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@zhurizhay36472 жыл бұрын
I'm beginning to wonder if somewhere inside of them, BM prefer having a community of unprotected, vulnerable women and children at their disposal, for their own degenerate, predatorial pursuits.
@tammybanderes34042 жыл бұрын
And whoever you are! YOU ARE FUCKING CORRECT 🤷🏾♀️
@tammybanderes34042 жыл бұрын
Your 2nd sub 🥳
@mpoemp47032 жыл бұрын
You betta preach
@naturalwalker54072 жыл бұрын
Oh u know birth control is a must FR! abortion is not as bad as single parenting esp when society don't cut cheques for your colour! Education never changes colour..
@fivefiveqt2142 жыл бұрын
🎯
@alexgriffin17262 жыл бұрын
As men it's our job to lead. We need to stop blaming everything on women. It's mostly on us MEN to fix our issues as a community, not sit on our ass pointing the finger at women.
@superodalisque2 жыл бұрын
Men don't necessarily have to lead if they don't want to but if they insist on the perks of leadership they seriously need to meet the criteria.
@s.d.ministries2 жыл бұрын
💯
@fivefiveqt2142 жыл бұрын
@@Jasminesunflower1 that part
@zenobiawebb13892 жыл бұрын
🙏 🥰
@proudblackwoman48242 жыл бұрын
Thank you for acknowledging this. It is very appreciated.
@amandawright75332 жыл бұрын
It seems so rare these days to see a black man who actually practices accountability. It's truly refreshing.
@jtt19282 жыл бұрын
We are out here ✌🏾
@klnj97142 жыл бұрын
@@jtt1928 💚
@superodalisque2 жыл бұрын
@@jtt1928 It's time for y'all to be more vocal before it's too late.
@ade-oluwaspov2062 жыл бұрын
Oh they are up and about doing GOD's will. They just prefer to be anonymous. The reason the negative voices are so loud, is because the empty barrels make the loudest noise.
@darkfemme49142 жыл бұрын
@@ade-oluwaspov206 Why do they prefer to stay anonymous and not be as loud and passionate about loving black women and countering the rhetoric? I'll tell you why, because they are not motivated enough to care about black women and they care more about the opinions of other black men. It's the same reason why they nest in their subjugation and why we have to make a hashtag begging for them to protect us. If they don't do something now, my generation will Divest and the community numbers will drop.
@vanaphill24542 жыл бұрын
Also stop blaming black mothers for how their sons turn out? Where was daddy while mama was struggling with her sons?
@ebonynerd2 жыл бұрын
50\50 she picked the man, she deserves some of the blame too for how the child turns out...teach your sons to love all things ⚫ and stop believing lies ⚪ people tell about ⚫ people
@shellylen2 жыл бұрын
@@ebonynerd why would you assume that mother's don't do that. Mother's must contend with a derelict community pathology being pushed more and more towards nothing that is positive for women. How about men being quality of character and integrity to raise their own sons. At least the mothers did not leave, but hung in there to do the best they could do.
@ebonynerd2 жыл бұрын
@@shellylen I agree with you because of how their daughters turn out but ⚫ moms share some blame too...1st not valuing yourself as wives 1st before having kids and you and their father building a family structure 1st before the kids are born...our community need to start with a family structure 1st before having kids
@shellylen2 жыл бұрын
@@ebonynerd I agree, and in an ideal world that's exactly how it would be. But as humans we fall and mistakes..When a mistakes is made you must adapt and figure out the best way to continue. Interesting that people still feel comfortable blaming the person that tried do the right thing after the mistake is made. Let's not forget to make the person who stayed and made all the sacrifices feel just as bad as the person who didn't.
@ebonynerd2 жыл бұрын
@@shellylen no, don't get it twisted, I feel like ⚫ moms should get the ultimate respect because if it wasn't for them where would our community be because most of the men walked out...all I'm saying is that the women have some responsibility too, not all, but they do have some
@Camille4Real2 жыл бұрын
@9:00 to 9:35 TRUTH! Dudes love to say "choose better". The minute we are with a decent guy, jealous dudes will pop up and ridicule him. People don't even understand that the DEFINITION of a simp is to "give your all" for someone who is NOT interested in them and they don't receive that love in return. How is a man "simping" if his woman is returning that same love and gratitude back to him?
@mmxw22942 жыл бұрын
That’s goes to show you the extreme toxicity and dysfnction in this communty pure abus but it’s up to us to depart from any situation where Love is not part of it don’t get caught up in the flesh or the optics I’m positive there’s millions of men out there that are grateful for their wives and the men calling them simp live a empty life with women they have to lie to deceive or 💰 pay
@alexgriffin17262 жыл бұрын
It's funny when dudes sit in their high horse and say that. Like we don't need to choose better as men. I know I absolutely should have chosen better. I've made huge mistakes that I've had to pay for dearly.
@gorgeousley192 жыл бұрын
“STRONG MEN DO WHAT’S HARD.” -The Shumake Way ✊🏾
@lolitacunningham75687 ай бұрын
Amen!!!!
@TNGURL082 жыл бұрын
My Daddy used to say when he was alive, "when he was living for the Lord, everything he touched turned to gold."
@klnj97142 жыл бұрын
🙏
@bajandougiejoe33452 жыл бұрын
Facts, we gotta start taking responsibility and holding ourselves accountable for our actions instead of blaming the sisters
@lolitacunningham75687 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤thanks
@yourgo86362 жыл бұрын
It is so refreshing to see this content, since taking accountability for my actions, I no longer feel powerless, I no longer feel like a slave to my situations, and since restoring my relationship with God, not only do I feel better about myself, but my positive thoughts are now becoming my reality. I will say this again, there is power in forgiveness and accountability.
@FeminineVibez2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful comment
@so.many.obstacles2 жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@lovebug63882 жыл бұрын
I have found that men with your mindset fare better in all areas of life. And when difficult times hit it's not whoa is me but how can I flip this to my advantage. Appreciate you sir, salute!
@iamanewcre8tion2502 жыл бұрын
I am so proud of you, good job and I wish you all the best!!
@superodalisque2 жыл бұрын
Men who absorb the truth already have the necessary honor dignity and self respect that won't allow them to fail and be at the bottom of all men. They have character. The difference is there are some grown boys who will never be men because they don't have any personal pride and their character is trash. When people tell you the truth it's out of respect. Mammies will lie. They don't want respect the men they're with. They're self interested. They're looking for a partner in codependency, dv and mental abuse. Any man will do. But it's up to the man with character to choose the hard work of perfecting himself. Women have nothing to do with that. Never did.
@gibememoni2 жыл бұрын
Growing up in the 90's and early 2000's I rarely saw a black woman with a white man, now I see it every day.
@superodalisque2 жыл бұрын
Yep. They have always recognized a good thing. I studied history in graduate school. If it wasn't for masagenation laws this would be a completely black country. It is anyway in every way on the downlow. There's no important family here that looks white that hasn't had black family members including the Kennedys and the Vanderbilts, plus most of golden age Hollywood. As black women we even were forced to cover our hair by law. Racists said it was because our hair was ugly but that couldn't be further from the truth. It wàs extraordinarily attractive to the point that white looking women with the afro trait in Europe were pretty much deified. Look up vintage photos of Circassian women. They saw us close up during slavery. They saw our character and intelligence. And they still respect us because we as black women are not afraid to take responsibility. White men also respect us because no amount of money would compel the vast majority of us to choose our oppressor over our own men. I'm not downing people in interracial relationships. But white men feel they're really doing something when they are able to be with the average black woman. Maybe if we were a bit choosier like that with some of our own men, especially in the US they might get the memo. We don't have to go white. 90% of the world are POC. We have choices. I can't even explain the level of respect I get as an African American when I go to Europe. Unfortunately Africans get treated like dirt and we have to stand up for our brothers and sisters there.
@fizzychizzy2 жыл бұрын
And it’s gonna increase. These incel communities are just producing more men that Black women will not collectively tolerate. And as they become more educated and are exposed to different groups where there are few Black men at that level, they are gonna date what is around them. The image of Black women is changing whether the manosphere wants to believe it or not. I encourage people to go outside, touch grass, and find out.
@palmtreemrs2 жыл бұрын
Yes and I am one of them. We went Christmas shopping together and the stares were obvious because I used to only date and be married to black men.
@superodalisque2 жыл бұрын
@@palmtreemrs like was said before on this man's posts, they better get the memo. Women who saw the bitch and ho era in the 80s and 90s are grown mothers and grandmothers now looking to protect our girls too. We're still waiting for an apology from people who influenced all of us when we and they were too young to know any better. The entire rap genre was mainly positive early on and uplifting but changed to something destructive. It was once family oriented, female and family positive, educational and highly political. When the music industry saw it they took aim. Some of our black men were quick to sell us all out for personal financial gains.
@dre84632 жыл бұрын
@@superodalisque I suppose Lil Kim, Foxy Brown, Nikki Minaj didn't sell out either? We had Lauryn Hill, MC Lyte and Queen Latifah to that? The whole rap genre got hijacked.
@tid85832 жыл бұрын
This man has more years of a successful marriage than KS. Yet, KS has more followers. It tells us the Society that we live in. Most don't use critical thinking.
@thatimokoena83572 жыл бұрын
Very true
@diva4life3612 жыл бұрын
Exactly. The only attention that dude gets from me is the time it takes me to scroll past his video.
@budzieC2 жыл бұрын
kevin samuels is not even married hes a snakeoil salesman he has none of the things he tries to sell other men
@mushmouth6102 жыл бұрын
Facts.
2 жыл бұрын
@@budzieC exactly including not being heterosexual
@superodalisque2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for protecting and loving black women. You are worthy to be treated like a man who is capable of leadership in your family.
@klnj97142 жыл бұрын
In the black community at large.
@meloneyrose202 жыл бұрын
Amen🙌🏽
@janayserrano2 жыл бұрын
Yes. Women only submit to men who are worthy of submission. I wouldn’t be surprised if his future wife feels comfortable enough to rest in her femininity 💅🏾 ✨
@rockfresh53592 жыл бұрын
@@janayserrano men don't owe u protection neither you have to be worthy of us bm risking our life
@superodalisque2 жыл бұрын
@@rockfresh5359 That's why we're protecting ourselves but y'all have a problem with that too. Evidently some of y'all have already stamped us as unworthy without knowing us. No sweat. Sisters will keep doing what they have to and branching out. It's interesting because some of you said you'd be acting better with white or asian women but the results are much worse. Who is the common denominator. And, why are black women doing better outside of their race. If black women didn't really love you and were more results driven they wouldn't even be encouraging this honest conversation and trying to help. We have held back on telling the truth for a long time because we didn't want to hurt you. Black women actually improve our spouse's outcomes even though we are paid lessand are more educated than everyone else including black men. . Black men do not affect their spouses in the same way. And unfortunately those nice White and Asian women are also learning about the common practice of financial abuse of black women close up. They're also learning about paternal desertion. Statistically speaking it's time to finally cop to not living up to rhetoric or potential since a good number of black.men have no improvement in performance no matter who they are with -- except ironically with black women. We attract black men who are not trying to skirt their responsibilities. We attract other men who appreciate our loyalty and devotion because many of us are not transactional at all. If we were we wouldn't be with black men who are statistically last in just about every arena right now. That's some real talk.
@TheGiftOfGab12 жыл бұрын
"They are steering us in the wrong direction", that part. Our men are supposed to lead but they allow others to lead them and their community because it's less pressure. A lot of men nowadays don't want the responsibility of being a Man of God, doing what's right. Its easier to do wrong.
@mmxw22942 жыл бұрын
Self sabotage they don’t seem aware that everything we do here we pay here and they think showing a women love is a crim but they want women to love them and be submissive it’s pure delusion and fiction and they’ll find out sooner or later in life
@TheGiftOfGab12 жыл бұрын
@@mmxw2294 Delusion for sure and I was literally thinking the same thing, they are in for a rude awakening .
@klnj97142 жыл бұрын
I would say I'm worried they're gonna come for you, but you never cower to any man which is part of what I love about you.
@TheShumakeWay2 жыл бұрын
God got me. I’ll be ok.
@klnj97142 жыл бұрын
@@TheShumakeWay 🙏 Yes He does, and yes you will.
@superodalisque2 жыл бұрын
@@klnj9714 Yep. He definitely needs to be careful. Some man actually had someone he though wà me tires slashed for saying the same thing online as a warning. He only stopped because I'm tech savvy and and I also have a relative with homeland security. I let him know in no uncertain terms that I would feel no guilt at all about sending him to prison. I had plenty of evidence.
@ade-oluwaspov2062 жыл бұрын
@@TheShumakeWay Amen!
@fivefiveqt2142 жыл бұрын
No need to cower to man when God got your back sis
@LoriJSykes2 жыл бұрын
The world is a safer place for black women because of brave, masculine men like you! Thank you, brother! Best wishes to your lovely wife and family! 💚
@rockinrobin46812 жыл бұрын
A lot of men run around doing so many women dirty and then when it happens to them, they cry foul and claim that all women are disloyal. They fail to make the connection and realize that they are reaping what they have sown. Then they turn around and use that one experience of heartbreak as an excuse to disrespect and play even more women.
@Kmama8012 жыл бұрын
I’ve seen comments justifying beating a woman because she seemed to be cheating. I was truly shocked that beating a person could be justified. Every week women are being murdered by men, but yet this is NEVER mentioned. When women defend themselves they are hated for that…I really don’t think those channels care that they are perpetuating this toxicity and violence. I’ve turned all of them off. I pray for our community 🙏🏾 you’re one light in all of the darkness
@AllThingsShaunda2 жыл бұрын
It’s because there is no real push back. You are right no one fights for BW online because no one will come to our defense. If you say some thing bad about A single Black man the entirety of the internet will come for you. But say something about an entire group of women (specifically BW) people like comment and subscribe in astronomical numbers.
@klnj97142 жыл бұрын
I agree
@AR-ho2pf2 жыл бұрын
I bet you are a single mom 😂
@AllThingsShaunda2 жыл бұрын
@@AR-ho2pf nope. Married for twenty years
@AR-ho2pf2 жыл бұрын
@@AllThingsShaunda wow. But does it mean anything?
@AllThingsShaunda2 жыл бұрын
@@AR-ho2pf not if you don’t value marriage and legacy.
@deleshiadavis43262 жыл бұрын
It sucks that this man doesn’t have a million followers! The platforms that are trying to come up with solutions for our community get the less traffic. I’m sick of this mess and I hate to say that I have distanced myself from it, in it’s entirety. 🤦🏽♀️
@truthbearer78912 жыл бұрын
The Bible says wide is the way, narrow is the gate. Most people in this world are going to the path of least resistance which is the path towards an unrighteous life.
@charchartime17012 жыл бұрын
Yeah but look at old nasty mouth kevin samuels telling the so call men n telling men to date. in other countries especially them darn latins 🙄 he has a million followers not a GOD fearing man
@jerrellsmith68672 жыл бұрын
Deleshia Davis that’s because this guy talking on the video is a wannabe Walmart brand Derrick Jaxn who is pandering to women like Derrick Jaxn and Steve Harvey and trying scam women I see right through this clown 🤡 Kevin Samuels is successful because he doesn’t pandering to you’ll women he tells you’ll women what you need to hear period that’s why he is successful unlike this dude in the video that’s why lmfao 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@jerrellsmith68672 жыл бұрын
@Breana Rose that’s because Kevin Samuels don’t pander to women like this clown 🤡 talking on the video another wannabe Walmart brand version of Derrick Jaxn I see right through this dude that’s why he want never be successful like Kevin Samuels because he tells women what they need to hear big differences now do I agree with everything Kevin Samuels says no I don’t but he speaks trust most of the time 💯
@jerrellsmith68672 жыл бұрын
@@charchartime1701 truth hurts it’s ok sweetie you’ll women like men who panders to you’ll like this clown 🤡 on the video another wannabe Walmart brand Derrick Jaxn making money of you’ll women I digress lmfao 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@TNGURL082 жыл бұрын
A man of integrity. Yes! I hate the backward standards that are in existence. You are laying down the law! Such a great message in this video!
@Dreama682 жыл бұрын
I know that's right. These folks love putting God in they mess of demonic behaviors. Talking about they blessed... 😒 I just be smh.
@superodalisque2 жыл бұрын
That's why the churches are emptier. Black people still go to church more than everybody else but that kind of thing is repelling young people. They talk like really old abusive hateful and gossipy ignorant old folk in today's modern world.
@shellylen2 жыл бұрын
In my alone time I was just asking God about this gender war in the black community. Then I saw this video and Tony Gaskins video. I was starting to think that God was not paying attention to the cries coming from black folks, and more specifically, since I'm a woman with daughter's, from black women.
@misst30162 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness! I've been talking to God about the same thing! It is upsetting.
@RobertaS1272 жыл бұрын
He's always paying attention. Remember, He may not come when you want Him, but He's always right on time. "To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven." --Ecclesiastes 3:1
@Girlintheewild2 жыл бұрын
It’s been on my mind tough too. I’ve been praying but I believe it’s because of we are out of alignment of God’s Will. Read the book of Deuteronomy about the blessings and curses. I’m not an Israelite Hebrew believer (christian) but I’m not gonna lie black people of all continents match those curses. I do believe God will bless and show favor once His children are back in alignment.
@adaiyah-zerahbahtyahudah78602 жыл бұрын
We refuse to return to HIM. Why should he respond to our cries. He said: ' I put before you life and death. Choose life.' We have choosen death based on our walk. You shouldnt be surprised.
@taurahelms30682 жыл бұрын
Content should be balanced. I honestly believe that some people are controversial to get attention from people who want to stay angry.
@khem1272 жыл бұрын
yes, but it's not helping the community.
@gayleendream50732 жыл бұрын
I so very much appreciate you, Michael, for stepping up and doing what you do for our community. You will always have my respect.
@justme12692 жыл бұрын
I am so glad another stand up man called this out.
@vmystery12 жыл бұрын
The STRONG men who care about their communities should ban together to create their own channel where they challenge each other, hold each other accountable and discourage the flawed behavior that is negatively impacting the communities. You can't judge ALL BW/BM for the actions of a few. There are many phenomenal BW and BM who are doing the right thing all day, everyday but you never hear about it. People spend TOO much time following flawed behavior, being DISPARAGING, listening to negative rhetoric, sharing displaced anger at the wrong ones, disrespectful and acting like they are not part of the problem. Be CAREFUL of the messages YOU are teaching your children. It is a cold and cruel world out there, don't set your children up for failure. It starts with every BM/BW being better to each other, not just other races, each other. IF everyone wants to have better, then you have to do BETTER! It starts with each and everyone of US sharing kind words and actions with each other.
@Th3lite2 жыл бұрын
It’s past that. It’s a lot of women bashing going on that’s why he made this video, that’s why Tony Gaskin and the Honest Truth exist because it’s imbalanced. More men needs to stand up. I don’t meet “a lot of good men” I know three and they in my family, one is my brother and that’s because he had a good father. I don’t wear rose-colored glasses. This video is needed.
@vmystery12 жыл бұрын
@@Th3lite Yes, the bashing is going on, which is unfortunate. Malcolm X had talked about how BW are not respected and taken care of. This type of behavior and communication has continued for more 20 years. You can't be surprised when the women retaliate. Not saying its right, but think about it. MEN and WOMEN have got to STOP this, the behavior is DESTROYING the communities and our youth. KIDS don't do what you SAY they do what they SEE! We have GOT to do Better!
@Dizzeeyout2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for posting this, I went and watched the video and it honestly brought me to tears that men can speak that way about women. I pray God can heal us.
@Lovepeaceandgrease2 жыл бұрын
Who is he talking about?
@shellylen2 жыл бұрын
It brings me to tears when I think of my girls.
@TheShumakeWay2 жыл бұрын
Don’t give him any more publicity than he already has. Just know he ain’t good for the community and he’s spewing venom all over our women. Every view he gets is causing his message to spread and we don’t want that.
@Lovepeaceandgrease2 жыл бұрын
@@TheShumakeWay ok I'm nosy but you're right
@ade-oluwaspov2062 жыл бұрын
@@TheShumakeWay 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
@endlessbeauty83512 жыл бұрын
Exactly why I keep to myself and have never got on my back for NO ONE EVER and kept silent towards some of these black guys. Every time he comes my way I let him know I don't date neither am I looking for friends. Now I know for a fact I can't be a problem and the blame for anything if I am quiet and reserved.
@sweettee0519882 жыл бұрын
They can also find an issue with that. Say you think you're too good or stuck up or whatever else their psychotic mind comes up with. Ppl will ALWAYS find an issue no matter what someone does. It's just up to that other person to not care what anybody says or think and keep it moving
@endlessbeauty83512 жыл бұрын
That's what I do keep it moving and mind my business and I can careless what they think because I don't want them. It was two guys today at different moments trying to talk to me when they realized I'm not interested they had a puzzled look on their face as if they don't understand why I don't want them 🤣 it was very satisfying
@sweettee0519882 жыл бұрын
🤣 ikr. One dude CLEARLY saw a ring on my finger and asked was I married 🙄🙄🙄
@endlessbeauty83512 жыл бұрын
@@sweettee051988 🤣and that's another thing they can't take a hint
@HealingMariah2 жыл бұрын
Ditto!
@yoki17772 жыл бұрын
💯💯🙏🏽This was so wonderful to listen to!! It warmed my spirit to hear you tell the truth & not just what gets more views!!! I know the Lord is pleased!!! Brother, please continue making content like this!! We need this in the world!!! 💭👍🏽 thank you!!
@kyshac812 жыл бұрын
That dude who you’re talking about actually got knock out by another man. It was recorded. He talks so bad about black women, but he was seen in a hotel with an overweight white woman.
@kimberlyturner8202 жыл бұрын
Who is he?
@lovebug63882 жыл бұрын
Yeppers....one hitter quitter! And he's not a real minister 🙄
@jerrellsmith68672 жыл бұрын
kyshac81 this dude talking on the video is a simp pandering to you’ll women and making money from you’ll another wannabe Walmart brand Derrick Jaxn 🤡 unlike Kevin Samuels who tells women what they need to hear big differences that’s why he is succeeded unlike this dude talking on the video 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@jerrellsmith68672 жыл бұрын
kyshac81 now do I agree with everything Kevin Samuels says hell no but he speaks truth most of the time 💯
@jerrellsmith68672 жыл бұрын
@@TheBarloboat rip to Kevin Samuels you sound hurt ma’am even through death Kevin Samuels got you’ll women shook and all in you’ll feelings too I’m loving it too truth hurts it’s ok sweetie 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💯
@7speakz1peace2 жыл бұрын
Yes Shumake. The blame is us, but the order is out of order. Single mothers are not made by a woman.
@iamnunya70742 жыл бұрын
People like KS and Oh shayduke Tommy etc. They never tell thier fans how to be better people, just about how to rate other people. It is sickening then scream accountability YT should shut them down
@darrellfambro29862 жыл бұрын
Agreed its starts with us if we don't take accountability why ask the women to do it,if you say this to black men they call u a simp or beta
@jerrellsmith68672 жыл бұрын
Darrell Fambro I agree but however if a man is putting a female needs first before his is a simp and yes is men need to lead facts now these Walmart brand Derrick Jaxn talking on the video made some valid points but most of his points is just simping and pandering and the guy he is talking about is Minister Jap a KZfaqr who speaks truth even though he is wreckless with his words but yes us men must stop blaming women for everything but at the same time women need to learn how to be submissive to there man husband feminine fit and in shape period facts 💯
@tracishirley882 жыл бұрын
Wow👏 . Nothing but the TRUTH!!. This needs to be broadcasted on TV across the World ❤
@sandrinesaintjuste39192 жыл бұрын
Thank God!! Finally a man can relate to the guilt. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
@theoracle00752 жыл бұрын
👸🏾🔥💃🏽 Again my brother, bless the womb that gave birth to you and the one that receives you! Bless you for your accountability!
@queenbluejaye14362 жыл бұрын
I applauded you I sent this to a man who needs to hear it. I shared it to my page praying the ones who need to hear it hear it. Strong women take accountability too such as myself. I heard a lot of my values in this message. As an adoptive mother of three teenage boys who have no father in their lives, I play these messages by positive black men that reinforce the lessons I am and have instilled in them ever since they were able to comprehend . Keep up the good work. I myself had a similar path and I heard a lot of myself in your words. When you apply the lessons the blessings will come.
@gorgeousley192 жыл бұрын
Thank you much I appreciate you For actually being a man of honor. True honor. Those other guys are violating women left to right and they are proud to do that to women, it’s so disgusting discouraging and sickening. Those guys are horrible.
@glenbutler96112 жыл бұрын
All I can say to you brotha is to keep walking in God's truth! So glad you're willing to admit your failures and take accountability for not living in them. I'm a 61-year-old and one of your staunch followers.. every opportunity I get I pass your messages on to nieces who have been misguided and need redirection.. praying your strength brother ✝️🙏🏾
@TheFabulousUnorthodox2 жыл бұрын
We need more men like you in the community! Thank you 🙏🏾 💎🤎
@jerrellsmith68672 жыл бұрын
The Fabulous Unorthodox • of course you’ll women do you’ll like men like this Walmart brand Derrick Jaxn who is a simp and panders to you’ll and tells you’ll what you want to hear unlike Kevin Samuels who tells you’ll women what you need to hear big differences now do I agree with everything Kevin Samuels says hell no but he speaks truth most of the time 💯
@Visionary9212 жыл бұрын
Rather you like it or not you are a preacher 😂 THANK GOD FOR YOU💯
@Mrg5242 жыл бұрын
It is hard to be about God. I was listening to a song by Bizzle that talked about it being much easier to critique God than to uphold him in this world. So true! But I’m all for God 😇 🙌🏾
@superodalisque2 жыл бұрын
It's possible to both question and uphold morality.learn in our spiritual lives. There are entire religions based on holding God responsible and asking for explanations, particularly the one Jesus himself practiced. That right there let's you know God expects us to question everybody and everything when it comes to doing what's right. Jesus himself was revolutionary because he overturned a lot of things in the old testament that were questionable. God expects us to be revolutionary and be able to think for ourselves..he gave us that ability or at the least the ability to learn.
@Mrg5242 жыл бұрын
@@superodalisque I don’t think that was the purpose of the song or my comment. Of course we are supposed to think critically. But it is easier to criticize God than to stand by him in today’s global culture. And it is easier to put God down for what we don’t understand than to abide in Him even when we do not want to.
@superodalisque2 жыл бұрын
@@Mrg524 our choices aren't God's responsibility. He gave us free will. Every time repercussions come up a lot of people want to talk about God..Our bs is ours. We created that. I just think linking it that way has allowed a lot of people to shift responsibility away from themselves. I don't think we're in disagreement.
@Girlintheewild2 жыл бұрын
Amen! You definitely have to own up to YOUR actions. God gave us full freedom to do good or evil. He doesn’t force us at all. And alot of times the tragedies that we see are a result of sin.
@rhondae82222 жыл бұрын
Because of the false teachings and corruption within most churches, I no longer attend church; nonetheless, I do read my Bible and pray. I love God, the Lord Jesus Christ. Come, quickly, Lord Jesus and Praise God 🙂
@starquality57742 жыл бұрын
Like you said, it's all for show, they don't really care. When it's from the heart, it will be a sense of accountability. You protect what you care about.
@PapayaPepper2022 жыл бұрын
When God asked Adam why he ate the fruit too, he blamed Eve.
@deenadream2 жыл бұрын
He musta been a bla- …… Nevermind
@hymnodyhands2 жыл бұрын
@@deenadream Made from the Lord's best dirt, so YES, you're right!
@hazeleyes7225 Жыл бұрын
Seems like Eve is the leader then
@endlessbeauty83512 жыл бұрын
I keep it moving and mind my business and I can careless what they think because I don't want them. It was two guys today at different moments trying to talk to me when they realized I'm not interested they had a puzzled look on their face as if they don't understand why I don't want them 🤣 it was very satisfying
@fivefiveqt2142 жыл бұрын
Wow. I’ve been watching your videos off and on for awhile now, and I love them, but this is the first one that resonated with my soul. Not to say the others didn’t have good messages, it’s just that I felt God speaking to me in this one. So glad you are using your platform to hold BM accountable and to truly try to help the blk community heal and grow by focusing on not just women but the men first.
@moorlivingholistic2 жыл бұрын
😱😱😱 wow a man that doesn’t blame women, so refreshing 🥰
@jerrellsmith68672 жыл бұрын
Moor Living In Self Love • it is refreshing to have a man simping and pandering to you’ll women telling you’ll what you want to hear right that’s why you’ll like him 🤣🤣🤣 this Walmart brand Derrick Jaxn wannabe is on a come up to make money out of you’ll unlike Kevin Samuels who tells you’ll women what you need to hear big differences that’s why Kevin Samuels is successful unlike this dude talking on the video is not successful now do I agree with everything Kevin Samuels says hell no but he speaks truth most of the time 💯
@moorlivingholistic2 жыл бұрын
@@jerrellsmith6867 ok dear.
@darrellfambro29862 жыл бұрын
Great point ,Strong Men take responsibility and take Action
@notorioushebrew47932 жыл бұрын
You are a breath of fresh air. APTTMH YAH! Stay blessed young brother .🙏
@detrawright45072 жыл бұрын
As a woman I don't know rather to be glad or regret not having kids at this moment. I'm glad cause my goal of not having n idiot for a bd, but also hurt cause I wish for a legacy. Some men hit us with the "you can go to the Dr and take care of that", but then turn and say "you're a baby killer" if you go through with it. So either way we're done as women cause nothing we do will be excepted...SMH it's sadd.
@jasminexxx39112 жыл бұрын
Honestly I’m at the point where I don’t want any kids and I’m glad I don’t have any . I use to hold men on this high pedestal and use to want a legacy aswell but men as a collective have proved to us that they aren’t worthy with the amount/rates they hurt/kill women & chldren
@pinkymcd46842 жыл бұрын
Keep doing what you're doing man. God will keep you safe 🙏🏾
@casander1002 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🏾 you’re 1000% OnPoint and whoever the message is for they will receive it but you keep spreading the truth and telling God’s truth.
@superodalisque2 жыл бұрын
I'm not even religious but I agree. Spirituality can be an important part of being a decent moral and constructive person. Anything a person can do it use to improve themselves is completely valuable. Keep moving in the spirit of what is right.
@jamasian2 жыл бұрын
That's a point to write up in a book we should teach our children. Sometimes we entertain those doing wrong so much, those people cannot imagine a life of doing right.
@pratkier Жыл бұрын
Best quote of the day "You don't care about the community if you're trying to tear us apart."
@fiona14072 жыл бұрын
Black men need to stop blaming women and do their inner work.
@AJD72332 жыл бұрын
I have no words. Everything you say is just so wise. You are a wise young man. May God bless you more in your beautiful life you are living. ❤️. And the thing is, all these men talking trash about black women will eventually be really sad in the end. And that is already happening while us black women are moving on big time. They will be mad till death and thats just sad. Accountability is everything in our community that we need to sharpen up!!
@gibememoni2 жыл бұрын
Black women seem happier with white men
@klnj97142 жыл бұрын
Shumake is better than many men of any color.
@hellohey0002 жыл бұрын
@@klnj9714 🤨🧐 shumake is a married man. And what does he have to do with the original comment? I hope you ain't one of them ho*s DMing him nudes, trying to disrupt his marriage!
@klnj97142 жыл бұрын
@@hellohey000 😂
@hellohey0002 жыл бұрын
@@klnj9714 seek help. You need it
@klnj97142 жыл бұрын
@@hellohey000 😂
@jtt19282 жыл бұрын
Very refreshing message!
@misskris1172 жыл бұрын
Wish I could like this video ten times! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@jerrellsmith68672 жыл бұрын
misskris117 • of course because this clown 🤡 another wannabe Walmart brand Derrick Jaxn who is simping and pandering to you’ll women and telling you’ll what you want to hear that’s why you’ll like him unlike Kevin Samuels who tells you’ll what you need to hear big differences that’s why Kevin Samuels is successful unlike this dude talking on the video now do I agree with everything Kevin Samuels says hell no but he speaks truth most of the time 💯
@misskris1172 жыл бұрын
@@jerrellsmith6867 I would love to respond but the majority of your statement didn’t make sense. Try using punctuation and grammar and maybe then we can discuss. What the hell is “you’ll women”?? 🙄
@misskris1172 жыл бұрын
@@jerrellsmith6867 also, did you even watch/listen to the video and what he actually said before writing all that “simp, pander” mess? Pretty sure you didn’t. You just saw a BM saying BW are not the cause of everything wrong in the BC and you automatically scream “SIMP”!! You realized this bm doesn’t hate BW and that caused you instant outrage. Pathetic.
@jerrellsmith68672 жыл бұрын
@@misskris117 you do realized men can talk about women about how they feel doesn’t necessarily means that hate women you do know that right and vice versa too Kevin Samuels is arrogant and I disagree with some things he says like telling black women it should take them only 3months for them to get marry which is b’s and I will say more like a year and telling women they have to be no older then 21 to get marry which is crap I will say more like 25 to 30 is the right appropriate age facts 💯
@teew18952 жыл бұрын
Thank you brother for this powerful message. Our community need to hear this. I understand men are tired of the dysfunction in our community but it's time to unite and come with solutions.
@CoachDeBora2 жыл бұрын
I so appreciate you for speaking the TRUTH and doing so with such power and love. You are needed.
@jerrellsmith68672 жыл бұрын
DeBora M Ricks you’ll like these wannabe Walmart brand Derrick Jaxn because he is simping and panders to you’ll women and tells you’ll what you want to hear unlike Kevin Samuels who tells you’ll what you need to hear big differences now do I agree with everything Kevin Samuels says hell no but I do agree with most of the things he says though 💯
@klnj97142 жыл бұрын
Shumake. This is right on time. 🔥 I stan.
@angelawhite7418 Жыл бұрын
Yes! Yes! Very well said....make time for the quiet moments, as God whispers, and the world is loud.🙏🏻❤️
@ninamoore6022 жыл бұрын
Preach my brother. Keep on letting GOD use you. Thank you and be bless my brother. Love you my brother.
@brendalee71362 жыл бұрын
I have seen man like you in a very, very long time. So many black people have not been my true brother or sister since the early 70's . Keep up the beautiful work.......my brother. I haven't said that in a long long time.
@naturalwalker54072 жыл бұрын
Thank u, Christianity is the bane of existing part of why we suffering still
@beanie19522 жыл бұрын
Wow I absolutely love your content. You’re very positive and motivating for you to be so young. Thank you!
@dorethasmith48022 жыл бұрын
Thank you 💞. That's exactly 💯 what we need STRONG blk men.
@christynechellet94362 жыл бұрын
I appreciate you putting this message out.
@5x7m2 жыл бұрын
The title alone is worth 100K likes!!!!
@reneedennis20112 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this message!
@ChavisGreenard Жыл бұрын
Before we assign blame to others, we, as men, have to see and correct our faults first. If the team fails, the leader has to be the first to accept the blame. That is part of being a REAL Alpha, not a self proclaimed one.
@sandradavis4551 Жыл бұрын
THANK YOU BROTHER!
@aplusdiva70062 жыл бұрын
In the black community love is hated. I dated in secret for a long time just to build without the hate. The best thing I could do. Nothing but peace 🕊️ over here 💖🥂🥳 Happy New Year brotha
@jerrellsmith68672 жыл бұрын
Demi Adams it’s a deep hate in our black community between black men and black women gender war it’s sad too that’s the society we living in today 💯
@aplusdiva70062 жыл бұрын
@@jerrellsmith6867 just 😢sad
@lisacook85892 жыл бұрын
I appreciate all of your content.
@TheShumakeWay2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your support
@jerrellsmith68672 жыл бұрын
Lisa Cook of course you’ll women appreciate because this Walmart brand Derrick Jaxn who is simping and pandering to you’ll women to make money out of you’ll that’s why you’ll like him unlike Kevin Samuels who tells women what they need to hear big differences that’s why Kevin Samuels is successful unlike this dude talking on the video now do I agree with everything Kevin Samuels says hell no but he speaks truth most of the time 💯
@TheShumakeWay2 жыл бұрын
@@jerrellsmith6867 I know a man that has a new Rolls Royce in his garage and barely has $100,000 to his name and I also know a man that drives an old Chevy truck that has a real estate portfolio that’s worth a little over $2,000,000. My question is what does success look like? Secondly I’m not pimpin women on KZfaq, but KS sure is pimpin soft, butt hurt men on KZfaq. I hope you ain’t one of them.
@msdecemberloveangel82362 жыл бұрын
The truth shall make you free
@shenquejames75982 жыл бұрын
Exactly 💯 God ain't in any of the pill content. The real content is being ignored because of accountability.
@jessicatsao92 Жыл бұрын
This channel is too underrated! Let me see if I can get more people to subscribe! It's so nice to see a man that practices accountability and responsibility and tries to be a decent person. Rare though these gentlemen seem, they truly stand out. 😃 I wish these people are more popular and maintain their integrity.
@kyshac812 жыл бұрын
Majority of the dysfunction is really on social media and KZfaq. In the real world it’s a lot different.
@thaflygirl12 жыл бұрын
I would disagree! Its real out here in these streets. I use to feel safe around black men. But not anymore.
@vizeas2 жыл бұрын
True I feel safer around any group of men that is not black and I never felt this way before. The animosity towards BW from BM is intense they hate us for existing
@diva4life3612 жыл бұрын
@@vizeas They're deflecting their self- hate onto black women because black women are usually their most accessible target. And they're least likely to suffer any consequences if they victimize black women.
@hazeleyes7225 Жыл бұрын
@@thaflygirl1 girl I thought I was the only one that didn't feel safe around black men. They the ones that brought trauma to my life. I'm good on them
@toniagrant2752 жыл бұрын
That’s not true we love our children regardless who thinks what period
@superodalisque2 жыл бұрын
Except they're grown men not children we brought into the world not by their choice. Grown black men have a whole lot of choices. It's doing responsible decent men a disservice by treating them like children. One thing some black women are responsible for, however, is helping to lower standards. That's disrespectful to black men to act like they can't meet them.
@homehere98172 жыл бұрын
I really do enjoy you and Kev Hick yt channel! 🙂
@keciam47252 жыл бұрын
How refreshing to hear a BM speak in this manner. Thank you !
@jerrellsmith68672 жыл бұрын
Kecia M • it’s only refreshing because he is simping and pandering to you’ll women and telling you’ll what you want to hear that’s why you’ll love him this Walmart brand Derrick Jaxn is trying to make money out of you’ll women Kevin Samuels tells women what they need to hear big differences that’s why Kevin Samuels is successful unlike this dude talking on the video is not successful now do I agree with everything Kevin Samuels says hell no but he speaks truth most of the time 💯
@christinesmith57182 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video!
@nicoleconner3780 Жыл бұрын
It needed to be said and I thank you
@chloelageaux7692 жыл бұрын
Awesome video!!! This very thing happened to me, the switcharoo.
@alairebookhart13992 жыл бұрын
Young man.....yo are dropping some serious gems! Making it plain. I appreciate your keeping it real, with our people. Keep on driving home those positive, empowering messages. Thank you for having the courage and love, for the people, to speak the truth. Onward and upward. .
@prosperousk54772 жыл бұрын
Respect sir 🙏🏽
@worthwhileproductions69292 жыл бұрын
Bravo. Such a true message.
@divineexpressions1442 жыл бұрын
You are one of the few men that speak the truth about our people. The black men of today need to take more accountability. Its not easy but if they just start with that, it would start our healing and would shift the world. Godhealusall
@palmtreemrs2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being honest!! God bless you
@jerrellsmith68672 жыл бұрын
MsModeration • I’m sure you’ll like this wannabe Walmart brand Derrick Jaxn who is simping and pandering to you’ll women telling you’ll what you want to hear that’s why you’ll like him unlike Kevin Samuels who tells you’ll women what you need to hear big differences that’s why Kevin Samuels is successful unlike this dude talking on the video now do I agree with everything Kevin Samuels hell no but he speaks truth most of the time 💯
@vivianwade31852 жыл бұрын
You're amazing!!!!
@nikie2242 жыл бұрын
Thank you and God bless you, brother!
@tead96842 жыл бұрын
MY GOD YOU PREACHING!!! And I'm always very skeptical to listen to men whose exactly the truth because of all of the things that have been exposed but OMG everytime I listen to you I know that you're sincere. Definitely tired of hearing people talking about God blessed me with this and that. They don't realize that the devil has power as well. The devil tempting Jesus is an example of him having Dominion. But people don't really know God and have no relationship with him. All this to say, thank you for standing up for what's right no matter who disagrees. We appreciate your ministry. Yes I said Ministry. God bless you and your wife
@acococure63982 жыл бұрын
Aww your accent ...anyway thanks bro. You are a small segment of brothers who get it.
@toniagrant2752 жыл бұрын
Tell it where always the blame when where not if that makes sense!!! Mmm it makes a lot of sense Happy Holidays like your vlogs😊💜🙏🏾
@PassionateRootz2 жыл бұрын
Aşé! Accountability. Accountability. Accountability. Very much appreciated brotha! ✊🏾
@1Candysweets2 жыл бұрын
Finally a black man speaking up on the truth. New subbie here.