And whoever you are! YOU ARE FUCKING CORRECT 🤷🏾‍♀️

Your 2nd sub 🥳

You betta preach

Oh u know birth control is a must FR! abortion is not as bad as single parenting esp when society don't cut cheques for your colour! Education never changes colour..

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Men don't necessarily have to lead if they don't want to but if they insist on the perks of leadership they seriously need to meet the criteria.

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@@Jasminesunflower1 that part

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Thank you for acknowledging this. It is very appreciated.

We are out here ✌🏾

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@@jtt1928 It's time for y'all to be more vocal before it's too late.

Oh they are up and about doing GOD's will. They just prefer to be anonymous. The reason the negative voices are so loud, is because the empty barrels make the loudest noise.

@@ade-oluwaspov206 Why do they prefer to stay anonymous and not be as loud and passionate about loving black women and countering the rhetoric? I'll tell you why, because they are not motivated enough to care about black women and they care more about the opinions of other black men. It's the same reason why they nest in their subjugation and why we have to make a hashtag begging for them to protect us. If they don't do something now, my generation will Divest and the community numbers will drop.

50\50 she picked the man, she deserves some of the blame too for how the child turns out...teach your sons to love all things ⚫ and stop believing lies ⚪ people tell about ⚫ people

@@ebonynerd why would you assume that mother's don't do that. Mother's must contend with a derelict community pathology being pushed more and more towards nothing that is positive for women. How about men being quality of character and integrity to raise their own sons. At least the mothers did not leave, but hung in there to do the best they could do.

@@shellylen I agree with you because of how their daughters turn out but ⚫ moms share some blame too...1st not valuing yourself as wives 1st before having kids and you and their father building a family structure 1st before the kids are born...our community need to start with a family structure 1st before having kids

@@ebonynerd I agree, and in an ideal world that's exactly how it would be. But as humans we fall and mistakes..When a mistakes is made you must adapt and figure out the best way to continue. Interesting that people still feel comfortable blaming the person that tried do the right thing after the mistake is made. Let's not forget to make the person who stayed and made all the sacrifices feel just as bad as the person who didn't.

@@shellylen no, don't get it twisted, I feel like ⚫ moms should get the ultimate respect because if it wasn't for them where would our community be because most of the men walked out...all I'm saying is that the women have some responsibility too, not all, but they do have some

That’s goes to show you the extreme toxicity and dysfnction in this communty pure abus but it’s up to us to depart from any situation where Love is not part of it don’t get caught up in the flesh or the optics I’m positive there’s millions of men out there that are grateful for their wives and the men calling them simp live a empty life with women they have to lie to deceive or 💰 pay

It's funny when dudes sit in their high horse and say that. Like we don't need to choose better as men. I know I absolutely should have chosen better. I've made huge mistakes that I've had to pay for dearly.

Amen!!!!

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Beautiful comment

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I have found that men with your mindset fare better in all areas of life. And when difficult times hit it's not whoa is me but how can I flip this to my advantage. Appreciate you sir, salute!

I am so proud of you, good job and I wish you all the best!!

Men who absorb the truth already have the necessary honor dignity and self respect that won't allow them to fail and be at the bottom of all men. They have character. The difference is there are some grown boys who will never be men because they don't have any personal pride and their character is trash. When people tell you the truth it's out of respect. Mammies will lie. They don't want respect the men they're with. They're self interested. They're looking for a partner in codependency, dv and mental abuse. Any man will do. But it's up to the man with character to choose the hard work of perfecting himself. Women have nothing to do with that. Never did.

Yep. They have always recognized a good thing. I studied history in graduate school. If it wasn't for masagenation laws this would be a completely black country. It is anyway in every way on the downlow. There's no important family here that looks white that hasn't had black family members including the Kennedys and the Vanderbilts, plus most of golden age Hollywood. As black women we even were forced to cover our hair by law. Racists said it was because our hair was ugly but that couldn't be further from the truth. It wàs extraordinarily attractive to the point that white looking women with the afro trait in Europe were pretty much deified. Look up vintage photos of Circassian women. They saw us close up during slavery. They saw our character and intelligence. And they still respect us because we as black women are not afraid to take responsibility. White men also respect us because no amount of money would compel the vast majority of us to choose our oppressor over our own men. I'm not downing people in interracial relationships. But white men feel they're really doing something when they are able to be with the average black woman. Maybe if we were a bit choosier like that with some of our own men, especially in the US they might get the memo. We don't have to go white. 90% of the world are POC. We have choices. I can't even explain the level of respect I get as an African American when I go to Europe. Unfortunately Africans get treated like dirt and we have to stand up for our brothers and sisters there.

And it’s gonna increase. These incel communities are just producing more men that Black women will not collectively tolerate. And as they become more educated and are exposed to different groups where there are few Black men at that level, they are gonna date what is around them. The image of Black women is changing whether the manosphere wants to believe it or not. I encourage people to go outside, touch grass, and find out.

Yes and I am one of them. We went Christmas shopping together and the stares were obvious because I used to only date and be married to black men.

@@palmtreemrs like was said before on this man's posts, they better get the memo. Women who saw the bitch and ho era in the 80s and 90s are grown mothers and grandmothers now looking to protect our girls too. We're still waiting for an apology from people who influenced all of us when we and they were too young to know any better. The entire rap genre was mainly positive early on and uplifting but changed to something destructive. It was once family oriented, female and family positive, educational and highly political. When the music industry saw it they took aim. Some of our black men were quick to sell us all out for personal financial gains.

@@superodalisque I suppose Lil Kim, Foxy Brown, Nikki Minaj didn't sell out either? We had Lauryn Hill, MC Lyte and Queen Latifah to that? The whole rap genre got hijacked.

Very true

Exactly. The only attention that dude gets from me is the time it takes me to scroll past his video.

kevin samuels is not even married hes a snakeoil salesman he has none of the things he tries to sell other men

Facts.

@@budzieC exactly including not being heterosexual

In the black community at large.

Amen🙌🏽

Yes. Women only submit to men who are worthy of submission. I wouldn’t be surprised if his future wife feels comfortable enough to rest in her femininity 💅🏾 ✨

@@janayserrano men don't owe u protection neither you have to be worthy of us bm risking our life

@@rockfresh5359 That's why we're protecting ourselves but y'all have a problem with that too. Evidently some of y'all have already stamped us as unworthy without knowing us. No sweat. Sisters will keep doing what they have to and branching out. It's interesting because some of you said you'd be acting better with white or asian women but the results are much worse. Who is the common denominator. And, why are black women doing better outside of their race. If black women didn't really love you and were more results driven they wouldn't even be encouraging this honest conversation and trying to help. We have held back on telling the truth for a long time because we didn't want to hurt you. Black women actually improve our spouse's outcomes even though we are paid lessand are more educated than everyone else including black men. . Black men do not affect their spouses in the same way. And unfortunately those nice White and Asian women are also learning about the common practice of financial abuse of black women close up. They're also learning about paternal desertion. Statistically speaking it's time to finally cop to not living up to rhetoric or potential since a good number of black.men have no improvement in performance no matter who they are with -- except ironically with black women. We attract black men who are not trying to skirt their responsibilities. We attract other men who appreciate our loyalty and devotion because many of us are not transactional at all. If we were we wouldn't be with black men who are statistically last in just about every arena right now. That's some real talk.

Self sabotage they don’t seem aware that everything we do here we pay here and they think showing a women love is a crim but they want women to love them and be submissive it’s pure delusion and fiction and they’ll find out sooner or later in life

@@mmxw2294 Delusion for sure and I was literally thinking the same thing, they are in for a rude awakening .

God got me. I’ll be ok.

@@TheShumakeWay 🙏 Yes He does, and yes you will.

@@klnj9714 Yep. He definitely needs to be careful. Some man actually had someone he though wà me tires slashed for saying the same thing online as a warning. He only stopped because I'm tech savvy and and I also have a relative with homeland security. I let him know in no uncertain terms that I would feel no guilt at all about sending him to prison. I had plenty of evidence.

@@TheShumakeWay Amen!

No need to cower to man when God got your back sis

I agree

I bet you are a single mom 😂

@@AR-ho2pf nope. Married for twenty years

@@AllThingsShaunda wow. But does it mean anything?

@@AR-ho2pf not if you don’t value marriage and legacy.

The Bible says wide is the way, narrow is the gate. Most people in this world are going to the path of least resistance which is the path towards an unrighteous life.

Yeah but look at old nasty mouth kevin samuels telling the so call men n telling men to date. in other countries especially them darn latins 🙄 he has a million followers not a GOD fearing man

Deleshia Davis that’s because this guy talking on the video is a wannabe Walmart brand Derrick Jaxn who is pandering to women like Derrick Jaxn and Steve Harvey and trying scam women I see right through this clown 🤡 Kevin Samuels is successful because he doesn’t pandering to you’ll women he tells you’ll women what you need to hear period that’s why he is successful unlike this dude in the video that’s why lmfao 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@Breana Rose that’s because Kevin Samuels don’t pander to women like this clown 🤡 talking on the video another wannabe Walmart brand version of Derrick Jaxn I see right through this dude that’s why he want never be successful like Kevin Samuels because he tells women what they need to hear big differences now do I agree with everything Kevin Samuels says no I don’t but he speaks trust most of the time 💯

@@charchartime1701 truth hurts it’s ok sweetie you’ll women like men who panders to you’ll like this clown 🤡 on the video another wannabe Walmart brand Derrick Jaxn making money of you’ll women I digress lmfao 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

That's why the churches are emptier. Black people still go to church more than everybody else but that kind of thing is repelling young people. They talk like really old abusive hateful and gossipy ignorant old folk in today's modern world.

Oh my goodness! I've been talking to God about the same thing! It is upsetting.

He's always paying attention. Remember, He may not come when you want Him, but He's always right on time. "To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven." --Ecclesiastes 3:1

It’s been on my mind tough too. I’ve been praying but I believe it’s because of we are out of alignment of God’s Will. Read the book of Deuteronomy about the blessings and curses. I’m not an Israelite Hebrew believer (christian) but I’m not gonna lie black people of all continents match those curses. I do believe God will bless and show favor once His children are back in alignment.

We refuse to return to HIM. Why should he respond to our cries. He said: ' I put before you life and death. Choose life.' We have choosen death based on our walk. You shouldnt be surprised.

yes, but it's not helping the community.

It’s past that. It’s a lot of women bashing going on that’s why he made this video, that’s why Tony Gaskin and the Honest Truth exist because it’s imbalanced. More men needs to stand up. I don’t meet “a lot of good men” I know three and they in my family, one is my brother and that’s because he had a good father. I don’t wear rose-colored glasses. This video is needed.

@@Th3lite Yes, the bashing is going on, which is unfortunate. Malcolm X had talked about how BW are not respected and taken care of. This type of behavior and communication has continued for more 20 years. You can't be surprised when the women retaliate. Not saying its right, but think about it. MEN and WOMEN have got to STOP this, the behavior is DESTROYING the communities and our youth. KIDS don't do what you SAY they do what they SEE! We have GOT to do Better!

Who is he talking about?

It brings me to tears when I think of my girls.

Don’t give him any more publicity than he already has. Just know he ain’t good for the community and he’s spewing venom all over our women. Every view he gets is causing his message to spread and we don’t want that.

@@TheShumakeWay ok I'm nosy but you're right

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They can also find an issue with that. Say you think you're too good or stuck up or whatever else their psychotic mind comes up with. Ppl will ALWAYS find an issue no matter what someone does. It's just up to that other person to not care what anybody says or think and keep it moving

That's what I do keep it moving and mind my business and I can careless what they think because I don't want them. It was two guys today at different moments trying to talk to me when they realized I'm not interested they had a puzzled look on their face as if they don't understand why I don't want them 🤣 it was very satisfying

🤣 ikr. One dude CLEARLY saw a ring on my finger and asked was I married 🙄🙄🙄

@@sweettee051988 🤣and that's another thing they can't take a hint

Ditto!

Who is he?

Yeppers....one hitter quitter! And he's not a real minister 🙄

kyshac81 this dude talking on the video is a simp pandering to you’ll women and making money from you’ll another wannabe Walmart brand Derrick Jaxn 🤡 unlike Kevin Samuels who tells women what they need to hear big differences that’s why he is succeeded unlike this dude talking on the video 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

kyshac81 now do I agree with everything Kevin Samuels says hell no but he speaks truth most of the time 💯

@@TheBarloboat rip to Kevin Samuels you sound hurt ma’am even through death Kevin Samuels got you’ll women shook and all in you’ll feelings too I’m loving it too truth hurts it’s ok sweetie 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💯

Darrell Fambro I agree but however if a man is putting a female needs first before his is a simp and yes is men need to lead facts now these Walmart brand Derrick Jaxn talking on the video made some valid points but most of his points is just simping and pandering and the guy he is talking about is Minister Jap a KZfaqr who speaks truth even though he is wreckless with his words but yes us men must stop blaming women for everything but at the same time women need to learn how to be submissive to there man husband feminine fit and in shape period facts 💯

The Fabulous Unorthodox • of course you’ll women do you’ll like men like this Walmart brand Derrick Jaxn who is a simp and panders to you’ll and tells you’ll what you want to hear unlike Kevin Samuels who tells you’ll women what you need to hear big differences now do I agree with everything Kevin Samuels says hell no but he speaks truth most of the time 💯

It's possible to both question and uphold morality.learn in our spiritual lives. There are entire religions based on holding God responsible and asking for explanations, particularly the one Jesus himself practiced. That right there let's you know God expects us to question everybody and everything when it comes to doing what's right. Jesus himself was revolutionary because he overturned a lot of things in the old testament that were questionable. God expects us to be revolutionary and be able to think for ourselves..he gave us that ability or at the least the ability to learn.

@@superodalisque I don’t think that was the purpose of the song or my comment. Of course we are supposed to think critically. But it is easier to criticize God than to stand by him in today’s global culture. And it is easier to put God down for what we don’t understand than to abide in Him even when we do not want to.

@@Mrg524 our choices aren't God's responsibility. He gave us free will. Every time repercussions come up a lot of people want to talk about God..Our bs is ours. We created that. I just think linking it that way has allowed a lot of people to shift responsibility away from themselves. I don't think we're in disagreement.

Amen! You definitely have to own up to YOUR actions. God gave us full freedom to do good or evil. He doesn’t force us at all. And alot of times the tragedies that we see are a result of sin.

He musta been a bla- …… Nevermind

@@deenadream Made from the Lord's best dirt, so YES, you're right!

Seems like Eve is the leader then

Moor Living In Self Love • it is refreshing to have a man simping and pandering to you’ll women telling you’ll what you want to hear right that’s why you’ll like him 🤣🤣🤣 this Walmart brand Derrick Jaxn wannabe is on a come up to make money out of you’ll unlike Kevin Samuels who tells you’ll women what you need to hear big differences that’s why Kevin Samuels is successful unlike this dude talking on the video is not successful now do I agree with everything Kevin Samuels says hell no but he speaks truth most of the time 💯

@@jerrellsmith6867 ok dear.

Honestly I’m at the point where I don’t want any kids and I’m glad I don’t have any . I use to hold men on this high pedestal and use to want a legacy aswell but men as a collective have proved to us that they aren’t worthy with the amount/rates they hurt/kill women & chldren

I'm not even religious but I agree. Spirituality can be an important part of being a decent moral and constructive person. Anything a person can do it use to improve themselves is completely valuable. Keep moving in the spirit of what is right.

Shumake is better than many men of any color.

@@klnj9714 🤨🧐 shumake is a married man. And what does he have to do with the original comment? I hope you ain't one of them ho*s DMing him nudes, trying to disrupt his marriage!

@@hellohey000 😂

@@klnj9714 seek help. You need it

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misskris117 • of course because this clown 🤡 another wannabe Walmart brand Derrick Jaxn who is simping and pandering to you’ll women and telling you’ll what you want to hear that’s why you’ll like him unlike Kevin Samuels who tells you’ll what you need to hear big differences that’s why Kevin Samuels is successful unlike this dude talking on the video now do I agree with everything Kevin Samuels says hell no but he speaks truth most of the time 💯

@@jerrellsmith6867 I would love to respond but the majority of your statement didn’t make sense. Try using punctuation and grammar and maybe then we can discuss. What the hell is “you’ll women”?? 🙄

@@jerrellsmith6867 also, did you even watch/listen to the video and what he actually said before writing all that “simp, pander” mess? Pretty sure you didn’t. You just saw a BM saying BW are not the cause of everything wrong in the BC and you automatically scream “SIMP”!! You realized this bm doesn’t hate BW and that caused you instant outrage. Pathetic.

@@misskris117 you do realized men can talk about women about how they feel doesn’t necessarily means that hate women you do know that right and vice versa too Kevin Samuels is arrogant and I disagree with some things he says like telling black women it should take them only 3months for them to get marry which is b’s and I will say more like a year and telling women they have to be no older then 21 to get marry which is crap I will say more like 25 to 30 is the right appropriate age facts 💯

DeBora M Ricks you’ll like these wannabe Walmart brand Derrick Jaxn because he is simping and panders to you’ll women and tells you’ll what you want to hear unlike Kevin Samuels who tells you’ll what you need to hear big differences now do I agree with everything Kevin Samuels says hell no but I do agree with most of the things he says though 💯

Demi Adams it’s a deep hate in our black community between black men and black women gender war it’s sad too that’s the society we living in today 💯

@@jerrellsmith6867 just 😢sad

Thank you for your support

Lisa Cook of course you’ll women appreciate because this Walmart brand Derrick Jaxn who is simping and pandering to you’ll women to make money out of you’ll that’s why you’ll like him unlike Kevin Samuels who tells women what they need to hear big differences that’s why Kevin Samuels is successful unlike this dude talking on the video now do I agree with everything Kevin Samuels says hell no but he speaks truth most of the time 💯

@@jerrellsmith6867 I know a man that has a new Rolls Royce in his garage and barely has $100,000 to his name and I also know a man that drives an old Chevy truck that has a real estate portfolio that’s worth a little over $2,000,000. My question is what does success look like? Secondly I’m not pimpin women on KZfaq, but KS sure is pimpin soft, butt hurt men on KZfaq. I hope you ain’t one of them.

I would disagree! Its real out here in these streets. I use to feel safe around black men. But not anymore.

True I feel safer around any group of men that is not black and I never felt this way before. The animosity towards BW from BM is intense they hate us for existing

@@vizeas They're deflecting their self- hate onto black women because black women are usually their most accessible target. And they're least likely to suffer any consequences if they victimize black women.

@@thaflygirl1 girl I thought I was the only one that didn't feel safe around black men. They the ones that brought trauma to my life. I'm good on them

Except they're grown men not children we brought into the world not by their choice. Grown black men have a whole lot of choices. It's doing responsible decent men a disservice by treating them like children. One thing some black women are responsible for, however, is helping to lower standards. That's disrespectful to black men to act like they can't meet them.

Kecia M • it’s only refreshing because he is simping and pandering to you’ll women and telling you’ll what you want to hear that’s why you’ll love him this Walmart brand Derrick Jaxn is trying to make money out of you’ll women Kevin Samuels tells women what they need to hear big differences that’s why Kevin Samuels is successful unlike this dude talking on the video is not successful now do I agree with everything Kevin Samuels says hell no but he speaks truth most of the time 💯

MsModeration • I’m sure you’ll like this wannabe Walmart brand Derrick Jaxn who is simping and pandering to you’ll women telling you’ll what you want to hear that’s why you’ll like him unlike Kevin Samuels who tells you’ll women what you need to hear big differences that’s why Kevin Samuels is successful unlike this dude talking on the video now do I agree with everything Kevin Samuels hell no but he speaks truth most of the time 💯