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@fitz25232 жыл бұрын
If it was three black guys killed by the police all hell would have broke loose SMH
@oncode77352 жыл бұрын
In their minds only black men matter
@lisafloren91592 жыл бұрын
That really needs to stop.
@catflon23882 жыл бұрын
It's not BLM, it's BMLM.🤷🤷 let's ignore the women, children, elderly...
@annagrace11592 жыл бұрын
@@catflon2388 So disheartening...this is why I refused to march. My blk emotionally abusive husband aint never done a day of work in for the Black community. But was quick on his feet in dragging our 12yr old daughter to the protests that could've easily had them hurt or arrested. Prime example of hypocrisy from a troublesome blk man. Will stand up for fake solidarity at the same time tearing down his own home and family. My situation is no different than most all in Black America 🇺🇸.
@offlier Жыл бұрын
It's black women who march and raise hell so it's on them.
@noirefit59542 жыл бұрын
I’m genuinely scared of most black men now and it’s sad because it’s never been like that for me before. I just bought a gun and learned how to shoot, my dad taught me. My dad and I bought guns together and he almost had to use his on a young man he was working with because he couldn’t take my dad asking him to straighten up his work since he was paying him. Dude got mad, went outside and got a knife. Thank God my dad had his gun but he did everything he could not to use it. Even the old heads are afraid of these young black men. It’s in our music. Women talking bout using men, men calling us bitches and hoes. Lord what have we come to?
@HampityHamp2 жыл бұрын
I’m afraid too & have been for a long time. I too am going to buy a gun & LEARN how to PROPERLY defend myself.
@Jay_Marlee2 жыл бұрын
Maaan the music is so scary 😨 😫
@kokhotoms16202 жыл бұрын
I with you with, I was not this way before either, but now I can not be naive, I am watching a crime show right now about a bm that murdered a 14 year old girl, I myself know first hand how men that can't take rejection can be I myself have experienced this so it is important to protect ourselves.
@rockfresh53592 жыл бұрын
Yall afraid to look in the mirror without weave lashes and make up 🤣🤣🤣
@kokhotoms16202 жыл бұрын
@@rockfresh5359 weave lashes and makeup is just fun while you are young in most cases because nowadays I am seeing a lot more sisters going natural with less makeup.
@lkpeace9112 жыл бұрын
Dude who killed those two women made sure that we could not get the other sides of the story. In my opinion he was a narcissist, an abuser and a gas lighter and that didn’t change right before he died. That is the type of thing a narcissist would do so that they can control the narrative even in death. People running around saying don’t play with peoples emotions because it makes them do things like this no this guy is a psychopath and a narcissist that’s what makes people do things like this. The responsibility is on him and him alone
@badassbiggirl2 жыл бұрын
THAT'S EXACTLY what I was thinking. I know a girl who knew him and she is taking up for him.
@myapierre30162 жыл бұрын
Exactly, had this been a women who shot a men because he played with her emotions, they would have been saying how she should have walked away. They know how to tell women to stop making decisions on emotion but quick to use that excuse when it come to them. I 100% agree with you, where he made sure we could not get the other side of the story.
@klnj97142 жыл бұрын
It's scary that we live in a world, where people are so quick to justify murder, and that it's treated like an acceptable thing to even imply.
@alicia77372 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!!! Narcissists are all about power and control, which is why you see them commonly in domestic violence situations! And you are absolutely right...he wanted to even control the narrative in death. That’s how sick this man was!
@Mea_Davis-Sotonade2 жыл бұрын
You are so right which is why I am fighting hard to end this divorce with a narcissist!! 😫🙏🏽
@Dangerous_Peace2 жыл бұрын
I see a coward that ended two people's lives and left his kids with no parents. Yes that's a healthy minded loving dad 🙄
@joybrooks5642 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@EdenSophia1182 жыл бұрын
Exactly.
@felishapittman27782 жыл бұрын
You know...being single seems to be safer...😔
@dancormom2 жыл бұрын
On everything 💯
@EdenSophia1182 жыл бұрын
It most certainly is safer. Don't let these men shame you for being single. They are the main ones who will leave you with a baby and then join in with ks talking about single mothers.
@chandravinning1933 Жыл бұрын
Yes if you can stay in control of your body.
@MSLILLY45332 жыл бұрын
I know when men think like this and kill women it's about control. I can speak to this point because my aunt was murdered by her son's father he killed her and himself she hid my cousin in the closet. I know for a fact he would have killed him also. That horrible incident had a catastrophic affect on our entire family. That incident haunted her siblings (my aunt's and uncle's and my Mom) as well as her parent's so much until none of them lived to be 65yrs old. My grandparents didn't make it to 65 as well. It is crazy to me how killing a person because you can't control them is your only option.
@klnj97142 жыл бұрын
Thank God she saved him. I'm SO sorry for your loss.
@MSLILLY45332 жыл бұрын
@@klnj9714 Thank you
@bd102320032 жыл бұрын
Wow. I’m so so so so sorry. What a traumatic experience for your cousin. May God bless and comfort your family.
@fakeidonthaveahandle2 жыл бұрын
We must cry out to Jesus. He's the only one that can help us now. Your story makes me sick, may God give your poor cousin peace, as well as yourself.
@Girlintheewild2 жыл бұрын
Has anymore family members lived past 65? Because this also sounds like a generational curse on the family. I’m sorry for your family losses. 😢
@taurahelms30682 жыл бұрын
I saw a photo of the guy who killed his ex-wife and girlfriend. It's as if his eyes revealed his evil. Also, there is a cop who killed his girlfriend. She had his baby and assumed that she was the only girlfriend. Come to find out that he had a second woman pregnant and she had given birth. When the girlfriend asked, she was killed by the cop boyfriend for asking about his double life. Very pretty woman. It's sad. I wish the black community would wake up.
@christynechellet94362 жыл бұрын
I get sick to my stomach every time I hear of something like this. I pray my daughters never date or marry a man that will fight or kill them. 🤦🏾♀️
@kokhotoms16202 жыл бұрын
First of all you have a very pretty name, I too have two wonderful daughters what I am proud of is that the repugnant types of guys are not on their radar, they have a natural lack of receptance towards the hostile ignorant ones, I just pray that the trash that can not take rejection meet the spears of my daughters angels if they try to in the least bit decide to cause harm or disrespect towards my girls or anyone's girls.
@willisjohnson51022 жыл бұрын
Make sure they are not shedding innocent blood/ abortion, these are judgements and no one can stop it!
@AniWho2682 жыл бұрын
Did you teach them? Don't just pray, let them know.
@kokhotoms16202 жыл бұрын
@@AniWho268 My girls can feel my paranoia when I tell them to be careful when they leave the house plus I show them beautiful girls their age that some demonic man caused harm or death towards no matter what color the man was.
@EdenSophia1182 жыл бұрын
@@willisjohnson5102 We see many videos of MEN snatching on and pulling on BW trying to get them into the abortion clinics. Now what?
@MD-bl5dp2 жыл бұрын
Demonic possession
@TheBLACKboard652 жыл бұрын
YEP!! I have been saying it for years.
@daniella84002 жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@michelleh94032 жыл бұрын
There is absolutely NO validity to the murderer's point. NONE!!! He is in the medical profession. He could have EASILY sought the help of a psychologist in regard to his situation. Like he said, "3 YEARS". His actions were PLANNED. He said in the video: "Today is the day". That statement does not say spontaneity. That statement does not reference someone who snapped. That statement referenced CRIMINAL INTENT. He PLANNED it. It was very obvious that he did NOT explain HIS part in the reason why he was in TWO failed relationships. He did NOT EXPLAIN as the common denominator, why he has an EX wife and an EX girlfriend, in a short period of time. Furthermore, he also said; "She won't let me see my kids." Did anyone read the updated report? His kids were IN THE CAR. when he SNUFFED OUT THE LIFE of his exes, his children's MOTHERS. Clearly, preventing him from his children was not much of an issue, HE HAD THEM WITH HIM. The GF was pregnant, was the threat really the problem, or maybe he was a MONSTER in private, and they left and/or were leaving the monster to himself. I would not be surprised, if these children in the future, talk about the TRAUMA of the day their father murked their mothers, and how he REALLY treated them BEHIND CLOSED DOORS. He says they keep him from his kids, but he brings his kids along to murk their mothers, leaving them ORPHANS. Leaving them with a LIFE LONG TRAUMA. Yeah, I can sense the LOVE & CARE from his behavior. He was too COWARDLY to do his time in prison, too COWARDLY to go to court to PROVE his innocence, too COWARDLY to take accountability for his actions. If the allegations weren't true, why not let the trial reveal that?! Instead, the COWARD took his life and lives of the MOTHERS OF HIS CHILDREN, and on top of that...BLAMED THEM for HIS actions!! To the end, TAKING NO ACCOUNTABILITY FOR ONE'S OWN ACTIONS. His actions PROVED his selfishness and REVEALED his egotistical personality. I feel sorry for the children. They are left as ORPHANS, because a COWARDLY WIMP was MAD because he could NOT get his way. However, I feel great for the universe. One less DEMON in the world. DAMN SHAME!!!
@thelookout58022 жыл бұрын
Very well put! This man was an evil being. Taking the lives of women, and not even thinking about his own children!
@lyndiaj60382 жыл бұрын
He lost his job 8 months ago
@michelleh94032 жыл бұрын
@@lyndiaj6038 And? Losing jobs are a part of life, it does not give you the excuse for murking people.
@lyndiaj60382 жыл бұрын
@@michelleh9403 that's not what i was saying lol i was just saying the ppl that knew him said he lost his job 8 months ago .... Btw when did i ever say it was a reason to off somebody? Smh
@michelleh94032 жыл бұрын
@@lyndiaj6038 Ohh, OK. My bad!!!! Have a great day sis!!! :)
@sjtalksandlife2 жыл бұрын
Black men need to stop bashing us on social media. The whole world is listening. Yes you right the message is sent to the world that we dont matter..😢
@willisjohnson51022 жыл бұрын
The maury show, paternity shows show the world shes not only a busybody but also a deciever, esp..with the children including abortion! She will be judged, and nobody can stop it!!!
@jB-uh7ow2 жыл бұрын
That’s why I find it funny when men constantly talk about holding women accountable, like bro more than likely atleast 1 person in your friend group is probably an abuser or a rapist or a ticking time bomb and you wanna hold women accountable first of all look in your own friend groups or even family, you guys hold nobody accountable but focus attention on holding women accountable for the most random things.
@AyeJye2 жыл бұрын
To be honest those men have probably been showing signs way before they actually commit those crimes …… in the “black community “ we have been taught since childhood to “ not snitch” or “no telling” ….. look a Megan the stallion she said she took up for him and didn’t want to be a considered a snitch … but he was the one who shot her….. We try not to call police or for any help to protect our abuser… I’ve also been in situations where people turn the blind eye when you are getting abused because they say they don’t want to get in your business….. it’s so sad
@AniWho2682 жыл бұрын
exactly.
@AJD72332 жыл бұрын
So true!!
@dorashelton16152 жыл бұрын
IT IS THE SICKNESS IN THE SOUL...THE HEART IS WICKED....GOING BACK TO SOME OF THE "OLD WAYS" IS WORTH IT TO HELP OUR FAMILIES TO GROW IN UNITY..
@EdenSophia1182 жыл бұрын
Women of the "old ways" suffered abuse and non-stop cheating as well. MOST of them suffered in silence.
@annagrace11592 жыл бұрын
@@EdenSophia118 Many people are forgetting that these traumas are generationally passed down.
@astoldbymuriel1032 жыл бұрын
So killing the mothers then himself leaves the kids in whose custody? These kids alone now without a mother or father, but he loves his kids right?
@Price89032 жыл бұрын
It is scary and horrible, it’s so much easier to leave vs being evil and taking someone’s life
@queenj77202 жыл бұрын
Ladies when you leave relationships, please get you some cameras. You might be amazed by what you see. My ex couldnt take it. I cut him off cold turkey when this man accused me of cheating (which I wasnt). His insecurity got the best of him and I didnt have time to help him figure that out. It lead to me being stalked for months. I told closest people to me and they witnessed it as well. I would have never known had it not been my cameras. It caught over 70 images of him driving by my house. I would have never known. Had to deal with the courts cause he was low key crazy and I would never expect this from a church man. For now, I am sooo done with relationships.
@loridori2 жыл бұрын
Wow... I'm sorry you went through that. This generation is so crazy and narcissistic. I hope you have a gun to protect yourself.
@AniWho2682 жыл бұрын
Yeah...don't assume that just bc he goes to church that he's stable. Some of the worst people are in the church.
@LittleMissSunshine7212 жыл бұрын
This happened to me as well. I told my friends if something happened to me, he did it. He was the cause of me changing my number. He finally stopped reaching me when I threatened to call the police.
@starbabylight78792 жыл бұрын
The ones in the church are the most narcissistic. They use God as a crutch to hide their bs. You can't trust nothing and nobody.
@yvettegrove55562 жыл бұрын
The fact that 90% of comments on videos of this subject come from women, tells a tale that everyone should be listening too. Stay prayerful, read Psalms 91, stay watchful, and be blessed.
@lally48692 жыл бұрын
I think every black person should read the book ‘Why we hate black women and why we should love them.’ By Hasani Pettiford. It talks about the conditioning of society and how they have come to hating black women so much.
@willisjohnson51022 жыл бұрын
Do they hate you or your actions???
@dancormom2 жыл бұрын
@@willisjohnson5102 They see a black woman and instantly hate us .
@AniWho2682 жыл бұрын
Hopefully it doesn't take about slavery as the starting point, bc this has been going on since before slavery.
@ninamoore6022 жыл бұрын
Oh my it’s so scary out there for black women. We need more black men like you out there. You care about us. Love you my brother and keep it coming. Be bless and stay safe. Love you
@HampityHamp2 жыл бұрын
Amen! Yes he does care! Hope he doesn’t change.
@kimberly07172 жыл бұрын
That man: No accountability Period! He was probably a sociopath and you can’t have a sociopath without being narcissistic, but a sociopath is a level up. It’s terribly tragic! 😒
@RosasResources2 жыл бұрын
Generational curses, no love of God and lovers of self. Poor children.
@candybartslim8462 жыл бұрын
I would be so scared to be with a bm. I see all of these beautiful bw being murdered by bm and some of the women were pregnant 🤦🏾♀️. I'm married to a wm and I feel so safe with him. He has never raised a hand to me in 10 years of marriage. We don't argue in front of our 2 boys. And before I get attacked yes I know wm kill women too but it just seems like it's an epidemic with bm against bw. If I were single I would be absolutely terrified to date a bm. Please bw watch your backs and be careful and protect yourselves and bm please stop killing bw and their unborn babies 😢
@twilight149712 жыл бұрын
I just ended a 6 month relationship with a black man, I think he’ll be the last. I’m not taking a risk when it comes to my body, life, and safety anymore.
@candybartslim8462 жыл бұрын
@@twilight14971 I'm so happy you are okay. Please be careful. Value your life 💯
@tiffsterritoryonyoutube2 жыл бұрын
Oh jeez, lets not tear down all black men cause of a few bad apples. PLENTY of wm in the news for killing the wife and kids (Chris Watts), the dude who ran recently (Brian Laundrie), and dont ever forget Scott Peterson!! And thats just a few who made the big news. Its one thing to admit an issue which Shumake does eloquently without judgment, but it’s another to then go on and praise your “wm”… FOH. That aint it!! Move along🙄
@candybartslim8462 жыл бұрын
@@tiffsterritoryonyoutube umm I guess you skipped over the part where I said wm killed women too 🤷🏾♀️. However certainly not at the rate bm kill bw. That's my opinion. You have a blessed night 🙏🏾
@tiffsterritoryonyoutube2 жыл бұрын
@@candybartslim846 You haven't looked up any statistics, now you just talkn silly, talk to me with facts. Go enjoy your good life with your wm, byeeeeeeeee👋🏾
@patresaplus32742 жыл бұрын
Things will get worse before they get better, it’s up to the ones of good mind and spirit to be prepared
@lkpeace9112 жыл бұрын
One every 5 hours!!!
@denesejamerson23562 жыл бұрын
Sometimes folks just not right, and if you're not selective about mates you'll find yourself with one of 'em. Yup, I is single. I - r- not desperate!
@superodalisque2 жыл бұрын
All these people encouraging us to take illiterate frustrated uneducated men need to stop.
@go-go52912 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this message!!! we glorify the wrong things. We have lost respect for community and family. We have a lot of work to do if we want to get our families back in order.
@breaklunner2 жыл бұрын
he had a psychotic crazy look IN HIS EYES and the fact that men actually would make excuses for that murdering psycho is insanely scary. i'm more afraid of the men that defend him..... disturbing
@reneedennis20112 жыл бұрын
I agree.
@katrinabest64152 жыл бұрын
Please pray and fast before getting into relationships because GOD is our guidance to true love and relationships.
@ade-oluwaspov2062 жыл бұрын
Amen to that, sis. We certainly can't do life without GOD.
@teishahowlett63422 жыл бұрын
This is A very Heavy and very Serious Situation in our Community..And it really does need to be Addressed on all Levels of what the Gentleman is speaking about..We are loosing in big Ways,No Loyalty,No Morals,and No damn Self Respect at All.. That’s the main problem in all these different problems we have,No respect for yourselves for others,for children,for Babies,None..Just Zero+Zero equals Zero..A bunch of jealousy,Wickedness..It’s been out of Control for a very long time,and it needs to be addressed and Dealt with..
@homehere98172 жыл бұрын
It's crazy to know people meet, date and have a child together after 6 months, hell 3 months!! We got to be more careful and way more responsible when dating/vetting! Stop having sex! Stop having sex with people u just met! Use a condom all the damn time. Thats some crazy sick shit!! Please Lord help us and forgive us.
@superodalisque2 жыл бұрын
And this is why my father taught me how to use firearms. It's not happening more. It's just that we talk about and hear it more on social media. I understand how some of our men are damaged but they still know the difference between right and wrong. This issue our community has is silence and quiet cooperation with murderers rapists and pedophiles just because life is hard. Life is hard for black women too but we aren't commonly killing black men other than for self defense. I'm an older experienced woman. I'm told that I'm picky after being with someone with a six figure income for 25 years. I can honestly say any man can be violent but it's much less common among men with some success and have a decent level of self esteem. I look at myself as an open minded person. I don't judge by income. But I can honestly say poor uneducated men are way more likely to be abusive and cross a lot if boundaries. They are damaged. It's not exactly a character judgement just a realistic view. If you never see success, never have anything you want and are ignorant it's much harder to do right. Younger men seem much much worse. Toxic black make is a popular pose. I don't know what happened to them but most of the ones I've been around need a LOT of therapy. Maybe they get the attention of our damaged girls and play to attracting dysfunction.
@brookealicia922 жыл бұрын
Men created the system but women get blamed somehow. As Shumake demonstrated, fight for your kids and you can get results. The problem is bm don’t even try but complain about not seeing (or supporting in any way) their kids.
@Misaamanenoir2 жыл бұрын
Also from what I've seen most of the time the man is just lying.
@nik-at-nite2 жыл бұрын
I can’t be upset with men being scared because the court system is not in favor of them but I hate when men don’t even try. My parents got divorced after 13 years and my father went to court several times to get the custody agreement how he wanted it. And that’s WITH evidence of my mother being physically abusive to her kids. (Btw our guardian ad litem was a bitter black woman that didn’t believe my father because of stereotypes 😒) So it’s not easy but kids are worth the fight.
@willisjohnson51022 жыл бұрын
Isnt fighting for your kids the first sign!!! Who fight for their kids, or is it a game!!!
@fakeidonthaveahandle2 жыл бұрын
My daddy came from a time when you didn't kill your kids in the womb proudly. You stepped up and became the parent you did activities to become. He was physically abusive but not a murderer. He would never leave his kids to starve or without a mother. It saddens me to be raised in a home where my value as a girl/woman was to be protected and loved (even though often misguided). He even said it made him sick when my teacher asked a show of hands how many kids live with mommy and daddy and 3 kids including me raised my hand. To learn that a lot of black really are those awful monsters is heartbreaking. I see one or two like Micheal here, but he's a dying breed. We need Jesus quickly. The hate is plain demonic and nees to be repented from. It feels weird to pray to God for protection from and for fellow black people, but I guess that's where we are. Stay safe everyone.
@superodalisque2 жыл бұрын
Way back in the old days my father told me never to hesitate if a man is physically violent. Shoot to kill because they WILL come back because of ego. He said don't just wound him. He had a single mother and saw what she had dealt with up close. He never wanted us to face that.
@prettyastounding79242 жыл бұрын
Good point. I often seeing both black women or men huffing and puffing……selling wolf tickets and getting in the other person’s face. Both need to back down from beating their chests…..trying to bully other people. It is disgusting . I just keep away whenever I see the beating of the chest …..EVEN IN JEST.
@daniella84002 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@bethanycoleman4262 жыл бұрын
You still don't get it.
@daniella84002 жыл бұрын
@@bethanycoleman426 no she does see it she’s just also pointing out what else she sees.
@leelee69462 жыл бұрын
Great commentary!!! We definitely do not have community anymore. Right when it’s needed the most.
@shutahekup2 жыл бұрын
Honestly, I feel sad for BW. As an outsider, the view is too many BM are weak.
@telesialoyd80842 жыл бұрын
May God Bless you for this message!!! I pray Black men receive the message! Please stop the gender war and be who God wants us ALL to be. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@joybrooks5642 жыл бұрын
I feel sorry for the children
@mizzmolly76492 жыл бұрын
Wendy Black, the ex-wife, pleaded with the court numerous times for protection from her ex. She wrote that he was physically abusive and she didn't want him to know where she lived because he had threatened to kill her. She was one of at least 3 people who had requested orders of protection against Rajaee Black.
@MoeSoNatural2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been reading a ton of these stories too… I was in an extremely abusive relationship and I’m beyond thankful that God kept me while in it and when I decided to leave. Nowadays so many of these black men compete (specifically), have envy and hatred toward their women. I was one of those women… despite the love I gave constantly, it was met with contempt. I know his sob story to the next victim will be that I gave up on him too soon. So apparently, I was supposed to suffer through the abuse indefinitely. Another point to make is that often times white men see black women as sexual objects- just no love or respect. It’s sick
@agnesbell70392 жыл бұрын
Black men don't view black women as sex objects???
@reneedennis20112 жыл бұрын
Thank God you got out!
@Noratheskindoc2 жыл бұрын
I love your mindset. I pray for all the families of the taken queens🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽😢
@elizabethramosvargas33552 жыл бұрын
The narcissism is rampant
@hellohey0002 жыл бұрын
16:11 if he is a good man then he should be going to court to put himself on child support. To make sure the woman can't later say he didn't do his part and to make sure that the money he is giving to the woman actually goes to living expenses and the like. Men who b_tch about court and child support are men with warrants and broke(or just cheap)
@HampityHamp2 жыл бұрын
You know what Shumake…. WE NEED YOU!!! Big respect for you & Pastor RC Blakes Jr.! Once upon a time, I used to trust the words of Derrick Jxn (Don’t laugh). I like Kev Hick’s advice too but it’s just not the same. I hope you never change or stray away from your conviction to set black men & women straight when they misrepresent themselves because it affects all of us. Prayers for you & your family. Stay strong my brother!
@sarahogayonne37102 жыл бұрын
It’s The passion in his eyes for me 🥺🙏🏽💯facts
@drink-water.2 жыл бұрын
His children were sitting in his car so what custody was taken away from him?
@yvonnetaylor-bennett56582 жыл бұрын
Thank you for caring about us Nr. Shumaker. You are wise beyond you years. I hope more brothers listen to you. As black people we can do better.
@tyfannyturner80012 жыл бұрын
That's right we don't have communities like that no more we were like family.
@jacinthabrice52962 жыл бұрын
I agree with you fully..from beginning to end.
@jamestateIII2 жыл бұрын
Why do PEOPLE pay with they life? I plan to do a video like this. Why are folk so quick to kill instead of talk
@LittleMissSunshine7212 жыл бұрын
That happened here in Baltimore and the exact same thing happened a few days later. It’s a strange, weird world we are living in. Please use discernment when choosing your partner. Don’t ignore the red flags.
@user-bx2wl7we5k2 жыл бұрын
I know that I’m not by myself but I’m horrified of the men you’re speaking of. I go out of my way not to come in contact with them; thus why I live in a Blue State, open carry. I live in a neighborhood known for the many cops as neighbors. I can run and go shopping without being hassled, also I can sleep without hearing gunshots. Listen to what I say without emotion.
@cheryldouglas8903Ай бұрын
I felt this video. Exactly.
@Camille4Real2 жыл бұрын
@18:33 to 19:30 PREEEAAAACCCHHH! That's the pathology. 💯
@suzannem700 Жыл бұрын
i subscribed to you channel coz you are one of the few black man who lifts up black women and calls out men for their mistakes coz so many are so stiff necked and churlish. God bless you and I pray God gives you a huge following. You are a beautiful soul in a beautiful vessel too! The kind of man every black woman would love me included. Sending love
@elizabethramosvargas33552 жыл бұрын
Excellent video. Very fair. Ache.♥️
@porsha3792 жыл бұрын
Shumake I think you are 💯 on point as always . The Godfather, FnF, Poor man etc etc is promoting the toxic violent narcissistic behaviors running rampant with men having no accountability whatsoever. TLA dragged a BM for saying dude in Baltimore made bad choices, then the dude changed his mind to not be put off podcast … it’s sad that this has come to this but at this point I don’t see it getting any better 😌
@eleanorsmith97062 жыл бұрын
Good information 💯
@sheiladavis88772 жыл бұрын
Some of these men with their control issues want respect and don't have a pot to piss in or window to throw it out.
@stephanieoutlaw11702 жыл бұрын
I just can’t stop watching this 🙌🏾🔥 …. This resonates with me from the beginning to the VERY end!!!!!!! Thanks 🙏🏾 for this
@allisonjoubert34182 жыл бұрын
This is the season for action. Building community with accountability. The work that God is doing in you is happening right before our eyes and I an so proud of your evolution. I am a willing worker, let’s think about how to make it happen Sir.
@klnj97142 жыл бұрын
Hi Shumake 😊
@reneedennis20112 жыл бұрын
You're right.
@elizabethramosvargas33552 жыл бұрын
If you're talking about the woman that was kidnapped at her job in Florida. They were both black.
@nadyaburrell-on2jf Жыл бұрын
None of that matters. It's the individual that is messed up. All things could be in place and the person will still be off
@elizabethramosvargas33552 жыл бұрын
It's the programming. The music and the entertainment.
@allisonjoubert34182 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@TheShumakeWay Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@elizabethramosvargas33552 жыл бұрын
Opt out of this system of things and let them have their board that it's their game.
@tyfannyturner80012 жыл бұрын
I don't get into domestic squabbles. Love❤💜❤💜 Shumake
@vueme8052 жыл бұрын
Insanity…that’s what this sounds like to me…
@belleame46712 жыл бұрын
IT'S SOMETHING SPIRITUALLY!!
@bidah0072 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@dancormom2 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@zennettequarzaza90382 жыл бұрын
Amen
@shabakahouse21252 жыл бұрын
I'm sick of this
@HampityHamp2 жыл бұрын
Me too!
@butterfly29462 жыл бұрын
Amen. My God.
@annagrace11592 жыл бұрын
Matthew 24:37-39 37 But as the days of Noah were, so shall also the coming of the Son of man be. 38 For as in the days that were before the flood they were eating and drinking, marrying and giving in marriage, until the day that Noah entered into the ark, 39 And knew not until the flood came, and took them all away; so shall also the coming of the Son of man be.
@stephanieoutlaw11702 жыл бұрын
🔥🙌🏾
@mindyours83432 жыл бұрын
Every six he and not by Dwight . Let that sink in every six hrs .
@elizabethramosvargas33552 жыл бұрын
On both sides.
@chandravinning1933 Жыл бұрын
This is why we need Jesus. We are sinful creatures but can be delivered through our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ.
@moonlightchild38552 жыл бұрын
"The system (created by men) is not for men"? Yes. Yes it is. However the CHILD SUPPORT system is [gasp] for the child(ren)...who knew!?
@AJD72332 жыл бұрын
“They just wanna get some cuz she thick” im sorry but pff HAHA thats just so true and soooo childish man. Im really just lost for words.
@celestecoleman71562 жыл бұрын
I've done it with friend's significant others Nevers does anything but blow up in my face
@offlier Жыл бұрын
I've been afraid of black boys and men since age 7 and that was in the early 80's. Either he was the perpetrator or he was the one who stood by and did nothing. It's so bad I can barely stand to hear them talk let alone look at them.
@patriciawilliams5172 Жыл бұрын
The way men treat me as a professional woman that live a simple and quiet life makes me want to get me a Gluock.
@tyfannyturner80012 жыл бұрын
Its not the Mans fault all of the time.
@ceeceedior21 Жыл бұрын
The irony is that men call US emotional. But y’all do ish like THISSS
@glenbutler9611 Жыл бұрын
So Shumake, out of all the mass incarceration of black males in penal and mental institutions-- some unjustified but most justified- we expect black men to automatically possess the social and emotional skills necessary to be relationship/husband material???
@SuburbanKween2 жыл бұрын
Just a heads-up that Jay Black killed a WW and an AW.
@reneedennis20112 жыл бұрын
He killed a BW and an AW.
@cherylmcleod60882 жыл бұрын
One of the problems is not having a father figure or a strong father figure in the household... women can't show boys how to be a man especially a man of character
@criscris95672 жыл бұрын
Death of a community now say goodbye
@EarthangelRemix2 жыл бұрын
FBA men usually don't want to be a nurse 🤯 Caribbean born go check his paperwork,. That's a tether
@oncode77352 жыл бұрын
It doesn’t matter. Y’all love placing blame as if Ados men aren’t doing the same crap equally. Maybe it’s something wrong with all of y’all
@EarthangelRemix2 жыл бұрын
@@oncode7735 maybe you should go back to where you failed at " tether" isn't that's why you're here
@elizabethramosvargas33552 жыл бұрын
Mk Ultra Mk Naomi
@Rey-Nolds2 жыл бұрын
The "NEW" derrick jackson....and the Sinp of Year Award goes too...🤣🤣🤣
@cherylmcleod60882 жыл бұрын
Women are not vetting their men they mate with...pookie and Ray Ray Tay Tay will most likely walk away when things get too tough bc they didn't have a father in the household from day one
@dancormom2 жыл бұрын
If this were something new I could understand this unfortunately it's just being newly reported. Pokie and Ray Ray's are some of our grandaddy and great uncles!! SmH
@toogroovywavey1362 жыл бұрын
Just got update that the victims were not bw! I repeat, the victims both the ex-girlfriend and ex-wife were not sistas!
@bidah0072 жыл бұрын
REALLY?
@elizabethramosvargas33552 жыл бұрын
Mommy issues is how we got here. Freud. Oedipal complex.
@superodalisque2 жыл бұрын
Everyone blames it in the mother's, never bad neglectful and violent fathers. Many if these men have seen their fathers be violent towards their own mothers. And at what point do grown men examine their lives for themselves and stop blaming Mommy? These men have been or should have been out of mamma's house over half of their lifetimes.
@elizabethramosvargas33552 жыл бұрын
@@superodalisque Unfortunately there are a lot of bad parents out there. When the man takes off the mother is left holding the bag and not always but some make very bad choices being women first and mothers second.
@willisjohnson51022 жыл бұрын
Just like your not on here telling us about the silent abortionist, these could be judgement for those who shed innocent bllod!!!
@deadsetanime71022 жыл бұрын
Clueless. Absolutely clueless commentary that follows a narrative that continues dehumanize black men.
@dancormom2 жыл бұрын
Where's the lie? Please take the energy to your comrades making you look bad.
@deadsetanime71022 жыл бұрын
@@dancormom Tell that to the 1000s of black men here in Baltimore who are being ground up in this family court system. Also, do some research on how common it is for women to file false child abuse claims against fathers. You should also read Garland's work on Parental Alienation. Furthermore you might want to do some research on child abuse statistics. It's quite the eye opener. Men are not the problem when it comes to child abuse yet you, as a black man are making black men into villains. How you rationalize that action is beyond me. Women have been raising children mostly by themselves since 1968 and today our black boys are only reading at a 5th grade level regardless of economic income. I would say that women have failed spectacularly but if you want to continue defend that failure, be my guess.
@dancormom2 жыл бұрын
@@deadsetanime7102 Blaming women who raise the boys for how they turned out, instead of your comrades who laid down to help make them then fled is exactly why I said, "please take the energy to your comrades making you look bad"...smh. Stop promoting, encouraging and high fiving poor behavior if you're just going to blame EVERYBODY else in the world for the consequences!
@MaryJane.0072 жыл бұрын
@@deadsetanime7102 always blaming and shaming the parent who stayed to raise the child.
@bjmartin66842 жыл бұрын
Bm are dehumanizing themselves through their actions. Not taking accountability. Bm have been derelict for a long time, nothing new. On front street because of mobile 📱 and social media.