Story 1: My beloved wife cheated on me and my daughter isn’t mine. How can I move forward as well as shake angry feelings? Story 2: 5:17 11 years together, with 2 years of fidelity Story 3: 11:35 Please help! Possible cheating wife!
@christineelizabeth48913 жыл бұрын
Is there an update for the third story
@anxnymous_bodies3 жыл бұрын
Guy in the second story is incredibly weak. She cheated once and left you... then you took her back? He deserved everything he got after that.
@wudderbottles3 жыл бұрын
Facts
@Notoriouscj13 жыл бұрын
True
@CaulkMongler3 жыл бұрын
And then goes “I don’t know why this is all happening” despite ignoring everyone warning him lol
@vond58293 жыл бұрын
Yep, who in the right mind would reuse broken trash, you reap what you sow.
@danteblack11413 жыл бұрын
@Anime Tiddies you dont marry the town bike, lol
@adamxero3 жыл бұрын
2nd story the guy deserves what he got. His friend told him but he took her word as gospel. Paternity test is needed for him
@ChadDidNothingWrong3 жыл бұрын
Nah my loyal best friend is just jealous lol
@AW-zy1kw3 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Super simp, kids probably aren’t his. He’s just a meal ticket
@PrinceKelify3 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same..... he is the type of person that prefers to stay in the dark & remain oblivious rather then face the reality of things.
@ireihime3 жыл бұрын
Same
@ShadowGladiatorX3 жыл бұрын
Toxic people love supporting suicides huh?
@ayonticabanerjee83263 жыл бұрын
The first op should sit back and enjoy the show while reassuring his daughter.
@SirNomad3 жыл бұрын
Not sure the first story is real. You don't use swabs to get the DNA for the 23AndMe tests (my son and I took the tests last year). You spit in a vial, no swabs involved.
@jessa45963 жыл бұрын
Listening to these type of stories is hardbreaking and makes me reevaluate if I should buy this test for one of my nieces. Pretty sure she isnt biological my brother but they are so close.
@thegooddinggleberry3 жыл бұрын
What show? People can forgive Moms for anything. Mom guilt is the strongest force, duck gravity.
@jugz91303 жыл бұрын
@@SirNomad not all tests are the same , the story is more likely true
@jamegumb72983 жыл бұрын
Not his daughter. Try and argue the paternity test, see how far you get.
@gannicusfinch70683 жыл бұрын
Second guy was a complete chump. What motivation would your friend have to lie? To all you young up and comers out there, know this: it takes A LOT for one friend to come to another and tell them their s/o is being unfaithful, simply because they know that there's a likely chance they're about to become the bad guy. If you've got a friend who tells you she's taking her pants off for other guys, learn from this guy's mistake and believe him.
@stevenwilson55563 жыл бұрын
Or at the very least independently verify it and whatever you do, do NOT ask your girlfriend/ fiancé until you have independently verified on your own!!
@rationalsamrat32473 жыл бұрын
@@stevenwilson5556 getting paternity test for the first child would have been very simple . Also snooping around and hiring a private investigator would be great .
@fighthypocrites70363 жыл бұрын
What you said. If someone is willing to be "that guy", he's probably put a lot of thought into it. I do agree with the previous poster who said to verify it yourself (not by asking her cheaters lie). I knew a guy who falsely accused a friend's girlfriend of cheating, seemingly because friend was getting too serious with her. But that's a level of messed up most people don't reach.
@generallordjowbra88713 жыл бұрын
@@fighthypocrites7036 I would guess than 90%+ of the guys who tell other men are genuine. A guy I work with asked me if he should tell his neighbor, who he wasnt close with, if he should tell him that his wife was making out with a guy in their garage (tongue included). He put weeks of thought into it, and told him because we both agreed that we would want to know, and guy just said thanks and did nothing.
@fighthypocrites70363 жыл бұрын
@@generallordjowbra8871 That guy either already knew, was in shock, was humiliated or some combination. The neighbor did right. I think sometimes knowing that other people know is the kick in the a$$ to do something.
@RaspberryHugs3 жыл бұрын
The fact the daughter in the first story is being the perfect daughter because she isn't his biologically breaks my heart. Sugar cookie, that's your dad. I have no doubt she feels devastated. There are certain circumstances where it's ok to be a little difficult and this is one of them. I'm afraid that emotionally she isn't letting it out.
@larissagomes4513 жыл бұрын
If i was a man and i found out my kid is not mine i would hate the mother and never speak to her again, but my kid is my kid, except if is a baby them i probably would not be so attached and would not damage the child
@lennyjenkins99312 жыл бұрын
@@larissagomes451 Yeah it depends on the age imo. If it were a toddler or a baby. I would disown it. But late teens? Nah
@thalmoragent9344 Жыл бұрын
@@larissagomes451 True, leave the kid if it's just a toddler. But of course, if they're like, already 13 or something then at that point it's hard to leave. So yeah, depends on the situation 🤔.
@thalmoragent9344 Жыл бұрын
@@lennyjenkins9931 True. Would still hit hella hard but if they're in their teens then it's already been too long but, if it's still a young kid/toddler then yeah.
@patriktoth6258 Жыл бұрын
@@larissagomes451 I would do the opposite as you. I would hate my daughter and her daughter. Since if i destroy her kid then her kid will do the same with her.
@0mtrebellcyury9933 жыл бұрын
Well at least his son is biologically his and the mother is facing her consequences. He outta sue her for paternity fraud she probable knew his daughter is his until she got caught. One thing to know about cheaters is that there never sorry for what they did only sorry cause they got caught keep that in mind
@sosamma0903 жыл бұрын
In a just world, this would be a crime. However, this world is not just and paternity fraud is not a crime.
@nem52173 жыл бұрын
Do they do DNA tests in school anymore?
@jamegumb72983 жыл бұрын
@@nem5217 No. In medical schools they no longer even do blood tests. Because students found out their dads could in no way be their dads.
@nem52173 жыл бұрын
@@jamegumb7298 damn that had to be rough I only ask because story’s like that some of the comments say their school doesn’t do tests anymore because of that
@jamegumb72983 жыл бұрын
@@nem5217 Our secondary school did such a thing, biology class. Blood types were tested, and we were told we could ask our parents for theirs. This was 1998 or 99. Stuff got cheap enough to not worry about the costs of such tests and we could have fun with it. So many did ask (not needed but for funsies and 1 extra point) and we did the practical test. 4 out of 32 or so, did not match up at all, and no telling how many had the wrong paternity and got "lucky" with blood types. So questions came up about "but did I do wrong because this means my father could never be my father". Test checked, and then it became "we cannot interfere in that area, ask your parents if they gave the right blood groups". It was stopped not long after because the year before they also had this problem. No idea how many classes did this test in total. Some really angry faces in my class weeks after. And 1 new dad that came to pick up his girl and she screamed and spit in his face. It was glorious. I hated her guts.
@ciobalina74453 жыл бұрын
Story 2: this guy is just.. umbelievable. He is not a victim; he was told about her cheating by friends before marrying her and chose not to believe. There is no way you don’t look into things after a discussion like that. He put himself in this position because he’s a simp. He knew subconciously. Now he’s stringing along a nice girl; should just break up with her because he’s wasting her young, childbearing years.
@stevenwilson55563 жыл бұрын
Agreed, story 2 guy has no right to waste any time with a decent girl. Yuck, what an awful mess of a human being. I honestly can't feel sympathy for him he did it entirely to himself. He was warned.
@azimfitri18793 жыл бұрын
Yep what a simp
@RandomTrinidadian3 жыл бұрын
The dude a first class simp
@Notoriouscj13 жыл бұрын
True he’s not a victim
@sixxgames72703 жыл бұрын
"Her young, childbearing years" Gross.
@tommyshacklady97373 жыл бұрын
this bloke was so warned by is friend and he disregarded what was said and married a cheating wife this was pathetic no sympathy all the red flags were flying high number 2
@alexvilloria2 жыл бұрын
It’s actually super normal to have petty, mean, or “vindictive” feelings-it’s part of our nature… the most important aspect is recognizing that we don’t truly want those things and that we know logically, those thoughts don’t do anyone any favors (even ourselves). We know deep down inside we want no harm for anyone, despite their mistakes. Nothing can take away our power to choose to be patient, understanding, and benevolent.
@dopperlight20152 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I totally agree. And how on earth was this woman capable of such dispicable acts. That can tell you a lot about how she is as a person. Probably terrible.
@xMrjamjam3 жыл бұрын
Paternity fraud is a serious crime that has no punishment that many many women get away with. Women who commit this should be forced to refund every penny the man has paid towards a child that isn't his and get as many years behind bars as that child is old
@Middy6663 жыл бұрын
No SIMPathy for op #2. As the friend whose tried to warn a friend before, he deserves what he gets.
@789blackops3 жыл бұрын
Very true
@shonnaallen22253 жыл бұрын
👏👏
@InsuranceSpecialist3 жыл бұрын
Agreed 👍
@ooof52813 жыл бұрын
Bro the last dude 😂 these guys are something else haha
@minkorrh3 жыл бұрын
Am I the only one that notices that 90% of these stories are all women cheating on their husbands?
@justincarlozmaxino11003 жыл бұрын
Story 2 welp that's what you get for calling yourself 'blissfully unaware', this kind of person just burries their head in the sand after getting told the truth, not worth helping out just wasting everyone's time. When people like this have had enough they'll get out or just live like this for the rest of their lives.
@treeflesh16613 жыл бұрын
That daughter in the first story feeling like she has to be a perfect daughter to show her dad that she's still his daughter literally breaks my heart. He's always gonna be your dad
@antionettekidd97492 жыл бұрын
It is sad.
@mcleod56ify3 жыл бұрын
Dude in story 2 is jus a chump lol
@thebcnation16203 жыл бұрын
The second guy deserves everything that she did to him. Don’t be a simpleton man. Disgraceful for a grown man to behave that way.
@ShadowGladiatorX3 жыл бұрын
This why suicides happen
@thebcnation16203 жыл бұрын
@@ShadowGladiatorX no man should ever consider hurting themselves over vagina. That’s crazy talk. We have to learn to be stronger for ourselves. It breaks my heart to read so many stories about men who can’t live without some woman that crushed them. Most people cheat...that’s just facts. So I’m blown away by how many guys out there feel betrayed when their woman does it. “Hope for the best, prepare for the worst”. I have a wife who I love...but if you think for one second I believe that she can’t and won’t cheat on me at some point, it’s not true. That’s not how humans are built...and it most certainly isn’t how women are built.
@gitinia3 жыл бұрын
2nd story: Hahahaha! I hope his kids aren't his. I don't want his genes to be passed down.
@stevenwilson55563 жыл бұрын
I am inclined to agree. Yuck.
@M.J.-Diaz3 жыл бұрын
Sounds harsh but true, he is an idiot. He could have avoided everything.....
@Notoriouscj13 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂damn
@Notoriouscj13 жыл бұрын
True it’s pitiful asf
@christianrosario94143 жыл бұрын
I normally try to get as much info on people before judging....but yeah I agree what a dumbass.
@mikethompson16533 жыл бұрын
Someone needs to do a Reddit Relationships speed run, you win when you find a story about the man cheating
@durendin3 жыл бұрын
Alternative title - stories of weak men creating hard times.
@wudderbottles3 жыл бұрын
Typical redditors
@larissagomes4513 жыл бұрын
Not the first one
@yojomma6853 жыл бұрын
How is the first one weak? He actually hates his wife. The second one took her back
@tyriquecoleman37943 жыл бұрын
Not the first one lol
@F40PH-2CAT Жыл бұрын
Not the first one but yes to rest.
@nigelncube27203 жыл бұрын
The third story Jizas kraist dude, can you not see the signs Whats worse you apologising for her obvious distant behaviour She is cheating. Point blank and Period
@Fire.and.Forget3 жыл бұрын
Imagine marrying in no fault state
@Profitglutton903 жыл бұрын
Like skydiving with no parachute.
@abigailpulliam69963 жыл бұрын
I don't know what y'all think "No fault state" means, but that *IS* the parachute. It means you can get out of there without suing your soon-to-be-ex or filing criminal charges on them. Divorce can take a few months instead of literal years. Also, in states without a no fault clause, couoles who want an amicable Divorce are often forced to pin one party as abusive. And the guy is usually going to be the one saddled with that, so it's incredibly beneficial for guys.
@Profitglutton903 жыл бұрын
@@abigailpulliam6996 it’s the parachute for women. Men get labeled as abusive either way even if she was at fault. It’s just a way for ex wives to make off with cash and prizes from the husband while kicking him out the house and moving the new boyfriend in on the exes’ dime. We won’t be fooled
@Fire.and.Forget3 жыл бұрын
@@abigailpulliam6996 "incredibly beneficial for guys". Yeah, right. And I am the Queen of England
@abigailpulliam69963 жыл бұрын
@@Profitglutton90 You know that alimony payments are significantly smaller with no fault, and without no fault, the possibility of a man being accused or charged for abuse is muuuuuch higher.
@nidiagarcia84113 жыл бұрын
Even in a no fault state make sure you have PI pictures because that can help you not pay alimony or whatever it is in your state.
@Sarah.J.Jacobson3 жыл бұрын
That stuff definitely helps in many Texas jurisdictions .
@nidiagarcia84113 жыл бұрын
@@Sarah.J.Jacobson it helps alot being in Texas.
@larissagomes4513 жыл бұрын
Here in brazil if you cheated the judge don't give a single fuck if you never work in your life and never put foot in school, if you cheated and ask for alimony the judge is going to laugh at your face and say to ask for your side nigga to pay for you.
@MrJpaynebb3 жыл бұрын
If OP's name is on any of her accounts especially phone he can get a copy of all her texts and phone calls. If he actually owns the device then he can get monitoring software installed to track her movements both physically and online. I know it's a little stalkerish but she's cheating and he needs the proof. Talk to a lawyer to make sure your moves are legal. Don't give her any heads up because if OP is going to divorce then he needs to strike 1st with papers and a plan of action.
@dixiewhiskey32733 жыл бұрын
Should have trusted your friend now he’s paying for kids that aren’t his and another man doesn’t get to have a relationship with his kids
@motherhoodsbeauty92793 жыл бұрын
He seems to be fine with paying for kids that are not his. I don’t feel sorry for what happen to him. This dude in Denial
@stormb84333 жыл бұрын
Cleaned out your savings?? How do you let her get away with that without suing??
@motherhoodsbeauty92793 жыл бұрын
Because he is a simp. This man literally ignore any red flags that throw at him. I don’t feel bad about what happen to him.
@kirin11953 жыл бұрын
The guy in the second story sucks but what annoyed me more was that arm chair psychologist who commented "Oh she does it for validation, I think she was abused and has CPTSD" literally nothing indicated that and it sounds like they are trying to justify her behaviour.
@moodkiller65273 жыл бұрын
Don't reward a cheater with a ring. The cheating will grow out of proportion in the marriage. Frankly the second story is so gross. Edit: Don't confront a cheater if you does not have any undisputable proof or else she/he will manipulate/gaslight you. Instead do your homework by that i mean hire a private investigator, audio recording, spy/nanny camera, location tracker, check email, duplicate the phone content, check computers, bank statement for small sum of money spent on hotel room or restaurent/gifts that you never receive etc.
@Niveous233 жыл бұрын
First story is just a guy that doesn't understand what the death of a marriage means. He's angry now because he's still grieving. He still loves the illusion/false image he had for his wife. And he HATES her for killing that image. Anger is normal. And anger is normal for his kids, they were betrayed too! They are grieving too, not just mirroring him. Therapy for him and the kids will help process these feelings, and maybe he'll let those feelings happen instead of fighting against them. It's super unhealthy to deny feelings of anger, and to try and deny others their feelings of anger. It'll take a long time, but those feelings of anger will turn towards indifference. Which is the ultimate goal of the anger he's feeling. In the grieving process we call this acceptance. But for the wife that has lied to and used him for many years, she's still alive. Her image is gone, but that's what he needs to bury and grieve for. Not the monster that's left behind. The monster that believed it was okay to parental fraud this man for multiple children, and waste his good years nurturing her instead of someone that would actually love him....that creature will wind up alone. If her children forgive her, that's fine. But that's not for you to decide. And you shouldn't push them one way or the other. She's not your problem anymore. You be there for those kids, but not as the husband figure, only father figure.
@adolfoarancesjr92213 жыл бұрын
2nd story: you see people, love is everything, love is happiness, love is endless and most of all love is sharing, but love can kill you in every ways there is, if you put too much love on a person that person interpret it into different meanings, suffocating and caring it depends on how you interpret it, this happens to this guy he was told by a friend that fiance is bad news and yet he married her because he was blinded by his love to her, few years down the road the true color of his wife surfaced and what he gets in return, nothing, he was treated like piece of shit, a good lesson here, people, always listen to your friends they always have your back, don't let love blind you in every way, it's too dangerous......
@professorrosenstock50263 жыл бұрын
The second story is why I have mixed feelings about having alloromantic friends. They'd drop you for their lover and will say the sky is purple because their lover says so. The pain isn't worth it.
@strikeforce15003 жыл бұрын
Gee, no wonder the number of people getting married is going lower and lower. One of them even have an affair for the entire relationship, took all the money and even in that way, the custody is 50/50 and I bet OP didn't get 50% of the money to stand on his feet
@bluegoka3 жыл бұрын
Parental fraud is a perfect and unpublishable crime for women. And everyone forgets that they (women) robe the bio dad of his fatherhood. No one contacts them after the truth comes out. Imagine if it was the other way around, a baby switched at birth for a stillborn and never telling the bio mom years later that actually she has a child. That would be unacceptable but men, the hell with men.
@chasduran41602 жыл бұрын
Story 2: "how could I have been so blind?" Dude, I have zero pity for you. You not only had red flags, but an entire crew with beacon lights trying to wave you off. You *chose* this.
@cruelreality76003 жыл бұрын
Second guy is a turbo simp, ignored them obvious signs, won’t do a DNA test, never doubted her “girls nights out”, and ignored his friend who was moral enough to take the heat by trying to help him out of his delusion. He didn’t deserve what happened to him, but he is certainly partially responsible for it.
@FigmentVFX3 жыл бұрын
"Girls night out" means the relationship is already over.
@Wintergirl96923 жыл бұрын
Why so people cheat? I rather have them say they don’t love me and want to date someone else. It’ll hurt but not as much as if it’s done behind my back while still being together.
@thelaziestbee11 ай бұрын
Sometimes they are looking for an exit.
@TrapasaurusFlex3 жыл бұрын
Never, EVER share a bank account with a spouse… evvverrr Even if they are financially responsible and/or loyal when shit hits the fan too many people are willing to just clean out the bank account with no shame. It should be a felony to do this
@titan80843 жыл бұрын
second story was pure karma. guy deluded himself she wasn't cheating despite the fact that his friend warned him about his wife. His friend literally gains NOTHING from warning him, and yet he ignore it. Instead of looking for evidence, he just confronts her and cuts the friend off. He brought it upon himself.
@johnkendall69623 жыл бұрын
I have 4 children 2 that are adopted. The youngest when he was about 10 or so also became the perfect son. Asked later about it he said he was so afraid he was the reason his birth parents didn't want him and he wanted to do everything he could so we wouldn't do the same. That's what his daughter is doing. She is so afraid the only father she knows will not want her. I wish people before they decide to cheat would read posts like this and the very serious consequences of of what cheating can create. There is no way of predicting all of the outcomes
@pooch72453 жыл бұрын
Adultery should be illegal
@thelaziestbee11 ай бұрын
What a boring fuck life would be 😅
@comfychair44753 жыл бұрын
Soo many reasons for men to not get married, probable cheating isn't even the #1 on the list, yet so many do. 2nd biggest mistake of my life for sure.
@stevenwilson55563 жыл бұрын
Talking from experience it sounds like?
@faeriefire783 жыл бұрын
I don't understand how someone can cheat for 9 out of 11 years with multiple people, drain a join account without the other person's knowledge, and STILL get spousal support. Plus, 50/50 custody and she still gets child support? None of that makes sense to me.
@norbertschultz6233 Жыл бұрын
True, our legal system is screwed up! The laws are against men!
@enzothebaker223 жыл бұрын
23andme...and him, and him, and him, and him...
@dm90783 жыл бұрын
Therapy for him and the kids! If he doesn’t have a damn good lawyer he’s crazy! But OP has every right to his anger. #2 took back a cheater! The fool deserved every ounce of pain he suffered. Edit #3 Her ex was a cheater. No she cheated on the ex. And now she is cheating on #2. The marriage is over. It is time to do plan 180.
@neostar93 жыл бұрын
The daughter in the first story is heart breaking. She's absolutely terrified of losing her father with her change in behavior. The positive here is that's clear the relationship between OP1 and the daughter is likely going to be fine going forward. Therapy is a must. What also likely needs to happen since it's clear OP1's feeling toward his daughter has not changed is to adopted her to give the daughter some piece of mind going forward and to make it clear she will always be his daughter.
@BIGEAGLEDUDE3 жыл бұрын
My advice with the first story is simple you need to let your children work out their anger and frustration with their mother on their own don't try to force them to talk to her because then that's only going to make their hatred for her even more intense and it may grow some resentment towards you for forcing them to have a relationship with her. It's time for your soon-to-be ex-wife to learn the consequences of her actions and it may be that she loses her children not speaking to her for good number of years because of her selfishness especially when it comes to your own daughter. Because let's be real here you know you're not going to leave your daughter that abandon her but in her mind she has that intense fear of you abandoning her because of what her mother did to you and her. Get yourself some therapy get your children therapy with do not force them to go and have a talk with their mother because all that's going to do is intensify the hatred for her and maybe some resentment to you later on down the road.
@PARZIVAL_73 жыл бұрын
This is reasons I don't want to get married or date 😑
@davidrinmawia29593 жыл бұрын
Second story he deserves what he got soo made
@michaelwoods36513 жыл бұрын
Story 3- she’s cheating on you! Don’t be weak, get rid of her.
@theexteriorminister67863 жыл бұрын
I don't blame OP for feeling the way he does. He just got hit with a sledgehammer to the heart ❤ in discovering that (a) his wife cheated, and (b) his daughter is not his biologically. I admire his restraint given the circumstances. He and his kids should seek counseling. Fortunately, his daughter only sees him as her real father, and vice versa. That bond surpasses biology. In that regard, he is blessed. If there's any consolation, his ex-wife is already suffering the consequences of her infidelity. Karma is a bitch! She can't hide from it. She has been put on blast and exposed to the whole family as a cheater and adulteress. She can't spin it in a way that benefits her. She can't gaslight him. Her reputation is destroyed. If that puts a smile on OP's face, I ain't mad at him. I'd feel the same way.
@Deathmonkey3613 жыл бұрын
I have to laugh at OP from story 1, his wife looked him in the eye and lied for years to his face betrayed his trust made him take care of another man's seed and all he can say is "I'm scared of what I'm feeling" no wonder therapy business is booming as men we've been told for decades not to show any emotion to keep it inside it's a weakness "not allowed to cry or your gay" "not allowed to have an emotional outburst or your childish" "not allowed to get your own back or your jaded" What OP is feeling is a natural reaction to being lied to, humiliated and used like an old tampon, OP is a genetic dead end. I do hope he realises that allowing her to have no comeuppance just dives home the no accountability for women that commit paternity fraud the family should be disgusted with her actions and the child should realise what a scumbag she is, just OP gets to the bank to get his half and set up a divorce lawyer ASAP before she cleans him out of house and money. OP should embrace his negative emotions and channel them into a productive outlook, like workouts or a hobby cus denying the negative feelings is worse than feeling themselves, talking to kids about this should be about the truth and not forcing them to talk to her as that will just cause resentment If I was in the shoes of the kid I would never speak to the mother again as what she did to her kid was 1: Stopped a relationship from the bio father 2: Forced a innocent man to be a father to a child that wasn't his. The dad may not be blood but he is more family than her, here's to OP maybe finding a woman that doesn't cheat and treats him like a person and not a doormat.
@juanc51493 жыл бұрын
Her taking the entire savings account will not look good in court.
@cisio641233 жыл бұрын
I feel sorry for the first OP and hope he sees his way through this for him and his children. He should sit the kids down reassure them of his love and devotion no matter what. He also should tell them that while they are all understandably hurt and mad at mom right now she is their mom and they have the right to choose what relationship they do or don't want with her . There will not and should not be any backlash or hurt feelings from him or either sibling over what relationship either of them chooses with her now or in the future. Bottom line it's their mom and own personal choice which will be totally respected and accepted by all of them. The second OP was foolish in just asking his ex about the friends allegations and expecting the truth if it was true. This situation is where you don't say anything or act differently because the info might be wrong but take that info and start digging and investigating. If there is anything you will find it and then drop them into the dumpster where they belong . Third OP , If you have reason to think your SO is cheating then they probably are, your gut isn't telling you somethings up for no reason.
@BIGEAGLEDUDE3 жыл бұрын
With the Second Story you need to get DNA test on both of your boys and quite frankly you need therapy for yourself because let's be real here this is one of those situations where this woman not only mentally and emotionally abused you but took advantage of her your love and kindness and basically lied to you for almost a decade of your life cause you to doubt marriage all together and almost cost you going to suicidal depression and stole from you. I wouldn't be surprised if she what do some trauma in her life that made her feel this way.
@gamprhabanero53513 жыл бұрын
2nd guy is a spineless coward. Best to not be like him.
@kilamkam3 жыл бұрын
And women have the nerve to wonder why men don't want to get married anymore 😒😒....
@user-rt8nl3ho5l3 жыл бұрын
Story 2. The fact that you where told by her co worker and didn't think to investigate further since your own friend said everyone in her work knew and the fact you only asked her and she said no. But didn't think to ask her co-workers. Like if i was told that my husband was cheating. I would first go get information at her work since I was told everyone knew. Then I would ask him /her
@bigpulgalokes2 жыл бұрын
That’s not the definition of insanity it’s just a quote from a movie
@Lord_Mecca Жыл бұрын
1st story is absolutely disgusting , a woman who does that shit should be put in jail PERIOD
@fturla3 жыл бұрын
Whether you are a man or woman, why the hell don't you have an exit strategy when there's problems in a relationship? Think of it like death. What would you do to prepare in case a loved one is gone? You need to make plans to reduce the pain and move on. When you buy a car, do you expect to keep it forever? Most people can't because the car will die on you or it won't do what you want it to do anymore, so, you have to make plans to replace the item or live without it. The same goes for relationships. Why are people so inept at realizing that good or bad interactions between people change and you need to adapt and safe guard yourself. In some ways this is an addiction response where the injured party just doesn't want to stop even though they know what they should do in the first place.
@Lord_Mecca Жыл бұрын
I DONT CARE IF IVE BEEN WITH SOMEONE FOR 500 YEARS , IF THEY CAUGHT CHEATING IM DONE FOREVER ... PERIOD
@ArabicLover1013 жыл бұрын
She has to stay at a hotel for the night because her company wants her to work the next day and on Valentine's Day, while her work is 10- minutes from home? That is strange.. this is for the last story
@theasianpersuasion873 жыл бұрын
Dude should break off the relationship with that nice girl. Stringing her along is terrible. She deserves someone who will live the type life she wants.
@motherhoodsbeauty92793 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🏼
@ernestparker72613 жыл бұрын
The 2nd story man what an idiot. A close friend tells you she’s cheating before marriage and you ask her rather than investigating. Then you let her be a house wife with plenty of time to cheat and no self income so now you have to pay her spousal support
@CocoCece083 жыл бұрын
Story 1 - I'd let the kids call the shots. Your daughter is old enough to decide if she wants to talk to her mom. Your son might be mirroring what he sees. Get a divorce and send her to the streets. Then consider therapy once the divorce is done. Story 2 - If there was a Biggest Simp Award, you'd win. Story 3 - Bro, let's use some logic. If it looks like she is, acts like she is, and sounds like she is... SHE. IS. CHEATING.
@josephbrown96653 жыл бұрын
My wife thought that I was cheating on her. I hiding credit card bills and being a little sneaky with my phone . Our son was killed in 09 and he had a son who lives with his mother in Alaska. This had been killing my wife. Because of the global issue we had not seen him in a couple years now she broke her ankle in January and she has been in the bed since her surgery. She flipped out on me and she thought that I was seeing someone. But I have been working on getting him down for the summer and he and his mother are moving back towards the end of the summer. His mother is sending him down with all of his stuff and his furniture. I had been working on getting a house for them to live in. I had to go see the houses that she would pick out for them and we found her one that needs a little work that she wants to do herself when she moved in it. I had to setup my grandson’s travel with his belongings and a flight for me up there and driving back home in a moving truck. He almost slipped and told her but I cut the phone off on her. Her birthday is in may and my daughter in law and grandson are going to drop it on her birthday for her. But I had to let her know that she has nothing to worry about because I know that she is a pit viper in a divorce court and I don’t want her ever going after me again. lol hopefully she loves her gifts. My daughter in law’s parents don’t know that she is coming back home yet either and it’s been hard to keep it from everyone. The biggest thing was that she thought that I would cheat on her. I cried when she asked me about it. Because I couldn’t show her what I had done. Our oldest daughter found out and she spoke to my wife and told her that she needs to just chill until her birthday.
@SCOOBYGD11 ай бұрын
Op number 2. 😂😂😂😂 you deserve everything you had coming.
@alabastergreen74442 жыл бұрын
Your wife cheated and got you to raise an affair baby without knowing but you're worried about your angry and vindictive feelings... you have every right to be angry, vindictive and whatever else you want. What she did is even worse than cheating. Cheating is bad enough but to pass your affair baby off as someone else's is horrible
@georgesmith5201 Жыл бұрын
Second guy is a moron and deserved what happened. He was warned early on; most people who experienced the pain of infidelity would have loved to have a friend like that.
@thelaziestbee11 ай бұрын
And now the poor moron is so hurt he wants to be miserable of rest of his life.
@johnwalsh51810 ай бұрын
Its the lies and deceit that hurts. The fact your wife could deceave you like this shows just how selfish she was. It just shows how women are total traitors to their men.
@norbertschultz6233 Жыл бұрын
Too many wives have affairs and have their lovers child! Makes a guy feel like it is crazy to get married!
@VictoriaKatelynn3 жыл бұрын
23&me doing it again, my (so we all thought) half sister found out at 17 she wasn’t my dad’s kid or my blood sister. Her mom admitted to the affair but still doesn’t think my sister could be the other guys kid (claims affair ended well before sister was conceived). Our parents were already separated when we found out, but I know it hurt my dad still.
@HelenA-vz5wy2 жыл бұрын
your mom's a demon. I feel for what the rest must be going through
@ChristopherCapersJones10 ай бұрын
Story 2: That title is all I need to hear!!
@randyalcairo5331 Жыл бұрын
Last story....he married a cheater. What was he expecting? 🤣
@purplecubeman01 Жыл бұрын
Sucks to know OP only has 1 kid, hope wife and daughter can find the dad.
@drl500211 ай бұрын
2nd story: she cleaned out their savings and gets spousal support? She should have to pay him money to replace his half of the savings.
@jamiehorne11733 жыл бұрын
I got advice for you do not ever be talk bad about your wife in front of your kids do not take those kids away from their mother. If you keep the kids away out of Revenge or out of pity or out of anything that does not going to like it and you get sued and jail for keeping kids away
@shawne72283 жыл бұрын
I've seen this one for the last few months, and for the sister-in-law to say she didn't know, is not believable. She knew that her sister slept around. The sisters and the wife's friends always know about the Affairs and this kind of paternity fraud
@MrOuija-gc2um2 жыл бұрын
Your fault for not believing your friend about your wife. Also, you actually asked your wife” Hey, are you cheating on me??? You really think she would have told you the truth?!
@thelaziestbee11 ай бұрын
Kids do care about biology when they grow up. In his daughters case I would be worried the guy decides to leave inheritance to her sibling - if there is one that is.
@majorasmask55233 жыл бұрын
Cheating is fucked up to begin with, but cheating with someone the opposite gender of your SO is even worse. I wouldn’t let her anywhere near the children.
@consumerjtc58353 жыл бұрын
I would just feel bad for the daughter, being brought into a circumstance that is outside HER control.
@adamantium1127682 жыл бұрын
These stories just make me want to stay single
@DeepakKumar-xv5tq3 жыл бұрын
17:20 Damn Boy Running for his Life 🤣😂😂🤣
@F40PH-2CAT Жыл бұрын
I miss this channel, it was one of the few reddit relationship channels dedicated to the male POV.
@Tootsie-yj1rz2 жыл бұрын
Those 23&me dna tests have probably found a lot of cheaters and children that are not the father’s! So sad and disgusting that someone can do something like cheat on their spouse and have a child and pretend that it’s their spouses child when they know it’s probably not.
@9manny993 жыл бұрын
Lol It’s not possible. The last guy is in denial. It’s obvious that she’s cheating.
@DaddyDynastic2 жыл бұрын
Story 2: At a certain point you stop being a victim and become an enabler
@UnlimitedProduction13 жыл бұрын
Story 1, women turn their kids against fathers all the time even when the dad doesn't do anything wrong. I say do the same since the kids already hate her and are living with you. Also reassure your daughter so she doesn't feel compelled to over compensate.
@RaspberryHugs3 жыл бұрын
If they are in the middle of a divorce then him bad mouthing her everywhere would actually make him look worse in court. It would ESPECIALLY look bad if he badmouthed her to his kids. Also that happens the other way too. My sperm donor would do everything he could to twist us against my mother all while my mother never said anything bad about him. In fact she never even spoke about him.
@britnicox39293 жыл бұрын
2: I just?? She sounds like a nightmare, and the fact that he thinks it was his fault in any way is heartbroken. Whoever that FaleNNNNN commentor is, they’ve got it laid out pretty well.
@turbo96503 жыл бұрын
The first comment/advice on the first story was👌
@moik51859 ай бұрын
2nd guy.... I'm sure his wife'll just inform him that _he's obviously mistaken, and it was all a dream... They're actually happily monogamous and love each other very much._ And he'll agree and get back together with her. The kids look nothing like him, _...because she ate alot of Italian food while she was pregnant._
@madderthanever3 жыл бұрын
For real, that last guy's advice to the married man who's wife OBVIOUSLY is cheating on him cannot be more solid. I mean - waiting until night to just grab her phone, then take off before she realized what happened... what can see do after that? It would be a good idea, though, if he had his own recording device going before he pulls it off, so that she cannot accuses him of physically attacking her to get her phone, like a camera in the bedroom of something, but, if he's seriously about getting answers to his questions, that's the move to do. ... Right after taking to a shark and starting the divorce procedure, of course.
@_Fizel_3 жыл бұрын
OP: I'm gonna talk to her (daughter) about that tonight. All the comments (Reddit+YT): YOUR DAUGHTER YOUR DAUGHTER YOUR DAUGHTER YOUR DAUGHTER Me: WTF
@chazzmichaelmichaels57662 жыл бұрын
I hate hearing about children born by infidelity; however, the one thing to say is their mothers chose to have these children , when an easy solution could have been abortion. Hate the sin but love the sinner.
@randomusername3873 Жыл бұрын
It would have spared a lot of pain, so of course the cheater didn't do it
@toomuchdee3 жыл бұрын
2nd Story you got what you deserved. Why didn't you listen. You were warned
@tonimarie89512 жыл бұрын
Omg. What is it with people needing therapy? Does nobody know how to deal with their own emotions, and lives? Jeez... survivors? Wow.. the rapist.. therapist... get a grip on yourselves and be master of your.own emotions.. and let it go.. dragging it with you is WHY YOU THINK you need outside help..
@RazzlyCrunch3 жыл бұрын
Please send an update if the second guy offed himself already. It's only a matter of time.
@thelaziestbee11 ай бұрын
To off himself because of a girl leaving him, so pathetic. People leave all the time, relationships tend to end.
@danawinsor1380 Жыл бұрын
"Kids don't care about biology?" Really? Sorry, that statement as way too broad. Regardless, everyone deserves to know who their real parents are. That's right, their "real" parents. There are vital issues pertaining to medical history, and that's only part of the equation. It's wonderful if someone has a great relationship with the father that brought them up, but you can't lie to your children about something like this -- it's hard to think of anything more important.
@loganblackwood2922 Жыл бұрын
The first thing they do when you assert authority and they don't like it is tell you that you're not blood related.
@thelaziestbee11 ай бұрын
You are correct, I would also think of how the inheritance would be split. That would be my first concern.