Against all odds me and my girlfriend got back together the other day! I owe it all to you!

*A TIP* : To fully engage in a relationship, you need to get to know and love yourself.

YO BRAD I JUST WANTED TO THANK YOU FOR EVERYTHING. Although I did not get my ex back, you encouraged me to work on myself and ive finally moved on! I hope your channel grows and you help millions of other people that are in the same situation i was in🤘

I used to be in a relationship with an avoidant partner who always shared his thoughts and deep feeling only with both of his best friends and not with me, it’s got on my nerves

Guys I'm telling you ive tried everything he said and follow the no contact for 30 days and it really works. I've got my ex back. Thank you souch for all the tips and guide. And during this 30 days of no contact even if you don't get your ex back you'll feel better alone and enjoy your own company which eventually makes you happy and independent. So it's a win win situation. You either get you ex back like I did or you enjoy being alone and find another soul mate. Please pin my comment. So that my brothers and sisters can see what you did for me❤❤❤❤❤

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He is a real guy who helped a lot when i was suffering from breakup in 2020. Thank you man you helped me a lot, I don't know how to thank you but the only way by which i can do right now is thank you man thanks a lot , from my bottom of heart you are a true relationship adviser. Thank you man your concept of no contact , it was excellent it was the main which helped a lot and other advise also. Please follow each and every step he is a true man. Best of luck for anyone who is suffering from this pain.

Brad After i followed all your tips after 3 weeks of no contact she contacted me today she told she missed me alot itseems Now we are back together stronger than before All this came thru bcz of you!❤ Thankyouuuuuu Brad....💯

Great advice... Thanks

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Hello Brad, looking back it makes so much sense. Your description fit her almost 100%. You said it's important to be a bit more upfront with avoidant types. Do you think it would be a terrible idea to very carefully mention attachement types after a few in person meetings? I know one shouldn't talk too much about this stuff when trying to get back together. I'd just like to nudge her in the right direction so maybe she can realize this about herself. Thank you for your videos!

This describes my current situation. I am now stuck between the decision to attempt getting them back or completely letting go. I do want to let him go, as much as I love him, because I can’t see a life with an avoidant partner.

Thank you for this video. This is exactly what I needed right now!

This is the video I was needing, I already knew your channel and I knew when I go through this sort of situation this is where to find answers. Brad, I'm confused, in my case, she's not my ex, she said she didn't love me anymore out of anger and wanted to breakup, but she agreed to let me fix things and make her fall in love again... so she's not my ex, or is she? She still wants to keep in contact all day, but will put up many walls, as if she wanted to talk to each other as just friends. She is cold on purpose and it's too obvious, it's like she wants to make things hard for me.

Thanks Brad for your video on an avoident ex which has really helped me understand how they can behave in a relationship. She has broken off or gone silent on me over the years on several occassions we have been together the reasons for which I had never understood till now. I carried out no contact and post that sent her a message along the lines you suggested. After one week she text me to say if I was around would I like to chat. I responded but did not reveal my emotions but instead kept the conversation light and humourous. She did however mention being friends again which I chose to ignore. She has been in contact a few times more on facetime I have maintained my approach but where should I go from here. Anyhow you have greatly helped in getting her back to the first stage of talking. Thank you

Brad 💗

Really a unique video I've never heard of this avoidant thing before. I believe now my ex matches this description. During our relationship I've texted her first way more often then she did. Few days before she broke up with me I asked her what was happening because in my point of view not initiating contact was a sign of disinterest. I told her our relationship may not work in the long run. Well, no contact is over. We've been chatting for a few months and I think she still likes me. The same thing goes on, she rarely reaches me out. Based on this, is she really an avoidant person, Brad? Enjoyed your content.

Hey Brad, My ex is going through some things. She is having a tough time now. She told me that like 2 months ago and until now there was no sign of contact anymore. So my question is: Is it possible to blend and support her or is it a sign for me to move on? Enjoy your day Brad!

my ex had issues with two previous toxic relationships. Everything was great with her had an intense two months of pure happiness. at the end we had a small argument on something and probably ended in a misunderstanding on her part. she became instantly cold and distant even on our date the next day she was different. three days later she left with no explanations and had set up walls since the argument because of her past resurfacing. she decided, in my view, to run and avoid the problem. i've tried to reach out 4 days after she left to tell her i was open to meet and talk about what happened. she said we needed time and would reach out when ready (which could be never). it's been two weeks into NC and wondering if her attachment style will hever tell her she was wrong for not communicating. Hopefully her therapist will shine a light in her thoughts.

Just hungout with my ex and she mentioned she thought we jumped into our relationship too soon and we both got scared and fucked it up, she also mentioned she isn't ready for a relationship to which I told her I wasn't either but I still wanted to date her, and if we want this to work we have to let go of the past to move forward and I asked if she is OK with that and keeping it casual, and she agreed. Old me would want relationship or bust, but I realize now that is just the neediness and insecurities talking.

Brad thanks for always been on point I broke up with my ex months back and did NC, actually focused on myself and we ran into each other she told me she misses me and has gotten over me 10% out of 100…still I didn’t push for a relationship I just played it cool and offered lunch sometime if it was ok by her and still stayed my lane for 3 weeks working on my goal Then I realized she’s changed her numbers and didn’t text me the new ones Is this a way of her to get me to chase her? Cos I really don’t want to or it’s her finally giving up and trying to move on I honestly am working on building myself n doing the best for i and my mom

This is exactly what I went through

Hi brad, thank you so much for this video. My girlfriend broke up with me last week and I’ve been gutted. We were going great for so long and I then went to Canada for the summer. We decided to call a break on things as it would be hard on her being at home for the summer and staying in contact would be difficult. So for 7 weeks we did no contact and when I returned I text her to say I’m back! But she then said she no longer wants a relationship. Yes we had our issues at times but her reasons for no longer wanting it are all problems that could be easily fixed with simple communication. The more that I analyze the relationship the more I get the impression that she is an avoidant. I don’t really know what to do or how to get her out of this negative way of thinking about our relationship. Because we were great together and I think she’s lost sight of that and focused on the negatives

Hey Brad I'm a huge fan of yours and I just recently got broken up with from my fiancee of 8 years, and she moved out about this time last month. she says there was hardly any communication between us I immediately started to see a counselor to help with my issues and I go frequently and she does know that I go to counseling. The only problem is we have a 7 year old so the no contact is hard to do. I'm basically willing to do anything to win her back and for to come home and be a family again I scored a 74 on your break up quiz.

Brad you have exactly described my ex 💯💯💯! That’s how he broke up too. He really didn’t give me a solid reason other than that I’m a really good person and he should have let me off in 2017 already instead of dragging it until 2021. All he tells me is his family and friends don’t believe him when he tries to tell them that I’m a good person for him to be with. So now he texts me all of a sudden with “how are you **”(addressing me the way he use to address me when we were in a relationship) and telling me how a video he saw on KZfaq reminded him of me. As excited I am to read the text from him, I decided to follow you advice and not respond. After and hour he called me!! Again I was crying inside for not picking up his call… did I do the right thing?

Hi Brad, I don't know if my ex is avoidant but I think so. He has picked up and left me a few times over the past year. He will live in his van or a tent but continue working. He has always come back after a few days or so. This time he's been gone a month. Do you think an avoidant can suddenly change his patterns? I'm hoping he does not come back because I am not strong enough to say no. He definitely has a pattern of leaving and coming back in his relationship with me and also his last long term relationship. Do you think he's changed and moved on?

Hey Brad, have noticed that you've been saying not to be friends with your Ex, but from the Ex Factor Guide it actually says that it's a good idea as women love having friends. Just wanted to know if your stance on this has changed? I was considering contacting my Ex after NC to get 'closure' on things that occurred in our relationship/breakup and go forward as friends to follow through with the rest of the guide.

Brother get us a big whole video bcz we need ur help, support

Hello Brad, big fan of your videos. My exs birthday comes right at the end of the 30 days NC... it'll also be about 4 months post BU. Should I use her birthday as a way to initiate contact or should I not message at all? Any advice would be appreciated.

Can you do a video about Fearful Avoidant attachment style, thanks !

Some of my ex family had issue because I’m black and she’s Indian. Her mom was cool but everyone else that’s insignificant including friends and co workers influenced her. We talked she said we would work it out with her family but ended up engage with an Indian guy after meeting him for 3 weeks. The same guy she told me is her cousin. Even when we first broke up she said no man ever treated her like I did. She came back and instigated talking getting back together then she snap and say I need to fully detach myself from you. But I know she would be back. It’s not obsession it’s a feeling. A gut feeling due to us having the same dream at the same time when we were together and the details in that dream foreseen this

Can you do a video on pheromones? How to increase, what perfumes and etc?

Good video as I now know I have been with an avoident ex for the last 14 years!! I have done 45 days no contact so I text her 4 days ago but with no reply!!

The exact same happen to me with my ex She ran away before we could even talk about the issue with our relationship (was bad communication which we both felt) But in her case, she’s also very persistent person who not so easily let down their opinion or admit their own mistake What can I do in case she’s still so convicted there is nothing to solve ? Should I act differently? PS. Great vid keep up the amazing content!

NC works.

Hello Brad! So what you’re saying is that avoidant ex is never coming back by himsel? We have to break The NC rule? Others said that we must stick to The NC rule. Never ever break it. So … ? Any thoughts?😬

It is not always due to being an “avoidant”, some genuinely realize they deserve and need better and have moved on. Not all come back. If your ex has always calmly and consistently refusing to come back, they have moved on. Now it’s time for you to also move on.

Please make a video about attention and avoidance

Hey Brad, what if my ex also watched your videos? Who should break no contact first? (serious question)

she blocked me and she’s talking to a guy i don’t really like she says there friends but she said she just wants space and to not worry about anyone but her self what do i do?

hey brad! me and my ex broke up 5 days ago, but we're still on good terms and she'd like to stay friends. i do want to get her back still. the thing is we have a 2 weeks trip planned with some friends in about a week and so, by going, i would break the no contact rule. is it a good thing that i go, and if i do, is there a way i should act to not break my chances of getting back together?

Hi brad, is it okay to ask my ex to block me so I will not be tempted to reach her out? After 3 mos of break, our communication is still open and she wants us to be friends. Any advice or thoughts?

My ex and I dated for 3.5 years and lived w each other for 2.5 years. She broke up with me and decided we needed separate living situations so we can both work on ourselves.. we shared a beloved pet and when she brought him over she said things like- I have anxiety about everything and is being hot and cold emotionally. We hugged for a while and when she left she told me she loved me so casually that it took me a second time to ask what? She repeated herself saying it again and left me super confused because it sounded like exactly the same way she would say that when we were together.. What do you think this means?? Thanks for your videos these are helping me get through all this

Hey Brad! We are talking to each other after a year of breakup...should I need to talk to him regularly???

My (avoidant) ex lost feelings and broke up 2 weeks after she was sexually assaulted. Week 5 of NC she drunk texted a mutual friend for hours crying abt how she’ll never find someone like me again. But sober she won’t admit feelings apparently and avoids talking about me completely, according to a mutual friend. Going into week 8 of NC. Any advice? Do I reach out?

Hey Brad, My avoident and i have been having issues. He dose something that upsets me and i over react to things and he disappears or breaks up with me. I messed up during his military graduation and overreacted and he ghosted me. I love him and i wanna make this work, I went into no contact to give him space. He told his friends he sees us as "done" but hasn't said that to me. He is still in the military now, what should I do? Edit: i texted him after the disagreement pretty much the same day "just let me know when you want to talk" the situation happened about 2 weeks ago

My ex broke up with me a week ago and i started no contact rule the next day of the break up but he called me twice the next day and i missed his calls and called him back hours later but cut the call after saying I'm busy as soon as he started asking how i was and what i was doing and a day and half later i had to contact him for work related issues does this mean i have to start it over again and there is also an issue that my ex went back home after break up because our college sem ended so will he forget about me and move on during no contact if he gets busy back at home with intership and studies and if so then how can i prevent him from forgetting me?

Can i start no contact rule. I haven't talk rudely She left me becoZ she need space

Hi Brad, thank you for your videos. Very helpful! I have a quick question please : i have been in a relationship for the past 5 months (long distance relationship)..we were planning to travel together & for some reasons he was postponing the trip; at some point i did openly express to him that i am not happy about this & that i am not sure about his intentions anymore...he did agree about his behaviour, he appologized & suggested to have a proper discussion once he is back from his trip which I agreed to it but abrutly he just stopped talking to me & he didn't reach out when he came back from his trip...it is been 2 weeks now & i am not sure what to do here. Please help as I am a bit confused about this behaviour (are we still together or not)? Thank you very much!

Hey Brad! The no contact rule is almost next to impossible for me with my (avoidant)ex because not only is there my daughter between us who he has raised since she was 3yrs old ( she’s 15 now) but also because he pays part of my bills and we have shared bank accounts, car, apartment etc.. also my family treats him like their own even though we were never engaged or married in our 11+yrs of relationship. My family has no idea about our break up and I’m afraid to tell them about it from the fear of them judging him while my ex is already in a bind with his family who have always created a lot of problems to keep us apart. I want to sign you up as my coach although it’s expensive for me but before I do could you please reply to this comment ?

Hey Brad! I did the no contact strategy for 27 days and she contacted me. I thought it worked because she asked me for help when she had other people she could ask for. I tried to continue the conversation but she ignored that message. What is happening?

My boyfriend broke up with me over some slight issues, I pleaded with him but he still didn’t want to listen, he was so angry and told me he doesn’t love me I eventually agreed and wished him well. We’ve been on NC for 3 weeks now, can he still come back to me despite his actions and anger ?

Hey brad, my ex got birthday in the next 5 days , should i contact her or send Congratulation/gift, or just keep the no contact method going ? Pls answer on my question ,thank you

Hello Brad! My ex girlfriend of 8 years started dating another guy while the final weeks of our relationship. I still love her but I don’t know what to do. She doesn’t reach out or care to see how I’m doing. I don’t think her new relationship is a rebound. After 8 years with her she doesn’t even bother to see how I’m doing. I can’t even show her I’m doing great because she blocked me from everything. Thank you Brad for any advice.

Hi brad, I have been in a long distance relationship for 6 n half years with my ex. It's been almost a month she told me she want some space. I've been following the no contact rule since the break up. But before she left she told that she love me, she won't find somebody like me, she even told me somebody is in her mind but again she said she haven't done anything wrong again. She told me it will be fine if I fine somebody new in the process, she said it will hurt but it's fine. What shall I do.

My ex blindsided me when he broke up after a few months.. and he denied having someone else and totally blocked me on everything.. but i just found out he has a new gf and it happened so quick.. almost like he was talking to her while with me.. any advice?

What it means when a guy who isn’t my ex but he seems like the avoidant type says he need space, I told him I agree and he said “nothing crazy just some breathing room lol”

Hey brad, i really need your help, my ex got birthday on Monday should i text her oder send her meme as congratulations during no contest phase, (i started with the no contact on Wednesday) ,last meeting i told her that , l'm gonna write her on her birthday, but now l'm thinking if i congratulate her she think that I was waiting on her bd to contact her soo , i really don't know what to do ,pls answer my question 🙏🏽

Hey brad, Thanks for this.... It has been 2 months of no contact with my ex... and I noticed he is no longer active on social medias, should I go ahead and call him to check up on him or I should wait until he reaches out to me first?...

Hello brad i need help. I break up last week with my Ex and she is all of sudden broke up with me and avoid to talk about it (she broke up with me without even telling me, she said it to a friend we had in common that we broke up). I was a bit shock about it when my friend told me and tried to talk to it but it was too late she just block me from every social media. She used to lived with me for almost 4month and she made up like a cheap excuse saying her mom want her to go back home. I found out today via my friend we had in commun that she broke up with me cause i was lazy (we just didn’t do a lot of things for 2weeks cause i was busy with school). We were together for 6 month. What should i do

Hey, this applies to my case. 1:1. My ex has already found someone else who she asked about intercourse, who will come to her home for 5 days. Now we also have long distance. And I did not do no contact and have been clingy. Is there anything that I can still do?

Hi, what does it mean when my ex says,, if you need something u have my number"( it was at exchange our stuff after breakup) ? After long period (3 months) of being angry at me and u was blocked at social media and also my phone number was blocked?

Brad! My ex and I have been together for about 5 months. It was quite a short time, but our relationship was very intense, we met almost daily and did fun things many times. I would like to get her back, because there are feelings for her that I have felt for a very long time. She broke up with me a week ago and I haven’t spoken a word to her since. The reason was that she no longer felt for me like he did in the beginning. What would you advise me, Brad? Continue with the no contact rule in the same way or do you have any other suggestions?

Hi Brad thanks for the video. My bf(avoidant) & I got together again.. but somehow he is still unsure about me or this relationship…& he hardly write to me daily as he use to… what shall I do?

Please help me out! My avoidant ex broke up last October and been on and off NC since then. A few weeks a go we finally started talking and things were improving little by little. She came to drop something by last week and ended up staying 3 hours where we had a really great time. Then 2 days later, I just casually ask her out on a date putting no pressure and she just randomly blocked me without warning. What the hell does this mean?

it's been 4 months since we broke up and no contact since...neither of us have reached out I have no idea what to do

Heyy brad i had breakup last month im in not contact zone she comes in gym and she is noticing me and im acting that im happy without her and she is stalking me through her fake account i dnt knw she is dating someone or not she stalk me on insta and im posting story of having fun she always checks me story within hour what thats mean bro?And we had very messy breakup but still she worksout beside me sometimes

hey brad, my bf just broke up with me because he said he feels lost and thinks it’s best this way. I asked if we should continue being friends or not block eachother on anything at least because i do love him . Should i do no contact ? or is there any tips im so lost and sad .

Brad,I did all the things you said not too like begging and pleading and she is really avoidant with me,it's been a month she acts really awkwardly when around me and doesn't like talking to me what do I do

Hey Brad I completed my no contact. She talked to me first and now she is flirting with other guys infront of me giving more importance to other guys over me. Even though i havent reacted much to that and act as if its doesnt bothers me anymore. Her rebound is also working till now. Its two months now. Should i go for no contact again or should i talk to her. She is giving importance to other guys over me. What should i do??

Hey Brad, I'm 4 days away from no contact to end, but recently I found out he's simping and giving hearts for someone else. It was a twin that are more beautiful and has high social status(90k+ followers) they hanged out and seem to hv a great time. I got jealous and disappointed so I eventually took a break from Instagram, Should I be concerned that he might fall for someone else? And I'm feeling nervous and scared to talk to him when no contact ends, Im scared I no longer have a place in his heart

Hey Brad, my ex continually tried to be friend with me even I cut contact with him. He told me that he won't disturb me but want me there if he needs my company as a friend. Lastly I told him that I can't be friend with him as I'm honest to my feelings. And I want to move on... So I demanded to cut fake friendship. He agreed lastly but got disappointed. We are not in contact right now. Did I do anything wrong?? Can I get him back in this way Brad??

I did 30 days of no contact after he asked me for friendship and I declined. But he hasn’t reached out now. Earlier he was reaching out , but he wanted friendship only. What should i do now?

my ex recently broke up with me and he get back together with his ex (the girl he dated before he started dating me). we've been together for around 6 months or so, and he ended it easily because he missed his ex. will the "no contact" work for this kind of situation?

We had a 3 year long relationship and its been 4 months now of the breakup now. I begged/tried keeping in touch atleast once or twice every month did 30 day nc twice and broke it myself. He never reached out but almost always replied, until recently. I messaged him a check in text after 30 day nc and he didn’t respond, sent another check in text in a day’s gap and still no response. I returned all his stuff last month as i was hurt that he didn’t check on my father’s surgery and wanted to let go. May be i triggered his avoidant side by sending back his gifts and his things. It’s his birthday in 7 days, do you suggest wishing him? I have almost lost all the hope. (He seems to be travelling, partying and act’s unaffected) please advise 🙏🏻

After of one month pleading and begging, my ex told me that she want to start a new life without me and ask to me to move on, is there a still a chance?

Sir I have BPD 🙆‍♀️😭😭😭 Not being clingy/needy is the hardest part for me but for love im willing to do this

brad, my ex said she's dating someone else, but our friends say that she's only friends with this guy because they said she told them. but i think that it's a rebound

We used to talk every day, be together almost every week for a year and half. One day, we agreed spending the day together, he didn’t show up, and when I called him out, he said he wanted to step back and be friends. I told him many times no, but he said that if things were okay with me, there was no reason of not being friends. Honestly I dunno what to do… I’m so tired, because things were always so great.

Hey brad, my ex just asked me if i still had feelings for her in no contact. She also said that she is *thinking* about getting back with me which is great, but i don’t know whether i should try to pursue this or to let no contact play out like this. she asked me if we should hang out and i don’t know whether i should or not. i feel that this is a pivotal moment for me and i don’t know whether i should try to bond with her again or just let no contact happen first. what do i do? thank you.

What is an example of a way to start conversation after no contact?

I posted pics about what kind of alcohol i drank with a random new friend (who is a boy) in a bar and he saw all of my stories. (He also did with my previously ones tho) and after a day later he unfriended me on facebook. He didn’t block me btw. What does it mean? We broke up 2 weeks ago

What if i dont wanna reach out to them since they broke up with me and told me to NEVER contact them again

Hia Brad I have been watching your vids for years. I was a codependent mess at the start now 3 years post breakup I realize I am an Anxious type and I don't want to deal with his drama anymore. It's so lame. lol

My school is on quarter basis. Ten weeks per quarter. We dated in winter quarter, he broke up with me at the end of it. It’s been 9weeks since we broke up. I know I should’ve do this. But I enrolled in classes he’s taking and did sports he was doing. Even though he’s def not 100%of the reason why I did things. I happened to see him almost everyday in school. At first, I was trying to talk to him and was desperate. Toward the end of the quarter, I intentionally did not look at him at all. We act just like strangers. And he is avoiding as much as he can. He’s very avoidant even in the relationship. School is over in two weeks, meaning I will not see him for the entire summer(maybe not even next fall). Do I still have chance to get him back given that I didn’t and couldn’t now give him space at all?

Hey brad so me and my boyfriend were together for about year and things were going well. He’s an avoidant type and introduced me to his daughter and mother and ghosted me two months after that. I reached out and confronted him after about a month and half to ask him about it. He said he thought he was ready for a relationship and he’s not and he needs space and time. I also wrote him a love letter and sent it about a month after that. I didn’t know he was an avoidant. It been another two weeks since then. Do you think that there is any chance we could still get back together? Because I still love him and need some advice please on what to do.

Hey Brad any advice here So I Broke Up With my EX about a week ago not a fully week yet but almost it was due to things I did and me being a very rude and toxic person and she was attached towards the end which is why she said she couldn’t leave or questioned it until she did and afterwards I sent an apology for everything I did but a little later I did caved and sounded desperate and it seemed to have upset her but she did say afterwards breaking up she still loved me and than afterwards sort of went back and forth to her friends whether or not if she liked me she was hot and cold but until yesterday she said she made her mind up that she doesn’t want it again but coincidentally she likes a new guy but I’m positive it’s an attempt at a rebound but once they started talking that was when she randomly made her mind up and after a little our friends pushed us to talk together but she did say we need to stay away but we can talk here and there and she did say we could be friends after a while and time will tell if we become close friends but she also said we won’t have another chance and she said she’ll try and guarantee it just because the first time feel right until I changed and she doesn’t want to experience that again but I feel like there’s something there any advice?

Totally forgot Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style.

How many days should I be in no contact with an ex in a long distance relationship? Need help she is texting me every day, Thank u

Alright I need some advice so we broke up 2 months ago as of today but the first month was fine she seemed sad but I went NC after the first month and texted her after the 35th day just to regret it I texted her if she was OK and how she's been doing if we could meet up and she got angry cause she Said I keep pushing it although we were on good terms the first month what should I do

Hey Brad.. I want to buy your product but as an Indian I am not able to pay using pay pal.. Help me out please

Hi brad, do you think I (disorganised attachment) will still have chance to get back with my ex (avoidant personality) whom was with me for 4 years and then suddenly broke things off with me just a week ago? 😢 He told me he was unhappy with my during the relationship, due to our frequent fights which arose from me always getting angry at his tone used at me. He said I was not of a marriage material and he does not see a future with me as he believes personality can’t be be changed, and we will likely continue to argue throughout the marriage. He always get annoyed at my antisocial behaviour towards strangers too. I told him I’m willing to put in effort to improve my personality for the better but he doesn’t want to try with me anymore 😭 he returned me all my belongings on the day he told me he wanted to break things off, and had been thinking of breaking up since the start of the year, without even giving me a hint of what he was thinking throughout the year. I miss him so badly… I wasn’t even given a chance for this relationship.

it’s been over a month, no contact isn’t working (we do go to school together so i still see him daily, but he barely looks at me, let alone talks to me) my ex hasn’t contacted me and i don’t believe he has much desire to talk. it didn’t end on bad terms, and i haven’t changed, so why is he acting like this? i really wanna reconnect with him, even just as friends, but he acts as tho i don’t exist :( what do i do?

Hi sir plz help me iam follow ur one month no contact period he is not remove my number from blacklist.but suddenly he is unblock me and immediately blocked me .what should I do why he was left me even iam said to him sorry without i dnt have any mistake

Its been 4months we broke up. We still talk at times. And i can clearly see him being ignorant. I feel miserable. One side of me knows he wont come back, and the other side still has that expectation that he might. It is becoming very difficult for me to hold up to myself. I feel so broken. What should i do?

Hi Brad, I recently went through my break up with my girlfriend just over 2 months ago (she broke up with me). She exhibits much of these traits. I didn't speak with her for a week and ran into at my gym I work and we talked a week after the break. I went over to her house to drop somethings off and some gifts she gave me. During that time she was acting vulnerable but still felt she made the right decision in breaking the relationship. However because of the mixed signals she was giving me including hugging me for a long while. The next day I bought her a single flower and dropped it off at her house. The Day after she texted me asking me if dropped a flower off, I said yes, then she angrily texted me that she was in a vulnerable state, that she's shouldn't of let me in or hugged me and she was serious about the break up. She told me to respect her space. So after that I sent a message back saying I would respect her space. Then I preceded to unfriend her from Facebook and instagram and followed the no contact from there. 20ish days after she quit going to the gym I work at and after 60ish days of no contact or interaction I ran into her at a grocery store. From there I went up and said hi and she was kinda cold and awkward and seem a little caught off guard. I haven't spoken or sent her any messages since. Is this situation done?

Hello Brad and thank You for all the support! I'm from Romania, so my english isn't very good. I Have a problem. My boyfriend dumped me about a month ago. he told me that is his fault and I'm a great woman. I didn't understood, that why I insisted to find the real reason. I Have a child from another relation. he told me that he can't get over IT,even i am all that he needed from a woman. he told me even that he diesn't love me anymore(but he mentioned that he still care for me,but he can't be in a relathionship with me). what can I do? do You think that i still Have chances for him to come back! he love all about me... i don't know what i can change about me. I forgot to mention that my boy has autism and it's a lil bit difficult with him.

Hi Brad , We broke up a week ago , just 4 days after our break up he calls me and invites me to cut his birthday cake with him , stating that "he still loves me , but is still unsure if he wants to be together". I refused to go because i didn't want the uncertainty. We broke up because he thought I was needy & didn't give him his personal space , at the same time - he never communicated the above to me - until he couldn't keep it in his head. I am currently following the no contact , what are your thoughts about this?

What about fearful/anxious avoidants? My ex gf most likely has that attachment style. She always emphasized how important freedom is to her, she hurt me in the past out of fear that I would hurt her, but she was also very affectionate and constantly showered me with love during the period when we had the most intense relationship and achieved incredible closeness.