Recently read a post about a man who wanted a divorce bc his wife was breastfeeding…. The father saw his newborn son as competition somehow

I like that the pick-me posters around the 6 minute mark are both butchered in terms of grammar

Some girls are attracted to these characters although they are toxic because they see attractive qualities in them like strength, assertiveness, doing whatever they want without fear from others, high level of confidence,..etc They are mostly masculine traits and because the girl themselves lack these qualities in themselves they cant help but be attracted to the men who have it its called projecting !

Cis and hetero normative are words that nobody should use.

I love the colors in the set and costuming for this video. Very vibrant.

(In exaggerated drawl) Now, you can call me old-fashioned, but when I got a bit too rough with my siblings as a boy, my mama would always say “I know you’ve had a rough day, but that’s no excuse for hurting somebody else,” and then take away my video games. And isn’t that the way it should be? No, but genuinely, I think that’s a decent way. Arguments about what is or isn’t an appropriate punishment aside, the lesson that my emotional state isn’t a catch-all excuse for my behavior is an important one.

Despite my phobia of looking at bows and ribbons, I made it through this WHOLE video and was actually able to pay attention. Thanks for the free exposure therapy 🤣 Excellent vid <3

So with boy moms, girl moms, and girl dads all being talked about, are boy dads a thing too?

I was fully engaged with this whole video and didn’t even realize it was nearly an hour long! I loved watching this, it was super fascinating to look at history and modern day hygiene. You earned a new subscriber!

Lolita is my all time favorite novel. My favorite sort of book is with unreliable narrators, because it plays with the reader's own perceptions and interpretations. Like you said, Humbert's prose is meant to suck the reader in, confuse them, and even obfuscate the actual abuse. Those lines seem so out of place that your mind could easily skip over them. Humbert is no different than the teacher you trust, or the family friend who takes your daughter out for ice cream. Rich, white, intelligent, high class men have been pedophiles. This book is remarkable in that it demonstrates HOW that happens, in a way the reader actually experiences. The book, to me, did not romanticize the situation at all. If anything, it's very... plain in its ugliness, which is why it can be jarring. People saying it's a handbook for pedophiles might be right, but it's a handbook they wouldn't want us to have. Read correctly, the book teaches children, adults, and caregivers that you can't trust someone at face value. That's a lesson we ALL need.

i actually agree with the fake crime idea. feels like a much less harmful way of doing what theyre doing

I really don't get how anyone who isn't a cisgender heterosexual traditionally masculine white dude would want to be conservative cuz nobody else really benefits from it in the end. Women, people of color, even cishet white men who deviate too far from the "norm". It just feels so counter-productive in the long run and just ends up putting everyone minus the previously mentioned demographic of men in a worse state. Being progressive doesn't mean you can't live as a stay at home housewife. It just helps so if you ever find yourself in a bad situation or aren't really happy with that lifestyle anymore you aren't stuck there being miserable until something bad happens.

I love your vids sm! They always scratch my brain in the best way /pos

i love your set up its like a puppet show! So cute!

25:27 Inomce saw the father equivalent to this post. He was talking about how you side your daughter to be the perfect woman and have to give her away to some unknown man. It’s gross either way.

Boy moms have always been this way. To this day,other moms look at me sideways because I have a stronger bond with my daughter than I do with my sons. I’ve been called weird for it often. But why wouldn’t I have a strong relationship with my only daughter? She’s intelligent, independent, and has had her head on straight since she could talk. She’s a better person than I was at her age. I couldn’t imagine not liking my baby girl.

my mom wasnt a “boy mom” but ive noticed that her sons take most of her attention. girls are taught to behave, be quiet and be polite. girls are made more mature than they are. they are aged up and not allowed to be girls. boys are allowed to misbehave because “boys will be boys” and in a way a lot of women will project themselves onto their daughters. thusly projecting their own traumas onto this developing child. my mom and i are working through this but a lot of people dont get the privilege of their mothers growing and maturing with them.

The fact that KZfaq does nothing is so telling. These poor kids.

Once again a fantastic deep dive and cultural inspection! All of your videos are so well put together and edited, right down to the theming. Huge respect for your channel, thank you for existing!

Of course it's a they/them lmao

not only are your videos so well thought out & well researched, but your sets/backgrounds/props are always so great & fun. i never know what to expect!! <3

the way some mothers will pride they sons for having no personality is so funny,,, like “my girls have an attitude and thats why i prefer my boys” ,,, you cant do this to us, the boys will grow up to think their thoughts are actually original

that ending literally almost made me sob congratulations

girl i love you and your entire set up and clothing BUT WTF IS THAT THUMBNAIL

I’m only halfway through the video so you may touch on this, but I think some of the boy mom weirdness originates from women marrying men that don’t actually like them (or vice versa) so part of their brain tries to get that missing affection from their literal offspring

god, i laughed at “Fred” for way too long 😂

The first time I heard “boy mom” I thought it meant “mom who is a boy” and honestly that’s much cooler.

Prefacing this by saying I’m not finished with the video, so this may also be touched on later, but I want to articulate it before I forget. Yes, she could very well be posting this content for rage bait, or she could be over-exaggerating. However, on top of the mentioned impact it may still have on her children, content also doesn’t just exist without causing some form of impact on those who consume it. With the tiktok being tagged “boymom”, it’s more likely to be seen by those who engage with “boy mom” content- who are likely to be “boy moms” themselves. Seeing videos making light of favoritism, even if they’re “jokes” or hyperbole, may still cause those that *do* behave this way offline to feel more comfortable in doing so. “See? People on tiktok think it’s funny! Surely it can’t be that bad!” “Look, I’m not the only one who does it! I knew there was nothing wrong with it!” It’s a big reason why making videos “pretending” to be a bigot is no different than simply being a bigot. It isn’t funny to those who the bigotry actually hurts, and those that interact positively do so because they actually agree with what is being said. All this to say; satire isn’t effective if it can’t be differentiated from that which is being satirized.

I have a boy and a girl, and they both insist I favor the other one. Oddly, I feel like i did something right in not showing favoritism, but the reality is they are both spoiled and not very appreciative, both concinced, I'm doing more for the other.

22:42 Humans are the most intelligent animal on the planet, we are “biologically wired” to have complex thought and be capable of higher thinking and evaluation. Meaning people are biologically wired to be able to have opinions that go against primal instincts that other animals have and go by naturally ( because they are not capable of complex thought like we are ) Also, reading is not natural. Humans are not biologically wired to be able to read, its not a natural instinct. Humans are not biologically wired to stay up late at night because we are not nocturnal. This argument is dumb at best and incredibly ignorant of basic biological fact at worst.

COCAINE BEAR MENTION !!

You don’t give birth to your “child” you give birth to your “little person” your doll and your hopes and dreams. In all of those tragedies where you didn’t ask to be born. And why? Because the parent knows how bad it was. So as to “protect” is to shelter at the same time. Put all your fears and your tempers into this object baby that barely has anything to do with the story. So innocent and sinless… …and will never reach past the age of 15…. Stay forever 3… You found yourself. EDIT: It’s sad that even in all those stories, musicals, movies, dramas DRAMAS, children are items or “products” and it’s all about the person who got into their situation horrible and beautifully. How much do children get paid for in those small rolls. How much love children are tossed around by people. Adults. Whether planned or unplanned.

Alot of people I think don't understand or forget that healthy skin most of the time all it needs is a good face wash with a clean cloth and yeah an acceptance that there will be bad days. These are Barbie doll standards.

So THATS why it’s called “child - in - law” got it!

There was a toxic boy mom written in the Chronicles of Avonlea which was written by L. M. Montgomery, who wrote Anne of Green Gables. Thesd sort of stories have been creepily similar for a long time

"I didn't think the leopards would eat MY face!!" edit: i made this comment before the closing remarks LMAO

Since you asked for trans fem opinions, one thing that clicked with me when you mentiones parents wanting their children for their own reasons clicked something for me. Since I came out as trans my mom was super supportive, but she has had this interesting habit of constantly being like "oh im so glad your a girl, i always wanted a best friend, i always wanted to have a daughter to be girlfriends with (meaning like close friends way old people say it)" like i stopped being seen as her "son" to be loved and carefor, and became her "bestie" which was kinda unsettling.

I wish i could like this multiple times

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Absolutely fucking floored. Fantastic essay. The conclusion. FUCKing incredible. Shanspeare has done it again

Thank god I'm gayyyyyy

I love lana , even when she shouldn't have mention other women in the industry in her post, I love that she didn't care and posted it anyways hahhaha. I think she is conscious she doesn't always make the right decisions and embraces it hahaha. I hate when artist pretend they are always right or they morally correct. What makes Lana especially is that she is just sharing her art and thoughts and it's okey if people don't agree or like her, she not looking for validation as person in people, just validation of her art.

I only recently heard of the "boy mom" thing, but 20+ years ago, before "social media" and "smartphones" (I'm "dating" myself here, but I still had a beeper back then, and only some of my friends had cellphones), my friend was dating a single mother who's eldest son was 17, and would brag about times that people thought her son was "her man," and it was creepy AF!! Also, the father of her kids, who had a 2nd family went to prison for being a chomo! The son was actually a good kid who took care of his younger siblings, and needless to say, my friend didn't date her for long, but I was dating a friend of hers, and she would tell me about all this creepy stuff!

youre the kind of person i would confess a murder to, i swear to god i have never seen a friendlier human being, you just radiate the most trustworthy vibes i have ever experienced