I'm Scared to Lose My Brother | {THE AND} Tyler & Ben (Part 2)

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In Part 2, Tyler & Ben, brothers and former colleagues, revisit the painful moments and memories that help frame their relationship. Ben, founder of Change.org, opens up to Tyler about his fears for him following the death of a loved one, and Tyler offers his brother context into his decision to no longer work alongside Ben after a particularly trying experience. (Part 2 of 2)
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I'm Scared to Lose My Brother | {THE AND} Tyler & Ben (Part 2)

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@femmeaniketos 7 жыл бұрын

I love how when younger bro said that he loved the other and how older bro immediately looked up, made eye contact and repeated the sentiment. No joking, no bashful bullshitting, no mock insults, just a genuine, 100%, heartfelt, "I love you".

@mfo1371 6 жыл бұрын

FemmeAniketos they're brothers. if as brothers people can't do this.. we are seriously screwed as society.

@femmeaniketos 6 жыл бұрын

MFO I know they're brothers, it still touched me, deeply. I, unfortunately, have seen brothers be the complete opposite with each other. I do agree with you.

@abbierobinson6873 6 жыл бұрын

FemmeAniketos and how uncommon is that for men to display?! Absolutely lovely/powerful/inspiring

@chadwicktiliaia403 7 жыл бұрын

I think my IQ just went up, after listening to their conversation.

@rebeccatorres5480 7 жыл бұрын

They have such a healthy relationship... Goals

@luuuuuuu8462 6 жыл бұрын

I love when men cry. To be open to vulnerability is the most beautiful thing. Vulnerability is art and to be with art is to be human. It's the purest way to express that you are human. Edit : REAL MEN CRY

@jforjacqy8737 7 жыл бұрын

I lost my younger brother when I was 10 so I really don't remember much about him but after his death God has blessed me with 2 more brothers and I cannot describe the love I have for them in my heart , It feels like I have learnt so much from them and they brought me closer to my parents !!! I also have the fear of losing them and it's terrifying !!!!

@rosaartemis 7 жыл бұрын

i love everything about this, their integrity, ambition, their deep love, i mean, how inspirational can human beings be? this is thorough goodness

@TheSkinDeep 7 жыл бұрын

Thank you for these kind and incredible words!

@felix121984 5 жыл бұрын

I am stronger than Ben and he has stinky feet !

@BanginBrittney 7 жыл бұрын

Both so well spoken & great with communication. You can tell the brother on the left is a very confident leader who is sympathetic and is a great rolemodel for his brother with a lot of patience... his brother on the right exudes a lot of the same characteristics as his brother but maybe not as experienced and has a more spontaneous & carefree way about him that he does his best to rub off onto his older brother. They have a relationship to cherish and never take for granted, considering the person they have both lost, and I wish them the best! I would love to have even the tinest fraction of success of a relationship with my only sibling but that just may never be the case.

@mountaineer254 7 жыл бұрын

Brittney Yvette Ⓥ reach out to your sibling. Love him/her more, protect them more, encourage them more. Offer more than you ask of them. At the end of the day, your job as a human being is to love your family as much as you can, in as much as you conflict. All the best.

@BanginBrittney 7 жыл бұрын

Agnes Kariuki I've tried and for now its best to not. Maybe it'll work out in the future but I won't hold my breath. You can't make someone want something to do with you, just like you can't make someone love you.

@tanie3543 6 жыл бұрын

Brittney Yvette Ⓥ that's literally what I'm feeling too...I don't have this type of connection with my only sibling ...I tried and now I'm not trying anymore ... I've just left it to be as it is...

@renessa14 7 жыл бұрын

I lost my brother 1 year ago so I know the feeling of being afraid of losing another sibling. The thought is terrifying.

@bookworm4276 7 жыл бұрын

How are they so mature and intelligent?! Love their personalities and their relationship.

@bellefemme87 7 жыл бұрын

I loved this. If you want them to, the relationships you maintain with your siblings can be among the most fulfilling friendships you can ever have.

@juliecapilla7634 7 жыл бұрын

Wow I loved their dynamic and how open they are to each other and accept any criticism for the better

@hollandemerson7489 7 жыл бұрын

I love the way they talk and the words they choose to describe what they are thinking and feeling

@Miselayneous 7 жыл бұрын

Intricate, intimate, intelligent- the kind of conversation that feeds the soul!

@tpatch1227 7 жыл бұрын

The dynamic between them is amazing. They are what relationships should be. They are different people who choose to be connected.

@Kathleen5429 6 жыл бұрын

Tpatch great observation! I totally agree.

@agboreno9324 7 жыл бұрын

Can't believe the guy on the left is old enough to be my dad, I'm 18- shooketh.

@tanie3543 6 жыл бұрын

Charles Eno ikr ! He looks so so young !

@mamamillwright458 7 жыл бұрын

I wish I had this level of connection with my family

@Demarionn 4 жыл бұрын

Mama Millwright and that’s on period!!!

@LilMissClementine 5 жыл бұрын

Emotional maturity is so freaking hot.

@yourshinobi 7 жыл бұрын

Ben is such an inspiring man. I don't know what he did in life to be in that stage of pure self awareness. These two videos made me think. More importantly, it made me feel. It also made me question myself of the most important things in life. Intellectual provocation. Honest feedback. Communication. 🤔🙌🏻

@allyriaflow7534 7 жыл бұрын

This is a beautiful example of how strong and deep friendship, brotherhood, and mutual respect and love can be. Amazing. The level of love and sincerity shown is outstanding. I'd love to sit in a room with either or both and chat. This is precisely the level of depth, directness, and honesty I bring or seek. LOVE from Taiwan. Big hugs to you both, Tyler and Ben. xo I'm the oldest sister in a family of 5 boys and 3 sisters. I hear you. :)

@shamirvr 6 жыл бұрын

The pun at 8:50 doe.. abouth The And.. so smooth and nicely done!!! 🤣🤣🤘

@aminajay00 7 жыл бұрын

theres so much love and goodness in them. I love it

@an9145 7 жыл бұрын

Thank you Tyler, Ben & The Skin Deep for this beautiful raw video.

@greenflower360 7 жыл бұрын

The onions!

@bb86ify 7 жыл бұрын

Very deep and raw conversation!

@bellarangel1111 6 жыл бұрын

i love everything about this convo! they both sound so intelligent and carry themselves so neatly and proudly!

@snowangeliquexx 7 жыл бұрын

We need more of them. PLEASE.

@AL7775 7 жыл бұрын

this was great, they are so insightful

@xaicho 7 жыл бұрын

Fuck. So close to a break down. I feel like the brother on the left is in like an orator mode. That could just be his personality and the way he expresses himself normally, but compared to the brother on the right, he feels a bit more guarded. After they talked about Jake dying, you could tell that they were both really affected by it but almost immediately left brother went into this rational schematic for how people could benefit from the loss in a positive way and it was like all that raw emotion that was on the cusp of brimming over was walled back up. I get that that level of emotional vulnerability isn't something that people should have to display on here, but I hope that whatever was there in that moment could be explored between them or some other way.

@lydzeee 7 жыл бұрын

yes! you explained it perfectly. I was hoping he would just let go and express honestly,but again his way of expression could be really who he is. Such an awesome parallel of how different yet similar they are.

@DAdeleyeOlusae 7 жыл бұрын

Maybe it's an older sibling thing. I find that in emotional moments, I let it hit, then I go into "cleanup" mode. Especially with such an age difference, it's almost parental.

@keplynrobinson4115 6 жыл бұрын

Are these people real? Incredibly astute conversation with two people that genuinely love one another. It’s a beautiful relationship!

@brandyag 4 жыл бұрын

Honest and raw and very well spoken.

@pawdaw 4 жыл бұрын

Left: emotionally locked up. Right: THOSE EYES

@abbierobinson6873 6 жыл бұрын

Heart has completely melted

@luegenres1411 6 жыл бұрын

Not even a minute in and my eyes just started sweating like crazy!

@KCNwokoye 4 жыл бұрын

wise, loving and vulnerable exchange.

@frost6959 7 жыл бұрын

Best one yet

@Candie4JC 3 жыл бұрын

Their whole conversation was like a scene from a movie. That was beautiful.

@renin7875 7 жыл бұрын

i would love to be in an interview with you guys I'm a communications major and you guys are literally my idols i love your videos and the level of impact you guys have on the world

@topazjas 6 жыл бұрын

i feel that fear constantly. of losing my younger brother. it is such a scary/sad feeling.

@awoyski 7 жыл бұрын

i'd love to be a part of this project one day.

@bellaboomz 6 жыл бұрын

5:47-6:30 is me in a nutshell as well. I really enjoyed watching this ❤️

@Edangeb 7 жыл бұрын

Good brothers love it the right one looks loving and caring person!

@ER-zk9lb 7 жыл бұрын

How can my sugar booger and I do one of these interviews?! This is such an eye opening and grounding experience for everyone who participates I want to be a part of it!! Keep up the amazing work 🔥✌🏽

@aquamarinedream8304 7 жыл бұрын

Dang the guy on the left is skilled in communication and relating. Did he have formal education or self taught?

@michaelkks 4 жыл бұрын

aweee how sweet.

@ajmalahmad54 5 жыл бұрын

Beautiful humans.

@natalielauraxo 7 жыл бұрын

I REALLY WANT TO BE A PART OF THIS, PLEASE COME TO THE UK (LONDON)

@jayay2195 4 жыл бұрын

Me and my brothers could never

@rachelmeade9307 7 жыл бұрын

more of this.

@rosamariadesouza5769 4 жыл бұрын

Quero saber,, como está esses dois lindos, que se ama tanto!!!!💯❤

@socialbutterfly2375 5 жыл бұрын

la verdad es que que lindos

@fimja 5 жыл бұрын

The guy on the left sounds like a counselor...🤯

@selamawitgebregziabher5917 2 жыл бұрын

Do they have KZfaq channel, I'd love to follow them!

@reikomyles1495 6 жыл бұрын

Intelligent young men. They seem to be driven and focus on the same common goals to excel and succeed. Nothing wrong with desiring or being successful. Though at times, we as humans can lose our footing in life. Life can be so rewarding and yet so devastating. When my heart feels utterly empty and lost, Jesus is the answer. Everyone should call on Jesus. He is the way, the truth, and the life.

@tangled55 7 жыл бұрын

The guy in the black shirt looks nowhere near 37-38.

@chloekit4861 3 жыл бұрын

They must be identified to each of their parents I would never guess they were bros

@Sarah-wo6it 6 жыл бұрын

who's jake? their brother?

@TheSkinDeep 6 жыл бұрын

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@airparris 6 жыл бұрын

The way ben speaks 😶

@1NeoSoulChild 5 жыл бұрын

Is that guy on the right?

@jimdee1599 3 жыл бұрын

Older brother talks to him like he is from HR and not the older brother.

@1NeoSoulChild 5 жыл бұрын

Frasier and Niles

@kewalpatil 4 жыл бұрын

The makers of the video need to give some context for some things like who was Jake.

@triputriataupah7649 6 жыл бұрын

Please man on the left side don't smile I can't handle it😣💃😍

@laurad6465 7 жыл бұрын

Alergias

@Truechildofgod 10 күн бұрын

Brother on the right is overly emotional , brother on the left is very composed. Maybe it comes with age or it's just a personality trait that was built into him but I can easily see him owning and running a company he seems very competent the brother seems very emotion driven and that can't be any good for heading a company. Not to drag him down but I can tell he's the baby of the family he acts like a stereotypical baby.

@imalone4653 7 жыл бұрын

did they loose a brother?

@dulcemarie9042 6 жыл бұрын

im alone yea

@blankdot6034 7 жыл бұрын

I felt every breath, every heartbeat , every emotion from the blonde guy :"( I think he's Ben from the two.. I feel the same things that he said (in this very brief videos) I Don't want to be imposing anything or pushing anything on anyone .. but I would recommend him or anyone who's feeling the same way to read the Quran (not telling anyone to become muslim) just read or listen to its reciting (its emotional and spiritually fulfilling)

@yellowartemis 7 жыл бұрын

Blank dot i think this ^ was a wonderful way to broach the subject. I understand what you mean, as reading the Bible is what grounded me and gave me purpose larger than myself; i assume the Quran is very similar in that regard

@blankdot6034 6 жыл бұрын

thank you so much .. and I understand exactly what you're saying its so true .. you actually said it better than me

@loveme1641 6 жыл бұрын

Actually, the one in the black shirt is Ben

@suhugo9546 6 жыл бұрын

This conversation was exhausting to watch...

@tajahgirl 6 жыл бұрын

Who is Jake??

@dulcemarie9042 6 жыл бұрын

Tajah Ware their brother

@jamesleveille-bonner6319 4 жыл бұрын

I completely didn’t feel what others felt, I see they love each other but I see the brother in black as a master manipulator projecting an image to make others feel he his love for them is so great, they feel they owe loyalty to him. If I’m wrong, he is not fully letting his guard down.

@Meggs93_ 7 жыл бұрын

*wink* *wink* 😂

@iwillwait7 5 жыл бұрын

I’d love to do this with my mom it would mean soo much. She’s been through so much and raised four children on her own. The Skin Deep please see this comment. Like my comment if you agree, thank you.

@ruthy9575 7 жыл бұрын

Is the guy in the black T-shirt single ?

@kevinalo4220 7 жыл бұрын

RUTHY 95 hahaha hunny I was thinking the same

@ruthy9575 7 жыл бұрын

Kevin Alo lol !!!

@sonquatsch8585 5 жыл бұрын

hands off!! HE IS MINE!!!!

@jonasalden29201 4 жыл бұрын

Sorry ladies. Been Rattray is married. He's the founder of Change.org, in case you don't recognize him. Pretty famous guy.

@Koshrocreations 4 жыл бұрын

"after comments one of his brothers had made when revealing his homosexuality" He's gay so he's mine

@jonasalden29201 4 жыл бұрын

Now, they sound more like colleagues than brothers. That is, the language they're using and their energy sound stilted and unnatural.

@Fabigrill 7 жыл бұрын

So much vocal fry!! 😱 Other than that, great video

@libraryofthelabyrinth 7 жыл бұрын

Fabiana Ribeiro do Nascimento calm down

@hakihaki2429 4 ай бұрын

The way older brother talks is rubbing me off in a weird way. Idky

@KamiliaMosaad 5 жыл бұрын

Mashallah ❣️

@Dhunt17 6 жыл бұрын

sus

@elizabethlee225 7 жыл бұрын

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@soniandukwe8981 6 жыл бұрын

They seem more like a gay couple than siblings

@sonquatsch8585 5 жыл бұрын

blond hair is secret jealous of dark hair. dark hair is sexy, smart focused and intense, and tall. everything everyone wants. blond is, well kinda ditzy. he says about the blow up that wasn't the point of mentioning it then he says no, i just really wanted to get away from u. jealous siblings are the WORST. u cannot love them enough, they'll always try to throw sand in yo face at some point.

@truthseeker8200 5 жыл бұрын

uhm?