 3 ай бұрын

@@Crimson50 the thing about pretended is to commit. Eventually you will be your actions, as evident from your history. If you pretend to be strong and masculine, you are actually just practicing. We you make decisions that your weak version can't handle doing, you will just prove that you moved past any weakness. Like the ability to walk away or handle rejection well.

@Bmarie81 3 жыл бұрын

I’m a straight woman. I’m not promiscuous by any stretch of the imagination. With that out of the way... l love men. They are my favorite thing on the planet. I love watching movies that are geared toward men. I love reading books written by men. I loving hanging out with them and being the girl amongst a bunch of boys. I love playfully picking on them. I always feel relaxed, safe, and able to be myself around men. I love when they’re being ornery. I love when they’re direct and honest. I love when they’re strong and masculine but underneath they still retain their boyish charm. I love their stupid jokes as much as their really good ones. I like when they have muscles not from the gym but from doing actual work. I have a thing for strong hands and forearms. I love how they can rang from being tender and sweet to rough and tumble when it’s appropriate. I hate that some women tear men down... too many women. What I look for in a guy is that we complement each other‘s personalities but I still appreciate how damn sexy they are. I was standing at Best Buy once and there was a maintenance guy climbing the rafters. I could have stared at him all day. He was a good looking guy but wasn’t insanely good looking but god was he sexy. Climbing the rafters to fix stuff and did it with such ease. When I’m around a group of men it’s like being around the real life version of the Avengers. I’m like a kid in a candy store. Smitten and charmed. I think more good men need to know it. Because good men won’t use it as a weapon they just get the cutest little smirk and twinkle when u compliment them. All guys have sex appeal. A man could be missing a limb and as long as he was ok with it and carried himself like it was just an obstacle and not something that made him less of a man he would not only retain his sex appeal but get extra points. I think it so terrible that we live in a Society that demonize men. I make sure every man I know... knows this. I make sure I hand out sincere compliments to both men and women because we all need them.

@mynonleatherlife 3 жыл бұрын

Thank u for sharing this, sooo many men need to hear this, I am sure they will appreciate this as much as I did if not way more

@ralphfurley4217 3 жыл бұрын

Well stated. Thanks for sharing.

@flameofwisdom5008 3 жыл бұрын

I needed this

@beep3589 3 жыл бұрын

A lot of us feel disposable. Thanks.

@DivingHawker 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks A LOT for this message, it's really heart-warming!

@tjmac7 3 жыл бұрын

Wow, an honest heterosexual woman. A pleasure to see in 2021.

@tuano8468 3 жыл бұрын

@OhNooJosephJoestar 3 жыл бұрын

She's one of the last survivors of this kind, Save her at all cost

@vanderumd11 3 жыл бұрын

Daughters with fathers who were instrumental... I would guess that

@paulmathew2373 3 жыл бұрын

Yea. True

@josephjones836 3 жыл бұрын

facts

@ChainMiles777 3 ай бұрын

As a man, I love soft voices and shy demeanors. Seeing as women love the roughness and strength of men, it's like we are two puzzle pieces. We are different but it connects us.

@nicknicholson2465 3 ай бұрын

This is why I stick with Asian women

@jimicusjolcen9460 3 ай бұрын

Two pieces, while one piece insists they cannot fit.

@Ayixlia 3 ай бұрын

I defiantly love a man with rough hands that have a gentle touch, it makes me weak and feels so good that I almost fall to sleep sometimes especially when he runs his big fingers through my hair.

@Crimson50 3 ай бұрын

Problem comes when you simply do not fit the piece you are supposed to be... you are just fucked at that point

@xlReap64 3 ай бұрын

I'm a 23 yo guy and I'm shy and have a soft voice, I hate myself

@marcusdurand5387 4 ай бұрын

I'll save you ten minutes. 1. Victoria discusses the concept that men possess a unique and powerful form of sexual energy that is particularly noticeable and attractive to women, but often unrecognized by the men themselves. 2. Victoria shares personal anecdotes about how men and women perceive each other differently, particularly in sexual or romantic contexts, and how her own perceptions have influenced her interactions with men. 3. The video explores the idea that this male energy is a key factor in attraction, even in cases where a man is rejected for other reasons. The speaker suggests that many men are unaware of this power they hold. 4. Victoria concludes by noting the complexity of attraction and the potential vulnerability women might feel in acknowledging this male power. Victoria does not clearly describe what this masculine power is. It's left to the viewer to come to emotionally sympathize with what this masculine power actually is. From the video, it likely refers to a man that is enigmatic, potent, unrecognized, yet influential. Think James Bond.

@jackpoint5548 4 ай бұрын

good synopsis bruh

@cyrusjones8326 4 ай бұрын

It just means confidence.

@selfimprovement5873 3 ай бұрын

I'll save you less than that, 1. : that's it.

@emanuelcaparelli 10 күн бұрын

I think it's authentic, driven by ones own power, uncompromising to oneself. Sure James Bond, but not every man is going to be an international super spy. Every man can achieve those three things though.

@thatbillionairesvibe 3 жыл бұрын

“Is it possible to learn this power?” “not from a jedi”

@thatguybob6088 3 жыл бұрын

haha goated comment

@esthersummerson6749 3 жыл бұрын

This has me crying 🤣🤣

@wyatt_blue 3 жыл бұрын

This comment deserves more likes 😂

@imstillmelol2299 3 жыл бұрын

Underrated comment

@kthx1138 3 жыл бұрын

Tap into that dark SITH force energy

@John.Smith007 3 жыл бұрын

Here's the secret: Just stop caring if women find you attractive. Stop caring about trying to be this or that. Don't even about care about being "confident". Don't even "play the game" because that's all it is. A game.

@Dmdm_dm 3 жыл бұрын

Yeah women love it when you don't pay attention to them

@thalmoragent9344 3 жыл бұрын

@@Dmdm_dm It's weird because I still don't understand how that works... man, women just confuse the hell out of me. 😅

@Mood-fs4vw 3 жыл бұрын

@@thalmoragent9344 What i don't really understand about with women, is why do they even care if they're vulnerable and play weird ass mind games. It just complicates the relationship and makes us think twice before doing anything.

@austntexan 3 жыл бұрын

@@thalmoragent9344 Aquire assets and women will find their way to your door. OP is correct. The less attention you pay to women the more they will want it from you. Thing is, because of the legal system being slanted toward's females, there's really no safe way to get with a female if you want a family. Marriage opens men up to extreme financial risk.

@thalmoragent9344 3 жыл бұрын

@@austntexan Yep, Marriage is basically a trap for men, and it sucks because it's gonna really hit a lot of potential families hard, not to mention all the good men getting done wrong by the BS divorce process.

@PaulRhodes420 3 ай бұрын

Self confidence and humor seems to work for me. Make her laugh and complement her pretty smile. Keep it short, smile and start to walk away! If she wants to talk more, she'll stop you from walking away. If not, the world is full of them! Most of all... RESPECT!!

@billlyons7024 Ай бұрын

Thank you sir, you're a gentleman and a scholar.

@fibonaccino69 4 ай бұрын

This is eye opening. For example, an old girlfriend of mine told me one of the things that first attracted her to me was how if I didn't want to do something, I would just simply say "I don't want to do that." And I had no idea what she was talking about haha. Maybe it because it gave her a comforting sense that when I was doing something, that I truly wanted to do it.

@chrisdiaz4876 4 ай бұрын

My theory is that they like a man who knows what he wants, is aggressive and uncompromising and down right ruthless to some extent. Though it always comes out in different frequencies and tunes... Either way women are fairly docile creatures, little attention should be paid anyways and they can sense that. Just go out and take what you want, that's what most of them want anyways, I mean look at how fragile they are!

@krishafyme 3 ай бұрын

My ex bf was just like that n that's what I loved about him initially when we started, bcoz I find it super hard to say no when asked for help even tho it cause me inconvenience, later we broke up for diff reasons tho but I really admired that quality. But hate when my brother do it, that piece of sh*t

@billlyons7024 Ай бұрын

Having boundaries and refusing to be pressured into disregarding them. This is mental strength, you don't just do whatever people tell, or ask you to do. The most important choice you have is deciding how to act, and if you never lose focus on that then no one controls you.

@nele350c7 3 жыл бұрын

Approach a woman with confidence, and if rejected take it with confidence. Remember fellas, we don't find some women attractive, and some women won't find us attractive, it's about how you handle yourself. Confidence is the key! Arrogance is not.

@goodlookinouthomie1757 3 жыл бұрын

Pfft arrogance is the same thing. Act like you don't give a shit. A man who doesn't give a shit is a man with options. A man who surely has other women interested in him. That's like catnip.

@miguelvidal9869 3 жыл бұрын

Perfectly stated!!!

@benjapizarro981 3 жыл бұрын

@@goodlookinouthomie1757 if you give a shit, give it, if you dont, dont, why fake it lol

@wr7662 3 жыл бұрын

I get that, but I also think there's a limit on how much rejection one person can sustain without being permanently damaged. Humans are social animals. You may not give a shit initially, but after a certain point you'll be forced to.

@mikereiss4216 3 жыл бұрын

If a woman you are interested in rejects you then just laugh it off because she is the one missing out. Poor girl.

@WindLigerUniversity 3 жыл бұрын

It’s called assertiveness, women respect honesty and confidence in your actions, even if it hurts feelings.

@mynonleatherlife 3 жыл бұрын

true

@mr.albert2847 3 жыл бұрын

@@mynonleatherlife ... Did you just read Mode One by Alan Roger Currie? He’s a well known KZfaqr in the Manosphere.

@mynonleatherlife 3 жыл бұрын

@@mr.albert2847 yea I read it and I listened to an audiobook of his book say it again... and I have seen some of his vids but not many due to length usually. Are u a fan?

@kent7525 3 жыл бұрын

Just stumbled upon your channel, wow thx for being so open, never though that all males have some sort of attractiveness that appeals to women, I know as a male that we feel the same way about women and she kind of mentioned I never knew it was the other way around basically males fine all women to some degree the femininity of them attractive. Thanks for sharing really opened my eyes. You are attractive by the way😉 Ken

@ola...o1009 3 жыл бұрын

It’s called mixed martial arts 😅🤣

@PlentyOfGarlic 3 ай бұрын

One word comes to mind. “Authenticity” Makes sense.

@remomareno 4 ай бұрын

gorgeous story! thank you for being vulnerable as you said, i wouldn't be able to vocalize this myself. a lot of gratitude ^^ I'm really struggling with bringing myself out after i've experienced trauma years ago. This is like a missing puzzelpiece, since next to nobody talks about this with so much honesty.

@rubenmendezhoms3488 2 жыл бұрын

Being myself a man, I remember that when I was an arrogant, non-caring and super-confident guy with no noble values beyond getting what I wanted at the moment, I dated more girls in a year than the rest of my life. I was more ignorant, and not even as adult or ripped as I am now. But, my dear male friends, I can tell you that what women are attracted to is absolute confidence, and that's something you can't fake unfortunately. Now, 10 years have passed and I'm still trying to recover it due to personal issues. Be confident. Be confident. Be confident. That's the only mantra that matters.

@maysumraza8198 2 жыл бұрын

@Icewulfby moving past your fears, self doubt, procrastination and perfection. Confidence is a skill set that comes to you when you do what you dont want to do when you move past your resistance and act despite having fears

@jb894 2 жыл бұрын

So just don't be yourself then and create a persona lmao

@maysumraza8198 2 жыл бұрын

@@jb894 he said women are attracted to confidence which is something you can't fake for a long time, whereas personality is derived from the word persona meaning disguise, real confidence is about who you are so in the long run you got to be yourself to attract the right people in your life and let go of the people who no longer serves you.

@jb894 2 жыл бұрын

@@maysumraza8198 that's rubbish. Being yourself doesn't get you anywhere if your self is a self that people don't gravitate towards to.

@lamrof 2 жыл бұрын

Be confident. Be confident. Be confident. -> What does it really mean?

@johnnyskinwalker4095 2 жыл бұрын

I think straight men are attracted by the softness in women, the feminity, so it makes sense if straight women are attracted to the opposite, the rougness of men/physical power

@willarroz6703 2 жыл бұрын

There are many men who are NOT effeminate but they unapologetically have natural feminine energies or strong liking of the feminine presentation that they themselves wear, and these same men love women and not only appreciate them for sex but treasures women and the soft strength they hold. Take prince for example very masculine but oozes this mysterious but yet attractive feminine energy (that all humans have) but he just knows how to use it.

@johnnyskinwalker4095 2 жыл бұрын

@@willarroz6703 I don't think Prince was very masculine. lol I think he attracted women cause he was such a unique being.

@willarroz6703 2 жыл бұрын

@@johnnyskinwalker4095 he was very masculine (just comfortable with expressing strong femininity) straight people are just used to everyday men putting on tough guy/male social norm acts and mistake it for masculinity. So when prince does something different in the 80’s it blows heads especially in the time when the black American community was defining what strength and manhood looked like on a social level mean while most of the men in this time are doing the most effeminate things… black men in large cities leaving/running the families they’ve started

@Naomi-xu4hq 2 жыл бұрын

@@willarroz6703 you deviated away from the original conversation

@dontcall9912 2 жыл бұрын

I'm a female and I love more tender soft- emotional men I don't know if those are feminine traits but it's endearing and attractive to me. I don't really like the traditional male roughness

@justgivenofox9543 3 ай бұрын

there was a video on your channel i watched, gosh, probably about 8 or 9 years ago. as a young man at the time, it really boosted my confidence. glad i found your channel again by accident, as i begin my body transformation (tHiS iS mY yEaR) having a channel like this from a woman's perspective is opening to my eyes. Thank you for the videos you make

@JamAlli. 4 ай бұрын

What she's talking about is authenticity. For a lot of men, it is difficult to bring forth authenticity in a world that constantly wipes it away. The power of authenticity can only come around when you get rid of lusting after women, being greedy, and desiring things that you don't have. If you stopped doing those, perfect. The next step is to embrace and promote positive emotions, like love, joy, gratitude, and selfless service. The authenticity will flourish, but it comes with a downside, you'll love yourself so much that you won't be interested in women anymore.

@richardanderson8107 4 ай бұрын

You’ll love yourself and your male power so much that you won’t be interested in women, true. You’ll only want to share yourself with yourself and your fellow Kings, and you’ll feel blessed to do so. This is how I realized I only wanted to be intimate with other men, only wanted to give myself physically to those who shared my male power, that is the truest way to embody masculinity.

@Kenpachi69420 4 ай бұрын

idk, man. My cup runneth over. I love women.

@OazAtmos 4 ай бұрын

I think the trick is to find a partner who can join you in your service work, be they man or woman. Then you've got something higher to focus on than just each other. No need to turn gay just to feel more BDE...but by all means, if that's what you're into, enjoy 😉

@dookiemayne45 4 ай бұрын

What is going on in here 😂. I was gonna come in here and say presence. Presence is the word we're looking for but then shh went sideways in here 😂.

@MohamedAmine-jv7yw 4 ай бұрын

@@dookiemayne45 🤣

@BoostedPastime 2 жыл бұрын

This is a great explanation of why women are often attracted to aggressive and dangerous men, because they are raw, visceral, masculine and exciting.

@edmundlubega9647 Жыл бұрын

I read about how Roman women would literally go insane over successful gladiators

@BoostedPastime Жыл бұрын

@@edmundlubega9647 it makes sense. They are pumping with testosterone.

@cockcarousel 5 ай бұрын

@@edmundlubega9647 👃Nice his story (history) 😆 All bollocks

@okbutwhatif9905 5 ай бұрын

Cringe

@mavvynne444 5 ай бұрын

@@okbutwhatif9905 Be quiet kid.

@havaianas5780 6 ай бұрын

I've watched a lot of "experts" and scientists talking about masculinity. This person beats them all explaining the essence of masculinity and the inherent tension between men and women based solely on her experience, observation and sensitivity. Wow.

@Billy-bc8pk 5 ай бұрын

Because she's speaking basic facts. All the others are trying to create tension and division among partners, which they have managed to do successfully in the West.

@atune2682 5 ай бұрын

true that m8

@dragonkingsports 5 ай бұрын

It just seems like a whole lotta womanese to me lol

@cesarriveraii550 5 ай бұрын

“It’s the implication.“ -Dennis, It’s always Sunny in Philadelphia

@Tallcell 5 ай бұрын

@@dragonkingsportsya that’s good. Rather listen to her then some dog water redpill bald dude. Ik you are a Andrew Tate/Richard cooper dickkk rider 😂😂

@Apxllxn 3 ай бұрын

This video really proves that someone can say a lot within a short amount of time versus someone saying nothing within twice the time. Well done. What I mainly draw from it is that honesty can move mounains

@feartheghus 3 ай бұрын

It took her 10 minutes to say guys who are assertive are attractive. Worse yet, she waited until the end to say it, and there was nothing of value before the end that was said.

@Apxllxn 3 ай бұрын

@@feartheghus she said it multiple times and she elaborated on a few other things. Watch it again If you missed something. There are other comments that summarized it pretty well

@cyanized0 3 ай бұрын

she said nothing lol

@Apxllxn 3 ай бұрын

@@cyanized0 hm

@catman999 3 ай бұрын

Violins aside. Baseline, she wants a caveman. Danmmit!!

@behzad.tabari 4 ай бұрын

I am genuinely happy to see this video now at this point of my life, thanks.

@reubensearle8200 3 жыл бұрын

It feels good to be appreciated for being a man, it's the complete opposite nowadays, it's a rare feeling. Thanks a lot for the video, we all appreciate it.

@aak8297 3 жыл бұрын

I am confused by your name. Reuben is a spanish name, but also a German last name, then there is a Polish last name connected with an English last name? What's going on ?

@avory7938 3 жыл бұрын

@@aak8297 AND a profile picture of someone who looks like a younger Arnold Schwarzenegger...

@averageenjoyer4048 3 жыл бұрын

@Gdjxbeo Bfhwk lmfao cope

@Terminal_Apotos 3 жыл бұрын

@Gdjxbeo Bfhwkc you mad this guy has the body you’ve been dreaming about for years?

@silencedgrave 3 жыл бұрын

@Gdjxbeo Bfhwkc why you mad bro chill out

@dotdotdot4384 3 жыл бұрын

"A man that exudes total confidence is a woman's kryptonite." That's essentially the takeaway if you boil this down.

@bamashow3676 3 жыл бұрын

💯

@skys6655 3 жыл бұрын

Im confident that i have zero confidence with females 💯

@DreErdna 3 жыл бұрын

@@skys6655 why

@coastercraziness 3 жыл бұрын

@@skys6655 LMAO

@theprousteffect9717 3 жыл бұрын

Essentially, yes. But confidence doesn't always mean what people think it means. Confidence isn't necessarily the person who always says and does the right things, or likes everything about themselves. True confidence, in my opinion, is the person has insecurities, who fumbles, whose jokes fall flat, but OWNS it. Confidence is the person who's comfortable with themselves, knows what they want and goes after it, and also knows that if they get rejected by one person, it's not the end of the world. Women can't resist a man who wants them but doesn't need them.

@DDoig1 3 ай бұрын

I am so thankful for the warning at the start of the video. Most people don't give a warning. Thank you.

@mat3393gjh 4 ай бұрын

Don’t know how to verify something like this, if only one person in the outside world tells me this. However…thank you for saying those things. It’s comforting. It’s helpful. It helps me move towards giving women an attractive man (myself). It helps me to achieve more and offer more positive things to the world and to women. I would not have been able to figure this stuff out on my own. Just not realistically possible. Thank you for helping me to make it possible. I appreciate you taking the time to be more ambitious, and describe everything about that topic as best you can.

@nicholaslemosdecarvalho5328 3 жыл бұрын

Masculine and Feminine have attracted each other for millions of years. It's still there, no matter how "civilized" we are

@mynonleatherlife 3 жыл бұрын

I agree

@skxlter5747 3 жыл бұрын

And no matter how stupid n PC the world is rn too

@tranglomango 3 жыл бұрын

Well, it won't be like that for long. That powerful link, which eventually gives rise to another powerful bond called Family is under siege. How? Well, testosterone levels in men are in downward spiral. To sum it all up, it's a chemical war against men and women with the sole purpose of creating a vast void between the two. I mean, it's already happening and the main ingredients are a concoction of ideology (feminism & mgtow) and endocrinal subversion

@daithiocinnsealach3173 3 жыл бұрын

Billions. It's as old as when life first divided into the two sexes.

@daithiocinnsealach3173 3 жыл бұрын

@@tranglomango you really need to feel validated with any old rubbish you read online don't you.

@Rogersensei93 3 жыл бұрын

I've noticed this. Hanging out with girls I was unapologetically quiet and admitted that I would rather be home. One of the girls I was hanging out with was really into it. I used to be insecure about my quietness but once I owned it SOME girls found it really attractive. But that is some advice for my quiet people. Just be comfortable and okay with being quiet around social settings

@felm.974 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you! I'm one of those quite people (if I'm not too interested in just talking just to talk), but then I start thinking that maybe people don't like me because I'm too quite and to most, that's boring, but like you said, some people will respect you and love you the way you are :)

@OzyMandias13 2 жыл бұрын

Plot Twist: BabyGirl was deaf.

@r011ing_thunder6 2 жыл бұрын

Yeah but what if you’re quiet and never say a word? At that point someone might be annoyed and ask why are you even here lol

@TheGoldenChile 2 жыл бұрын

@@r011ing_thunder6 and? Tell them you don't have to engage in the conversation to enjoy your time e out, just don't be some stoic sourpuss cause in that case it does beg the question, why are you here?

@r011ing_thunder6 2 жыл бұрын

@@TheGoldenChile I got what you said thank you

@kama10073 4 ай бұрын

Its definitely insightful in the sense that I always had this exact proposition (that you explained so well in this video) as a curiosity in my mind. And now that's undoubtedly and utterly cleared and answered. And I have to say, the amount of effort in voicing and articulating your thoughts out, is comparable with the brightest of speakers in the world.

@StratMatt777 5 ай бұрын

Wow. Your "Truth Serum/honesty/no fear" insight caused me to get an insight I would have never thought of: #1 The one time an average/unconfident man is his MOST feminine and least masculine is when he is unsure of his worth and is APPROVAL-SEEKING while worried about whether or not a woman approves because he is not confident or secure in himself (NOT HONEST/true to who he is). The voice pitch going up with the timid delivery is like a permanent question, no matter what the man is speaking... the high voice says, "I am unsure/unconfident and am trying to figure out if you think I am okay or if I am bad. Please show me that I am okay. I will DIE if you don't tell me I am okay". Barf! #2 Being confident is not acting like you think you are confident, being confident is being direct and honest (like you said) and calm because you are SECURE in who you are and also SECURE in what you are thinking/wanting/saying. Thank you so much for this insight that gave me an insight. It is really helpful. And it is kind of you to help people. (I'm not approval-seeking!!! :D I think many of us are raised in a way that makes us afraid to create ANY sort of emotional tension... so this means that nothing we say to a woman is interesting or powerful or direct or attractive because we habitually sanitize all tension (causes of possible emotion/conflict) out of what we say so that we don't say the wrong thing and offend the woman we are seeking the approval of... as a result of putting her above us on a pedestal merely because she just happens to be beautiful. Like Dr. Robert Glover says about "nice guys"... they avoid creating emotional tension at all costs... but this is the exact thing that women REQUIRE for attraction and attachment (which is actually a direct quote of Dr. Robert Glover).

@BusinessWolf1 5 ай бұрын

This quote has been swirling in my head for the last 4 days. "Stop debating what a good man is, be one" - Marcus Aurelius

@adamabraham2309 5 ай бұрын

and now you have made it swirl in mines...

@yaboi6006 5 ай бұрын

i asked my mum on how to meet good people, she said become a good person.

@Bulacanos 5 ай бұрын

Stg historical figures are just a way to play action figures with their "quotes" grow up

@alterego157 4 ай бұрын

You can't be something you don't even know what it is. Debate first to find out. ~ Aurelius Marcus

@orneryoverwatch7031 4 ай бұрын

Got this written in fancy old world cursive, framed, and hanging on the wall in my office.

@theville9885 3 жыл бұрын

Being "raw" and not reading a script made this visual gold.

@guillermoalejandromerrenga4698 4 ай бұрын

I appreciate immensely your vulnerability towards explaining many points of views and you giving great insight.

@RB-tp9ym 4 ай бұрын

I realized this on my own when I turned about 30. It was around this age when I noticed men started addressing me as "sir" and random guys would call me "boss". I noticed women starting to behave differently around me too, even though nothing about me changed. I realized then that somehow, something about me changed that gives off a more masculine energy. It's crazy how much attention and deference women give me now. Wish it was that way when I was younger when I would have appreciated female attention more. One thing that sucks though is a lot of insecure men feel the need to size me up and try to assert their dominance over me in public. The constant dick measuring is tiring and annoying. Just live and let live yall. I'm not gonna take your girl (not even interested).

@thomaskositzki9424 4 ай бұрын

I had the same experience! Was insecure as hell due to mental issues in my adolesence. Dealt with them and got into sports = got self-secure and athletic. Now women, often in relationships, are all flirty with me regularly. Which drives me mad because I tried and tried again in my adolesence and got nothing but hurt. It hurt so much taht I have completely given up on women, so I get nothing from that. And just as you I get provoked by wannabe-gansters out of thin air again and again, but only if it is three of them against me, which sacres me and drives me mad in equal amounts. I'd like to punch their faces in that's unwise with three-to-one odds. I freaking hate it.

@mortvald 4 ай бұрын

@@Jesper-hz6ou sure thing buddy, now keep it moving

@mortvald 4 ай бұрын

@@Jesper-hz6ou the fact that my attempt to bait you flew over your head makes it all the more sweeter. Now let's go back to serious stuff, congratulation first for talking to women of your family, surely you know so much. what he said to is not wrong though, just because you can't relate to it doesn't make it any less true. The fact is simple, you don't get taken seriously when you're young, only after a certain age are you treated a certain way, you'll notice that in workspace most all other areas. But hey, your women friend said so, must mean it's true haha

@L_Martin 4 ай бұрын

It's quite funny how this comment referring at the end to "insecure men" and "constant tiring and annoying dick measuring" is like a magnet to that exact type of man, who we see here in the replies, yapping away like a little dog because he got triggered.

@TripleAMF 3 ай бұрын

you scream insecurity, work on yourself instead of trying to put down others @@Jesper-hz6ou

@TacShooter 3 жыл бұрын

"This is going to get a bit sexual, so if you're not interested in that, please stop watching now." * half of KZfaq enters the chat *

@mynonleatherlife 3 жыл бұрын

hahaha that part was when my family were the main people who watched my channel. trying to tell them not to watch

@breezicurls6720 3 жыл бұрын

@Yograndmaahoe Pwassy lol

@breezicurls6720 3 жыл бұрын

@Yograndmaahoe Pwassy I thought you were talking about the cock n ball torture?

@breezicurls6720 3 жыл бұрын

@Yograndmaahoe Pwassy yea

@aadimohammed4798 3 жыл бұрын

@@mynonleatherlife 😂😂😂

@mgsBicycleO9 3 жыл бұрын

This video is very powerful. So many men feel insecure about themselves, because society tells them to behave, be polite, always be nice. All these things are obviously important, but when it comes to attracting a woman, you need to show your real colours as a man. Be honest and straight. Don't be ashamed for the desire you feel for women. Its natural and women love it.

@guillermolledowolkowicz7085 5 ай бұрын

You will get nice. If you start being brutally honest, it won't be long until you stop judging and having annoying impressions. It just makes you covered in shit instead of filled with shit, it's more clean and less acceptable. But once it's outside, it won't be long until you throw it out and start becoming more brutally nice each day.

@MarkJesus-uj1lu 5 ай бұрын

Yeah they love to exploit it and ruin everything.

@riechen 5 ай бұрын

woman shut the fuk up the realness of life TERRIFIES you

@Merkabah1.614 5 ай бұрын

Electric-Magnetism. If we harness it we can do many great things. Thanks for coming forward with this. It shows the laws and principles at play that most are unaware of. Love thanks and gratitude for sharing. Thomas

@gianni206 4 ай бұрын

It's been 3 years since first watch and I think this video is one of my that change the trajectory of my dating life. Thank you kindly.

@PinkyMinions 3 жыл бұрын

I have noticed this thing in girls, when they, in the right time, act super feminine or delicate. That does spike something inside a man

@gregmoldovan5921 3 жыл бұрын

Hence why a crying woman alone is the target for every guy at the bar to make her feel better... then take her home

@NietonoNoShana243 3 жыл бұрын

@@Bananabanananabanana I think every man has different spots where he gets hit the most. Some find it super feminine, if she giggles in a cute way, others like it if she's super shy, or maybe dancing an erotic dance or other things... those are not particularly female, but they can spike that "female feeling"...

@NietonoNoShana243 3 жыл бұрын

@@Bananabanananabanana ah nevermind me, bin gerade mal durch dein Profil gegangen. Ich hoffe du verstehst meinen Punkt, auch, wenn du ihn nicht teilst :)

@eddh1741 3 жыл бұрын

Yes Mohammed. Evolution, time, or God, whichever makes sense to you, designed it like that and it's been that way for centuries. It's weird how it takes so long to figure it out.

@NietonoNoShana243 3 жыл бұрын

@@Bananabanananabanana KZfaq schickt natürlich keine Benachrichtigung über Antworten und Erwahnungen x'D Die Alternativität (wieder sehr schwammig, aber die Kanäle zu alternativer Psychologie und Veganismus vermitteln mir generelle Alternativität). Um ehrlich zu sein, dachte ich bei deinem Namen zuerstn auch an Transsexualität, und da dachte ich mir dann, dass du das Konzept von Mann/Frau so nicht ganz richtig findest. Deswegen habe ich deinen Kommentar eher so verstanden "Wer kann bzw darf. überhaupt bestimmen, was weiblich und was männlich ist?" Das waren Vorurteile, stimmt, und deswegen bin ich zu diesem Schluss gekommen - aber beleidigt hab ich dich nicht damit, oder?

@lordkodi1769 3 жыл бұрын

all secrets are told in a whispered voice, thus she is telling the truth

@ulricseiler3899 3 жыл бұрын

Perfectly said.

@piedramultiaristas8573 3 жыл бұрын

All I understood was, something like say when u want to kiss her, and tell her when u are angry.

@kozy.3022 3 жыл бұрын

@@piedramultiaristas8573 u commented this fifty times

@piedramultiaristas8573 3 жыл бұрын

@@kozy.3022 U ara Liyng.

@piedramultiaristas8573 3 жыл бұрын

@@kozy.3022 An if I would what wrong?

@JohnSmithhh 4 ай бұрын

Best video I never saw on this subject, thank you so much it helped me to understand what I was searching for a long time and that no girls wants to admit

@v8BlaCKzZ 4 ай бұрын

This is the smoothest advice on this topic. The part where you talk about the raw authenticity of guys is the key. "Just be yourself" "Don't give a shit"

@kj475 3 жыл бұрын

The power she's talking about is confidence.

@videohq1181 3 жыл бұрын

The Raw Attractive Power All Men Have in their wallets.

@LOLHAXGUN 3 жыл бұрын

@@videohq1181 oh please stop with this shit. if it was true then all women would only go for rich men. that's obviously not the case, a lot of women still value non-materialistic things more. if ya can't find one then either you have bad luck or don't really want to.

@videohq1181 3 жыл бұрын

@@LOLHAXGUN you know, you may be right. Lets keep an eye on the thumbs up for each of our comments.

@noobie7719 3 жыл бұрын

So true! Real confidence goes a LOOOOOOONG way!!!

@davidbooher5559 3 жыл бұрын

@@LOLHAXGUN there’s only so many men that are rich, statistically. If women could all have a rich man..... they would

@kingkahn7987 3 жыл бұрын

I’m a simple guy🤷🏾‍♂️ I see bad camera quality, I click

@mynonleatherlife 3 жыл бұрын

Hahahaa

@Ibrahimherrou 3 жыл бұрын

Raw 👌😅

@philvess6376 3 жыл бұрын

Truth and Honesty do not need studio quality camera work. They just need to be heard.

@FrankBCore 3 жыл бұрын

@@philvess6376 that's why he clicked! 😁

@user-in1yw9ty5t 3 жыл бұрын

Its about sending a message. Fancy cam meh

@ballistic2247 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so much. I've been struggling with girls only wanting me as a friend or a brother for years now. On several occassions I would confess my feelings and at best those feelings weren't reciprocated and at worst the connection we had ended. After my previous failure I had begun internalising that whatever women want I don't have, but thanks to your honest and courageous insight, I know that's not true. Thank you again ❤

@Slokiler123 5 ай бұрын

this was actually insightful to me as a guy since i have periods where im acting totally different and confident and noticing success with women but i always tend to forget what i learn and feel at those times and kind of go in cycles like this through life but i will definately try to remember to what was said here.. thank you honestly

@folabomi713 3 жыл бұрын

She summarized in one video what all these gurus have been teaching for 5 years

@Kassiusday 3 жыл бұрын

@increase Folabomi , haha great comment well said I even suscribed before even listen the entire video the way she introduced the subject was enough to know it will be something outstanding anyway !! Yes she overpassed overdriven those gurus as you say ... in fact is related to express properly the male basic instinct properly ... is been said also when a man keep coming back to a woman even rejected he has more & more chance to get trough ..., I know several cases ...

@KazmirRunik 3 жыл бұрын

Where's the 5 years figure come from?

@roflswamp6 3 жыл бұрын

And I still don't get it after 10 plus years of not dating and never having a gf

@mkmllrc 3 жыл бұрын

@@roflswamp6 how old r u?

@roflswamp6 3 жыл бұрын

@@mkmllrc 29 :(

@paulo5799 3 жыл бұрын

This is the most honest and corageous woman I've ever seen...

@mynonleatherlife 3 жыл бұрын

you're blowing my mind hahaha thank you! my ego is skyrocketing!

@thenextbigthing1393 3 жыл бұрын

@@mynonleatherlife LoL

@paulo5799 3 жыл бұрын

@@mynonleatherlife welcome well deserved...but Please We must control our egos lmao

@unk7234 3 жыл бұрын

@@mynonleatherlife Hello! I read Mode One a few years ago, and altough you didn't explain the book, you did mention some insights that men can learn if they read the book, nice catch! I have one question for you. You talked about honesty, doing what we want, saying what we want, without fearing rejection or critics, but, you mentioned something that got me thinking. "Instead of saying you're beatiful..... I would like to fuck you". I think your example was not on point but the message was 200% correct. I don't think that a man saying "I want to fuck you" is a good thing to do, but, it's like everything, depends on the girl, the kind of relationship you have, if you met her 5 minutes ago or you have built some sexual tension. Let me ask you something, what do you think would be an ideal approach to a women with everything you just said ? Do you think that being honest about what you think and say is a step to confidence and more self esteem ? Do you think that men sometimes need to calculate what they say, but keeping it 100% real ? Thanks for your video!!

@thavillianz5318 3 жыл бұрын

@@mynonleatherlife thank you for being brave and giving insight !

@gastondeveaux3783 4 ай бұрын

This was as good an explanation as any I have heard, and although at 55 I am now with the woman of my dreams, I wish I would have heard that when I was young. Quite eye opening. You really zero in on the fact that it is mysterious and complicated, but also somewhat innate in us. Also, I think you are right in saying that we aren't really aware of it in ourselves.

@osho1enrique504 Ай бұрын

Extremely significant video, thank you so much for sharing this precious valuable knowledge ❤

@madskil321 3 жыл бұрын

WE MUST PROTECT THIS WOMAN AT ALL COSTS, BOYS! She's the last one we're gonna get. Welcome to 2021.

@excellenceinanimation960 3 жыл бұрын

Orah! USA USA USA.

@sodagamer8711 3 жыл бұрын

What's so great about her? All she said was you gotta be masculine and be yourself. The same talking points I hear from everyone else. Man just stop simping.

@princeoftheves1549 3 жыл бұрын

@@sodagamer8711 Bro, there's an ocean of emasculated men you don't want to investigate, and it goes far deeper than just simping. They don't respond to the kind of tough love you could give men 10-15 years ago.

@heavymetal3256 3 жыл бұрын

Simp 🤣

@fendermon 3 жыл бұрын

@@sodagamer8711 She took it to another level though.

@Antonio_Todd 3 жыл бұрын

I can attest to this. Summer of 2015. I was 25. I had just gotten out of jail after being in for 30 days, lost my job. I just remember feeling like I had nothing to lose, i had so much energy. Found a job after 2 days of being out. I didn't give a fuck and my confidence and swag was on 10. I was ripped from working out and eating low calories in jail. Lol but I remember approaching women with no hesitation or second thought. I had women that I knew and hung out begging me to have sex with them. It was so weird. But I felt the masculine energy inside me. Felt like a super hero. You couldn't tell me shit. My jokes and whit were on point I was like a magnet and just attracted everyone. That was the most powerful I've ever felt.

@mynonleatherlife 3 жыл бұрын

Thank u for sharing this, I loved reading. Very cool to hear it confirmed from your perspective.

@joedough6450 3 жыл бұрын

Antonio.. so in other words semen retention?

@chrish6291 3 жыл бұрын

"It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything." - Tyler Durden

@zlClutchy 3 жыл бұрын

@@joedough6450 nofap has nothing to do with anything. Use retroduction & logic to solve why this is. Have fun! 🤩

@wiseworld6015 3 жыл бұрын

@@zlClutchy stop beating off

@perisemiotics3204 4 ай бұрын

honestly, I like the rawness of your presentation

@willvrtist 3 ай бұрын

This actually gives me so much sense of calm hearing this off a woman. I've always felt that women are put on a pedestal by us lot and we feel a certain entrancement off of women that women don't feel the equivalence of in return. I guess tho as a straight guy, I am not gonna understand what women are gonna feel towards me or how they experience being attracted to men. Thanks for explaining

@mjaq6099 3 жыл бұрын

She’s basically just describing the moments that she has perceived men’s primal nature coming out. The issue here is men are conditioned to not exhibit these things due to societies constraints placed on men. Because they tend to be aggressive in nature. Typically when we do these things they are small to us or to her point we do not realize how they effect the opposite sex. Could be anger in a certain light. Demonstrating strength, walking into a room and owning the room, etc. it is a energy thing you put out and others tune into. There is also a genuine response to it so if forced it removes the authenticity of it. That’s what makes it so effective.

@SykeeNot 3 жыл бұрын

@meefjwfhss I I got the cure to it.If you need it

@SykeeNot 3 жыл бұрын

@meefjwfhss I don’t use crutches to deal with things

@renegadezen7841 3 жыл бұрын

@pysch naut what do you mean?

@SykeeNot 3 жыл бұрын

@@renegadezen7841 The cure to anxiety.Which is to just work with the present experience and everything within it no matter what emotion or thought arises.Work with it never against it.The four agreements are amazing for that.My whole point being depending on external things to change internal things never works.Or to never distract yourself from negative emotions or experiences

@renegadezen7841 3 жыл бұрын

@@SykeeNot ah well said. Yes agree with what you are saying entirely. The most advanced practice this concept daily.

@Songmyz 3 жыл бұрын

Both males and females are naturally attracted to things they don't have.

@mynonleatherlife 3 жыл бұрын

I agree

@ahsidodna3355 3 жыл бұрын

Love face, ass, legs

@mynonleatherlife 3 жыл бұрын

@@ahsidodna3355 good point, we all have those

@TraySeasonRecords 3 жыл бұрын

I disagree

@halalguts6331 3 жыл бұрын

@@ahsidodna3355 + calves

@angeloago9938 11 күн бұрын

Can't believe how interesting, the topic you speak off is, ! I think you are on to something big, things no one speaks about! Good luck with your channel!

@praisefx7642 5 ай бұрын

This is the best advice for men on KZfaq I'm not exaggerating

@SilverNova111 3 жыл бұрын

Now EVERYONE is stealing her content. Ever since the algorithm put her up a month back all these KZfaq’s are talking about it. That’s how you know most of these content creators are talking out their ass. This girl is the truth

@mynonleatherlife 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks Jorge, who do u think is stealing it, do u remember any? Probably nothing I can do but I’m curious

@editor7354 3 жыл бұрын

@@mynonleatherlife u can do something about it! Just copy strike it

@illarionbykov7401 3 жыл бұрын

Yes, I notice KZfaq algorithms promote the sleazy salesman/marketing type "me too" creators who streal all their ideas from genuine creators, and the genuine grassroots people get ranked low, shadow banned, demonetized, or even have their channels deleted. The imitations are never as good as the originals--often water-down with many details wrong. We live in a really sick society which rewards the grifters and con artists but punishes the honest originals.

@harrisn3693 3 жыл бұрын

@Phasing Out Somebody just do a stutnex virus to KZfaq and mess with their ad rev system,m... that outta teach em a lesson lol

@danielfox1168 3 жыл бұрын

Sounds like that v shred gym guy he was very misleading no honesty in there content just cheap nasty content a quick sale for the .ost money possible

@user-pe4if1xy2c 5 ай бұрын

Its the power to defy the pull of others’ judgement. To be able to act exactly how you want to and be okay with whatever happens or what anyone else says or thinks about you. Its the realization that authenticity provides fulfillment that no one else can give you. When you see its beauty, you will embrace the pain of being disliked, mocked and criticized because the pleasure of authenticity and personal autonomy far outweighs the pain of judgement. Women feel the joy of the unburdened man

@javierstalin2455 5 ай бұрын

The best comment about authenticity, ever

@xhan1167 5 ай бұрын

Brilliant explanation.

@summerthew 5 ай бұрын

couldn't been put better

@niconaegeliblog 5 ай бұрын

Crazy how this applies to both genders dawg.

@nxtboyIII 4 ай бұрын

well put my guy " the pleasure of authenticity and personal autonomy far outweighs the pain of judgement"

@YouKnowMeDuh 4 ай бұрын

The one time I hear someone talk about attractive power and it's about men rather than women. And you have to be the first person that's mentioned that, to a degree, men are mysterious creatures! This is something that I've heard EXCLUSIVELY used to describe desirable women and it's such a shame. I have to say, thank you for saying what you said. There seems to be so much emphasis in media regarding feminine energy with rare acknowledgement of what real masculine energy is because people focus on what men can become/gain rather than what they ARE. It's relieving to find another woman who acknowledges simple yet fundamental male attractive qualities because I NEVER hear other women talk about this at all with a very select few tip-toeing around it. Even when going to the description where you summarized five points, I can so wholeheartedly agree that YES just being a real live man is a good deal of the attraction. I grew up hearing girls/women talk about boys/men and mentioning countless surface traits they prefer, but I was never encouraged by my own family to view men a certain way other than just understanding that "men are men and women are women". I am now 26 years old and haven't had a day in my life where I can state any surface traits that truly draw me to men. The fact that you're a man literally gets you 50% of the way, and the rest of the way to drawing me in is simply having a proper personality and acting like the man you were born to be without conforming/constraining yourself to some idea of what someone else says you should be.

@steviebunchkins1103 3 ай бұрын

thanks for the info. it makes me think of the duality that you find in everything - like in this case, the same way a girl shows disdain for you is the exactly same way she can adore you.

@KnightMan69 3 жыл бұрын

I followed your advice and now I'm facing sexual harassment charges

@amardjames8662 3 жыл бұрын

😹😹

@BLUECIFER 3 жыл бұрын

Really?

@yeet9631 3 жыл бұрын

Bruh...

@MarinerMich 3 жыл бұрын

😂

@SK-vc4nh 3 жыл бұрын

😭😭

@eajc0226 3 жыл бұрын

I think men realize this as we age. I just turned 40 and I get more attention now than when I was a teenager. You are just more confident in what you want.

@suryananth6970 2 жыл бұрын

One woman told me" you will look amazing in your 30s", when I was 18

@CarlosReyes-qe2iq 2 жыл бұрын

Over the years, countless women have been asked, what age is a man most attractive? Most of them have said, and will say, men in their 40s. Women in their 20s go bonkers over men in their 40s, think of every college professor, he got girls swooning over him. The majority of Hollywood actors, Paul Newman, Sean Connery, Robert Redford, Denzel Washington, Tom Cruise, George Clooney, Brad Pitt, yup. Women think they're hottest while in their 40s.

@royvillasin5287 2 жыл бұрын

She can't word it out, but thee term she was looking for is "Machismo", the pride of being a man. You see this in Latin-America, for example when little boys try to imitate their father, they look very manly and "macho". I don't know why it is almost non-existent in North-America, but oh well.

@andrewevans6826 2 жыл бұрын

Ya cause you have experience.. that’s what men need to work on each day and take risks. It makes for a interesting life

@f_society9151 2 жыл бұрын

@@CarlosReyes-qe2iq lol, you are talking about very good looking guys with money and status. Of course they will look good even at 70 years old.

@i_dream_of_memes 4 ай бұрын

thanks! as a guy, I have sensed the things you're talking about, but it helps a lot to have it spelled out so clearly. to have some confirmation makes me feel like I'm not so crazy

@matthewblanchard7823 4 ай бұрын

Brilliant. Its refreshing to get a woman's perspective about things we all know are true but cant talk about any more.

@hotrizod777 3 жыл бұрын

She's about to get a lot of men in trouble with HR.

@Journeyman89 3 жыл бұрын

Thank You!!! Im like this sounds great in theory but I call bullshit in reality.

@auxorion 3 жыл бұрын

She's right. But if a guy doesn't 'get it.. it's useless information - or at worst, yeah, will get him in HR, because he's taking what she's saying verbatim.

@justingutierrez8893 3 жыл бұрын

@@Journeyman89 You didn’t understand it then. This is our reality.

@Journeyman89 3 жыл бұрын

@@justingutierrez8893 I did i just don't believe being upfront like that works in most cases these days thats why the original comment he said she gon get a lot of men in trouble with HR lol. The video still gave decent insight tho

@ethersecure2432 3 жыл бұрын

Lol true. To quote Admiral Akbar: "ITS A TRAP!!"

@RealCoachLee 3 жыл бұрын

Well said. A point I often make is that acting, being fake, and trying to be someone else isn't attractive at all and will push men/women away.

@gabrielguzman6018 3 жыл бұрын

Yet being shallow is better.... Makes no sense

@ReinertZerker 3 жыл бұрын

Opposite for me, acting like someone I'm not often gets lots of girls, but once they start seeing there's more complexity to me than what they initially thought, they lose interest. Kinda have to keep a girl at bay, don't let her in no matter how much she begs, cause then she thinks she knows you and it's no fun anymore.

@suppression2142 3 жыл бұрын

@@gabrielguzman6018 yin and yang

@dasitmane7590 3 жыл бұрын

Difference is if the non fakeness is discouraged and forced out of men by society at large and then guy becomes trash to women. Like breaking someones legs with a bat and then punishing them for having broken legs/not walking good. How this nuance isnt obvious or central is mindboggling

@fleamarketmixtape3793 3 жыл бұрын

@@gabrielguzman6018 well if you reread the mans comment you should pick up on it right away. right around acting and trying to be someone else..... that should sum it up right there... and a women can wanna sleep with a guy who may i guess be an ass hole and not want them in a more gratifying way.

@AnimationDunk Ай бұрын

Idk how many time this video has been recomanded to me through the years, at this point the thumbnail is just iconic and I instantly get the title that pops in my mind when I see the image. To me one of the most iconic thumbnail/title combo and yet so simple

@mynonleatherlife Ай бұрын

Wow thanks!!

@spaghettiking7312 Ай бұрын

This is one of the rare examples of true human honesty and reality.

@cashwin45 3 жыл бұрын

This probably just made every straight guy feel more confident lmao

@crusadr_4966 3 жыл бұрын

yeah it's a real confidence booster

@khafail6902 3 жыл бұрын

not me

@SK-vc4nh 3 жыл бұрын

you must be kidding

@kingworthy935 3 жыл бұрын

Lol

@zacharygreene1979 3 жыл бұрын

@Stephan Nieto you are spot on

@prisonmike1798 3 жыл бұрын

Who would have thought it? Women love when men are masculine and, for the record, men LOVE women who are feminine. Kind, caring, helpful, beautiful etc. Be a mans peace and he will never go

@dennisfaust6607 3 жыл бұрын

Prison Mike! Great name! "You got a good life! ...a good life."

@kazi2683 3 жыл бұрын

They guy can still cheat on you if you all that

@kneegrow3592 3 жыл бұрын

@@kazi2683 thats not the kind of nigga we talking about fam

@too_official6194 3 жыл бұрын

Yeah they love the best of both worlds

@nanasaldarriaga7452 3 жыл бұрын

I was like that and then got cheated on

@DylanBmx4L 4 ай бұрын

Thank. You... I've been trying to be myself again lately, but it's been hard to open up again (after some life things, like we all have). I understand the power for the most part, but I'm still learning how to properly let it out. I never thought about guys realizing it and using it as a tool for manipulation. Thank you for explaining that. I know my morals, and that would never be my intention. Now I know it's a possible thing though, and to watch for it and watch myself.

@Edgarv68 7 күн бұрын

Ive probably seen thousands of videos and this is definitley top 5

@jayboi7565 3 жыл бұрын

On behalf of all man you just earned yourself a medal

@Air2nyc 3 жыл бұрын

😅😅😅

@heritice1927 3 жыл бұрын

Speak for yourself

@nicm8909 3 жыл бұрын

@@heritice1927 heri tice ur opinion doesnt matter with a feminine name like that 😭

@heritice1927 3 жыл бұрын

@@nicm8909 your mom loves to scream it though

@KaluArt 2 жыл бұрын

@@heritice1927 are u like 5?😂😂😂

@KierMailan 3 жыл бұрын

Love how this hit everyones recommended.

@johnvallsater4499 3 жыл бұрын

I actually searched for this :)

@orthodoxy6470 3 жыл бұрын

@@johnvallsater4499 💪🏻

@InYoGut 3 жыл бұрын

@bobthebuilder545 3 жыл бұрын

Love it

@chrisvigo4880 3 жыл бұрын

I appreciate these little gems every now and then

@whitenoise11111 4 ай бұрын

As a guy This video is pure gold keep it up i related to many things in it

@theflamingarrow1833 5 ай бұрын

I believe the word that you are looking for is "genuine". Not pretending and not telling her what you think she wants to hear. Just pure honesty and genuinety.

@mynonleatherlife 5 ай бұрын

Yes thanks for the mansplanation. It was definitely “genuinety” as u said

@eoinodunlaing4391 4 ай бұрын

Seriousity? @@mynonleatherlife 🤣

@videowilliams 3 жыл бұрын

"...and women aren't gonna help them. Because that makes women vulnerable." Aha!! 💡

@raheemthegoat1066 3 жыл бұрын

I’ll throw in my two cents: She said that women don’t tell guys how to be attractive because then the same women would be vulnerable. True, but I would also add a concept known as “observing a process changes a process”. Women CANT tell a man how to be attractive because women want a man that “just gets it”. Women don’t want a man who has to be told HOW to be a MAN because that wouldn’t be his predominant personality. If you have to be taught how to be a man then you are not the man for her. You are not a “man” but “ “someone that has to be told how to a man”. It’s not the same. Women understand there is no point in telling a guy how to be a man because he has to realize it on his own for it to be authentic. I’m not saying a man can’t eventually “just get it” but, at this the moment you don’t get it. Think about like this when somebody wants something from you they aren’t going to tell you because it would be out of obligation and it wouldn’t be genuine. That’s the best way I can explain it

@raheemthegoat1066 3 жыл бұрын

It’s important for guys to understand this dynamic and get them to the next level with women. Women want to submit and be vulnerable but is has to be genuine. The process has to be organic. Eventually, a woman will be annoyed and disappointed because she sees your potential but you don’t just get and she has no choice but to move on.

@videowilliams 3 жыл бұрын

@@raheemthegoat1066 Ah but I do get it. As of watching this video 😜 You've explained it well. It's a lot like hiring a person for a job because they've done the job before, while rejecting the one who can only claim that they're "willing to learn." If she has to teach you how to be her man, you cannot be her man. No girl wants to tell a guy she's met "just put me in my place." And yet it's what she really wants. It's nothing mothers tell their sons, or that society tells its boys, especially these days.

@raheemthegoat1066 3 жыл бұрын

@@videowilliams I know you get it I was just talking in general lol. yes exactly there is cognitive dissonance going on there.

@therealhood1 3 жыл бұрын

@@videowilliams Your last sentence has some similarity with my thoughts about this (great) video: At least in the western world, women can (still) have a typical feminie role or a male one. However men are advised to have a rather feminine role or they get called chauvinist and creepy, although this is what most women (secretly) desire: a manly man...I am 35 and discovered this in recent years, makes me sad...Edit: Still don´t want to change my female character traits and fake it!

@beth2389 3 жыл бұрын

Hearing people say 'all men are trash' and 'men ain't shit' makes me physically cringe. You'll never catch me saying that. It hasn't happened for me yet, but I can't wait for the day I get to love and be loved by a MAN. What a treasure you all are.

@hornypolice5969 3 жыл бұрын

Fall in love with me

@tredub21 3 жыл бұрын

@@hornypolice5969 dwagg your name dont add up with that comment

@markzampano396 3 жыл бұрын

You're an awesome woman, Beth. I hope I meet one like you!

@paperclip6711 3 жыл бұрын

That was really nice to hear

@nikitaw1982 3 жыл бұрын

if feminism was honest, an independent woman would mean get ur degree get a good job and get a mortgage for a flat u put tenents in whilst living at home cheap and u put all ur money into paying off the mortgage then by late 20s probably paid most of it off. ive wasted a lot of time listening to feminist stuff last 5 10 years or so and not once heard this idea. Also I don't think most women want to be spinsters for the rest of their lives so i don't know why femism is the dominant voice on male females. its really cancer for relationship success. feminism seems just trying castrate all men psychologically. feminism just seems a product of mental illness ignorance, bullying, passive aggressive unadjusted liars and the deluded. All should just do intense phychological councelling before trying to create their cult. sorry for the rant, just so disappointing causing so much dysfunction in society and any change seems a huge uphill battle.

@christianschuelke_one 5 ай бұрын

This video is actually insane😨✨ I never knew that it's the same for woman, that men are fundamentally attractive to them no matter what. That they always still feel or sense the raw masculine essence even if the guy acts what ever. This video is the most true thing I have ever heard from a woman and it helped me so much to understand, that I'm already a man. I don't have to become one like everybody is talking. 'Be an alpha' or what ever. Probably almost no woman will ever admit that its that way, but for men knowing with us fundamentally nothing is wrong even if we get rejected is the most powerful and helpful thing ever! Every self doubt wasn't necessary, period. Thank you so much!🥺

@Haddonfield63 4 ай бұрын

I remember when I first saw this years ago the lightbulb that went off in my head. I never put two and two together for the longest. That feeling we get when we see them is the same feeling they get when they see us. If both parties are heterosexual of course 😂

@ararune3734 4 ай бұрын

This is delusional. Women go for the top 20% of men for procreation. They look to the rest for social/financial security. The idea that all men are fundamentally attractive to them is BS. My god, I've known women who damn near idolized me, showered me with compliments but said they'd date me if I was 15cm taller. Ah yes, all the men are fundamentally attractive. These are stories for kids.

@filippoarlenghi6247 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so much. This is pure kindness towards us

@Average_CoD_Clips 3 жыл бұрын

“Fundamentally unattractive” Yeah that’s a good way to explain how most guys feel after being called ugly in high school.

@mynonleatherlife 3 жыл бұрын

😰

@alimahdavi2276 3 жыл бұрын

Exacly mate. My self image totally shattered in the school.

@Mk5_Life 3 жыл бұрын

Why is this so relatable

@Average_CoD_Clips 3 жыл бұрын

@@Mk5_Life It’s me, I’m most guys. 😂

@theredneckbuddha2763 3 жыл бұрын

@@i-dont-wash-money We can cope just fine, at least I can, but it kinda sucks when you want to be genuine and your looks already stop that from being taken as natural. If that makes sense. It's just disappointing, not really life-altering 😂

@Gomace 3 жыл бұрын

"Stop watching all these videos. You're not gonna find the answer to all your questions randomly." *KZfaq recommendations:*

@GabrielRodriguesYT 3 жыл бұрын

Instagram started showing me film clips with self-love quotes and now YT recommends me this. I think the algorithms are trying to tell me something.

@adoniscourage5714 2 жыл бұрын

We can watch what we want it's our perogative.

@josephbolden2769 2 жыл бұрын

Go to hell.

@Kaledrone 2 жыл бұрын

@@josephbolden2769 You first, show me the way I'll follow.

@TheDanimatorsChannel 4 ай бұрын

Ive actually wondered about this, good video. ive fortunately never had many problems getting girlfriends but ive also been rejected and it makes me feel better

@modelmacho5634 4 ай бұрын

Great Job on this video . Very Insightful and motivating for me as a man too continue my approach and way of life . Thank you for making the video

@G_Thor 3 жыл бұрын

As a heterosexual male, I needed to hear this. Thank you.

@jerryloft3008 3 жыл бұрын

@Rayyan Patel you're a douche

@awonderfulfeeling8588 3 жыл бұрын

@Rayyan Patel What tf? Damn chill out my homie brother

@jerryloft3008 3 жыл бұрын

@Hellrais3r also a douche

@jerryloft3008 3 жыл бұрын

@Hellrais3rnaw man for play-play

@goodlookinouthomie1757 3 жыл бұрын

It's what I always knew, but could never pull off: Be an asshole.

@Cptidris 3 жыл бұрын

Hey algorithm bros. KZfaq is trying to tell us something.

@Jkpgs 3 жыл бұрын

The Universe is making me woke rn during quarantine

@poptartjuulpods 3 жыл бұрын

@@Jkpgs facts. Damn near more helpful than school

@frags9764 3 жыл бұрын

@@poptartjuulpods no. It is more helpful then school.

@joedrock2 5 ай бұрын

We've been born into a culture that teaches us its abusive or manipulative to express our power so we need to feel safe enough to express it with confidence

@PhialSubstance 4 ай бұрын

I feel like my 'inherent masculine attractiveness' was trained out of me as a child. I was feminised to the point where I can't just tell people how I feel in case it negatively impacts their opinion of me, I can't allow myself to be angry (even when I have every right to be), I can't just walk into a bar full of strangers and meet someone for a drink without visibly exuding anxiety. I know I'm good looking, but I have zero confidence and I'm entirely dependent on others' opinions for my self-esteem. Sometimes I can hide it temporarily, I've gone on dates that went really well and the women found me very attractive. But after a few weeks or months the mask slips and they lose interest when they realise I'm actually very insecure, which makes me feel betrayed because they don't want the _real_ me - they just want the false-confidence I project. I have no idea how to fix it.

@WisdomIsAwesome 4 ай бұрын

Brain is plastic. You can train yourself back into the habit of masculinity. But it will take time - usually equal to or more time than you remained feminized. You can't temporarily act and make it work.

@PhialSubstance 4 ай бұрын

Kinda, yeah. I see what you're saying, the comment I first left was searching for a magical cure when in fact I have to just choose to not be that guy. I'm a lot more internally confident today, I've been thinking about applying for a new job and every time I think something like "I'm not sure if I can do that", I correct myself and say "I can do anything I set my mind to, it just means I have to go outside of my comfort zone". So the reprogramming of my brain has begun now that I've isolated the problem lol.@@ograda3120

@jordanjenkins3490 3 жыл бұрын

I like how respectful everyone is in the comments. If this was a TikTok then there would be a gender war in the comments 😆

@mynonleatherlife 3 жыл бұрын

I love tiktok

@DamianSzajnowski 3 жыл бұрын

What's a tic tac?

@sidekick8983 3 жыл бұрын

@@DamianSzajnowski it's a candy or something

@Yo-nq9ul 3 жыл бұрын

@@DamianSzajnowski its best you dont know lol and im happy to see another person named damian😁

@energeez 3 жыл бұрын

@@DamianSzajnowski alien craft

@stelar7905 3 жыл бұрын

When a man shows a woman that he doesn't give a shit about being rejected by her or what she thinks of him, genuinely showing himself as he is and really saying what he wants or thinks, without taboos or reservations, without fears or worries. .. The woman can't help but feel attracted. This attitude is a typically masculine power of seduction to which women are very sensitive. Show women that you are not afraid of being rejected, ignored, criticized or insulted by them (and that it does not affect you either, that you are indifferent to their reaction, that you are not reactive); Showing them that you don't care about the outcome of being accepted or rejected or what they think of you attracts them. That's what Mode One is about, it's not about getting accepted, it's about having the balls to show women that you don't give a shit about being rejected or what they think of you, and it's also about not giving them your free attention (have the attitude of: “I don't give a shit not having anything with you, you are not the only woman in the world, there are many other women that I can enter and with whom I can have something”).

@DiegoMachida 3 жыл бұрын

I don't think is that absolute, I would complement what you said with not giving a shit makes them respect you, attraction is directly proportional to respect and chemistry, you do need both to get in a womans head.

@stelar7905 3 жыл бұрын

@@DiegoMachida I agree

@jurassicrino3769 3 жыл бұрын

@Stellar Fav comment

@jurassicrino3769 3 жыл бұрын

@DiegoMachida also fav reaction

@jurassicrino3769 3 жыл бұрын

@Stelar

@svensvensson1085 4 ай бұрын

Thanks for this! Made me feel appreciated somehow. Liked it very much, beocase while I don't have as much trouble with this now I've certanly have had for reasons I will not mention. But think this is helpful for many, so thanks❤

@rodrigoquato 3 ай бұрын

I got you, i can see what you are trying to say, i know the opportunities i lost for dont show this “raw side” i have, and i know exactly why the girls i had relationship wanted something with me because of this attitudes i had when i left my “raw mode” works