Man, you don't know how accurate this video is. This has turned into my GoTo when I feel down next to another video by Margarita Nazarenko. Thanks for helping us heal. Cheers, man.

Im def this 😢. Whole life n relationships explained. We need to teach this in schools.

Best vedio on anxious attachment 🎉

You can also just become anxious by how your partner treats you. Non communication, lack of emotions, a one sided relationship.

Thank you so much for making this video.

People who are genuine are being themselves, people make small mistakes etc. Its the cause of autism and narcissism. Then we all use stupid rules and assertions. The narcissist uses the rules as manipulation to autistics. Some people with emotional regulation and suport end up just like being nice to everyone, not having these assumptions about other people being a specific way. Like its normal to think people will need emotional support, not emotional enmeshment. Your feelings are yours. Anyone who states boundaries deserves them to be respected. Just becausr they might be "Autistic" and have this insecure attachment style migt lash out, as any human who is in a survival attachment style would. Ask questions. Idiots with degrees are still idiots. The most important part about this anxius attachment style is its prone to sensory overstimulation both internally and externally, ive had these regressions of every skill. Not fun when youre always in unstable relationships and housing, all of it is absolutely normal. Everyone works the same. Degenerates take advantage of the less fortunate and make "Autism" some kind of scourge on the earth. Narcissism is exactly the same as "Autism" but wholly consumed in their unrelenting pushing, demanding, emotional draining, physically draining demans in the name of "get a job you lazy bum!" Like, i would if i didn't get diagnosed on thd downlow even by the psychologist as an "autistic", with ABA therapy which is teachig narcissistic emotional rules including enmeshment and manipulation, also people pleasing due to these. It's gross. People are aggressive toward the autustic but the person who actually feels badly and wants human connection is punished for being pushed into dysregulation. Then you figure you've become a "tax revenue generator" and told "no, thats ridiculous." But never helped or given the correct tools ro figure life out besides going to a damn job that never alllows you any stability.

Spot on!! Thankyou for this reminder....of myself 😢 It truly is terrifying doing this I know....& terrifying also when being abandoned again when triggered....trying to heal this for soooo long....feels impossible at 55 😢

Thank you for this video, it's truth told gently.

what a great video! thank you! can you please share more about your experience. would really appreciate it!

Quality content !! Andrew what's ur take on Doers vs Thinkers as many a times analysis paralysis prevents from taking action but sometimes Deep thinking may help & also suggest some books around this topic to know more about the methods needed to adopt for taking calculated massive action..